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Daddy issues. Uncover the secrets.

Submitted by AlwaysLusty09 Location: All India (All India, India)

Even within the LGBTQ community, there are some topics which people still find uncomfortable to discuss like kinky fetishes and need of mature men.

I have Daddy Issues. It means that I seek comfort and love of mature, manly, well settled man who treats me, loves me like his baccha and fucks me like his passionate partner. When it comes to daddies I'm a pure bottom.

Guys below my age never attracted me physically. Though I can communicate hours with anyone, in a nonsexual manner.

What are your views on a daddy-son relationship?

By daddy-son, I do not mean actual incest relationship. It is just a metaphor. Though I do not judge people on enjoying incest relationships. They too are more than welcome to share their views.

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Posted On Jun 15, 2021 - 08:25 PM

I always have a fantasy of older men

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Posted On Jun 16, 2021 - 09:05 AM

Mature men are more sensible and caring than young guys. I prefer fit mature men over young boys. They are experienced and they know what partner want and how to handle partner while physical intimacy.

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Posted On Jun 16, 2021 - 03:45 PM

i am just curious to knw why majority love aged people... and why do they refer to daddy? is bcz they are father? what is sugar daddy mean?....please tell me frnds i am not aware of this.

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Posted On Jun 16, 2021 - 08:34 PM

@Resham To be honest i don't think majority of the gay men are interested in "daddy type" but it's also not very uncommon. It's impossible to determine a particular figure (even approx) but getting attracted to a mature person is a very common phenomenon, irrespective of the sexuality. Remember you or your friend having a crush on one of your school teachers?

And no, they aren't referred to as daddy because the persons involved have a real father-son relationship( that would be incest which is not just a crime but extremely harmful and inappropriate, both for the family and the society as a whole). But the reference is there because these men fall in a certain age category( between late thirties to mid fifties) and have attained a higher level of world experience and maturity. And that what makes them a "daddy".

Similarly "sugar daddy" is another term which basically means being in a relationship with a rich mature man and financially benefitting from such a relationship by receiving gifts (either in terms of cash or some asset) in return of your company or sexual favours.

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Posted On Jun 20, 2021 - 05:26 AM

Oh god... daddy uncles are best.... I still got orgasm after thinking of train incident, one unknown uncle groping my boobbs, squizing my nips. They know wat exactly 💯 bottom needs

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Posted On Jun 20, 2021 - 07:16 AM

Once i was standing at bus stop in my area(my daily routine), one uncle was watching me, i ignored eye contact as i feel awkward the way he was looking at me, next day he came to me and tried to talk, i talked normally so he tried to introduce himself and handshake with me. he held my hand tight and didn't leave for a minute. and it was so awkward as there were few people waiting for the bus. so i didn't talk him after that. but after few days i was standing at rikshaw stand and he came at the same time. i was in hurry so i sat in rikshaw and he sat with me too and started talking to me. while talking he put his hands on my thigh, then tried to get closer to my balls and down, he squeezed pudendal canal(which is located between testicles and anus). and it turned me on. i was about to reach my destination so i just stopped him as i felt very strange and left the rikshaw. next day he was standing at the same place but i ignored him as it was risky the he groped me in rikshaw, i ignored him for few days. but after few days i realized i enjoyed getting gropped so when he met me next day. i talked with him, he thought i like him and he invited at his house at night. after thinking so much. i went to his house around 10PM, he was so happy to see me. he invited me in. i sat on sofa. he sat next to me. after few seconds. he just kissed me and grabbed me, lift up my shirt and *** my nips, i got so hard. he *** me i *** his. we went in room and slept together. he slept behind me and stroke my *** and i came in few seconds. it was so good. while i was wearing pants he spanked my little *** :D

so now I LOVE IT. i more like to be little gal in bed with fat daddy. who can grab me in his arms, hug me, and explore every inch of my girly body with his hands. *** my nips so much an make it puffy. i feel so little and wanna moan like shy little gal ;Dwhen i am with mature person with belly and

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Posted On Jun 20, 2021 - 08:48 AM

yeah it's rare. actually he was the one who was searching for gay boy. so he found me i guess. i would love to be in his arms again. but i like passionate and slow things. and he was rough at *** my nips. more like biting it. it happened 10 years ago if he meets me now. he would eat me alive lol :D
but that kind of uncle can make me *** in seconds.

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Posted On Jun 21, 2021 - 01:12 AM

I had a weekend full of raw and raunchy *** with two mature men. Their wives do not have *** with them anymore so they are always *** starved. Which makes them pounce on me as if there is no tomorrow and it's the last time they will have *** in their lives.

I love to cross dress for them, whereas they enjoy ripping my clothes and fulfilling their *** fantasy with me. Dadies do satisfy a bottom well.

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Posted On Jun 21, 2021 - 06:06 AM

I love mature men. The way they treat you is special. Love to be a mature man's or rather men's bitch

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Posted On Jun 23, 2021 - 10:18 AM

that's really true there some different love in mature n uncle thier expirence love passion is totally on another level. I prefer only mature dadies n shlemales

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Posted On Jul 13, 2021 - 09:12 AM

Love to be with daddies/uncles. More trustworthy and discreet, know the act of love and long lasting😉

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Posted On Jul 14, 2021 - 08:10 AM

I love mature men

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Posted On Aug 27, 2021 - 04:04 AM

Well my experience with Older and mature uncles have been really good . They not only seek for fun but also for friendship and company. I have met some uncles who meet me even for coffee date and discuss about thier life and sharing thoughts, some have even guided me about career options. For the bed part they are experienced and gentle. (most of the time) and dont really force always. Depends on person again. Yes even i was introduced to this line by old man. It was always good to first meet causually and then jump to bed. Some uncle with whom I am in touch are at really good position , but they make sure there profession doesn't get affected by this.

Well Searching for good mature uncle , yes preferably with Moustache , with whom I can be good friend . Anyone from Pune / Mumbai / Thane ??

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Posted On Aug 27, 2021 - 04:53 AM

I enjoy being with older men. I find them very matured in their outlook. I like talking to them, listening to them talk, I find them to be decent and down to earth. And they are usually well experienced and so amazing in bed! Now I'm at the point where I go only with men who are older than me!

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Posted On Aug 27, 2021 - 09:05 AM

I have few mature bfs since many years. They like taking me outdoors and indoors. My ability to spend time with them and make them happy without any demands or being judgemental is what keeps us attached. Looking forward many Happy years in the arms of mature men !

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Posted On Aug 27, 2021 - 10:38 AM

Just like the above persons, I too have the same opinion. Matured guys are the best. They know how to treat or behave with bottoms. Others are just for mechanical fun whereas matured guys express and it will be filled with emotions. This is what I felt and experienced.

Looking for good matured guy nearby HSR layout. Love to meet and make a long term kind of...

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Posted On Aug 30, 2021 - 04:30 AM

Mujhe hamesha old men hi pasand hai sabse phle mujhe old men ne hi *** *** krwaya tha

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Posted On Aug 30, 2021 - 05:02 PM

I like grey haired, tall, hairy, beefy old daddy.

Been with few daddies definitely they treat bottoms with such love and care even if it is just for a rough ***!

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Posted On Sep 4, 2021 - 10:13 AM

Why is matured men always considered to be top? What about vers or bot matured men?

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Posted On Sep 4, 2021 - 10:18 AM

@friendnnd Yes. Even to find *** where young tops old is difficult.

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Posted On Sep 5, 2021 - 01:33 AM

Matured married sub bottom here. We definitely do exist :)

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Posted On Sep 5, 2021 - 09:33 AM

Yes...I agree....
There is no compulsion on mature gays to be tops.
I always watch *** where daddy's are *** by young guys.
There is a special channel on *** sites which features think top and muscular mature daddy bots exclusively.
And I always look for the daddy bots...
So is there anyone who is willing to take me. .
Please DM

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Posted On May 22, 2022 - 12:57 PM

Ya this is a reAl thing and not that uncommon. Many think this is just about young guys being with mature guys to feel the kindness,protection ,caring ,etc
But there are many things that influences this, lot of it is psychological.
Many younger guys only seek older guys to hook up with.
There's a diff between calling your partner daddy and just hooking up with older guys only.
This doesn't only apply to younger guys. Mature guys also have some daddy issues . This might seem uncommon to many but this exists.
Once I met a guy, he was 38yo he couldn't get hard and while discussing he did say he had daddy issues and his dad was dead and he explained his issues, so we chatted a bit more about that and I designed a session particularly for him. He booked a room and had bought a pair of his dad's old shoes and very old blazer,a belt,shirts,underwear,that belonged to his dad.
So I wore the blazer and shoes even though those were small size and I made him blindfolded.I made his hands run through the pockets and stitches of the blazer while I had stuffed his dad's old underwear in his *** , it was so sensual for him that just with this I could see his *** get a little hard , I removed the undies from his *** and made him lick his dad's shoes which I wore , he just said yes daddy and he did that politely and I tied his hands and legs to the bed and I started hitting his *** hard with his dad's belt , all this while his face was covered with his dad's old shirts to give his dad's feel.he screamed daddy daddy daddy the whole time , his *** was rock hard during this .
He was so surprised that his *** had got hard after 5 years , he had tried medication and exercise it didn't work,doctors even had said to him that it was a physiological problem but during this session it stood up.
I didn't stop there we had a perfect bdsm session and ride him a bit too hard to be honest.I made him *** at least 8 times.at the last states there was no him just water coming out lol.But he was so relaxed and happy .he even offered me a large sum of money but I flatly rejected(most might not believe but this happens in reAl life) more over he wasn't a paypig but just a slave.
We met up after that a few times and I did receive some gifts .he said after this session he used to wear some of his father's clothes while having *** with his wife which was not possible before the session as he couldn't get hard.
This is just one reAl life example which prove daddy issues do exist and not only in younger guys.
And to the older guys looking for younger partners be careful while meeting others, this goes to both the age groups so please think with your mind and with ur *** plz

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Posted On May 23, 2022 - 04:29 AM

Thanks guys/nephews
I am 60yrs old
Last 15years doing dating with young guys those r obsessed with uncles.
They shared their feelings, secrets with me.
Those are non cities nephews, in their early age they feel they are in this world..
They really love to share with their childhood memories.
I ask them why they like matures, 98% nephews said matures are caring.
Some nephews are used say while ***, oh daddy *** me😃

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Posted On May 23, 2022 - 04:58 AM

Two incidents i liked to share
1) i have been new year farmhouse party in Mumbai, its famous as *** party.
I was *** a guy on open air, one nephew watching us, i stop *** without discharge bcoz i have to enjoy more, that watcher nephew came to me, touch my tool, i said wanna ***, he said its not clean, i said i used condom, then started ***, i ask him, is ur first *** with uncle or teacher? He whishpered in my ears, no with my daddy, i said really, he said yes..
2)i meet a northeast guy in planet romeo,
He completely obsesed on his dad, in his childhood he saw his dad in naked, from then he bcom obsessed on his daddy..
Later we chat over phone, he share all his feelings towards his, lastly he said u r the only who listen my feelings. I try to console him, but i understand its difficult to console him over phone. I lost his touch.
Dude i am criticizing any1.
Some incidents in our is pre written good or bad

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Posted On May 23, 2022 - 12:02 PM

All I can say is daddies are best 45 50 plus age or more I don't mind

Well behaved and matured in bed know how to treat his bottom partner, they are patient and wild ( depend on person to person)
Know how to make love.

If they have silver hairs on chest that turns me on the most I don't know why.
I have been with a daddy once and since the I'm in love with daddies.

I wish I could have a mature person in my life with whim I can have long term relationship.

If any daddy is interested let me know I'm open to have a relationship with a daddy

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Posted On May 23, 2022 - 05:21 PM

I always have crush on older men

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Posted On May 30, 2022 - 06:55 PM

Older daddies are the best they get me *** just by speaking to them

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Posted On Aug 8, 2022 - 12:46 AM

Hi friends,
Being a mature person, each and everyday, i get knocked from all nephews in gr and blued, most of the pings from long distance, u. P, bihar, assam, odisha, even Bangladesh.
I used to ask them why they like matures,
Most of stories is that their first experience with their dad's friends

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Posted On Aug 8, 2022 - 03:08 AM

In my case i was may be in class 5th when in some marriage function I had encounter with my chacha... In UP in farms there are tubewell for irrigation purpose so we used to bath so i went there with parents for function.. Then I remember I was bathing nude with him. And he also did same . I remember coz I said chachu shame shame lol.. Well thn we bath he used to giv me bath many times I visitd his place slowly slowly I got puberty I started knowing things in school but chacha used to do with me.. Body play most of all... I remember I said this to chachi and she ignored it.. Later in 11-12 I met one classmate wheere he made me wear his sister clothes and we had fun.. That day I realised that awesome feeling of wearing cloth which I used to miss with chacha ... Next time I had with chacha I wore chachi clothes for him and from that day onwards we started doing fun.. Bt still no ***.. Thn on pr I met one man who became my mentor.. He *** me first time.. That night I orgasmed multiple times in his 4 -5 fucks with one of his lady friend.. And thn I explordd the world.. And with chacha also.. And learned mature are good for me

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Posted On Aug 8, 2022 - 08:10 AM

As long as things happens beyond the age of 18, there nothing to fret about.

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Posted On Nov 2, 2022 - 04:42 PM

Most of the Mature men are really good. They are gentle and don't force always. Also most of them are discreet and like to secret fun where sometimes they get really naughty. I have always been into mature since i came into M2M fun. Most of time I had amazing experience with them, Yeah I have met some really aggressive men also, but again depends on person.
When meeting any mature, try to have conversation with them, Some are them are looking for friendship first and then this fun. Never force anything or go into thier personal details, they may not like this. Also mature's prefer to be discreet and safe fun.
My first M2M experience was in 2*2 local train and started by mature, now I only hunt for them.
I have some mature friends who share their life experience with me and even we meet casually.
One thing I can say is , try to find the other side in Mature men !

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Posted On Nov 2, 2022 - 04:53 PM

Patil boy is it the sexual performance in other side?? I my self handed over one of mature friend and It was amazing in our language kya mast choda maja agaya ki ese bhi chudai ho sakti hai... They can give u all fun with deep love as young boyfriend - girlfriend

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Posted On Nov 2, 2022 - 07:44 PM

I also appreciate the companionship. There is a certain safety you feel with mature men that you don’t get with young guys. They are very accommodating and kind. Even though I am not fem, when talking to mature strangers, I get aroused very easily. Wish to have a stable relationship with mature like minded uncle one day.

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Posted On Nov 2, 2022 - 08:42 PM

I feel very safe with matured and daddies.
Many need the love and affection which they don't get in the family.
Also they experienced in *** and also they don't force you do something which you don't like.
Many younger reject the mature and younger think they are not good in ***. But when come to *** the mature are very active in ***.
I am attracted to mature nad daddies.

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Posted On Nov 3, 2022 - 01:47 AM

True they r loyal and lovable..I like mature daddy's

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Posted On Nov 3, 2022 - 03:55 AM

Met many youngs but experienced that
Woh zyada din tak saath nahi dete mostly wants benifits also.

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Posted On Nov 3, 2022 - 04:41 AM

Good to see matured are getting valued...

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Posted On Nov 3, 2022 - 12:23 PM

being a bottom i always prefer mature men, their way of doing things is more mature
they sort of make love to you than just have ***..

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Posted On Nov 3, 2022 - 12:27 PM

I have met one matured and retired man but still he is working on Pvt company. He treat me like his son. Used to stay as bachelor and many times he brings lunch from home and feed me in his hands. Lovable and caring. He was retired from good government position.

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Posted On Nov 3, 2022 - 01:02 PM

Mature guys are the best, because they truly understand lovemaking and it is mostly always give and take. .

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Posted On Nov 7, 2022 - 12:08 PM

Yes even I prefer matured men they are best

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Posted On Nov 7, 2022 - 01:54 PM

I have done with many mature and old people.. they are just lovely...

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Posted On Nov 7, 2022 - 03:39 PM

Mature dark Telugu and Tamil uncles with full body hair wearing dark color lungis are most sexy in the world

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Posted On Nov 8, 2022 - 03:52 AM

I like 55+ daddy with thick and big cut *** and big body hairy chest.. Sexy lips ... My fantasy is to get gang bang by this type of dadiies

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Posted On Nov 8, 2022 - 04:48 AM

I am small petite, love laying naked on top of some mature daddy with his dik slowly rubbing my ***

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Posted On Nov 8, 2022 - 02:26 PM

i recently had a meeting with a top daddy. he was 51 years old, tall, stocky and well endowed. we had a time of our life. he was so considerate about my likes and likes, so passinate in bed , made me comfortable not physically but made me felt mentally confortably with him , he was so good that he made me exceed his limits in bed and made me try new things which i never wanted to or thought of. thats why i like mature men they know the art of love making.. and i was of his type as well, smooth, bit chubby, male boobs shaved body , submissive in bed so he was into it with his entire body and soul. love mature daddies..

and some people have said it that people are looking for daddies just for sake of money and take care of expenses.. i want to say that these kinds of things are done by young teens and unemployed guys.. those who are employed or who are looking for long term friendship and relationship at regular intervals they wont bring money into the act..

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Posted On Nov 8, 2022 - 05:51 PM

I have always been attracted towards mature men, still do and I do have some experience under my belt. Couple of things I realised in the process.

1. Reason I gravitated towards men older than me was because of my conflicted feelings towards ***. I was seeking validation for my act. As in "if i am doing it with someone who is older than me, and who knows better, then it is fine for me to have ***".
That was the seed. Then i started liking *** with mature men for other rational reasons like compatibility etc.

2. They is no such thing as a daddy. Under that matured skin it is the same young kid, trying to deal with his own insecurites and issues. It is just that with age people men are able to cope or mask their own issues better.

3. If u really need a daddy, then u need to be your own daddy. That is the only way!
Fantasies are fine. Fetishes are great. However nobody can make u feel secure and safe forever. People have their own *** to deal with.

4. Assumption that older men are better at *** is incorrect. Some are good and some are bad. Some are open minded and like to experiment and enjoy, where as some are burdened by their own twisted sense of morality and conflicts around ***, and hence *** ends up being a bad experience.

Some are completely new, as they have only recently been able to overcome their inhibitions. Hence they are practically a young person, trying to understand *** and themselves in process.
In such cases roles reverse. You need to be kind and patient. Remember you were like that at some point, and there were some good people, who guided you through your sexual journey. Now it is your time to payback.

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Posted On Nov 9, 2022 - 11:08 AM

@vishal_kumar: thanks for the post. very well narrated. Being a matured man, I can relate to each word written

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