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Submitted by Shiningarmour Location: All India (All India, India)

Doesn’t it sound intriguing to be working under a gay boss or knowing that your subordinate is also a gay. Have anyone of you come across this situation? How was your experience working with a gay boss or a gay subordinate

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Posted On Oct 6, 2018 - 06:46 AM

Can anyone suggest me that is it ok if I share my sexualities with my colleague? I am sure he will keep it secret for me. But I am confused to share or not.

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Posted On Oct 6, 2018 - 08:12 AM

I have few Gay colleagues but we don't work in the same team. Had *** with 2 of them. There is on more, but he has not opened with me. I got to see him in Grindr by chance. His appearance and body language is Gay.

My suggestion is it's better not to have *** with colleagues of same team. If in case something goes wrong , there will be no hit.

But it's fun to have Gay friends around with whom you can meet n talk anytime during break.

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Posted On Oct 6, 2018 - 08:56 AM

Better not to have sexual relationship with anybody at work. It may cost your job.

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Posted On Oct 6, 2018 - 11:02 AM

Have seen gay and lesbian bosses at client side. At project it is good to have a bottom friend so we can talk about hot guys in the floor...having *** in same project may take away fun...i m happy to drink with eyes the hotties than *** in real

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Posted On Oct 6, 2018 - 05:40 PM

My super senior boss is a gay, I know he is a gay but he doesn't know about me.

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Posted On Oct 6, 2018 - 07:10 PM

There is a saying "NEVER MIX BUSINESS AND PLEASURE". It would be a recipe for disaster for both. It's better to follow the "ASK NOT TELL NOT" policy mostly adapted in many corporates when it comes to sexual orientation.

Though I had accidentally discovered two of my bosses though I wasn't a direct reportee to them. In one case I found a manager in PR who had pinged but I just ignored him and always avoided any eye contact with him. In another case, the guy who was my senior at work and also a friend. This was the most embarrassing situation. The day I discovered he was a gay I started to even doubt the reasons for our friendship. For almost 6 months until that project was over I never told him what I had found out but I became wary of his casual touches or comments while at work. Later one fine day when I moved to a different project I invited him for a coffee and told everything. Since he was my senior at work, I had a regard for him as more of an elder brother and so I told I never had any gay feelings for him and let this never spoil our friendship.

Working under a gay boss could be both an advantage or a biggest advantage. But the outcome in both cases in long term will always be disadvantageous.

-> If the feelings are mutual it's advantageous to have a gay boss but in long term when others find you both it would be disadvantage
-> If the feelings are not mutual it is worst disadvantage. Cos when you discourage the sexual advances of ur gay boss who is aware that you are also gay becomes a case of sexual harassment.

So better work while you work and play while you play. Never mix both

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Posted On Oct 7, 2018 - 03:51 AM

well said Valentine84...
yes, it can work in either way. sometimes its good to have colleagues of same interest. but when it comes to boss, it can go in any direction. As long as understanding is smooth between two are good, its good, otherwise we never know.. it depends on matured mind of people involved...
but I did have few colleagues.. though not from same project, but from same company.. and its good to sit together and comment on guys around during coffee/tea break. Once in a while we meet casually for a coffee break too..

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Posted On Oct 7, 2018 - 05:13 AM

For me, it is same if you have
1. Gay Boss, Gay Colleague
2. Gay Friend, Gay guy in friend circle
3. Gay guy in my housing society
4. Gay worker at my shop, my friends shop, my house help...

I find the things risky, if the gay guy has any linkage to me, other than sexual.

Now a days Very few people are there who have good in heart, who think that let us not mix *** and work... Specially when they are in position where they can gain something from other gay guy.
What I mean, if that guy is in office, he may start asking for favors on professional front. If he is relative or worker or house help or low standard guy, he may start asking u for financial favors, and the riskiest thing is, he may ask for sexual favors, even if u don't like him anymore. If he is BI or STR8 (We all try STR8s too, don't we), he will ask for *** with females of your house.

May be I have exasarated it a bit, this is my opinion. I try to follow this as much as possible.
It is not like I have done with colleagues, neighbours, relatives, house helps, etc... But I have made sure that they don't get the feel that I have crush on them and I will do favors to them or they are in upper hand situation to blackmail me somehow.
So far, I have been safe.

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Posted On Oct 7, 2018 - 08:03 AM

I met one guy on facebook before 5-6years. He is officer in fire brigade. We are had many times. Before few days he ask me to join his business. I'm getting confuse what should I do. I know everything about him means his family home n all still not understand what should I do!!!!

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Posted On Oct 7, 2018 - 08:10 AM


I don't know if there is a PRIVATE FIRE BRIGADE service in India. May be talking about his other business.

Coming to rest of the things from your post.
If he has been found genuine so far, he must be good and harmless only.
If he is asking you to join his business as an employee, it is fine.
If he is asking you to join his business as partner, by investing money, I would suggest not to do so.

Money has power to spoil every relation, whichever exists on this earth.

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Posted On Oct 7, 2018 - 11:04 AM

He is fire brigade officer I saw many times he is on that fire brigade vehicle and he have his own other business he wants to I join his company as employee
He told me many times he never had *** with any other guy except me. He always trust me
I told him to search job for me so he told u work at my company n don't worry about salary n all this thing

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Posted On Oct 7, 2018 - 11:23 AM

My 1st boss was a bisexual guy!
I was a struggler wen I just passed out my engg!
I had a kind hearted friend who offered me this job, I had met him tro planet Romeo!
N believe it or not he turned out to be a CEO of this company!
*** was just 1st time wen we met. He became a mentor for me so much so that 6 yrs after I quit the company still a guide n a well wisher!
We often indulge in phone *** these days:)

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Posted On Oct 7, 2018 - 11:31 AM

@Manish2322 and @WeWake
It is really great to hear. Very few persons are there like your boss (would be) and your exboss, respectively.
I must say that we should also respect such people and should never think of taking advantage of such people in the life.
Such people are gems and having true gems in a person's life is like gift of god.
Betraying them means one is really selfish to the highest extent.
God bless them.

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Posted On Oct 8, 2018 - 08:42 AM

never had immediate boss but i think having gay colleagues is good... u can talk enjoy and discuss other hotties in office....

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Posted On Oct 8, 2018 - 11:42 AM

one shouldnt mix up things...

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Posted On Oct 9, 2018 - 06:04 AM

i think its personal choice of individual... I personally love to have someone in office..... boss.. colleague....

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Posted On Oct 10, 2018 - 07:07 PM

nice topic. I will share my exp here. I worked in bpo in the year 2011. chennai. one day me and my manager who is a mallu went for coffee. while coming the lift was pack and i use to stand in front of him, facing back. I felt his *** erected and touching my ***. I just kept my hand and to check and its bulged so hard. hmmm i was very happy, coz i had crush on him. Wen we came out of the lift he said one girl is so good and he was ***. felt very upset. but i feel he lied, coz i didnt find any sexy girl in that lift.
he is still in countact with me, but i am feared to express my feeling, not to spoil the relation. I saw him nude when we all went for outing. marina beach

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Gentleman Sam
Posted On Oct 10, 2018 - 07:48 PM

I was working for a small tech firm in saki naka andheri. My boss was in his 50's, well built, hairy like a bear.
He used to walk upto me evertime when i was alone and used to touch his *** to my *** creek or my hand. He had a big bulge always . I used to always enjoy his touch. On seeing him, i uaed to get a hard on. We tried a lot to get to a secular place, but wasnt able to. Nothing worked with us . He relocated to USA and im left with his fantasies.

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Posted On Oct 10, 2018 - 08:21 PM

I had a bi techie working at my law firm.
Really smart and handsome. Every time I had any issue at all with my laptop or network I would ping me.
And i used to work late in the evening so it would be just me and him.

He would always stand up-close and 'many' times gently rub his throbbing *** on my arm.
That went on for a while until one fine day in the conference room I mustered up the courage to grab his ***.
He sat right next to me and returned the favor.
After a little bit of fondling each other he went down on me under the table, I had to literally stop myself from moaning out loud, he was that good !

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Posted On Oct 11, 2018 - 04:48 AM

Now with the #metoo movement, all this boss-employee thing will come to almost a halt or not completely.

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Posted On Oct 11, 2018 - 05:04 AM

Metoo doesn't matter for us gay people. Though there may be many cases of exploitation.

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Posted On Oct 11, 2018 - 07:27 AM

After completing BE I joined an MNC firm in Mumbai. A fair and decent looking Delhi guy was working there as BD Manager. He was not my boss but i often need to interact with him regarding project related work. As he was very straight acting guy so didn't try flirting too. I used to have talk with him only work related part. But once I was logging in over PR through mobile and suddenly he got there. Immediately I hide screen of mobile and started conversations with him. As our discussion was going on suddenly very straight forwardly mentioned that " Koi Mila PR pe" I got shocked and speechless. He observed my affraid condition and in next moment he showed me his PR profile over his mobile. We had much discussion regarding our likes, preference, fantasy fun etc. Next day I was in company gym post office hours, he got there, smiled and starrted his work out. I got that he had some naughty intesion in his mind. That time we just four guys there only in gym. Once we done with our exercise we moved to shower stall. He mentioned there one surprise there and just in few moments other two guys who was there at gym floor got there at shower stall. Just in few minutes they three started kissing and *** there. Again I got shocked as I was watching live *** first time in my life. Well later I also joined them I experienced first BJ of life from him. Was very havenly experience. He already had 2-3 PR friends there in office and he used to do such activities there in office campus. Later also I found him having fun in mini conference room. His favorite part is under table ***. He was always up *** and getting *** under table. He was very lusty hunk. I also enjoyed whole night nude fun once in company guest house.

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Posted On Oct 20, 2018 - 07:24 PM

Guys this happened to me few years back. A student of mine somehow got the suspicion I am gay. Slowly he started giving signals like rubbing his *** against my hand etc. I gave him a stern stare and with that he stopped. He was in his early 20's from a rural background and of my type. But right from beginning as valentine pointed out I decided not to mix profession and fun together. Just before he completed his course I realized he had a girl friend. Then he had a difference of opinion with me and started bad mouthing about me. Since I have always been a strict disciplinarian at work everybody supported me. Just imagine if I would have fallen for his seduction my career would have been screwed. Most top persons who are being named in #metoo would have fallen for deduction or consensual *** but are being victimized by their subordinates at a latter time point. So be very careful.

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Posted On Oct 23, 2018 - 09:06 AM

I met my boss in PR.. That was epic night. I always had a little crush on him. He was drunk and was looking for someone in PR. He sent me his pic if I would be interested. He didn't know about me. I was totally shocked to see his pic as he was married and I never expected. I was totally confused if I should tell him my identity and I finally told. He was so much embarrassed that he logged off and called me immediately. That was a little awkward moment then it became totally fine and finally we had ***. I always thought of having *** with him and saw his massive ***. Wow! that was amazing night. I can't forget.

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Posted On Oct 29, 2018 - 08:46 AM

My boss is gaytop and I have good relationships with him. He doesn't mix it with work and no compromise on duty, so our gay love is going smooth.

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Posted On Nov 3, 2018 - 11:25 AM

I got my first job due to a sexual encounter with my future boss.
We had met through a common friend. He mentioned that his workplace had a few openings and could refer me.

Fortunately or unfortunately I landed in his team right under him.
Funnily we kept our *** and work life separate. Never let them cross over.
When we were having *** we were just friends with benefits and in office we were boss and employee.
Still in touch with him even though he is settled in his life and working elsewhere.

Guess it's all up to how we handle the situation.

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Posted On Nov 22, 2018 - 11:17 PM

I never have feelings for people of my working department and of my society.

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Posted On Nov 25, 2018 - 01:34 AM

I m also having a liking for my office boy let me tell u he is having amazing *** it's like we are so close to each other he is quite younger then me so consider him like my bacha only we know each other since day one and the day he joined i m having liking for him. So we had lot of amazing body *** sessions like lot of cuddles, kisses,smooches,hj, nipple biting playing with each other ***. So i just like him a lot. Though we had a lot of fights before I mean office politics now scenario is totally different we care a lot for each other we chat a lot pull leg of each other a lot. We really both enjoy all this.

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Posted On Oct 20, 2019 - 04:42 AM

I recently joined an IT firm. My mentor is really handsome and i have crush on him since beginning. I never showed it to him as i considered him straight and he has a girlfriend. We have become really good friends and we hang out all the time. I really like to be around him.

This once we had to go to another city for work and we shared a hotel room and bed. I saw him in his boxers and he looked really hot when he came out of shower. Later in the night I cuddled really close to him and put my arm on his chest. He turned towards me and put his arm and leg around me. We were really close and i could smell his aroma. We slept like that only. When we woke up we pretended to be normal.

Now my feelings for him are stronger. I am really confused whether I should express my feelings to him or not.

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Posted On Oct 20, 2019 - 05:53 AM

@prayag : don't do anything silly. Don't tell him, wait for the next opportunity to be really close to him. Then your hand will land innocently on his crotch and see the reaction. Pretend to sleep in the process, so he a) enjoys it and will arouse, b), will move away. If the latter, you were in your sleep... Then complicity will help.

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Posted On Oct 20, 2019 - 08:56 AM

Most experiences at work places are to be taken for time pass and nothing serious. Generally, people don't reveal themselves at work atmosphere with a fear on how it would impact their professional image if things go wrong. Very very rarely you find colleagues looking for love/relation.

So, my advice to guys on this post is even if you want to enjoy with you colleague, proceed with a mind set that it will be a NSA activity. If something meaningful develops, well and good.

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Posted On Oct 20, 2019 - 10:20 AM

Guys don't hug each other while sleeping in bed unless there is sexual attraction. U like hin and evidently he likes u too. But such relationship are in hands of time one opportunity.
Don't try anything rash or sudden. Just be honest and repeat what u did last time. If his responce remains same then he is in for the game. The old school put your hand on his crotch unknowingly in sleep always works. If u feel his thing growing under your palm, he is your man if not then u were asleep. If u see the green light, u can turn around away from him and try pushing your bottom towards him 'once'. Don't try hard, don't be desparate.
Good luck

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Posted On Oct 20, 2019 - 09:03 PM

Hugging and flirting is healthy continue it, daru helps a lot to open up partner feelings

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Posted On Jan 18, 2020 - 08:29 AM

My boss/ mentor is getting married later this year with his GF. My love for him has gotten stronger. I feel something is missing whenever he's not around. I wish I was a girl so I could marry him and spend my life with him.
But here I am who can't even tell him how much i want him.

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Posted On Jan 18, 2020 - 08:32 AM

I personally feel there is no dos or don'ts in this .. Depends on the person with whom we connect with .. Best feel being with boss during office .. I had with boss but I never crossed my limits .. Risks exists everywhere .. once I had to go with my boss for a tour and had a nice time

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Posted On Dec 25, 2020 - 06:56 PM

To be honest, I'm benificary of this. My boss is gay top.
Its all started by our company outing. We were in a pool and i was wearing shorts. While everyone was having fun i noticed my boss had touched my *** 3,4 times. Then he got behind me and hold me from back as if was unintentional. I noticed he was some how trying to rub his *** at my ***.
As a bottom i was enjoying it and then i made a move. I got in such positions that his *** could get at my ***. And for few more days there were few more indications and at last we knew what we want.
From that day he fucks me often. Buys me lots of gifts. Got me bikini, lip sticks, wig. Waxed my body.
He fucks me at least once in week and i *** his *** almost every day.
Yes i get lots of benifits like bonus, paid leaves🤗.
So having a top boss is a bless.

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Posted On Dec 27, 2020 - 07:27 AM

On a serious note we should have a portal for gays only position who are well educated vbut cant go though the meanialities of day to day. We as well provide diversity to the company.

Please let me know opportunities in hyderabad. I am highly educated and adapts quickly. Please i ready to stay on incubation perion for 6 months.

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Posted On Dec 27, 2020 - 07:32 AM

However i understand the comments like:

"People come here not to employ"
"*** people here cares a *** about your well being and employability"
"Once the guy shags off he wont even return to this site for a week or so"
"Why woulfd one risk of exposing himself have u hired on a platform like this... If at all this is is just counter productive"

All are true and Imunderstand these perspectibes. But i hopeful. One good day ! Miracles do.happen arpund xmas ! And I wish one !!

Happy holidays . Be gay Be happy. :)

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Posted On Jan 1, 2021 - 06:40 AM

This happened to me when I just got a job in an advertising firm in Mumbai that too through my then friends for benefits boy friend.
Very chilled out work environment, like no dress code.
Since it's Mumbai and because of the humid weather & no one knew me there on a personal level I use to always wear like tight shorts which were short in length too 😜 & like a loose fit thin almost translucent tee’s to work of any where I went with sneakers.
Same I use to wear for work, it was obvious to everyone there I was gay, this happened like 2.5 months into my work when the company got a new investor for a very big AD project, well I did notice many a times my project head use to look at me not in that romantic way but in a very reducing kinda looks.
I use to log out of to the gym on the first floor of the office building & come back to the office to take a shower & change, this day I did the same came back took my shower and was in my panties in the changing room because I know no one was around in the office ( I wear panties to work ) I was standing and bent over & was applying moisture on my legs someone catches my by my waist and I would feel his hard *** in my booty crack & he turns me around to face him & it's my project head before I would say anything he started kissing me & I did not even stop him as he kisses me *** on my nipples , turned me around bit my ***, pulled my panties down and starter rimming me and before I knew it I was so turned on we had *** like two rabbits.
I had *** with him like almost 4-5 times a week in office after that in the office after everyone left.

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Posted On Jan 2, 2021 - 08:35 AM

I had a bi trainer when I joined one well-known IT company in Bangalore.
We used to chit chat in breaks ..go for tea/coffee together but we never discussed about *** ..when I left that company,I got msg from him asking about my orientation and then we opened up .
Unfortunately he is not there with us now..it was very sad to hear about his suspicious death ...
I always miss him as he was a very good trainer, charming personality and very helpful mentor

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Posted On Jan 22, 2021 - 09:40 AM

This was with my part time job time
When I was studying I was doing job in a small office start up making project for other students like that so some students where married means they where doing masters after their few job experience
Their age was more than me I was around 20 and they where around 28-30 I was doing diploma with part time job making project
We made our own office we where arround 3 and there where many student who came to buy project from us.
One day 2 people came around 26 years both and it was early morning as we where opening the office they want a project related hardware so we discussed all abut project budget so they fixed next day again they came one was fit amd other was slim
When we where discussing I saw that slim was touching tool of muscular one inside pant it was continuous half an hour above when I standup he removed his hand but I saw tool and he put tool inside back
Then other students came so I didn't told anything to them after office we gone to hostel back
As we where staying at hostel we three of them created office as well as we where three where room mates and we three are bi so I told them when we where talking slim was doing this with muscular
We three do sometimes in a week in hostel itself at night so we felt hory and we done again at night three**** then again other day we closed as it was cleaning day of office then those two came that time there was no college so they where in 3/4th and their height was near 5:5 and our height was around 6
We closed door and locked and we asked them openly we asked slim why you touch tool of muscular he told sorry then we told tell openly then he told he love boy tool and all
So we told we also do and we three that two we done for 2-3 hours inside office he was only bottom we made him versatil and we done fivesme and we enjoyed a lot

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Posted On May 30, 2021 - 05:00 PM

I worked in organization where my boss was top. Things unfolded in such a way that we got into sexual relation. It was for more than 2 yrs.
I got lots of advantages like incentives and all.
He really liked me cding in bikini and sarees.it was like a *** and master relation.
I used to stay at his vacant apartment through out weekend where he used to bang me.
Things went on then he convinced me for gangbang where he use to get his friends and have big gangbang party.
This covid has changed the time. Eagerly waiting for that fun again.

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Posted On May 31, 2021 - 05:10 AM

havent come under this situation.. but having gay boss might become disaster in case if terms or wavelength doesnt match.. though it would lead to some nice timing sometime..

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Posted On May 31, 2021 - 07:33 PM

working for a gay boss would sound great BUT it will never last. he is the BOSS and you are his disposable worker. the situation is not on equal level. as for your boss making you to service his friends....??? are you a prostitute? find some self respect and then others will respect you! find someone who loves you for being you and NOT TAKE advantage of you.

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Posted On May 31, 2021 - 10:10 PM

If I am Gay boss, I definitely don't force anything on my team member. I don't mind having an affair with him if naturally we get attracted to each other. But he shouldn't be taking any advantage due to our relationship. But this applies to straights as well. I have heard and see many affairs and relationships between a straight manager and his team member (women)

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Posted On Jun 1, 2021 - 06:10 AM

ITs good fantacy, would like to join such organization :D with both person making it mutually :)

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Posted On Jun 1, 2021 - 11:54 AM

I have a reportee who is handsome, we drank together many times and quite frank, he is straight. One time we got drunk too much and I just touched his *** which was fully erect, big one. I touched once only, then moved to other place considering my official reputation. For next 2-3 weeks lil uncomfortable to connect but behaved normal. Now around 2 years over for that incident and we are still in same team may be for 6 months more. We connect regularly on daily basis for work and other discussions. I only want to see him fully nude once or may be Handjob that’s all, no ***.
how can I approach without damaging reputation.

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Posted On Jun 1, 2021 - 12:01 PM

i used to be a trainer and have seduced 3 of my handsome trainees. for that u have to be first very friendly with them. being elder helps

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Posted On Jun 2, 2021 - 09:17 AM

first dong be desperate, your chance wl come
second, be naturally friendly without showing any gay inclinations
third, get their confidence on you
fourth u can try sleeping on same bed at nyt.. n start by hugging or lying on boys lap n touching... or try bathing together
boys once aroused... rest is easy

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Posted On Jun 3, 2021 - 04:59 AM

@ elder51forboys I have done with several straight guys... but I liked what you said, but I guess I am missing from ur fourth statement which says, try sleeping on same bed at night? Until confidence - yes, I echo you bro...

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