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First time *** - Tips?

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Hi I tried *** for first time and it really hurt and I could not take it in. My partner has a 7 inch but really really thick ***. We used coconut oil but still my *** hurts. Can anyone tell me the best lube or cream to use? Are there any specific positions that help in easy penetration without pain? Please help!

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Posted On Sep 29, 2021 - 10:21 AM

Almost all the ways of making *** has been told by everyone, I have one more tip, try pushing from inside just like how you push hard stools it'll expand and relax the spincters, usually anything inserted inside the *** makes our spincter contract and pull it inside to protect when you try the pushing it'll relax... At the same time follow everything which is already discussed

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Posted On Sep 29, 2021 - 10:38 AM

Nice Thread

X is an ART , Don't Draw the Art with Blood , Play Gentle

When Bottom get Hurt ? When he feel discomfort ?

Bottom will worry about 2 main thing

First *** will dirty or not

Second thing *** get tare and will be bleed

Let me give tips for that...

im top so always Make my bottom ensure about his *** s Clean or not, Ask him to Clean his stomache everything
While doing cleaning a** hole get relaxed then he will that confident about *** won't get Dirty

Let come to second point :

Which is in top hand , top make his btm Relax , Make his bottoms' confortable to allow our ***
Before going to Pound we should L!ck n make his *** relax , then muscle will be relaxed

We often have to say "Buddy will allow me dr please?, Will u allow me dr ?" "Just Relax ur muscles, calm ur organ , i wont hurt u baby"

while using those statement Bottom get more confortable with u , Btm start to trust top n feel relax n give his *** hole to top to get f**K ...

Once we inserted both should come to confortable Zone.. then go with flow ....

this is want my tips for All of u guys

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Posted On Jan 15, 2023 - 06:26 PM

My suggestion to you all who want to become bottom n enjoy first make ur mind clear what u need then go for it and try to feel the things not like they will hurt u .

Best suggestion is that pick one person who loves u and will not hurt u then go *** with him. Do voshing we'll be with lubricant on first time and enjoy the time with ur loved one depends on you how u want.

Again make clear mind what u want and get ready for that mentally. It is enjoying then other things

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Posted On Jan 15, 2023 - 06:46 PM

Guys there's a very less talked about thing for *** *** , we all know how lubes are a very essential part, just as important is relaxing ur ***.
When u r trying fingering or ***, just try to relax your *** and back. Take some deep breaths and completely relax your body first, then try lubes and start ***.
Take your time to relax, find patient partners if its your first time, and don't be scared.

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Posted On Jan 15, 2023 - 08:04 PM

If you're a natural bottom you'll find it easier to relax and derive pleasure from the penetration. But sometimes you need a little training before like most things in life.

Getting used to the feeling of being filled up could take some time getting used to.
Try an *** plug for this. They come in all shapes and sizes, pick whatever you're comfortable with. Lots of lube and practice with it and you'll feel ready for your real experience where you don't control the pace.

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Posted On Jan 16, 2023 - 05:50 AM

The top also enjoys as much as the bottom, may be more. Shouldnt he also put some efforts and time and help the bottom guy relax and prepare for the entry?

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Posted On Jan 16, 2023 - 06:53 AM

@fifty it depends, in my case he was quite cooperative spent lot of tine to relax me and lubed me very nicely. He was not at all in hurry and we had a very good time till 5 am.

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Posted On Jan 16, 2023 - 07:13 AM

For those bottom struggling to take it inside... Well indeed it's tough to start but once you get a hook of it, that's a cake walk. Just like everything needs a preparation, this too. Not just once, but every time you get laid.

Even I struggled and use to back off with in few secs due to initial pain but now, I know how to handle the biggies. Here is how I started nd how I prep evey time I meet a top.

Well, there is nothing comes close to being clean, that includes cleaning ur *** hole, perhaps a little inside too. The best way to do is using your toilet spray gun (health positive). Apply some loation to hole, take the gun and gently insert in the hole with water running inside. Hold the water and release it pressure. To it 2-4 till the dirt is cleaned. This way, it's clean and hole is somewhat prepared to things from outside. Not recommended for frequently but yes once in a while, it good thing.

Next, give a nice lube, even good body loation can do the job. Apply a some amount of loation inside your *** cheeks 15 20 mins before u get laid. This smoothens the surface. Best recommendations, be clean, shave your ***, privates, gives better feel, better reach to top.

Next to take it inside your ***, first few strokes are key and as a bottom should control that. Hold the ***, slowly insert inside the *** and gradually take it inside. You need not take entire think inside to start, just few inchs so your mind is relaxed nd *** gets comfortable taking it. Best position, you can sit on top nd control the strokes. Once your comfortable , u can submit to your top. This how I started nd even today I follow that. Best feeling, shave ur privates, ***, be clean nd remember to use condoms. Care ur skin nd use loation to maintain.

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Posted On Jan 16, 2023 - 09:09 AM

Very nicely explained. I just want to add that when using spray.... please check that pressure is not too much and use spray for few seconds only, Do not force water inside for long initially, until you get the judgement.

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Posted On Jan 16, 2023 - 09:35 AM

@ Harry @vineer..Thanks

@Sunpat, Agree nd True, water pressure to be adjusted, some guns release water like fire engine 😜. Missed mentioning it in earlier post.

Also, not take water too deep. Just the enough level to clean the dirt.

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Posted On Jan 16, 2023 - 11:34 AM

Bottoming is pleasure if u have feeling of little bit submission with ur top. My first *** *** happened that way without any practice or preparation, I was so attracted and horney with that guy, i wanted him inside and it happened. I enjoyed it too because it was very short duration within few strokes he finished. After this I tried many times but was not even able to get penerated, even after penetration I was not able to sustain the strokes. So, from my experience I realised bottoming needs practice for both penetration and strokes. I used objects first to start feel the sensation of *** pleasure. I practiced for penetration and strokes both. When u do *** masterbation u control everything, but when u bottom pleasure depends upon tops skill too. As mentioned above how much relax feeling he gives you, if he is caring, he will keep asking u wheater ur enjoying or not and will adjust postion and strokes according.
If u wanna try first time just start with solo. Explore the pleasure yourself first. Learn to relax ur *** muscles. And use only water based lube without anaesthetic/ numbing ingredients. Even aloe vera gel can be a good lube ( i personallylike it), it's very soothing and good for skin.

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Posted On Jan 16, 2023 - 03:06 PM

Good tips. I know someone mentioned using moisturizer or oil to lube. In my opinion buy a lubricant meant for *** ***. Durex has one that costs less than 500Rs that will last you months. The lubricant needs to be waterbased. Oil based lubricants cause burst condoms, a risk you don't want to take.

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Posted On Jan 20, 2023 - 05:32 AM

First time having *** *** and foreplay depends more on the Top partner to make his Bottom partner feel less pain, be patient, give smooth strokes, and making the experience more pleasured.. obviously bottom has his roles to play too like trusting his top partner, being ready for the happy pain for a while and playing along..
Its all about 2 individuals mutual understanding.. but if the Top is well experienced.. its golden..
I wonder if i will find such Top experienced partner!!

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Posted On Jan 24, 2023 - 05:46 AM

It depends on ur partner's ***. if it is thick *** i suggest u to use gels like Intimify. If it is average which is the best for the first timers you can tell him to spit on ur *** and fingure it a couple of time and spit his *** too. Then it will be easy to enter.

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Posted On Jan 24, 2023 - 06:02 AM

Correct, it's better to go with an experienced TOP initially and then can go with rough guys eventually

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Posted On Jan 24, 2023 - 06:38 AM

Interesting thread... thought I should share my experience. I have had *** with cds transexual and women . But in all one thing os common...dont be in a rush for *** penetration have patience. Lubes are fine but its important that your partner is comfortable with you and that happens only when u have multiple sessions together. The anus when aroused becomes loose and changes shape so its easier to penetrate. Do it when that happens. Try to force even with lube ita not a pleasent experience. Spend lots of time foreplay with tongue and finger. ...patience guys is the key to great ***

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Posted On Jan 24, 2023 - 09:14 PM

use lox get . its available in every pharmacy . its a local anaesthetic gel you dnt get any pain .

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