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Lonely Nights


Submitted by JustBluue Location: All India (All India, India)

I know many of us feels so lonely specially in nights.

What's your feeling about. What do you do in such nights when no one is with you. Share whatever things come into your mind. How to grab good thinking and how do you ignore.nqgatibe thoughts. ?

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kiran1951
Posted On Dec 19, 2023

CluelessHubby, you are wondeful.

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Desidesirex
Posted On Dec 19, 2023

Hmm lonely nights.

Sometimes it happens with me I wake up in the middle of the night 2-3am around. I live alone at the time I just wanted to be curdle by someone. One time this happens and I was so *** that I invited gr guy to my place. That was awesome.

I do 1 hrs of exercise and I sleep early around 10.

When I wake up in middle that time hurt a lot. The cool side of bed and silence in room kills me.

Sometimes I wish can connect with people who are feeling the same.

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Dreamy
Posted On Dec 19, 2023

My mind races to the forbidden valley of desperation and depression at the same time... Desperation due to my body's desires for physical connection and depression due to my mind's desire for something more and it's really hard to explain what is that something more.... In these kind of nights I just go on internet and start looking for random strangers to talk to ... And when I finally find someone to talk (voice call) to, even though my intent purely stays "explicit" but something just changes and my desperation just goes away and I start enjoying talking about life.. listening to them and literally hours go by like this, one night I started to talking to this one guy and we hung up the call at 4 in the morning ... So yea.. it's kinda weird ik but maybe this is the key to the answer for my lonely nights

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Roykhannaa
Posted On Dec 22, 2023

@Desidesirex Same here dear.. waking in the middle of the night is very common.. loneliness in addiction with hornyness makes things ultra difficult!!
I have always been nudist when home and alone (no parents around).. i stay nude in home as possible.. specially when drunk and high..

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Desidesirex
Posted On Dec 23, 2023

@Roykhannaa I live alone too. But sometimes it too much. I try to busy myself with work n other activities but some night it over my head

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Desidesirex
Posted On Dec 23, 2023

The reason is also that in gay community in India no body is interested in friendship and I have no one around to discuss gay issues and talk even minor issues,query.


I know there a lot of us here married,single are in same boat but not interested in friendship and even bring community together.

Hope 🙏 my message reaches to right person 💕

Guys don't always try to search partner just try to search person to whom u can comfortably talk

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Roykhannaa
Posted On Dec 24, 2023

@Desidesirex I agree with completely.. I have posted an Ad on locanto app for 'experienced/in experienced top/bottom BF'. Where i have posted to that i am looking for a decent sophisticated boy friend who is trust worthy, to whom i can talk share everything, who can make me feel good and same i can do to him. To connect first emotionally and then physically.
But as u said.. i never found one.
I am a curious bottom and searching for such person from a very very long time!

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needsugardaddy2
Posted On Dec 25, 2023

@Roykhannaa. Posting an add on Locanto won't help. It's India and Indian society is very conservative. It's hard to find genuine guys even in metros and big cities.
@Desidesirex.... Yes living alone is difficult. We keep ourselves busy in our work but at night we tend to become lonely. I never look for one night stand though.

@Roykhannaa @Desidesirex I'm always into older men like 45 + or even 50+ mature guys. Irrespective of their physical appearance. The masculine the better but I'm never into younger guys or guys of my age.

I always want a partner, a good friend where I can be myself to him and likwise. Where both of us can spend sometime, leaving behind the mundane life. Relugar meeting whenever both of us have time. And this friendhsip should interfere in each other's personal or professional life. One need to understand like men who are homosexual live dual life. They are married and have kids , some are unmarried but they are out in the society. Rare you would find someone who is out.
And I guess it's hard to find such guy. Days are passing by, nights are lonely. I wish I could have such mature friend in my life.

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Roykhannaa
Posted On Dec 25, 2023

@needsugardaddy2 Yes thats true.. what you said.. also what you looking for is something what similar to my interests too.. we have secret life and socially open life.. both are different.. we need some in our secret life maintaining discretion and we to that someone too..
Its difficult.. but if found one, it will be dream come true!!.. hope to find that someone!
Im 35yr old .. if yes u feel i am someone you were looking for.. please dm and lets find something for our lonely nights and days !

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MatureMumbai
Posted On Dec 25, 2023

Hi
So nice to read that there are genuine guys looking for serious friends for LTR and not just one time F&F.
@Roykhannaa
@needsugardaddy
@Nexus_00
@Desidesirex

Nice to read your views
But sadly all are from either Pune, Delhi, Hyderabad, Varanasi
None from Mumbai

I am from Mumbai, mature friendly age 62 years looking for a close friendly partner to meet talk date go out. But sadly with No Place. And all here who I come across stop chat only after the first question Do You have Place.. Say No and end to all the friendly compatibility and all.
Long distance does not help much. But yes if connected well it is desirable too.
Any one like to get in touch do message me
Merry Christmas
Compliments of the season
And wish you all a Happy 2024

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indiantg
Posted On Dec 29, 2023

Maut Ka Ek Din Mauyyan Hai
Neend Kyun Raat Bhar Nahi Aati

I am normally sleep at 3 or 4 am I tried my best to sleep.. Kuch Khawab Adhurey hai jo soney nahin dete.

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LoveU2 *
Posted On Dec 29, 2023

ये भी कोई जीना हैं, ये भी कोई जीना हैं
ये भी कोई मरना
यारा सीली सीली बिरहा के रात का जलना
ओ यारा सीली सीली, डोला सीली सीली

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Rohan126
Posted On Jan 16, 2024

Watched *His Story*
Why preet left in ending.
Men the gay series endings scares me
Why most of the gays try to find new in everything.
Is it a kind of dopamine to be with a man for a certain time then find another one.
He said their relationship does not challenges so the love faded without challenges. Is it a game that problems give excitement.
What's the role of attachment then and if this is how relationship works then how straight couple manage to live together for whole life
Don't everyone feel scared in that case.
How do everyone will find partner then.
Or is it like switching after 2-3 years.
Can't even imagine it.
I think relationship is not just about se*,
Se* plays a small part in it. it's more about feelings, emotions, care for each other, warmness, little things like
When when someone is at low point another act as support, when I or he came back from office After work and you hug another person and man you will comfort, that the feeling of home, you don't feel lonely.

Sorry guys,
just wanted to vent out some feelings,
It's just that after watching series, it freaked me out.


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rogerasyd
Posted On Jan 16, 2024

His story ending is just that.....a story. The writer is trying to portray the guy leaving his wife as someone doing bad and karma eventually catches up with him i.e. he is also left alone in the end. See the movie called 'arth' by Mahesh Bhatt, that also is on similar lines on straight relationship.

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Sammie26
Posted On Jan 29, 2024

Lonilness is very bad things, it's very hard to spend time when you're alone. And specially when you don't have any frnd and family.

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Roykhannaa
Posted On Jan 29, 2024

@Sammie26 i agree.. but also having everyone and not having what we need is also kind of lonliness !!
A touch of someone we urge for.. that our body needs !!
A man to fulfill our openings, our emotions, our need, our hunger, our lust!!
Isn't it

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Bigpeni_Versati
Posted On Jan 30, 2024

What I feel regarding Lonely Nights for homosexuals is even companiyon ( other than homosex guy) presence it will not give pleasure because our feeling on tuch of any other homosex man body and his warm touch gives more pleasure.

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Sammie26
Posted On Feb 5, 2024

I really feel very bad on every weekend.
Monday to Friday busy at work with office colleagues but it's very to paas time on weekends for me.
What can I do to keep busy my self...

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Womaninmanbody
Posted On Feb 17, 2024

On lonely nights I just *** myself to sleep by watching all kinds of ***. Most of the *** I watch revolves around some one getting force ***, humiliated or degraded like some object. In all the cases i fantasize being the bitch, bottom, shemale, sissy or the woman that gets mercilessly *** by rough powerful men. I want a real top or a real beastly man to just *** me the way I want to be ***.

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i99426994
Posted On Feb 23, 2024

Btw I'm not alone tonight. My new BF is fast asleep after a two hrs foreplay and a bj from me. He was so sleepy that he wasn't able to wear clothes. He is now asleep by my side. I can hear his light sounds of snoring. Tonight I saw the heaven in his arms. OMG his liplock is too awsome and Many many times OMG. I can't forget this night in my lifetime. And I pray O God bless him.

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i99426994
Posted On Feb 23, 2024

Love You Ohmojo k, for I could meet him through your forum.

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Roykhannaa
Posted On Feb 25, 2024

Living a lonely life is far worse than just nights. Having a complete sexless intimacyless zero physical action loveless complete lonely life is kind of killing me!!

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Needfriend45
Posted On Mar 1, 2024

Whole life lonely but that is better than wrong company

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Sammie26
Posted On Mar 1, 2024

@needfriend45 100% agreed

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