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Do you feel insecure because your *** size? I do.

Submitted by Tallandbrown Location: All India (All India, India)

I am mostly a lurker here and all these sexual adventures are fun to read yet I can never have the courage to indulge in something like this because I am so conscious of my *** size. I am 6’ tall and slim and have people have told me that I am quite good looking(lol, I don’t think so but whatever) but I can never dare to meet someone or download grindr to hook up because everyone is obsessed with big *** and I feel so unworthy and unlucky. I am 27 and have met only 3 guys, all of them had *** bigger and thicker than mine. I am like 5” in length and 4” around, which is below average scientifically and that makes me very sad. I can never dare to go to gay cruising spots like Rajeshwari in Bangalore or to a gay nudist group because I am so ashamed of my size. Even the three guys that I met, I couldn’t finish *** with them because I was so depressed looking at the size difference and felt somewhat inferior. I lack serious self confidence because of this which makes me think that I am missing out on a lot of gay adventures. I wish I could be an extrovert but I just can’t. Even if I like a guy and want to talk with him, I immediately think of my *** size and how disappointing it could be to him and i never take it forward. Even though gay *** is legalised in India now, I can never express myself whole-heartedly.

Does anyone share this feeling or am I the only one?

P.S. I know my post maybe unrealated as it is not a cruising spot post but I felt like sharing my thoughts as most people seem to be nice here and of course I can’t talk about this with my friends or family, that would be embarrassing.

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Posted On May 10, 2019 - 06:09 AM

@ RD Rajkumar - yes, its a ideal size...so dont worry about this. Ucan please any women or men.
Actually size does not matter in while ***.Its is ur time & how do u did it...is matters...
In indian continent 4-7 inch is an ideal size.

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Posted On May 10, 2019 - 11:55 AM

Hey... Mine s around 6 inches a medium one... I play a top role most f the times n Vers few times... Though mine s medium most f my bottoms love to play wit me n they say that my dxxx gives more pleasure than the huge ones... M happy with what I have: though I don't have choice though to grow it bigger... Lol...

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Posted On May 11, 2019 - 04:06 AM

@Tallandbrown, probably I am too late to comment but saala, laude ke size ko lekar kaun suicide karta hai be.
Problems which occur during *** are due to big size ***, non ***, less stamina and premature ejaculation.
I have less than 4 inch when erect but satisfied women with ease. I am a bottom as well not because my *** size is small because I like men too.
If u suffer with erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation, you can take help from doctor. I have experienced a guy with 7 incher not able to penetrate as he kept losing his ***.
More than 5 inch will be painful for woman if she is not habitual. If man and woman are committed towards each other and keep having *** regularly they get adjusted with whatever size.
Men get more orgasm during *** *** than woman during vaginal ***. If you see a woman genuinely masturbating they don't insert dildo much but rather they rub their clit and finger themselves.
*** for pleasure does not depend on size and penetration.
*** for pregnancy depends on penetration and 2 inch is also enough for that.
And one more thing, most of the people get dissappointed with their first sexual encounter. The reason is not that you or your partner lack something physical. It is lack of sexual experience. I would suggest you have *** with the same person for at least 5-6 times. You will learn the art.
I bet you would not have known how to *** as well when you were young. Left hand or right hand, rubbing or pressing but eventually after some practice you would have mastered the art of masturbating. This is just like that.

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Posted On May 11, 2019 - 04:09 AM

Oh, I was talking about Indian men and women, just in case.

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rocking 45
Posted On Jun 19, 2019 - 06:17 PM

Hi there I have a 4.5 in semi thick *** but no 1 wants it all ask for 7 inches plus bigger the better as it satisfies them. I am top and chubby 60 plus. TOP

When u connect with someone bottom he ask ye *** size first.

Yes I do feel depressed and feel this is my size take it or leave it.
I haven't had safe *** in months because of size

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Posted On Jun 20, 2019 - 06:49 AM

@lips4hugepoles initially during my college days I used to be worried about the *** size mostly due to watching big *** in ***. But once I started having *** the bubble of big *** got over. Not even one girl I had *** with said about *** size & no girl screams by seeing huge ***. It just happen in ***.

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Posted On Aug 15, 2020 - 08:40 AM

Yeahh.. Perfect decision. Mine size is also 2 n half only after complete ***.
We deserve the place to be sissy *** bottom and to please the giant big ***.

My limp *** is useless.

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Posted On Dec 22, 2020 - 04:17 AM

No I’m ok with what I got ! 😜
Also, people should share the biggest *** they experienced ...

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Rakeshforyou *
Posted On Dec 22, 2020 - 04:21 AM

I have 2 inch ***. I am proud of it. I like to be a sissy crossdresser. no need to feel sad if we got small ***. its a gift.

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Posted On Dec 22, 2020 - 07:20 AM

In *** *** size is doesn't matter. I am 28 year old from Ahmedabad, have 6.5 *** i *** many girls and also some bottoms but most of bottoms as well as womens dont want to take my *** in ***, he said my *** is big so they canf take...

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Posted On Dec 22, 2020 - 07:34 AM

I have xxl but its a waste coz people feels pain and fun is always missing due to this pain.

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Tista V.
Posted On Dec 22, 2020 - 07:46 AM

I agree with @AVinas29 and @UtkarshXXl

Size doesn't matter if the *** or *** is well dilated as well as lubricated.

The smallest I took so far was a three inch long *** with was 5 inches in girth. While the biggest was 11 inch *** of an Italian old man with a 6 inch girth. However, both men had me well dilated as well as lubricated for the action. Which made my experience extremely orgasmic without touching my ***.

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Tista V.
Posted On Dec 22, 2020 - 07:49 AM

Also, I would like to add that smaller *** tend to have longer erections and they get back up quick after each ejaculations.

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Posted On Dec 22, 2020 - 08:09 AM

Well I agree that size doesn't matter when it comes to f**king. But longer *** are way more fun to ***.

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Posted On Dec 22, 2020 - 09:05 AM

I always feel insecure abt my size.
My normal size is 3 inch and after *** it becomes 5 inch only. I never *** any girl till now.
But while *** to bottoms i could not hold more than 4 mins.
But when i played role of bottom, i got 99% times *** size more 7 inches and stamina more than 30 mins.
The guy who is in my dp always *** me more than an hour and always ready for second session within 5 mins and that also went to an hour.
So i want to become a hard fucker like those.

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Posted On Dec 22, 2020 - 09:07 AM

I like medium sized ***, so do a lot of others I know. So Nothing to worry. Love making is a passionate art its not about big *** and tight holes. Its about being active and mutual.

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Posted On Dec 22, 2020 - 09:17 AM

Most of the tops I have met have a crazy liking for tight hole. And when thy see mine thy go mad as I m super super tight pink hole. I dnt undstd what is so much fun in my tight hole. Once they see that thy then *** hard really rough and dnt undstd how much it pains me. And unfortunately after every *** I again bcome tight as before. Infact sometimes more tight.

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Posted On Dec 22, 2020 - 09:24 AM

I have average Indian size *** like you and have satisfied countless bottoms. Also most of them have come back to.me.for more sessions. They enjoyed more with me because I am.very passionate and damn good at foreplay. Also, more than the size you should know how to use your ***. It's all in the action. The *** size doesn't matter at all. I have been rejected too for my size, but the loss is theirs. You should have more *** and you will realise that there is so much more to ***. Just go for it. Don't waste time.

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Posted On Dec 22, 2020 - 12:29 PM

Dude I have a 7 incher n pretty thick too. An am a bottom. So chill. It's how u *** not d size

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Posted On Dec 23, 2020 - 02:47 AM

So true its how u use it ... I have seen 8 inch 9 inches *** which are useless stinking like hell and just life less meats which their owners dont know how to use it nor keep it clean and hygienic ...they are as good as being with no ***

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Posted On Dec 25, 2020 - 05:41 AM

well..........I have a small ***......a little more than 6 inches........and it's not that thick too..........and I too feel the same......wish I had a little bigger or at least little thick ***

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Posted On Dec 25, 2020 - 07:36 AM

I have 5 inches, but problem of ED too.
I take pills before *** with my wife. But with guys i dont take pills because i act as bottom with guys.

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Posted On Dec 25, 2020 - 10:47 AM

@hotlund, like mine! Its about 6+ inches.... but wondering why you call it small. it is actually a good size if not very large. except one or two interation, most have said my *** is very good.

one more point to add to all the above said points like size does not matter....

*** or the Stiffness is also very important in my opinion. I have seen *** that are mostly in semi erect state which was the max *** they could attain. If harder *** should satisfy the receiver more than the size. In my case, 6+ inches but once erected, it stands straight like a tower and guys have commented very positively about it. he he....

I do sometimes feel mine was at least one inch larger..... but don't worry much about it these days.

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Posted On Dec 26, 2020 - 09:29 AM

@Etc thanks for sharing this. Mine is same too, it becomes hard like rod..........but I see always people having at least thick ***.....so 6 wasn't enough I thought. I can't on the satisfaction thing, since I have a non existent *** life.....lol

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Posted On Dec 31, 2020 - 01:05 AM

I have a 4.5 inch *** when hard ... I *** within a minute or *** a *** but with guys I last longer... My wife has long back stopped having *** with me due to my size n early ejaculation. She has been having *** with her Bf since then who has a 6.5 inch long n thick ***. So size does matter sometimes as she calls me namard

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Rahul xv
Posted On Dec 31, 2020 - 06:35 AM

Ejaculation is on our mind. I don't know if early ejaculation is really your problem. Try to control your sexual feeling to some extent, high sexual feeling will lead to early ejaculation. If you do more physical activity like *** hard or movement of your body, your mind focus on ur body activity but not in ejaculation..this way you can control it. Use condom, it will also help you to last for longer time. There are many research articles in google on early ejaculation.

It helped me, I *** n *** in 2 mins but sometimes it takes 10 mins. Many boys tasted my tool, for few I ejaculated in 10 mins but for other it took 30 to 60 mins. you can try STOP N START to Improve your stamina n message your *** daily for 10 mins. I *** a lady for 2.5 hours with condom without ejaculation.. After 3 days I ***. The WHOLE point is how good you can control your mind MATTERS

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Posted On Jan 2, 2021 - 01:50 PM

Not really. I had experience with guys with multiple *** sizes and even with a guy with 4" ***. He was also a bit insecure about his *** size but I gave him so much pleasure and made him feel like a king. Also met guy with 8" *** which was very thick as well and loved that too.

My own is slightly under 4" but I don't have much use for it as I am a sissy bottom.

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Rakeshforyou *
Posted On Jan 2, 2021 - 04:11 PM

mine is 2-3 inch. I am always proud of it as a gift. I wear panties nd bra from 6 years whn I realized. ofcoure I am sissy crossdresser and not a real man.

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Posted On Oct 19, 2021 - 05:03 PM

Have any one tried Vigora-m massage oil? (by deepayurveda) any reviews please?

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Posted On Oct 19, 2021 - 08:02 PM

@Tallandbrown It's good that you shared your feelings here. I hope that helps you feel lighter.

It seems like you are suffering from a massive inferiority complex, and that is affecting you in several aspects of your precious life. This will ultimately translate to health issues. You're feeling this way about your *** size because *** has portrayed some unrealistic (and unnecessary) standards of "*** size" and falsely connected it with "pleasure".

Please do speak to a reliable therapist. You really need healing. It will surely make a positive difference in your life (including your sexual life).

Saying this for your good :)

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Posted On Oct 20, 2021 - 02:44 PM


For stronger *** ..There are 2 options :

1. Sikandar e Azam plus capsules...Unaani medicine ..very effective but costly. 3800 rs for 30 capsules..u can get it online

OR.... allopathic ..u can use Tadalafil 20 mg tablets 1 hr before ***...once u take one 20 mg tablet ..don't take it again for next 72 hrs because it has long lasting effect compared to Viagra(Sildenafil)

2. For delayed ejaculation....take half of dapoxetine 30mg tablets....2 hrs before ***... It can cause u mild dizziness for a while as it lowers the BP temporarily....

Again just like Tadalafil, do not take dapoxetime for next 72 hrs if u already took one dose....

Note...u can take dapoxetine + tadalafil together ..no issues....but be careful about the above points mentioned...do not overuse them.....

U can also take dapoxetine + sikander e azam capsule together

U can buy them from Manmatters.com...

I hv been using them since last 3 months.. and I *** for more than an hour nowadays
..earlier it used to be 15-20 mins...

And these are absolutely safe to take if u take within dosage limits ....

Exercising daily for 15 mins until u sweat is very necessary for proper blood circulation ...be it jogging , or fast surya namaskars or skipping or yoga ...do it daily ....ur sexual performance will improve for sure..

Lack of exercise is a big cause for sexual under performance

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Posted On Oct 21, 2021 - 05:36 AM

@Sensual_Touch, i liked the last portion of your message... yes, exercising is the much better option than relying on chemical based medicines...

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Posted On Oct 22, 2021 - 06:42 AM

I have felt a bit insecure about my *** size BUT more than that it is the early ejaculation that is a total disaster. I am a versatile and would love to do 69 BUT i cant allow anyone to touch my *** let alone *** it. So i am forced to be a bottom so that my *** has not much to do. Even then if i kiss someone passionately for few minutes, i am out. I go to massage and its always a waste of money. By the time they reach my thighs i am out. Its easy to say it is all in your mind and control it, but i think its much more complex in nature. In total i have not had much *** just because i cant.

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Posted On Oct 22, 2021 - 07:09 AM


is it safe/legal to prescribe medicines like this online? It is always safe for people to check with a Doctor before taking any such medications. I do take Tada*** and i have severe headache as side effect. I have to make sure i take headache medicines along with it. Erect *** with severe headache doesn't really do any good. With dapo***, it does make feel weird, dry *** etc. Again making the mood for *** vanish. I am looking for other alternatives for early ejaculation. Overseas i have seen something like a *** ring that you put at the end of the shaft, it actually helps you hold longer. I am not sure if those are available in India

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Posted On Oct 23, 2021 - 11:05 AM

I'm *** and been with few tops with 5 inch- 8 inches *** size
Problem is no one able to make me happy as everyone *** with less than 10 mins. Some cummed in 2-3 minutes.
It was unpleasant experience.
What is actually important is how you handle your partner
Size actually doesn't matter. For me it used to be important but nowadays it's not as they don't know how to make bottom happy.

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Posted On Oct 23, 2021 - 03:06 PM

Yes often wonder how to get overcome this insecurity. I seen many tops with good size of *** and they also comment on my *** that I have very littel one

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Posted On Oct 23, 2021 - 04:28 PM

Ur small *** wud be useful for someone who is doing *** for first time. Wud be easier to take a tiny one in the first time lol 😉

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Posted On Oct 23, 2021 - 04:42 PM

Really morivating thought. Thanks 😊

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Posted On Oct 24, 2021 - 02:54 AM

@Jaimin333 Size does matter to some extent but to a much larger extent, it has been glorified by the *** industries with its host of BBCs and Mandingos. End of the day not everyone can take a 8 incher, some can only do 5 or 6 inches, or some even less. And it's alright!
*** is by itself an act of pleasure so what's needed is that you need to motivated to actively help your partner out and please him as best as you can. If the experience is good, size won't matter anymore:)

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Posted On Jan 12, 2022 - 06:16 PM

Ya really guys large *** don't guarantee long duration of satisfaction

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Posted On Jan 13, 2022 - 05:09 AM

I got a nice big *** with good stamina and techniques. But to be honest big *** is not good in all situations. I had to purposefully jerkoff 2-3 time before a blowjob and had to get it soft Because my partner has a terrible gag reflex because erect on touches down to the throat. There has been times where the pain was much greater than the pleasure because my *** was punturing through.. yes it may sound like bragging or the *** industry has glorified big *** but the best *** is the medium one. At the end of the day pleasure matter and not all can handle big *** thus resulting in reduced arousal or satisfaction for both parties.

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Posted On Jan 13, 2022 - 07:48 AM

From my experience
- Big *** causes a lot of pain if your hole is not streach enough.(do not take large *** if it's you first time)
- for me medium *** is best I can ride for hrs

When topping
- if u *** earlier then start kissing and fore play until u hard again then do multiple rounds.

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Posted On Jan 13, 2022 - 09:33 AM

I have a small *** which is 5inch, and i am happy with my size..

I am top and had few encounters with bottoms.. They happy with the size.

Don't worry about size, Stamina dose matter more than size..

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Posted On Jan 13, 2022 - 11:08 AM

More than size your attitude matters. If a guy as tall as you spreads my legs open and shoves his hard *** up my *** in missionary position while licking my nipples I am going to blush and get wet like a whore. I will be moaning like a bitch. But in order to *** me Like that you need to be confident and aggressive.

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Posted On Jan 13, 2022 - 02:20 PM

Size doesn't matter
A perfect example of mine
I'm looking for big *** for a good ***
I've 9.5 inch dildo which sometimes also doesn't make me happy
I've been with guys who have 7/8+ thick *** but they *** in 2-5 mins. No satisfaction at all. As a bottom when i take *** I expect him to *** me good atleast for 15 mins.
If they're unable to do so then it's a big disappointment.
If a guy with 5-6 inch having a good foreplay, specially long passionate one, normal oral and ***. Soft kisses hugs after *** out. A casual talk.
All above things are much better than a big *** who cums in 2-5 mins.
If u feel insecure change your thinking.
Just make sure that u should have a clean ***

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Posted On Jan 14, 2022 - 03:47 AM

My honest opinion,
Size matters only if its very small (less than 4 inches) since then it won't even be able to penetrate properly and you'll have to be content with fingering and foreplay.

However, if your *** is too big or too girthy, it'll not only cause problems to your partner but also to you in case you lose *** or aren't able to perform and might get performance anxiety due to that.

Almost all *** ive *** have been around 5"-7" and they all work pretty well, I've even had *** *** with some of them only because their *** weren't monster *** and regular sized, since all tops somehow have this fantasy that bottoms should always deepthroat them and must *** their *** to the balls, and I've only had *** *** with small *** since they're actually pleasurable and again all tops feel like all bottoms can take their entire *** inside like it's a bottomless well inside us.
Any tops reading this please understand, the *** cavity is very sensitive and shallow so if you're having *** *** with your bottom partner and if they're new to *** *** please do not start *** them hard with strong thrusts, not only does it get painful but it can even be harmful if it ruptures or punctures something inside.

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Posted On Jan 14, 2022 - 03:51 AM

If any big *** top (7" or more in size) is reading this.
If you have trouble maintaining your *** during *** and if you're using a condom, please check to see if the condom is the right size for your ***. Big *** need bigger condoms and incorrectly sized condoms will not only affect your performance but also may slip out during *** which is unsafe.


Check out this link for more information on this topic.

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Posted On Jan 14, 2022 - 06:11 AM

Size is not important, but stamina does. To improve stamina one must exercise daily until sweat, do keegle exercises, and eat healthy. Stop masturbating daily as it reduces ur *** content.
An add on is to use lignocaine water based lube, which one should apply on *** to reduce sensations, this will help you last longer than usul but will take away fun initially. Do use condoms too.

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Posted On Jan 14, 2022 - 01:35 PM

Not everyone is under the belief that size is not important. For some bizarre reason, lots of people here as well will say, "Ohh. I'm not a big fan of size. I don't discriminate and all". But it's all a facade. Every single one will in the end will ask for 9+ inch or something. And then say, "Oh you're so small. I am looking for someone bigger". This scientifically proving size is the only factor that's important.

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Posted On Mar 26, 2022 - 06:58 PM

Have anyone tried Vigora-M *** massage oil?
Any reviews? any success stories please?
Am using since 2-months and not able to see any result (i know am not following 2 points that, we have to do it regularly and we shouldn't *** while massaging)

please pour-in suggestions.

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