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Do you feel insecure because your *** size? I do.

Submitted by Tallandbrown Location: All India (All India, India)

I am mostly a lurker here and all these sexual adventures are fun to read yet I can never have the courage to indulge in something like this because I am so conscious of my *** size. I am 6’ tall and slim and have people have told me that I am quite good looking(lol, I don’t think so but whatever) but I can never dare to meet someone or download grindr to hook up because everyone is obsessed with big *** and I feel so unworthy and unlucky. I am 27 and have met only 3 guys, all of them had *** bigger and thicker than mine. I am like 5” in length and 4” around, which is below average scientifically and that makes me very sad. I can never dare to go to gay cruising spots like Rajeshwari in Bangalore or to a gay nudist group because I am so ashamed of my size. Even the three guys that I met, I couldn’t finish *** with them because I was so depressed looking at the size difference and felt somewhat inferior. I lack serious self confidence because of this which makes me think that I am missing out on a lot of gay adventures. I wish I could be an extrovert but I just can’t. Even if I like a guy and want to talk with him, I immediately think of my *** size and how disappointing it could be to him and i never take it forward. Even though gay *** is legalised in India now, I can never express myself whole-heartedly.

Does anyone share this feeling or am I the only one?

P.S. I know my post maybe unrealated as it is not a cruising spot post but I felt like sharing my thoughts as most people seem to be nice here and of course I can’t talk about this with my friends or family, that would be embarrassing.

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Posted On Mar 27, 2022 - 03:58 AM

Small *** are cute. We should not play around with something unnatural to increase *** size. All isnin hormones and trust me it takes cre of all pleasure. Be it a man or a woman.

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Posted On Mar 27, 2022 - 05:09 AM

Yes me ☹️

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Posted On Mar 27, 2022 - 10:42 AM

Hello @Tallan,

*** size matters for some people only. Most of them need good partner. I have 5inch in size. I too don't dare to go for spots,

The actual matter is *** working or no. People have bigger sizes but not get harder that is useless too.. So check how much hard you getting, that is only enough.
Tall your partner before only about your size, if they like then they will enjoy even small size also..

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Posted On Mar 27, 2022 - 10:49 AM

Yes it's true that many look for long thick *** for fun ,it's true the *** is good with long *** but not all can take it in fully and most of the times they only take in half of the length .
If a bot knows how to use a *** correctly ,he can have fun with any size ***.it depends on your mindset .
That's y I never reject anyone because of their *** size.

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Posted On Mar 27, 2022 - 10:52 AM

@90988_Raj nobody should be sad becoz of their size .
I know the rejection is a lot out there becoz of the size but u'll find a good partner , and u just have to wait.

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Posted On Mar 27, 2022 - 11:47 AM

Shower or Grower https://medium.com/@11keymaster11/blood-***-or-meat-***-this-is-the-big-difference-ee1fe42f8d97

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Posted On Mar 28, 2022 - 04:58 AM

Thanks for that article. I always wondered that *** *** are fake since they dont grow. Now i understoond that there r penises like that out there.
I am a grower that too from very tiny teeny to a normal one :-D

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Posted On Mar 28, 2022 - 06:24 AM

I feel I needed to share my comment here. I'm a submissive oral bottom with a small *** that doesn't stand at all. I'm not ashamed of what I have. Also I've never discrimated obout any tops *** size. What I think is that the top has to be confident of his size and his performance in getting what he wants and likes from the bottom. As long as he knows how to use what he has I'm jelly with him.
Top guys stop worrying and start enjoying.

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Posted On Mar 28, 2022 - 07:27 AM

For those out there with *** size between 4.5"-6" please don't feel bad about your *** size. You have no idea what you're blessed with.

I have a 7.5" *** when fully erect and let me tell you, it's not as fun as *** makes it to be. I've played the role of top as well as bottom many times so I speak from experience when I say, a big *** is not as fun as a medium sized *** or a small one. Medium or small *** are fun to ride and easier to take in (*** or ***). I've always had problems *** huge ***, but smaller *** are a treat to play with and ***.

I've had bottoms *** me off and I've only been deepthroated 1 or 2 times, not to mention, every bottom I've been with was never able to take my whole *** inside no matter how much lube we applied or how long we fingered his ***. As a top, I'm always concerned about the comfort and pleasure of my bottom as well so forcibly thrusting my *** will only hurt and/or cause discomfort to the bottom so *** sessions are often not as satisfactory as desired, I always have to keep a slow pace and carefully penetrate, I can never go with the flow and pound my bottom, I've been in threesomes where the bottom is happier *** off the other partner since they have a smaller *** than mine, I see them getting deepthroated and have their balls licked while getting *** off but I can't have that because by the time a bottom reaches my balls they start tearing up and gagging.

*** should be pleasurable and fun, not painful and uncomfortable. So IMO, if you have a small to medium *** size, enjoy your blessing for you can have experiences that people with big *** rarely can.

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Posted On Mar 28, 2022 - 07:35 AM

well said @rajawadi_randi... i always think about this difficulty while *** is huge. Always thought how much bottom or taken can take big one. If not taken fully, there is no pleasure for tops for sure... And you have clearly mentioned it from your experience. Most time bigger *** is good for showcasing.. but not for full pleasure.. Thanks for breaking a myth that bigger *** leads to big pleasure...

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Posted On Mar 28, 2022 - 02:57 PM

I have avg Indian size ***. I have been made fun of and told that my *** is "not big". However , i have had my share of bottoms and am completely satisfied. More importantly, i have been able to satisfy them thoroughly. Most of my bottoms have come at least twice with me. Many have met me me for over 5 to 6 sessions at least. They have told.me they love my passionate ***. *** size is just a myth. It is how you use it. I have met many big *** guys who don't know *** about ***. So break this barrier and go for it. If you want to know how to satisfy bottoms watch gay ***. You will get all the tips you need.

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Posted On Mar 28, 2022 - 03:51 PM

@letsfuck u r absolutely correct.
Once I mate a mature man with normal 6 size and he kow how to make happy bottom. He used his magic to *** in different positions and even in standing taking me In lap.

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Posted On Mar 28, 2022 - 06:38 PM

I've met tops who don't know how to use their thick 7.5 inch *** and met others who've made me *** with their 4.5 incher.
It's really about who you use it rather than how big it is

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Posted On Mar 29, 2022 - 06:23 PM

Good to see so many coming out and sharing their concern and all the guys heling out here.
It's ok guys really it's ok .
Just be confident in bed .
There are two groups when it comes to smaller *** guys, the one who wants appreciation and encouragement to perform and be happy about his size.
The other wants to be humiliated and dominated due to his smaller ***,but he derives satisfaction from that.
I have been with both kind of guys and I always try my best to satisfy myself and my slaves in the session .

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Posted On May 20, 2022 - 07:16 PM

Many have been texting asking about the above post. So yes there are guys who don't mind small *** and don't mind meeting them for fun .
So guys be confident .You can perform in bed .

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Posted On May 21, 2022 - 10:33 AM

@vikky - a curved *** is my favourite. It reaches my prostrate and I *** without touching myself while you're inside me !

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Posted On May 21, 2022 - 04:32 PM

Yes upward curvy *** can make you *** when you’re humped….tooo satisfying

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Posted On May 22, 2022 - 08:22 AM

Personally size doesn't matter. Its all about how you use it properly.

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Posted On May 23, 2022 - 05:34 AM

In my view *** size is only depends upon the family Genes only no need to depress feel happy for what you have ...

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Posted On May 23, 2022 - 05:47 AM

If u have good stamina, *** size doesn't matter. It is experienced by me, those who have 6 inch cummed after 3 to 5 minutes and having 3 inches *** guys, enjoying 15 to 45 minutes. I enjoyed with like guys. So dont feel insecure.

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Posted On May 7, 2023 - 12:52 PM

Yes this thread is for me :( iam always worried about this....guys i become sad and jealous....

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Posted On May 7, 2023 - 02:38 PM

It’s not about the size it’s about how u perform the way we say age is just a no the way size is also jst a no

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Posted On May 7, 2023 - 07:59 PM

It's a bad feeling that lingers upon a person's mind so hard that it directly affects the performance. Many times, it makes you not realise and/or feel satisfied even if you have performed well.

*** size or performance issues are quite common stress enhancing concerns among men, thanks to the *** movies and a dozens of boastful morons who aim at only looking down upon others. So get whatever concerns or doubts you have about your ***, out of your mind. But this is not easy. You need to be persistent in keeping these thoughts out and meet people as in dating. Please don't go to dark places to try. Believe me, these places snatch away even the left confidence in you. Reason is you meet and engage in sexual activities with complete strangers. End result you always feel unsatisfied, on top of that the strangers need not be considerate of your feelings. And what if they punch you down with their inconsiderate remarks which in most cases are not valid. Hence i would suggest you to stay away from these cruising places. All you need is someone who knows, understands and is aware of you. You will get them when you meet people on dates, ofcourse pick carefully. Even if it's not for any relationship, instead of for only fun. Be honest with them... You could avoid embarassment for both of you in first place.

Final tip, don't demean yourself look for only hopeless guys. Pick the guys as per your taste. You will get a few good buddies definitely for they're are many sharing the same physiology... And probably a better psychology than us.

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Posted On May 8, 2023 - 04:59 AM

If someone is meeting on the basis of *** size then they never wanted to meet you, they just wanted to meet your ***. So feel bad in bed if you are doing *** and not enjoying it or not able to give 100% in it. Size is useless if passionate is there.

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Posted On May 8, 2023 - 05:10 AM

I agree with @jaytop, most of the tops or bisexuals they just need a large *** to *** or a tight tight *** hole for a simple *** just to release their urge. But what about the your partner who also by the way craves you for the passionate and pleasurable ***. They simply don't care. Also so much lacking in foreplay knowledge and don't want to kiss their partner too.

Bottom guys should accept the top only they are ready to accept you by their heart and satisfy you as your wish and get passionate *** bonding each other. This will gives total satisfaction in body as well as in mind.

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Posted On May 8, 2023 - 09:00 AM

I have a *** size above average but the problem is it is curved. I am vers. I have been ***, and whenever I try *** a bottom it pains him so much as my *** gets pushed in different directions, so it mostly gets stopped in between and the bottom just sucks me off later. :(

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Posted On May 8, 2023 - 09:32 AM

A very good thread I must appreciate

Well me being a bisexual guy never does *** *** just because of the *** size. Till date, unfortunately I never got a top who is able to *** me passionately so that I don't feel any pain. According to me *** is all about relaxation and fun, if something painful gets into it there is no sense.

Similarly my *** size is not big. It's average and most of the guys says that my *** is so small etc. Etc. I never feel ashamed or offended as I know everybody is different. May be my *** size is small, but I know the potency or calibre which I have to satisfy my partner is far better than those morons who thinks that only a 10 inch *** can satisfy a girl's *** or a bottom's ***.

God never creates all human beings the same. Everybody is different from others, same with the organ size and shape. So nobody should feel inferior or ashamed of that. Having a 9-10 inch *** can make you cool for the time being, but if you want to get married, have kids, or want to have some meaningful relationship with your partner so what matters is how can you satisfy him or her. A person with 5 inch *** can also satisfy perfectly.

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Posted On May 8, 2023 - 10:02 AM

Yes. Initially, I thought my *** was average but the moment I started to meet a few guys from Ohmojo, Locanto, PlanetRomeo, etc., I started to question myself regarding my size. Finally, there was a guy who kept on saying that yours is too small and it somehow got stored in my head. Unable to get over the insecure feeling even after months. I guess it's all psychological.

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Posted On May 8, 2023 - 10:33 AM

My thought was like, I got hurt on my one of my testicle and I was always thinking if the *** i product during one ejaculation should be less. So, i met many guys and saw they also *** the same amount as I do. Some were even less and few were more. But one guy appreciated my *** for being more and thick juicy ***. Since then I got out from that thought. But started liking playing with *** and enjoy seeing variety of hanhood.. Nice thread.

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Posted On May 8, 2023 - 08:42 PM

The sheer amount of wholesomeness and love in this thread is just beautiful. There are way too many shallow and judgemental people in our community sadly. Seeing gays stand up and support other gays in getting over their insecurities is honestly such a vibe. Thank you folks for talking about this. This is definitely important. So many of us have body image issues because of all the media out there talking about perfect faces/bodies/***/***. This thread is just lovely.

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Posted On May 9, 2023 - 04:39 AM

I dont mind taking small *** in my little *** as i am slim and have tinyasshole, i prefer smaller to medium ***, even 6 is big for me. And small size doesn’t matter for me, its even better, it feels so good when when someone goes deep with small ***, their tummy touches my *** and i feel so deep and sensual that time i even moan/cry/crawl like a whinny lil gurl, like its so big for me. and when i do that they feel amazing and *** so quick. :)

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Posted On May 9, 2023 - 06:56 AM

Yes dear feel so pity

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Posted On May 9, 2023 - 08:11 AM

Top with small *** is good if he is passionate for u

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Posted On May 9, 2023 - 06:33 PM

I've got just 6" but too thick and i don't enjoy ***... Max bottoms say, we can't take it in... So if you are blessed with a right size, enjoy...

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Posted On May 9, 2023 - 07:13 PM

Tops with small *** should not exist 😭

Just kidding. Every *** is good until its hygenic.
and if you have good personality, bro who cares about size of your D.

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Posted On May 9, 2023 - 07:40 PM

jus b out of these mental traumas...in asian context 4-5.5" is average size...million of people enjoy their sexual life with their own weapon....
we need to enjoy fullest other than thinking about these barriers.
happy ***

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Posted On May 9, 2023 - 10:08 PM

I am vers and I got *** by smaller ***.. I enjoyed them .. I believe until partner is making errotic fun small ones are also ok.

I have tried taking 9 inch and it was fail experiment for me.

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Posted On May 10, 2023 - 12:53 AM

I think I have the thinnest one here......it is a little more than 5 inches but is not thick at all, maybe 2 inches thick......so far I have met only one 2 people who had similar sized *** as mine. I don't like big *** as it is easier and more fun with small sized ***. Although I don't do ***, just handplay and oral. It's a fantasy to *** a small *** as it will completely go inside the ***.

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Posted On May 10, 2023 - 02:51 AM

Yes,I have a small,thin ***. But I enjoy, as I am a submissive bottom. But at the same time,I want to make sure I am capable enough to give a woman enjoyment.

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Posted On May 10, 2023 - 05:49 AM

I have no issues with whatever size i have.
But when ever I see a *** bigger than mine, i do feel jealous 🙈.

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Posted On May 10, 2023 - 06:17 AM

I prefer smaller *** so that I can *** full length easily, however it should be clean and active.

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Posted On May 10, 2023 - 01:19 PM

Small *** are good for deepthroat... I never liked large *** as they don't fit in *** properly so cannot enjoy.

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Posted On May 10, 2023 - 03:18 PM

Smaller *** r better ergonomic and fun filling. Big ones are catchy and not as useful as small to medium ones r

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Posted On May 10, 2023 - 05:40 PM

Mine is big . But I m bottom . I don't want to top

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Posted On May 10, 2023 - 05:51 PM

@tallandbrown - nothing to worry at all. I've seen guys with 4.5inch n perform well. As they say, it's not the size, it's the motion in the ocean!! Also depends if you are top or bot!

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Posted On May 11, 2023 - 10:52 AM

being a bottom i would say its the technique and chemistry matters most..most of the time large *** are great to *** but very difficult if you want to try *** with them..

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Posted On May 12, 2023 - 04:35 PM

Definitely depends on ones role. Some tops are intimidated if the bottom has a decent sized one.

As a bottom, I would say that size is probably fourth in the list after stamina, chemistry and technique. So for me, wont go as far as size doesnt matter but it doesnt matter as much as people think it does.

Would much prefer a guy who can *** for some time or knows how to *** over someone with a big ***.

While a big *** might make it easier to hit the right spots if you are a bottom, unless the guy knows how to *** or last, most bottoms will have trouble enjoying with such a ***.

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Posted On May 23, 2023 - 03:41 AM

i prefer very small ***, when i was young a school friend had a very small ***, i used to offer him my a** and i had a great sensation around my anu* , i could feel the warmth of his body so close to me, in collage one had a monster *** (his sister used to be after him even after her marriage :-) ) we used to sleep naked and he used to place his organ which touched my entire stomach till my chest, i enjoyed that but never felt like giving him access to my.....

i am from navi mumbai, anyone with a small *** is invited, my fair, soft.... will welcome you.. and is waiting

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