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First time *** - Tips?


Submitted by [deleted] Location: All India (All India, India)

Hi I tried *** for first time and it really hurt and I could not take it in. My partner has a 7 inch but really really thick ***. We used coconut oil but still my *** hurts. Can anyone tell me the best lube or cream to use? Are there any specific positions that help in easy penetration without pain? Please help!

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gaylove2013
Posted On Dec 31, 2020 - 12:25 PM

you have to train your anus by introducing your own finger with lubricant oil/vaseline...first one then 2 together and then tree together with small trusting movements simulating *** daily after you pass stool, this helps a lot...and the parner has to be very slow initially when expansion is taking place...sudden thrusts will lead to pain

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karanmetha
Posted On Dec 31, 2020 - 12:32 PM

Which is the best lube to use

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Powerbottompune
Posted On Dec 31, 2020 - 12:58 PM

Try moisturizer and aloe vera gel..

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gautam008
Posted On Dec 31, 2020 - 01:55 PM

Use gels. Like anesthesia gels. Benefit.for mutually

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caediumn
Posted On Dec 31, 2020 - 02:49 PM

More than anaesthetic gels it is better to use an actual lube. KY 2% gel is very helpful and a somewhat cost effective option also.
Another thing when receiving it is very important to relax and breathe to relax the *** muscles. I usually take deep breaths like when we do yoga and calm myself, and also open up my anus not just with hands but also apply a little pressure like when we poo. Helps to let the guest in :)

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kumar
Posted On Jan 3, 2021 - 06:50 PM

Actually I want to ask the same question in a different way.
Earlier I had *** a couple of elder guys who were very experienced bottoms. I could easily penetrate and had a good *** fun with them.
But recently I had met some first timers and I was unable to insert at all. So what could I do if I want to enjoy *** *** with first timers as well..?

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caediumn
Posted On Jan 3, 2021 - 08:14 PM

Lube helps a lot. Also helping the bottom relax and take a few deep breaths. If they are nervous or tense their *** muscles will definitely close up. I remember my top was unable to penetrate me during my first time but he told me to breathe, and was very patient with me. He also made sure to use a good amount of lube. If you have time you could start by fingering them and once three fingers comfortably slide in, you can give your *** a try. It will still hurt so just be patient with them :)
Their *** being tight will definitely be difficult for your *** though. The extra tightness might not be very comfortable for you possibly

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Rum Bun
Posted On Jan 8, 2021 - 12:57 PM

1. Fingering helps a lot. With proper lube, one finger... slowly two fingers... and three. practice this for sometime.
2. bottom has to be relaxed by any cost. It is pain. But be relaxed. allow the man to enter. relax ur *** muscle. before getting fuc ked, use finger small candles in the night. then go to get fuc ked.
3. top has to be patient and understanding. once everything is settled, *** hole is going to be your playground. allow the bottom to take your di ck slowly.

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rishi_20004
Posted On Jan 9, 2021 - 10:57 AM

One has to be very patient when is having *** for the 1st time....so when wants to have *** for 1st time see to it that the top is using proper lubricant and secondly most important is that he bot guy should look out for a Top guy who has experience ...

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