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Gay boss or employee?


Submitted by Shiningarmour Location: All India (All India, India)

Doesn’t it sound intriguing to be working under a gay boss or knowing that your subordinate is also a gay. Have anyone of you come across this situation? How was your experience working with a gay boss or a gay subordinate

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HotBot
Posted On Jun 3, 2021 - 11:21 PM

I used to work with a tv director as his assistant director. So I was reporting to him. I wud go to his house in the morning and in his car we wud then go to the set. He always treated me like a younger brother. There was bottom crossdresses on our set who was open abt it. I always noticed my director checking him out. After a year or two I became friends with tht bottom as tht project was over . I told him I am a bottom too but I am a private crossdresser. We both were gujjus too and connected well. Gujjus make nice bottoms and cross dressers I guess. So tht is when he told me ur boss *** me and howcome he didn’t *** u. I said bcoz I maintain a normal image in public. Lol but she is like u shud get in contact Wid him again and give him some signals he has an amazing Lund lol. And on top he has dis fancy of *** gujjus

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Tista V.
Posted On Jun 4, 2021 - 05:48 AM

I must admit that having a gay or bi top boss is a blessing for a bottom employee because of the power dynamics. When I started working in an advertisement agency, my HR did ask me casually about my views on LGBT community and there I disclosed that I am a gay bottom so I comprehend the community issues much better; in the interview. This honest answer opened up my path professionally in the organization as well as sexually.

The CEO, MD and Founders who were in there late 50s enjoyed my supple body and tight *** to their heart's content. I was a vital part of majority of business negotiations with offshore clients who loves Indian bottoms. It helped me tremendously in not just having multiple bonus but a good lot of learnings both work as well as ***.

I would say, if a bottom plays his cards right with the tops in the senior administration; everything remains in the bottom's favor as well as the work flows smoothly.

Now I am based out of North Goa and do attend to the calls of lust by fulfilling the carnal desires of *** older men; unrestricted.

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CrazyCruiser
Posted On Jun 4, 2021 - 08:54 AM

Tista V. You're basically a prostitute masquerading as a corporate employee, you have zero respect in the industry and your peers, you will never get a job anywhere else because clearly you seem to have no professional skillset. I cannot understand why would you need to come out as a gay AND a bottom when asked about just views on LGBT community, it's like you were implicitly soliciting, but after reading the entire post, it's quite clear that that was intention from the beginning. I'm looking forward to the day when a young twink with a firmer *** is hired and you're let go.

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ricky3636
Posted On Jun 4, 2021 - 09:18 AM

I guess people are just living their fantasies and passing it off as opportunities. In reality no boss is going to jeopardize his position by having *** with an employee...because we all know how that's gonna end. I have worked it two organizations..one where both me and the employer knew about our orientation, but we respected each others privacy and kept it strictly professional. The other organization I knew about my boss but never used that as a stepping stone to success. I was confident of my capabilities. I guess very rarely this whole equation of gay boss...gay employee having great *** happens...atleast in the real corporate world! Unless your drop dead gorgeous and your boss is a Greek God with raging hormones....Again these are just my thoughts and mine alone!!ciao.

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Tista V.
Posted On Jun 4, 2021 - 10:33 AM

Well @CrazyCruiser,

What I did was what I wanted to do in those circumstances because that's what I found best to do. And yes, I had and still have solid skillsets for the related job and I did make profound impact in the industry. Hence, I was never at the receiving end of any jokes as I finished every assignment better than expected. Furthermore, I have always been satisfied and happy with my exploits since everything brought pleasure to me as well as my tops.

And yes, young twinks did think that they would replace me, but they neither had the expertise nor they had the pain-bearing capacity to tolerate the enigma the dominating tops would bring upon them.

;-)

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Murtuzakhan89
Posted On Jun 4, 2021 - 05:12 PM

At my new job at an MNC, my biggest mistake was to switch on Grindr and check guys around me.
I was young and mad *** at the time to think straight from my brain. So I messaged this cutie and next thing you know, we were making out on the staircase. It was hot, but it lasted for that moment. After that, he hits on me openly in front of everyone.
His body language is quite evident of the stereotypical gays that the media portrays and me on the other hand am a straight acting man.
It came to a point where he grabbed my *** on the floor. It started to get annoying and awkward. I wished I hadn't done anything sexual at my job.
I am not open to anyone and that boy seemed like he cared less what people would think of him. So yeah, I had huge regrets later.

Also, the risk of office people knowing your orientation might impact your growth at the organization because of the prejudice of the society towards gays. Typically making them question your capabilities and tagging with labels like incompetent or so on.

My take from the experience is "THE ENTIRE WORLD IS YOUR PLAYGROUND EXCEPT YOUR WORKPLACE". I learnt it the hard way.
And for people having fun at workplace, all I gotta say is that kudos to you and have fun. No judgements here! Every person has a different experience so there's never going to be a right or wrong thing. Just be vigilant, after all you don't want to loose your job or get things awkward.

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MatureGuy
Posted On Jun 5, 2021 - 11:09 AM

This happened when I was working in the UAE. I was quite friendly with my company driver, a Rajasthani muslim in his early 30s. I invited him 4 dinner on many occasions and we spoke about a lot of things other than work. I knew that he enjoyed a drink once in a while and invited him home one weekend. We had a couple of drinks and chatted. I touched his face a couple of times and he didn't seem 2 mind. Wasn't sure if I should proceed since we worked together.Anyways, he cracked a joke and I hugged him from behind whilst laughing. I was wearing boxers without any underwear and hadn't realised that I had a hardon.He felt it and we just looked at each other. I took off my boxers and started unbuttoning his shirt. We were in the raw in the next couple of minutes on the bed. I enjoyed blowing him and he too was totally aroused. I was surprised when he tried 2 ride me. Since I was under the influence I was not rock hard and penetration did not happen. Foreplay continued well over half an hour and he wouldn't ***. I realized I would have 2 bottom 4 him.He did me in the missionary position and the pain was severe since he was well-hung. Luckily the foreplay helped and he came pretty fast. We did it on many occassions after that and each session was great. Coming to the point under discussion, what happened between us stayed between us. We maintained the senior junior protocol in office always. He never once expected or asked 4 anything although I had a very senior position in the company. It was a good relationship and I am still in touch with him after leaving the UAE for good. Hope 2 meet him before my departure to the other world. Had some sessions with a couple of other subordinates as well but they were with consent

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Aadibott2
Posted On Jun 5, 2021 - 11:42 AM

I so agree to @murtuzakhan "THE ENTIRE WORLD IS YOUR PLAYGROUND EXCEPT YOUR WORKPLACE".
I never take any chance at work place and I work inna call center industry trust me you open grinder and you will see lot of familiar faces

So always be careful at work if you really care about your job

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akshatsingh98
Posted On Jun 5, 2021 - 01:01 PM

I guess to each their own. For some its a kink to have *** with an office colleague or boss and for some its a no go zone.
I have never been with a boss but I am into recruitment I have seen a lot of bosses hinting if I can find them a "charming"man for a role who will be willing to travel on conferences etc for them as part of the job. In some cases since i had worked over years for some clients they had openly said they would prefer gay or bisexual men so there is a partner *** professional experience. These business travels sometimes get suspicious between colleagues and bosses. No judgements.

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exposure
Posted On Jun 7, 2021 - 01:04 PM

wow ..when i read all ur experiences i am surprised how i still haven't come across any one in the professional world with such intentions or maybe I didn't realise. But i would prefer to mix both the worlds as the chances of word spreading in corp world are much faster than otherwise.
Handling 1 or 2 is manageable but handling a bunch of them with word spreading is a nightmare ,,,

When i am reading all these amazing and exciting stories I now feel that one of my company's director had started sending me general hetro *** related pics and forwards to check my reaction but then i though he must be trying to find out if i am gay or straight just out of inquisitiveness as i am divorced since few yrs and dont have a gf so to make me a topic of office gossip ( being small minded in such topics ) so i use to some times ignore and at times answer in a more straight position manner ,,,,, now i feel maybe he's trying to find out so he can hit on me for his motives

I had heard abt girls being a victim but never knew that even guys are being hit openly and daringly without being concern abt their rep is everyone comes to know that too at their position in the company. Like Murtaza Khan mentioned.

The saddest part of our society is that they literally kill a living person by being after them to have a gf or a wife and if not to find out where is he going for *** ..... I have gone from an extrovert to an introvert since my divorce as anyone i talk to even generally for friendship n companionship the only thing they do is JUDGE ME and then decide to be friends or no and that is by trying to find out my *** life



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exposure
Posted On Jun 7, 2021 - 01:05 PM

Sorry typo error
But i wouldn't prefer to mix both the worlds

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Enchantedguy13
Posted On Jun 12, 2021 - 10:17 AM

I personally do not see if the guy is colleague or stranger .. as long as we attract each other , nothing wrong making up with collegue .. there was a mallu team member .. I had a eye on him and we liked each other company . One day , we happen to sleep at my house. I tried to feel his handon. Nothing I coudnget . Then I left that attention. A few months later , we happen to drunk togather .. till now i don't remeber what happened that night .. I wake up next day felt something on my *** .. I was blowing his 9 inch.

There was another who is in top level. But he look so good. I used to watch and smile at him. One day we happen to pee at same time .. I finished and was looking if I could see his .... Am really glad that he was showing his .. and he took me that day in his car and made me to blow him

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Slimboys
Posted On Jun 13, 2021 - 03:32 AM

I have same incident.
I am working on client side and there was other team from our mumbai office on that side to.
So company made arrangements to stay at cilent side only.
There was a shared hell with beds. No problem for sleeping.
But in early morning things become like boys hostels 12- 15 member waiting for bathroom, shower.
So I contacted my friend in that location for my staying arrangements then I got I room in pg.

Then next day one of senior member from Mumbai team ask me about my room and said if he can stay with me I said ok and we stay together.

So there is two bed in room and I was stay alone so I join them.
When he come to stay . I started to separate the bed but he said leave it as it is. I said ok.

During this one month period in night he use to cuddle me from behind and some night I have noticed his full *** on my back but I never made a move.
I have scared to take any step.
He was a quite big down there .
But sadly I left the company but I am still in touch with him and he occasionally send me *** clip on WA.

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