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Daddy issues. Uncover the secrets.

Submitted by AlwaysLusty09 Location: All India (All India, India)

Even within the LGBTQ community, there are some topics which people still find uncomfortable to discuss like kinky fetishes and need of mature men.

I have Daddy Issues. It means that I seek comfort and love of mature, manly, well settled man who treats me, loves me like his baccha and fucks me like his passionate partner. When it comes to daddies I'm a pure bottom.

Guys below my age never attracted me physically. Though I can communicate hours with anyone, in a nonsexual manner.

What are your views on a daddy-son relationship?

By daddy-son, I do not mean actual incest relationship. It is just a metaphor. Though I do not judge people on enjoying incest relationships. They too are more than welcome to share their views.

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Posted On Jun 8, 2020 - 11:38 PM

@Newbiesissy.. well you are spot on but for me its very extreme when people say they want a group of men etc.. i enjoy being with only one person.. esp he his hairy and well build/mesomorphic type body or stocky daddy.. taller he is the better

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Posted On Jun 9, 2020 - 04:13 AM

Agreed with @Peachypie, Not all youngsters are after the money. Sharing my personal experiences, I used to pay restaurant bills, for drinks and also used to contribute in all expenses. Even many times I also paid for the rent if any daddy visited my City just to meet me.

Its wrong to label all the daddy lover youngsters as noney seekers. Most of us are looking for good companion

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Posted On Jun 9, 2020 - 06:31 AM

@neem 98 it's rare to find such people. Any trustworthy daddy who is willing to do that fornu. Even in willing to pay for accomotion if any daddy comes to meet me. Even I have paid for fooding and all. It's just that both people get to enjoy good company thus splitting the bill isn't a bad thing but many daddy goes by the preconceived notion that younger people are only after money

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Posted On Jun 9, 2020 - 10:45 AM


I feel you have to explore a lot more... Not all youngster after money... I have been on Gay dating site for last 7 years now I'm 28 years old and till date I haven't asked for a single penny from my date.

In fact it's vice-versa!

I fully agree with "neem98" that youngster are wrongly labelled as money seekers but genuine guys are definitely looking for a good companion.

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Posted On Jun 9, 2020 - 11:12 AM

Please don't be judgmental. Yes, I do had few bad experience with young guys, but not all are money seekers. Majority lack maturity, but that comes with age. Be kind and acknowledge eachother's shortcomings and rectify them.

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Posted On Jun 13, 2020 - 10:57 AM

Do you guys think if a CD like me ask a daddy to cover expenses of making him a sissy (like dresses, makeup, heels, wigs, etc) and in return I can give him sexual pleasure and whatever he needs, will they accept? Not to sound like a money seeker but being a CD I just never had the courage or will to buy my own stuff due to stashing problem. I am inexperienced and is it wrong to think such way?

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Posted On Jun 18, 2020 - 08:16 AM

Am karan 61 years old gay single residing near Chennai
I had some bad experience with young in Chennai
In 2016,one young guy contacted me (I didn't know how he got my number) He told he likes only older men and he has place in vadapalani Chennai. Without knowing about him how can I go there? So, I simply rejected but he often called me and he told he is a genuine person he wants to fun with elder only. He also sent his face picture also.
At last I decided to meet him in person. I had met him in Koyambedu bus station and he picked up there to his room
In his room 3 youngsters also there. He told me don't be afraid they are my friends. They known about us. We can enjoy they disturb us. So I trusted him. When we went room one of his friend also entered. He told I want to *** you. First person which he taken to his room agreed and left his room.
His friend *** me at the same time the first person took a video which I didn't aware . After finishing they both threatened me. Then only knows they were she male and CDs. They demanded Rs. 15,000/- for their surgery otherwise they will upload video. They have already seized my mob,aadhar card etc. At that time I was working in a government service. Finally they agreed Rs. 5,000/- I contacted my friend and he came and given amount to them. Then they released me to go out. My friend deleted video in their mob and warned them .
That was my worst experience I won't forget in my whole life.
In my experience many young guys in planetromeo seeks elder friendship with benefit ( like job, money,etc)
But I got some genuine young guys from other states especially Bangalore,Mumbai,Delhi, Goa,Pune etc through
PR and Ohmojo. ( I didn't met them in person) But they still in touch

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Posted On Jun 18, 2020 - 10:50 AM

Sorry to hear ur story verbtm. I suggest every daddy who like to meet young should verify details - make a video call and ask them about their jobs, what they do , analyse their way of speaking and things like that to judge their genuineness. Hope this finds helpful to u guys. Genuine guys won’t stumble ! Try to ask same questions on multiple calls and You’ll have answer whether to meet or not.

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Posted On Jun 18, 2020 - 01:20 PM

@verbtm meeting first time don't go bed.. if you are ok you must confirm only both of you in private.. switch off mobiles for entire session.. place is ready by you.. so caution and take your safety first

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Posted On Jun 18, 2020 - 05:47 PM

@Verbtm never use your phone number in any gay context. No phone calls, no sms and no whatsapp. Your phone number can be traced to you too easily. Use an app like Grindr or Planet Romeo, or this website to make initial contact. Then if you want a more discreet and responsive way of communicating use something not connected to your phone number. Like Google hangouts or Kik or an sms app which gives you a fake phone number. I have had people try to blackmail me in USA even, I call their bluff and ignore them. If you have android you can setup a whole private space for these things so nobody would ever know they are on your phone.

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Posted On Jun 18, 2020 - 06:24 PM

Mostly young guys who prefer old or matured, their primary objective is to seek money from matured guys and blackmail them. Majority of the people are of this behaviour only so dont fall on their words and be careful.

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Posted On Jun 18, 2020 - 06:41 PM

I don't know about others but I'm never like that, I'm capable to earn for myself and am independent financially all I need is love and care from a mature daddy 😍

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Posted On Jun 19, 2020 - 01:36 AM

@choxy thankfully I have met plenty young guys like you

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Posted On Jun 19, 2020 - 07:27 AM

Sorry to hear your experience verbtm. That's how it works... there are not only bad daddies and there are not only good youngsters... there are only two types... good human and bad animal in the form of human being.... Please be careful going forward.

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Posted On Jun 19, 2020 - 07:56 AM

To add.... like everybody here I have been getting multiple requests from bottoms.... I also need someone who I can trust with my life to keep things confidential and can meet up regularly. but safety and trust are major concerns... so i have not selected anyone till now.

Fortunately i have got to know about a bottom via tinder... his profile is genuine and I have verified it with multiple sources. His background sounds soft and innocent and will never be problem creator. I 100% know about how humane i am and i am confident that he will also not face any trouble. He resides approx 35km from my place. he is from a respected profession... he is a pure bottom... all verifications done... lol... only thing is i need to decide whether to proceed or not... i will meet him at least once and have fun and if i like it, i will meet him once in a while and enjoy mutually...

it is hard to find a person who is equally human as you but at the same time not powerful as you.... its a dual benefit... i am happy i have found a guy.... just taking time to decide on it.

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Posted On Jun 19, 2020 - 09:40 AM

yes all have different thinking and nature but be careful
some time paid gay safe bcz they told you all clear what they want but some gay not good when u go to meet then then demand many things in that candition a paid gay better then a cheater or fake gay so we need to think safty and money and fun

yes i meet with some good dadies who love my 8 inch *** full night they drink with me and *** and enjoy

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Posted On Jun 19, 2020 - 09:43 AM

yes @ajay u r right thats why i prefer paid top who told me clear all i like clear chat if we agree for trems and condition then we enjoy and meet otherwise we chat chat and leave
i think that good and safe for fun

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Posted On Jun 20, 2020 - 09:55 AM

These days there are increased number of profiles on Gr, PR etc for paids and masseurs. Mostly these are yound boys under 25 and they target mature guys above 30-35 as they have capability to pay.
Mature guys also falls in easy trap as they dont have time to hunt for the right guy. Just give money and *** or get ***. This is most common for bottom matures ( married and settled) as with age and time issues, they find difficult to get their partner. I am not saying all paid guys are frauds, some do it genuinely for financial reasons but there are some who operate in gangs to blackmail or loot other guys. There are news of such cases in many parts of country specially UP and Maharashtra.

Thus as an advise please try to stick to your partner. We all have desires to have multiple partners buts that's very risky from many aspects. Never share your personal or work number with anybody as numbers can be easily traced. Get another sim if u think making calls or text and watsapp is much required. Also share pics/ videos or VC only on trusted apps and after a good chat.. Never go to the place of another person directly. First meet outside atleast twice or thrice before meeting and try to know the person.. If u get the positive vides than only proceeds. Listen to your instinct. Also avoid hanky panky stuff in shady areas/ parks/ open spaces ( so called cruising places) as they are the most risky.

Though we all know theas things but we avoid to follow and fall in traps..
Take care

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Posted On Jun 20, 2020 - 12:33 PM

im not usually interested in Daddy types its a bit of turn-off for me..but lot of others are into it and all these comments makes me curious..may be i wont have physical fun with them but curious to try nudism or mutual shagg and explore the experience..may be after lockdown would give it a try..A group nudist are *** will be exciting though..

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Posted On Jun 24, 2020 - 08:46 PM

Daddies and twinks both have their own reasons to like each other and both need to respect that.

I for instance like care and fatherly love daddy can give me which i don't expect from younger tops. I have always been inclined towards older guys. But most of the guys I've met or contacted just want a quickee rather than a loving relationship.

So many older guys complain that they find only greedy twinks. They want to enjoy only benifits that younger guys can offer but don't want to fulfil their expectations.

If I am a working matured man who likes to date young college going guys who hav no personal income.. I shouldn't be offended if my date expects me to pay for dinner.

As I said most matured men approach me for *** but stop responding once i let them know that i prefer real date over hook ups.

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Posted On Jun 25, 2020 - 03:26 AM

@prayag_bottom you've said it beautifully. There are all kinds of people and we are no one to judge if the people in that arrangement are comfortable with it.

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Posted On Jun 25, 2020 - 07:56 AM

I have almost the same feelings as you've described although some daddies I've talked to defined their interests in using the younger partner for *** only. This alone terrifies me to even try to come out as a person who seeks daddy-son relationship with an older partner.

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Posted On Jun 26, 2020 - 04:55 AM

@maximwinters, that's the difference between a Dad and an older guy who just prefers younger *** partners. A Dad is so much more than a guy just being older. People are mistaken when they conflate the two, as many do here.

Keep looking for your Daddy; he's out there.

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Posted On Jul 27, 2020 - 04:28 PM

I don't think I have daddy issues but in Delhi I only prefer *** decent top daddies. Can't trust young delhi guys even though how sexy they are because of an unfortunate but not that serious incident. Never again. If I host I only invite older tops and if young tops only northeast Indian tops or foreigners and I only visit older daddies homes or young NE/foreign houses.

Its been a very long time my slutty hole hasn't been use, any *** top daddies who is into girly bottoms like myself wink* wink*

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Posted On Jul 29, 2020 - 10:17 AM

I like uncle...they are very much experienced and good in Nature...they know the feeling of their partner very well...how to satisfy them how to do proper *** and everything.. that's why I like mature guys (30-50age) more than younger one

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Posted On Jul 29, 2020 - 11:57 AM

For me 35 to 50 age men are best choice. Mostly they are experienced and know how to enjoy also trustworthy. I have met young n mature both but I found more pleasure with matures

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Posted On Aug 1, 2020 - 10:03 AM

I am 25 and have been with man aged 48. He was basically my master and ex military officer. We stayed together for 2 years. We use to have session nearly every day and Everytime he user to make me have multi orgasam and same was reverted.
If any dude around 30 to 40 age interested? Can pm me.

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Posted On Aug 3, 2020 - 12:36 PM

I have only been with mature guys aged between 42-65....best thing about them is they are very much understanding, accommodating and goes extra mile to make their bots comfortable...most of them have a dad like pampering abiity.and when they act dominant u just cannot resist and disobey them coz u don't wanna upset their feelings ..

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Posted On Aug 4, 2020 - 10:37 AM

Iam in my late 40s...And attracted to decent guys...Not too old...neither too young....But have had issues with the younger lot with regards to asking for money...Drinks...Etc...If I want to do anything voluntarily I will do..But when somebody demands like it is their right it pisses me off...And I have asked some.od the guys to *** off...On their face......So now I am extra careful when somebody young approaches...My mail box and messages is usually filled with messages.... Best is just read and delete....Peace of mind....So please choose guys wisely...

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Posted On Aug 4, 2020 - 01:34 PM


I'm in my late 20's and actually for me it's vice-versa..... Many matured men used to ask me for money and I had no option but to refuse and never contact them.....

Did I stop contacting matured men? No... I'm just more careful now!

I don't know why people has such mindset that young guys are after matured men only for money... Just coz you might had few bad experience that doesn't mean that all young guys are same.

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Posted On Aug 8, 2020 - 10:29 AM

@neem98 ... it was not my fathers best friend.. It is my best friends father

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Posted On Aug 8, 2020 - 10:39 AM

So, here the full story.. As we were best friend so it is become obvious that his home is also mine kind of that.. so from kid we were best friends and its been like two families are one..

So, one day his house was empty and we are going to play video games. His mother and sister went to outstationa nd his dad went to office..

So, we decided to play a game but the cassate was in our another frinds home, so he went out.. and i was 15 that time and thought untill he came back I can ***.. So, i started it and while masturbating I use my finger to *** my ***. literally i am doing fingering.. I am enjoying so much that I didnt notice my best friend father cameback as he forget some file for office.. and he saw me doing that.. after this he went off to office silently.

I was so scared I cant tell u guys..

So months goes by.. and oneday.. my friend felt ill , so his mother took him to doctor and I dnt knw where his sister goes.. And I was playing alone the video game..

His father came after having a bath, he was wering a towel. I can see his big *** is erected. I was looking at it and I was soooo ***.

Suddenly, he remove the towel and he is now full nude. he grab my hand and put it in his *** and tell me to jerk it off..

I just gave a smile at him and slowly slowly i started *** and adter some time he pulls me and smash me into the bed.. he started to *** me in doggy style and then he lift me in his arms and ***..

ohh gosh.. My *** is erected and I am telling this to you guys.

I had such a satisfaction.. and after whenever we get time he fucks me.. I was 15 at that time and now I am 24.

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Posted On Aug 8, 2020 - 02:15 PM

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Posted On Aug 9, 2020 - 01:42 AM

@Hardy_G my story is something similar to you, but It was my father’s friend who *** me for 2-3 years.
He caught me watching gay *** once and from that very night he initiated, made me *** him, *** me.
From my experience, I really like daddies.
resting on that manly hairy chest after a rough session and that care, him fondling your body, talking sweetly while you get ready for some more action.
And just not that, if you are lucky to have a good daddy then some dates and romance, I really wish to date an older man for a serious thing.
I want to be and stay like a couple with some matured guy.

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Posted On Aug 9, 2020 - 10:29 AM

Mine started at the age of 16 while watching normal *** i was curious to watch the gay *** and after watching the same I went online and tried to find men, didn't really know what i wanted. after meeting a couple of 25 or something year old guys i was fed up and wanted something more interesting. I then moved to pune for my graduation and started finding mature daddys online. I was 17 during my first year and they would always ask me online if I am okay with people of that age (45+). The first time I set up a meeting with a man he was 62 and I was 17, but I found him super attractive and sexy with his slight belly and moustache. He picked me up on his scooter and we went to his office, I was pretty scared but excited as well. His office was on the top floor of the building and he worked alone. It was evening, we started by hugging and then touching each other and finally kissing and then ***. It was a memorable experience after which I was only into older men and had plenty of such experiences. Hope the pandemic ends so that I can find my daddy :D

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Posted On Aug 9, 2020 - 07:18 PM

No *** is normal; that's the point of *** - it's fantasy. If you mean heterosexual *** is normal, then you infer that all other *** is abnormal, which is just too righteous and judgemental, and a sad thing to say especially here on this site.

Be careful with how you phrase things.

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Posted On Aug 10, 2020 - 07:50 AM

@C4LEB by referring to heterosexual *** as normal I didn't mean to say that gay *** is abnormal, however when I say that it automatically infers that the rest is abnormal. Which is not right and was not my intention, I apologise. However I believe that since most people are not out of the closet yet, we have trouble while phrasing stuff in accordance with LGBTQ+ linguistics

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Bins *
Posted On Aug 11, 2020 - 10:21 AM

Daddies.. they are lovely! My daddy loves to spank my buttocks, *** each other. Although it is never a penetrative episode, I love my experience with him always.

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