Falling in love with a straight guy

We often fall in love with a straight guy, we know that he can't be ours ever. but still we get emotionally attached to that person.

In my case, I fall in love with a straight guy, I'm very much emotionally attached to him, my entire mood depends on how he treats me.

One text from him makes my day, if I don't see him one day, I feel like dieing

It's like one sided love where I'm an overthinker with overlove, overcare and gets overhurt too.

And this love is never reciprocated.

Have you ever got attached to anyone who is straight and how did you get this love forward?

Will he ever understand me?

What will happen if I confess him?

Will my friendship be broken too. Will he distance from me after knowing that it's not only just true friendship but also a true one sided love.

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No Picture Vayavya	Posted On Jul 3, 2025 It’s been twenty years, but I can still feel the flutter in my chest thinking about him—my upstairs neighbor, ten years older, and so damn gorgeous it hurt. He worked the late shift at some call center, coming home at 2 a.m., and I’d stay up just to catch a glimpse. I’d hover by the door, eye glued to the peephole, waiting for him to pass by. God, he was sexy—tall, confident, with this effortless charm. I never said a word to him; I was too shy, too caught up in my own head. It was all one-sided, this quiet, burning love I carried. Those moments when I saw him? Pure magic, the highlight of my day. One night, I caught him in a tight vest, and I swear I didn’t sleep a wink—my heart was racing, replaying every detail. I’d dream up whole conversations, whole lives with him, all in my head. Never knew his name, but I didn’t need to; he was everything. I’d wait by that door like a lovesick kid, heart pounding. Sometimes I’d hear his footsteps and just smile like an idiot. It’s crazy how those fleeting glimpses stuck with me. Even now, I can see his face clear as day. I wonder if he ever noticed me staring through that peephole. That crush, that unspoken ache—it’s still part of me. Twenty years later, and I’m still a little in love with him. Those nights were my secret, my happiest moments. I hope he’s out there, still turning heads without knowing it.
No Picture Drillmyhole26	Posted On Jul 4, 2025 Painful thread. I have so many heart crushing experiences. Don't have words to share :(
No Picture Sky_lvr	Posted On Jul 5, 2025 I got mixed up with a guy. Literally went mad. Now much better. For context, I'm from an messed up household with MAJOR daddy issues. This guy is my colleague, 4 yrs elder to me. Fair, with mush, very good looking, great body shape, toned, just between lean and muscled. i used to check him out. But what attracted him to me was how bold yet caring he was. We bonded over smoke breaks, ice burst cigarette. A few days into our friendship, as soon as I found out he was married, i stopped seeing him as a mere sexy guy. I only saw him as a respected mentor. A year later i came out to him. I told him, "I don't want you to find out from a third party and think I've hidden this from you". He warned me, "Don't trust others and tell them like how you've told me". For the next three years, we were inseparable. He always called me whenever he needed to travel for work. He always asked me for feedback or advice. He had a problematic marriage and i always adviced him about being more understanding and patient with his wife. She seemed like such a silly, unappreciative girl. Meanwhile I asked him for every single decision. Being a man in the world is so confusing, when to fight, when to smile when someone irritated us, when to walk away, when to help. So much good advice he gave me. He was the guy who took me to the gym. He was the guy who taught me to drive a car late at night in traffic. He was the guy that taught me how to dress (pant/shirt combinations).I told him, "Neenga Enakku anna maadhiri" (your kinda like my elder brother). He was the dad/older brother i wish i had. Everyone at work would smile when they saw us hanging out. He would sit close to me, even if there wasn't a chair near by, he'd bring a chair and sit. Then came the whore. Long story short, he got very close to a girl in our work place, inappropriately close. I didn't like it. Couldn't ignore it. So he started punishing me. At first, flaunting her infront of me. I can't get into the specifics. It disturbs me even now. She was related to the boss, who i thought was like a second mother to me. So when my blood constantly kept manipulating me, i kept listening to her and trying convince myself that I was over reacting. (My boss didn't want her relative girl to be seen as a ***, so she felt, if i remained close to him even thought they both behaved disgustingly, then others will stop gossiping) The next next few months were torture. Very soon we stopped all talking. I would burst into tears when i suddenly saw him smiling at her, like how he used to smile at me. Feeding her, disgustingly, sitting next to her even though there wasn't a place, one he came into the gym, saw me and left. Each time i was about to cry, of calmly wall into the bathroom and cry. Then wash my face and walk out. Tearing up as i type this. I tried so hard to be strong and ignore. But that dammed boys of mine kept convincing me that i was the reason for the falling out of our friendship. So if go back to him and beg him to forgive me. He would stay talking very very little. And then the whore would come between us and he would punish me by preferring her over me, publically. And after a few days of torture I'd stop taking, then my boss will convince me. This *** cycle happened 4-6 times. Each time i got more and more mentally ill. Then corona came. I was suicidal. Got myself into therapy at a famous mental hospital, secretly, because my family is of no support to me. He knew all this, didn't call me even once. Didn't ask how i was doing, not even once. At therapy, my psychiatrist (God bless that man, Dr Arun Bagayam Psych unit 3) helped me realise, i wasn't missing him like a wife missing her husband who abandoned her after finding a second wife, i was missing him like a son after his father abandoned him after finding a second wife. He was using me financially, he was using me like a leach *** blood. I still feel he was very sweet to me. My i, as a boy who never knew a stable, nurturing family, i will always be a possessive abuser as a possessive master. Then, everything changed. She got married..... To a guy who looked like me..... Good first name was something, but his middle name was my name. She event around calling herself Mrs.(My name). The whore was actually in love with me ( a gay guy, what a dumbfuck ***). She did all this to get me to *** her. And this idiot chose her over me.... Corona ended, she had left. Two years later he committed sucide because she had another affair, he left her with two daughters. I'm not happy at her condition. But I'm not sad for her either. Five years have passed. He tried talking to me, not apologetically, more like, "that's old story you're still thinking of that" thevvudiya baadus! Told fun to *** off. Once in a while, i catch him looking at me earnestly. Now I walk away of i see him. I leave the room if he enters. I still miss him so so so so very much. But the man i miss is the mask this guy wore. He was never real. I still go to therapy. No longer under medication. Life is good. Take care brothers. I hope i have helped someone with my testimony.
No Picture Sky_lvr	Posted On Jul 5, 2025 P.s i used to me so scared of people finding out I'm gay. This guy told my colleagues I'm gay. They all belive him, especially coz I'm 35 and unmarried. But they respect me more than they respect him. I no longer tell new friends about my sexuality. And I'm no longer scared that people know. They all pretend like they don't know and treat me as always, but with a distance. He can't hurt me anymore.
Dreamybott	Posted On Jul 5, 2025 @Sky_lvr stay stronger buddy, it was so emotional bd heartfelt event, most of the queer ppl have faced such situations and its truly painful at times.
No Picture Sky_lvr	Posted On Jul 5, 2025 In a society that doesn't know difference between a gay man and a saree wearing transgender (no offence or disrespect) how can we explain the difference between strong love and romantic love? Thanks for understanding bro.
No Picture mr_lonely_soul	Posted On Jul 5, 2025 @Sky_Ivr, Sad to read your life incident. Though I don't understand why you would *** shame her for either wanting you or him. Maybe I don't know the whole story or her perspectives. But I am glad you have found a gay partner and in a happy relationship. He definitely can't hurt you anymore. There is a breed of human beings, who will insert themselves into other people's lives, make others like and depend on them by displaying a fake version of themselves (the version that you will like and fall for), then they will just simply abandon us once they are bored of us or once they find a different prey. They think that this manipulative behavior is smart. Human beings can be the best or worst. Unfortunately most people choose to be the worst. Even movies these days normalize and celebrate "heroes" who would have definitely been antagonists few years back. I have very little hope left to find good people to be friends with. I don't even have an emergency contact now. It used to be my gay best friend who I thought would be my BFF for life. But once his life became better and got other fancy people to hang out with, he just left me all alone even after knowing my physical and mental health issues and knowing that he was my only friend. Sometimes I think about it in the middle of the night "Why would he do that to me after everything I had done for him? I was there for him when nobody else did". Some people just like to watch the world burn and my world was already pretty small :) I am the same age as you are, 35. I am genuinely happy for you man. Hope you guys stay together against this world filled with cheaters, liars and people filled with just lust.
No Picture OshoBaadu	Posted On Jul 5, 2025 @Sky_lvr, Thanks for the wonderful read. It was a Wow moment to realize how closely all of our stories resonate with each other. I am really glad you are out of your medication.
No Picture Viraj_vb	Posted On Jul 5, 2025 @vayavya... Dude same here. Yeh wali onsided story special hoti hai. Like and admire your love 👍
No Picture rajeev1301	Posted On Jul 7, 2025 How to save the only friendship you have which means a lot for you but your friend has made his mind of leaving you? If that person leaves you then you will be back to emptiness, loneliness
No Picture Kkhan	Posted On Jul 9, 2025 @Rajeev1301 Bhai tum Akele nahi bacha sakte jub tak wo bhi na chahe Koi bhi rishta Dunya me dono side se chalta h na ki one side se bus Mera opinion to h ki agar ja raha h to Jane do us ke Jane se itni takleef nahi hogi jitni wo Sath reh kar dega
No Picture Cuddle bear	Posted On Jul 13, 2025 At the time I was still trying to understand myself, he came into my life. Raj was his name. We met on some Yahoo chat then shared numbers and started talking. He gave me complete freedom to ask him about everything - his past, his journey, his experiences. The more I understood him, the more I felt attracted to him. I felt like he was the only person who understands me. I started imagining a life together with him. He also used to encourage me but he was very clear that he will have to marry a girl to fulfill the expectations of his parents and the society. He eventually got married and advised me to do the same for the sake of society. I just could not picture myself marrying a girl. Even after getting married, he still wanted to have "fun " with me. Somehow it felt wrong now after he was married. I still loved and respected him so I couldn't say no. I just kept postponing it and finally I told him the truth. He still pursued me for 2-3 years but I was firm. Eventually he deleted my number and left me alone. I still miss those long phone conversations, those naughty things we did and his comforting presence. PS: he wanted me to be part of a threesome with his transgender friend. I hated the thought but actually considered it for some time just because of him. I guess because of this experience, I never find a married guy attractive. I mean I fancy them but if I find they are married, I immediately lose interest.
No Picture Thehairychub	Posted On Jul 14, 2025 I met him at work, through a mutual friend. We were from different departments, but we clicked almost immediately. He was short, muscular, gym-toned, and confident—the kind of guy who turns heads without trying. We started talking more, hanging out often. Movies, lunches, shopping trips—it became a routine. He’d always take me along when he needed to shop, and I often ended up paying. Not that I minded. I genuinely liked being around him. His energy, his vibe—it was comforting. Over time, without even realizing it, I started falling for him. Slowly, I became emotionally attached. I found myself going the extra mile—literally and emotionally. I was always there when he needed money, a ride, or someone to vent to. I became his personal rider, his errand guy, his emotional support. One day, he asked, “Why do you show me so much love and affection? Why not save that for your girlfriend or future wife?” So, I told him the truth: “I like you. Maybe I even love you.” His response? “Are you gay? Don’t you feel anything for girls? Don’t you get an *** with women?” That stung. It was harsh, dismissive, and deeply invalidating. After that, I slowly started to pull away. But even then, I still cared. On his birthday, I traveled in the rain—miles across the city—with a fruit cake and a few thoughtful gifts. I knew he was into fitness, so I chose a cake that matched his health habits. A T-shirt, a coffee mug, and a few small things I knew he’d like. He smiled, accepted the gifts, cut the cake, and I left. Eventually, our company shut down. Life moved on. He got married and had kids. He invited me to his wedding, but I didn’t go. I couldn’t. We lost touch after that. Still, every year on his birthday, I’d email him. Just a simple wish. We didn’t have each other’s numbers anymore, but I held on to that email thread. It became my quiet ritual. Last year, though, I didn’t message him. Not because I forgot—but because I didn’t feel like it. He noticed. He emailed me, asking what happened. “No message this year? No mission?” I gave him a casual reply, said I’d been busy, and wished him anyway. A few months ago, he called me out of the blue. Asked how I was. Said we should catch up. He called again later, said he was passing by my area, asked if we could meet. I didn’t. I said I was out for work. And truthfully, I was... but also, I wasn’t ready. Over the years, I’ve gone through anxiety, depression, and the long road of healing. Therapy helped. Medication helped—for a while. I had to stop at one point because I felt myself growing dependent on it. But I’ve started again now, with better awareness and better support. I’m trying to heal, slowly and honestly. When he called and asked to meet, I felt a familiar fear—not of him, but of the loop. The emotional loop I had worked so hard to escape. The one filled with hope, hurt, and confusion. I didn’t want to go back there. We talked a bit. He asked if I was married. I told him I wasn’t. I even said I had loved someone once, someone who’s now married with kids. Maybe he understood I was talking about him. Maybe not. He said he’d find a girl for me. Said I should get married. I didn’t say anything. And honestly? That silence was louder than anything I could’ve replied with. I still don’t know why he reached out after all these years. Maybe curiosity. Maybe guilt. Maybe just boredom. But I know this: I’ve come too far in my healing to let old wounds reopen. Not every story needs closure. Some friendships don’t need a reunion. And some love stories… are better left unfinished
No Picture Grandios	Posted On Jul 14, 2025 @thehairychub I know exactly what you went through. As I went through the same pain.
No Picture Thehairychub	Posted On Jul 14, 2025 @Grandios "I’m sorry you had to go through that too. It’s not easy, but I guess in time, we both will find ways forward."
No Picture BigHoover	Posted On Jul 14, 2025 @Thehairychub .. so touching. You write extremely well. I am overwhelmed.
No Picture Thehairychub	Posted On Jul 14, 2025 @BigHoover You're too kind. Just trying to put feelings into words.
No Picture ManMode	Posted On Jul 14, 2025 @Thehairychub: Very touching. Can understand what you are going through. Some times we have to live with a vacuum. But the fact is... we dont know why we fall for people who cannot reciprocate our feeling. I understand that is Love. I lookout for a like minded friend. However, at end I find and am used and thrown. Feelings are never reciprocated. I think that is the truth of every emotional person. Stay Strong. There is always a light at the end of the tunnel.
No Picture Mesmerize	Posted On Jul 14, 2025 @Thehairychub "Some friendships don't need a reunion and some love stories are better left unfinished". Golden words required to maintain our sanity. Very well written buddy.
No Picture FurryChubbFeast	Posted On Jul 14, 2025 @the hairy chub yeah falling in love with a straight guy is a big no no .. i too had this experience in my life.. very painful . Hope you are doing well now .
No Picture rajeev1301	Posted On Jul 14, 2025 I'm currently going through the same @Thehairychub But I kept overthinking and crying when he said he can't stay with me for more than a few months. He says mujhe ghanta farak nahi padta life me koi rahe ya na rahe, whoever it could be. How can be someone so paththar dil? . Still I felt that I should make these days memorable and someday if this is going to end, I will confess him that I am in love with him. Don't know what will happen after I tell him this?
No Picture Ruhanruhan	Posted On Jul 14, 2025 The same case is with me....Very painful experience...Since my last 15 years a man of 74 years loves me very much and me too... We came in contact through social media...He is much far from me...Our both families knows that we love very much to each other's .... The problem is that he is strait and I am a bisexuql... I can't express myself though he loves me very much...
No Picture lets_do_it_safe	Posted On Jul 14, 2025 There is a super hot guy in my gym and he works out 💪 in sleeveless t-shirt and his muscles 💪 are so defined he is not bulky but lean fit exactly my type , tall has abs and lean muscles i can’t help but look at him sheesh he is damn hot but I can’t say anything ik he is straight
No Picture Unknown2023	Posted On Jul 15, 2025 Yes, for me it happened. When I was studying in school I met him. He is my neighbour, age around 45 army man. At 1st meet itself I fallen in love with him. Yearly 2 times he came for vacation at the time i never stay in my house. I always in my terrace waiting for him presence. After few years he started to speak me like friend. I showed my love indirectly lot of time but he never understand that. Even 1 or 2 time I accidentally touched his *** but he took that casually. After 4 to 5 years I can't able to control myself so I started to text my likes indirectly with some gay adult jokes. He blocked me and completely avoided me . It's too hurts me. It happened 5 years ago now he retired and staying here only ( next to my house) but he completely avoided me. He said this into his family also so they also completely avoiding me. Now he is 55 Still I love him. It's almost 18 years love
No Picture VersTopAndheri	Posted On Jul 16, 2025 It happen to me as well. Can't even guess what is his intentions. We were in same company, he liked my company, always teasing me and clicking my pics, don't even go for lunch without me, I started getting attracted to him but he was having 2-3 gfs also, he discusses with me everything that time even about girlfriends and breakups. He always wants me to check his status and stories on insta and whenever I don't see he comes and shows me. If I don't call then he calls asks what happened and all. Things got more when he started saying me that he has 6 inch *** and also his thickness too many times. Also once he said that one oldman once asked him about gifts to which he replied that I don't want anything.... He usually talks about gay stuffs with me like "me kal hukka pine gaya tha to waha andar gay party chalu thi" then he started asking me about my intrest as I am little effiminate... He gets jealous when I discuss about my other friends and my close ones. He always wants to know everything about me (whom I call, whom I talk, what I talk everything) We used to roam around hands in hands. He used to care about me and same I use to do. During lunch break whenever I used to take nap in 1st aid room he used to lay down beside me always. He always ticckle with middle finger whenever shakes hand. All of his actions exited me always and think that he is into me. He feels happy whenever I am around and smiles and also he always shows me middle finger playfully and brings his middle finger to my lips. He used to jockingly say that mume le to tera mu khulega ya fir nigro ka le to kachori bhi jayegi as my *** was not getting fully open due to vimal gutkha... I also noticed him seeing me whenever I am working and also clicks pictures of me without knowing me and talks about me(good) All the time with everyone. All in the company use to call us miya biwi jodi. He was not so handsome also compared to me (as per my gay friend whom I discussed) but for me he was the finest one also my friends say that tuje wo accha lagne laga he (gadhi pe dil aaya to pari kya cheez he). All was not ok as whenever he talks with his gfs I feel jealous and whenever he says that he is going for a date I feel like crying and sad. My mind never stops thinking of him and eyes always search him. One day I was over exited and that day me and he was only in office and I tried to kiss him on his lips but he started pushing me asking ki ye kya kar raha he, gud he kya tu, aisa mat kar yaar dosti kharaab hoo jayegi and all... I drag him to 1st aid room and went over him, he was opposing and also 2-3 times our lips were contacted but I noticed that he didn't wiped him lips as usually we do whenever we don't like someone... He started asking ki teko ladko me intrest he kya to bol mere friends he unko bolta hu... I was sad and those words was hurting me. I started ignoring him after that and once again after some months I tried to kiss him and stop him while he was going to date with his gf. But again he restricted and started ki tu gay he kya, pagal he kya, dosti kharab hoo jayegi, jagda hoo jayega and all... Later after few days I was not able to get him out from my mind and so I asked my manager and and went to another site. He used to eventually call me and ask what r u doing why not calling ... I then started avoiding his insta stories also but 1 day he suddenly sent me 1 pic (1 time see pic) on whats app to my surprise he went to date with his gf and clicked pic with only underwear on and cutting face he sent me pic... I don't know what could have his intentions. Also he came to meet me one day to my site and we went for a round and he started that mene ek or gf pata li and was asking about me and my life like what I am doing nowadays .... I later resigned that company and joined another company and started busy in my work and avoiding him completely and to some extent the attraction faded little like now I don't bother what he is doing and all ... He invited me to his wedding and I went also with my wife and kid.. he saw me and asked ki itna mota kaise hoo Gaya tu... He was so happy looking at my face... I was disappointed looking at him, I was feeling like I am loosing someone. Later 1 day he messaged me ki apna peth kam kar jockingly... Right now I am again in new company and I don't know what is destiny plan, to my surprise he is also working nearby me and we go to pray Friday prayer together and recall old good memories (not that kissing part and all).. he still enjoys my company but I really don't give him too much attention as earlier ... I am still in search for the truth that what was all that... What was his intentions?? Was he into men?? Then why didn't he did with me??? Why he played with my life?? Ek baar *** hoo jata to bhi accha lagta but muje to kuch nahi mila. And so I am sad always still I have feelings for him... Whenever I see him I feel like kissing smooching him and see him nude and play with his *** and *** him. Agar wo haa karta to wo jo bolta me uske liye tayyar tha.... Can anyone guess what could be his intentions or anyone with similar experience... What was the result??? Will I get him someday???
No Picture dilse4u	Posted On Jul 16, 2025 @verstopandheri.... don't mixup best friendship and ***. *** kahi bhi mil jayega but Aisa friend kahi nahi milega, he told you very clearly that don't do all kissing and friendship kharab ho jayega very clear. Agar vo Bande ko boys me intrest ho ta to GFS nahi banata...life me koi to hai to aap ke sath khada hai hamesha ke liye....you are not lonely.... clear difference between best friend and boyfriend....best friend ko nanga dekh ne ka chance hai per *** ka nahi....but he will never judge you. Boyfriend ke sath *** ka chance hai per to bat bat pe judge karega, and if you are family man then enjoy your needs in massage parlour and live normal life out side parlour. You got so easily so you don't know the value of this kind of best friend. This is my opinion you may like it or not, it's your life, you know your situation better.....
No Picture VersTopAndheri	Posted On Jul 16, 2025 But was was that tickling with middle finger means, what about talking about *** sizes?? Do friends do that?? What he was about to when he sent me his pic with only underwear.... I am very confused...
No Picture dilse4u	Posted On Jul 16, 2025 Bhai vo masti ker raha hai aap ke sath uska koi matlab mat nikalo...you just need to laugh....he likes your face not your *** don't need to get confuse....jo straight hai he likes your face and your intelligence not your ***. Jis ko aap ki gand me intrest hoga vo sidha gand pe hi lapke ga....pagal mat bano uper ke sare experience padho jis jis ne aap jesi misunderstanding ki vajah se relationship break kiya hai use akelepan ke siva aur kuchh nahi mila...aur vo aap ka koi undue advantage bhi nahi le Raha hai...so enjoy friendship Gay ki life me akele pan ke siva kuchh nahi hota yar....nasib walo ko milte hai aise dost... And yes I told you clearly best friend can share personal problems and personal details you may get chance to see him full naked but it doesn't mean he is interested in your *** or ***. You can share same details but friends not interested in *** each other. Pls be clear in your mind.
No Picture RDX69	Posted On Jul 16, 2025 @dilse4u i really agree on what you said, i think people should understand that there can be a pure and open hearted friendship… no need to look for *** all the time.
No Picture Mr_calvinharrie	Posted On Jul 17, 2025 There is no happily ever after. It only exists in fairy tales. Probably you watched Baghban, Love Is Strange, or other such movies way too many times, and believe that love and long lasting relationships are a sign of a successful and happy life. But sorry to say, it ain't true. Love is a very recent phenomenon in history, it evolved as a thought child of few philosophers in 1800s. Before that people used to marry for the continuity of their clans, to dissolve animosity between two empires, to satisfy other such reasons and none of those reasons was love. Love was limited to stories, sufis or for God's. People those who live, live with each other for decades because it's far easier to stay with the same person you've gotten used to, and they live not because you have that amazing youthful love flowing in your veins. It's extremely hard to go against the society and habits and break relationships, that's why people stay with each other. Societies where people value individual happiness also have higher divorce rates. Further, those couples who say they're in love even after decades have actually learned to enjoy each other's presence, dependence, and safety. And that's something you can build on your own, no matter you had an arranged marriage or love one. Since gay freedom and revolution is very young in age, people are very self-centered and are looking for short term happiness. Same applies to present generation. They don't understand how long relationships work. That's why it's hard to find people staying with each other for long these days. Long lasting relationships take a lot more than love. When love dies at around 4yrs or before, relationships shrivel off too. Deciding the success and quality of a gay life on the basis of love or long relationship is completely wrong. There's more to life than finding a good homely boy. A good career, a warm home, a set of weird friends to spend your evenings with, are far more important. These days, I'm talking to a doctor who has only been in relationships till today. He's 27, a writer, and is a very happy person to be around. For me he's successful and an example of a perfect gay man. I know another gay man who's a lawyer, has reading speed of 3000wpm, and has read all the books I can ever name. He has alexythemia, he can't understand or appreciate emotions. He's not a good fit for a relationship. But for me, he's a very successful person. And there are hundred of such gay people in India who have hundreds of their own stories. Some of them will settle down into relationships and some won't. And none of that matters on the quality of their beautiful lives. There's used to be a very good television show on HBO called Looking. It recently concluded. In the show there's a scene in which the protagonist is teasing a straight woman if she's getting married. The woman snaps and says, "Marriage is only for gays," and it made me laugh because yes, so many of us are sold out on that idea. Marriage is not always a perfect conclusion for a life. Marriage system is imperfect and is slowly dying in enlightened cultures. People have lost faith in it. In future what I see is, cropping up of communion system of relationships. Where many people live together under the same roof, support each other, cook for each other, be with each other, and no one is responsible for keeping any one happy. Many gay men have done it and I also find that system far more realistic as per human nature. We are not cut out for indefinitely maintaining fidelity to one person, or loving ever after. A warm companionship is all that matters in the end.
No Picture rajiv1279414	Posted On Jul 17, 2025 Mai bhi apne office ke bande ko like karta hu bahut wo 50 years ka hai, 2 saal ho gaye hai uska wait karte karte, uski aesi aadat pad gayi hai ki rat me sote waqt aur subah ka pehla khayal wahi hai, office me bhut samay milta hai uske sath gujarne ko, par mai chah kar bhi apne Mann ki baat nahi keh sakta, bhut bar good morning love msgs me indirectly usko bola hai ki he is special for me. Ek din jab maine use good mng msg me bheja ki kisi ko pyar dena sabse badhiya gift hai to uska msg aaya ki jis cheej ko antaraatma gawahi na de wo galat hai, padh ke dil toot gaya, jab jab mai use ignore karne ki koshish karta hu fir wo pass aata hai, use bhi mera saath accha lagta hai, lekin ek hadd tak, mai use bhula nahi paata, koi sexy stranger dikha ke na mile to mann Maan jaata ki ye nahi to koi aur sahi, par jab dil ko chhune wala Banda roj milta hai, sath bethta hai , waqt gujarta hai, to fir wo dil me bas jaata hai, mann me ek hi iccha hai ek bar lifetime me use bolna hai ki I love him very much, aaj nahi to fir kabhi, before taking last breath
No Picture xerox	Posted On Jul 17, 2025 Perhaps you need to rethink your definition of Love. This sounds more like infatuation or obsession, even. Don't waste your emotions and your time on this person
No Picture rajiv1279414	Posted On Jul 17, 2025 @xerox I just try to stay as a normal colleague with him but in night his thoughts capture my mind and heart, indulging in fantasies with him, just how it will start, till now I don't think of any sexual desire with him, his face is so cute and pleasing, so just thanking God for giving me time to be with him around in the office time. Kabhi feelings laake dekho pata chalega pyar rulata hai!! Uske samne hone se koi aur agar acha bhi lagta hai to Mann nahi manta kisi se bat bhi karne ko
No Picture Veerey	Posted On Jul 18, 2025 @rajiv1279414 Hello dost, same aisa he mere sath huwa tha, bahot saal wait kiya tha, ek din bol diya maine, but wo samay usne inkar kiya but after 4 year's wo khud aya mere ghar, sath main drink kiya dinner kiya aur so gaye baad main, lekin maine kuch nahi kiya, But usne kudh se mera haat leke uske underwear main daala and uska already khada tha, uske baad hamara bdy ply hogaya, Isliye mai apko suggest karna chahunga jo hain apke man main wo bol do usko, ha ya na bolega, kuch to result ayega, na bolega to aap *** do uske baare main sochna, aur ha bolega to badhiya he hain, Aur agar na bolega to tension mat lo agar aap bahot acche dost hoge to wo apke bare main kisi se kuch kahega bhi nahi, All the best 👍
No Picture xerox	Posted On Jul 18, 2025 Sorry guys I was referring to the post by OP... :)
No Picture rajiv1279414	Posted On Jul 19, 2025 @veerey bhai mann to bahut karta hai ki bol du dil ki baat use, par Darr lagta hai khi hamesha ke liye hi pass bhi na aane de, ab kam se kam working hours me bhut time to saath gujarte hai, feelings matter in my case, no worry if I don't get ***, it will happen if it has to happen. Anyways congratulations you got your love back and enjoyed
No Picture Ksam *	Posted On Jul 28, 2025 I'm top if anyone with place near Hadapsar Undri NIBM please welcome
No Picture sanwaliya	Posted On Jul 29, 2025 Delhi m koi Bottom h kya? M Top hu
No Picture Leo1237 *	Posted On Jul 29, 2025 So when I used to stay in Saket for my IES studies there were Haryanvi guys staying next to my room. I used to stay alone n they used to share a flat. We used to stay in different buildings but our balconies were attached n we used to directly jump form the balconies instead of getting down n taking stairs. So it was my first day in room n i opened my balcony door to see the view n there was this Haryanvi guy, in black jockey west n track pants. He’s very handsome fair n tall. He’s gym Lover with toned body. I still remember the view, it was my love at first sight. I was scared a bit to talk to him as he was very hot n I didn’t knew how to Handel the things so avoided the talks in beginning, but later we started talking n we became good friends I used to go to their flat n they used to come to mine we used to study together eat, have fun n parties too. The handsome guy I used to like was very very nice by nature n was loving, n I was very close to him among all three guys. He was treating me like his small bro, I had my first beer with him. We used to go have tea n sit n talk for long n Rome around together all the time. His gf used to come over weekends to meet him n we used to do party together. She’s was also very nice. Later our bonding increased n he used to come to my room to sleep, luckily I had only one mattress n we both used to sleep together in a single blanket, he used to hug me all the time like a baby n cuddle. We used to sleep whole night holding each others. Some times he used to hold me so tight in his arms while sleeping n used to love the feeling, there was no sexual thing but it was all different n can’t be explained in words. I still remember those nights how we used to cuddle n sleep. He used to put his sexy thighs all over my body n I used to hold them. He used to hole me in such a way that my face was on his sexy chest n our legs were locked like scissors, I just used to smell his body all the time.I always used to look for his undies in balcony n obviously he used to change in front of me n I was like dead, he’s married now with the same gf. N we still are in touch n he still treats me like his small brother. I just love him n miss those hugs n cuddles . Since then i crave for Haryanvi guys. N find them so much hot especially the fair ones n built guys
No Picture RH_Lannister	Posted On Jul 29, 2025 @Leo1237 Man such a sweet story...you were truly blessed
No Picture rockmeharder18	Posted On Jul 29, 2025 So in 2007 I started dry humping a classmate of mine at my place. We always knew the timing when no one would be home and he used to come to my place for group study. The group was just us two. I guess in 2008 we were sitting in the hall and I caught an amazing smell coming from him and started sniffing his neck. He was kind of taken aback cos our dry humping was in 2007 and we said let's not do it cos we like girls. But that smell of his was making me ***. I knew this was the perfect evening cos my family had gone out of station and would be back only the next day evening. They knew that he would be coming and we would be studying. I was waiting for this day since more than 6 months. I just wanted to surrender myself to him. I knew u had the whole night. After he pushed me back for sniffing his neck, I said let's go inside and sit on the bed and study. He had his apprehension but he came. I was wearing a very loose short and had my briefs inside. He was wearing a track pant and as he was a but healthy, his shirt was almost body fitting with no vest inside. I could clearly see the silhouette of his nipple. We sat on the bed. I said it was a bit hot and removed my tee. He was like kya Kar raha tu. I was like it's just too hot so it's ok. We were leaning against the wall and sitting side by side. He was on my right. I leaned again and this time licked his neck. He pushed me. I was so turned on. I said let's do it once. I told him just imagine I'm the girl and I will play with your ***. I could clearly see a bulge from his tracks. He covered it with his book. I stood on the bed and pulled down my shorts. He looked the other way. I removed my undies as well and went on my fours with my *** facing him. I kept moving my *** for like a few seconds and looked at him. He had a huge hard on. I knew this guy loved women and swore to be straight but I loved being nude in front of him. I so wanted to see him naked cos I was the one who always undressed. I pulled him closer to me and pulled out his shirt. He had solid man boobs. My *** was so hard. I pinched his nipples while he sat in shock. He was sitting with his legs cross folded and I sat on his lap with my legs going behind him. My bare *** was on his *** almost in my Crack. Eventhough he had his tracks and undies on I could feel the bulge. I started licking his neck again. Wanted to bite him but didn't want to give any clues to his parents. He asked me will you give me a blowjob like a girl. We were like 18-19 year Olds and virgins so all this blowjob stuff was from the ***. I said yes and pulled down his pants. His 7inch thick tool just stood out. There was a bit of pre cut as well. I was so ***. Started licking his tool. He began moaning. I just loved the sound. He pushed me on the bed and climbed on me and started biting my nipples. He started almost tearing them that I was highly aroused. I kept playing with his balls. This was the time that he got ***. He was using my to the fullest and I felt like his ***. He wouldn't touch my *** but I was ok with it cos I was getting what I wanted. He asked me if he could sit on my face. I told him that treat me like a *** your slave and do whatever you want. He sat on my face and I was licking his *** for a good 15 minutes it was heavenly. He kept rubbing his *** on my face really hard that felt he would rupture my nose. I told him, it's time. He stood up and I sat on my knees. This was the moment for me I started licking his balls and then finally had the *** in my ***. The moment I realised that *** are the most amazing and tastiest tools. There was precum on his pubes as well. He grabbed the back of my head and pushed my *** harder onto his ***. Almost the entire *** was Inside and I was deep throating. He sat down facing me, asked me to open my *** and put his tongue Inside and asked me to *** on it. I finally liplocked with him. He kept saying that he's not gay and he was treating me like a gal. I said doesn't matter cos before a gal you had a guy *** your ***. It triggered him and he started fingering my *** and then inserted another finger. I realised that if I *** him off he can give me the sexual pleasure. It was so good. He then pushed me again asked me to go on my knees he stood up and jerked off right in my *** and he shut my *** forcefully. I swallowed it. I just fell on the bed. He saw my *** standing and gave me a hand job and I ejaculated in less than 30 seconds. He took that in his hand and just wiped on my face. We just lay down on the bed and cuddled. We didn't realise we slept off cos of all the fatigue. His name is Sunil and we lost touch after 2015. If you're reading this. It's high time we meet up. I'll post our other encounters later.
No Picture san1980	Posted On Jul 29, 2025 It was in 2004, i had been for training to trivandrum. There near Cosmo, I met my colleague working in tvm. His name is Suresh, I loved him a lot. Hot guy he was but I was bit shyfull then. He has arranged me fish to eat from his neighbour after my wish before returning to Bangalore. I miss you Suresh. If you are into ohmojo, kindly ping me directly.
No Picture Girishkumar40	Posted On Aug 26, 2025 I had a similar experience. I’ve had a few love affairs when I was younger. Was emotionally wrecked as they never worked. Cried alone whenever possible. Time flew and I shifted to a new city.. everything was fine, happily settled. Life was all platonic. Then one night, I was hanging at a bar all by myself. I told the DJ to play a song. the whole crowd got mad, except one guy who enjoyed it. He later asked the DJ, whose choice was it, and he pointed me. The guy ( let’s name him Bablu ) came to me and complimented me about my choice. We exchanged numbers. Long after that day, I got a call from an unknown number. I was surprised it was him. Bablu wanted to hang out with me. Yes, I agreed. From that day onwards, used to hang out a lot. Both of us loved each other’s company. He would often come to my office and bring me food. We would we would have lunch together quite often. Then he told me that he was going to get married. Not a big deal for me. I felt happy as I was not sexually attracted to him. He went to his hometown for his engagement. After the ceremony, he called me up and started crying. He said he liked me a lot and was in a confusion. But since I was elder to him, I consoled him and said it was just an infatuation. Though I tried too. He Returned after a week and the story continued. The usual hangout , drinking out. All his office colleagues knew me. But I kept myself in my own cocoon of not getting myself close to him. But deep down under, I knew I loved him very much.. I knew he will be gone after a few months. And that day came, we went on our last trip like a farewell. . And bid our final farewell. That was one of the worst day of my life. I cried throughout my return flight. Back home, I knew I was doing poorly in my work. Everybody noticed. I had nobody to share my feelings. Since it’s a small town, I don’t even have friends here. I used to cry in my house, almost every night,. But on the positive side, I knew I would return to normal after a few days. It took a few months, but I was back to normal.. they are still sweet, bitter memories now, and I cherish all of them. I have moved on with my life, financially more stable. building a new house. I have a dog, which is my only company.. we go on car rides together, and I share everything with him. I am more happy than ever.. I’m happy this happened with me. That incident made me emotionally stronger. I enjoy my company.. my marriage was set but the bride dumped me in the last hour( Thankfully). My near and dear ones are very comfortable of me, being still single. Nobody questions me now. And I am more comfortable with such questions. Personally, speaking, I have changed a bit. I enjoy being with myself.. and I absolutely hate when somebody tries to get close to me. No, you can’t be my best friend. Forget, my lover.
No Picture Sahaisab	Posted On Aug 26, 2025 @Girishkumar, I became rude to everyone who tried coming close to me or trying to show affection after a heart break. I realised after few months, that's not me, I wasn't a person so rude. I started working again on myself and felt that things are improving. Now after 5 years I became same what I was. 😊😊 Really happy now.....
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