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First time *** - Tips?


Submitted by [deleted] Location: All India (All India, India)

Hi I tried *** for first time and it really hurt and I could not take it in. My partner has a 7 inch but really really thick ***. We used coconut oil but still my *** hurts. Can anyone tell me the best lube or cream to use? Are there any specific positions that help in easy penetration without pain? Please help!

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Sugar_shine
Posted On Dec 7, 2023

As a bottom first time *** is always painful and unforgettable

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vforall
Posted On Dec 8, 2023

Lubricant is must to reduce the pain and smooth insertion , i really make sense , my personal experiences

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Guy27bi
Posted On May 26, 2024

Always use lube when it is your first time performing ***.
Lubes are great for both top and bottoms.
Do some research on what kind of lube to use and how to use lubes.

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Tista V.
Posted On May 28, 2024

Use silicon based lube. They remain for a long time and you only need a dollop.

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Guy27bi
Posted On May 29, 2024

It's always better to talk with your partner before the clothes come off.
Don't be shy , be confident and relax your *** and body.
Engage in foreplay for relaxing , try rimming.

Use lubes and if you feel uncomfortable at any stage, tell your partner to stop.
It is ok if you feel uncomfortable during ***, take breaks or have *** some other day.

Please use condoms always.

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crash3257
Posted On May 31, 2024

clean ur ***, and avoid solid food 5-6 hrs before ***.....*** *** shouldn't be a quick one...if you want your partner to explore the depth of ur ***, u need to do a lot of foreplay and establish an emotional bonding...*** *** doesn't happen in a quickie, there needs to be some love wherein the top is eager to satisfy his bottom and be the bottom is hungry to give himself to his top babe 😘


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brownd23
Posted On May 31, 2024

@crash3357 absolutely agree with you!

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Roykhannaa
Posted On May 31, 2024

@crash3257 its true.. and specify tips..!

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crash3257
Posted On Jun 1, 2024

@roykhanna.... hey baby girl 💕😘

Foreplay with lots of kisses and especially tasting of each other's private parts is mandatory for *** ***...to recieve his manhood in ur hole, u need to feel submissive and submit urself to him, that'll mentally prepare u and loosen ur hole... don't hesitate to go down and eat between his legs as if ur life depends on it ❤️

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Womaninmanbody
Posted On Jun 2, 2024

I think before going for *** *** for the first time the bottom should make sure that he can take atleast three fingers in his *** easily without feeling any pain or discomfort of any kind at all. Actually not just three. You should be able to take four or five fingers easily. So far I can take only one finger in my *** that too while that one finger is properly lubed up with some oil or Vaseline. Otherwise even that one finger doesn't go in my ***. I rolled up a newspaper and wrapped a plastic bag around the roll. Then lubed it with coconut oil and inserted in my ***. I felt very weird. My about muscles got hardened. I didn't feel any pleasure at all while the roll went in. I only felt somewhat tingling during the roll coming out motion and not going in motion. Maybe because a human *** texture would have felt different from a plastic bag wrapped around a newspaper roll. But the problem is I got excited and started going deeper. And soon I started bleeding. I got very scared and threw the roll in a nearby open drain by hiding it in a different bag. Luckily my bleeding stopped after three four days of medical care. But I developed piles kind of thing. Now I am scared of *** ***. Also gay and shemale pornstars fill their rectum with water, oil and flush every thing out. All the *** and excrement needs to be cleared out. Pornstars that laxatives to clear whole bowel and don't eat anything solid for hours before shoot. Even hot looking clean smooth shaven gays and sissies with onlyfans account do a lot of preparation before actually ***. Maybe they apply some perfume or edible lotion on their *** too so that the top eats it all up and doesn't feel disgusted by the bottom's ***. It needs to be well maintained because obviously at least every day once you will use the *** to *** excrement out. It sounds and feels yuck but maintenance and cleaning of *** is least talked about. And also it's not just about first time. It needs to be done every time before *** ***. It's a lot of work. I am lazy. That's why I only want handjob, blowjob and body play. No *** *** as of now.

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yungay
Posted On Oct 23, 2024

I was top earlier then turned to vers and now I am a bottom. As I want to explore and try the extremes in fun. I became a bottom slave very recently n I met couple of masters. I'm enjoying alot in dirty n kinky fun with soft bdsm as a slave. But I never enjoyed getting *** with the tops. I tried to bear the pain while getting *** but I never felt the pleasure of getting ***. Tops used to give a full *** rimming and applied lube then fingered my *** before *** me. I felt nice while getting rimm my *** but not while getting ***.

I read many stories here from bottoms... that getting *** is very pleasurable even its paining and experienced hands free ejaculation. I want such experience of hands free Cumming.
Anyone pls guide me if I'm missing anything how can i feel the pleasure of getting ***.

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NoidaSec50
Posted On Oct 23, 2024

Try KY jelly.Its surgical jelly and easily available in any pharmacy

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yungay
Posted On Oct 23, 2024

Means.. is it for the pleasure while getting ***?

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Samrat69
Posted On Oct 23, 2024

Try *** plug first as I did. *** plug is pleasure but could not take any *** due to fear. Still a virgin

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Guy27bi
Posted On Nov 12, 2024

You can try inserting your own fingers with coconut oil.
Please cut your nails before you do that. Try relaxing your body and ***.

You can use gloves helps to slide in Easy. Once you feel confident then increase your number of fingers.

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Suyash143
Posted On Nov 28, 2024

Most probable root cause of *** pain ...fissures...due to Syphilis...take care...use condoms...healthy looking people having STDs even though!

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