Do you feel insecure because your *** size? I do.

I am mostly a lurker here and all these sexual adventures are fun to read yet I can never have the courage to indulge in something like this because I am so conscious of my *** size. I am 6’ tall and slim and have people have told me that I am quite good looking(lol, I don’t think so but whatever) but I can never dare to meet someone or download grindr to hook up because everyone is obsessed with big *** and I feel so unworthy and unlucky. I am 27 and have met only 3 guys, all of them had *** bigger and thicker than mine. I am like 5” in length and 4” around, which is below average scientifically and that makes me very sad. I can never dare to go to gay cruising spots like Rajeshwari in Bangalore or to a gay nudist group because I am so ashamed of my size. Even the three guys that I met, I couldn’t finish *** with them because I was so depressed looking at the size difference and felt somewhat inferior. I lack serious self confidence because of this which makes me think that I am missing out on a lot of gay adventures. I wish I could be an extrovert but I just can’t. Even if I like a guy and want to talk with him, I immediately think of my *** size and how disappointing it could be to him and i never take it forward. Even though gay *** is legalised in India now, I can never express myself whole-heartedly.

Does anyone share this feeling or am I the only one?

P.S. I know my post maybe unrealated as it is not a cruising spot post but I felt like sharing my thoughts as most people seem to be nice here and of course I can’t talk about this with my friends or family, that would be embarrassing.

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No Picture CCBomb *	Posted On Feb 13, 2026 *** come in all shapes & sizes and its normal to be somewhat insecure about it. Everyone wants a big fat *** like the ones we see in *** but personally I am satisfied with what I have! My *** is 6.5" long and 3" in girth. Some girls find it big some find it average. Same with guys. The size doesn't matter its what you do with it! I prefer 5" to 7" *** as they are perfect in size and hit my pleasure spot when having *** ***!
No Picture hetpet	Posted On Feb 17, 2026 Yeah 4—6 inches is good enough
No Picture Wruydhkkyf *	Posted On Jul 20, 2026 Yeah, because I have 4.5 only
Krishna0000	Posted On Jul 20, 2026 Yes, I also feel insecure of my ***. And that's why I choose to be versatile 😌 ☺️
No Picture Elev11	Posted On Jul 20, 2026 I have a very tiny *** and I am not insecure about it. I feel like it is the best reason for me to be a bottom and I flaunt my tiny ***.
No Picture ilovemature	Posted On Jul 20, 2026 I am into 5-6 inches. Big *** are no go for me. Also, big *** guys are full of attitude.
No Picture Wruydhkkyf *	Posted On Jul 20, 2026 Agree to u @Krishna0000
No Picture Wruydhkkyf *	Posted On Jul 20, 2026 Don't about everyone but I have chat with many, I have never met anyone yet. I'm virgin bottom. I noticed one thing that most of the tops r very arrogant, they don't like general or casual talks, always ask for pics and ***.
No Picture USABottomUncle	Posted On Jul 20, 2026 @Wruydhkkyf as a bottom I consider it my role to obey a top's commanda. Being dominated and degraded is a big turn on.
No Picture Wruydhkkyf *	Posted On Jul 21, 2026 I respect your preference but not evry bottom is same. Talking about me. I can't compromise with self respect@USABottomUncle
No Picture Katycat	Posted On Jul 21, 2026 I feel like 5-6 inches are the best ngl, I hope my bf has that 🐱
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