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Lonely Nights


Submitted by JustBluue Location: All India (All India, India)

I know many of us feels so lonely specially in nights.

What's your feeling about. What do you do in such nights when no one is with you. Share whatever things come into your mind. How to grab good thinking and how do you ignore.nqgatibe thoughts. ?

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dsxdq
Posted On Nov 13, 2023

It Happens With Everyone
Aur aIse Festives Wale Mahol Me Kuch Jyada Hi
Par Kuch Kar Nai Sakte

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Jack06282
Posted On Nov 13, 2023

Been there many times. I usually love myself. I feel my own body. Caress my nipples, fondle with my *** play with my balls, feel my inner thighs, stroke my ***, apply fragrant essential oil on my *** and ***. Roll on the bed full nude, *** my fingers after finger *** my ***. Lick my precum and then when it reaches the extreme. Slowly explode your *** all over my tummy and lay nude before going off to peaceful sleep.

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Ruhann28
Posted On Nov 13, 2023

Watch webseries keeps you busy and distracted

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rajawadi_randi
Posted On Nov 14, 2023

When I have the time and energy, I literally get up and go out to get some ***, everytime I have these feelings.

If not, I go to telegram and find any top/bottom/vers guy open for an audio/video call and have some dirty sexy pillow talk with them till we both ***

In either cases I always end up having more fun than I would have if I simply watched some *** and jerked off.

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curiouser
Posted On Nov 14, 2023

Yes for me also sometimes I feel lonely in some nights. You always feel this viid of having someone with you, and specially those men who have accepted their homosexuality and aware and mature enough to not marry someone because of societal pressure.
I thing there are some temporary solutions like cam *** or masturbation byt the real solution is to find a partner to spend these night with.
I know it's hard for us to find relationship but we can be hopeful. I'm trying to look and meet more people without hesitations to find a partner.

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Babee69
Posted On Nov 14, 2023

Hi, when I m alone,.I watch travel vlogs. Or some occult stuff. That keeps me distracted.
I make my own dreams, of traveling with a man and having nice time with him. It's difficult to be honest, but that's the parcel of life.

Travel vlogs are soothing. Try them. Never be depressed, we have one life.

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Nirjhar
Posted On Nov 14, 2023

This is a nice thread

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nenes50
Posted On Nov 14, 2023

There is a productive solution.
Turn your desires into a creative endeavor. Vent frustrations in artistic creations (literary, pictorial...), or manual creations (crafts, cooking...). Each person must find their own way to sublimate the unease that distresses them.
The benefit is twofold, at least: you enjoy what you do and you learn more and more about it.
The end you reach depends on yourself.

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Unimate
Posted On Nov 14, 2023

I spend time watching Netflix or listening to music till I drop dead on my bed or in my sofa. Else take a night drive around places and come back home.. On working days, i kee.p myself preoccupied with it or open up apps, looking for time passers to chat and spend time
Yeah Life can get lonely and it's something we have to live with!!

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AkashBot
Posted On Nov 14, 2023

I'm always lonely looking for someone specailly during this festival time I want someone to cuddle and sleep. I log into telegram or Snapchat and talk with random guys do nude vcs and calls till morning and then sleep. I enjoy playing with my body and touching my nipples putting fingers inside my *** sometimes using a dildo inside my ***.

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Mithun69
Posted On Nov 14, 2023

Some gay top men in public places used to stare at me and even wink at me, but I used to avoid them as I'm not publicly gay bottom.
What I do is during my lonely nights, I fantasy those guys in urgency who want to do it deliberately with me. I imagine them forcibly kissing me, licking my nipples putting their tongue in my navel hole and subduing me in bed. Actually it's my fingers doing the fingering but I fantasize that those urgent gay tops are doing it ;-)

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jaidesai69
Posted On Nov 14, 2023

when i am *** and lonely i ***, remembering the guys i enjoyed with or imagine some of the sexy guys from facebook who attract my attention and imagine what it would be like to have *** with them. another favourite is remembering my sexy massage experiences or imagine getting a *** massage by pijat vitalitas/urut vitalitas with malay/indonesian masseurs as shown on youtube/ thisvid videos. remember: *** IS IN THE BRAINS! use it!

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Jaytop
Posted On Nov 14, 2023

If you have planned to live gay life then you have planned to be lonely as well. It's not an easy road.... You always look for more with every encounter even if it is one night stand.... And no matter how much office work you have.... At night things become sad Or sometimes you crave for touch only. Pillow work but not always 😊. Eventually everyone demon comes not even if you claiming yourself dom 😊.
But it's life and you have to live it.... So better to sleep with music and wake up early do some exercise.
" A man is as much sad and lonely as much he has convinced himself to be".

But yeah if you get opportunity to be more then sexual encounter then don't let go of the opportunity... It will help you to come out of loneliness.

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Pratikku
Posted On Nov 15, 2023

When I come from my work, from that point I feel lonely though I live with parents. The feeling of talking with gay or bisexual person is entirely different from the same thing with straight people. You can't share the emotions with your family that you share easily with any gay or bisexual stranger.
Everytime *** is not necessary. But after heavy work, there should be someone there to just talk on random topics, to pass comments and have laughter. Just hand in hand or nude sleep feels sufficiently relaxing. The question is how to get such person everyday.
When we are alone, at that point gay life feels like a curse, where we can't marry, live in with our favourite person.
I'm also in search of peace, stability during free hours. Hope to get new ideas in this thread.

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NishanNishad
Posted On Nov 15, 2023

@Partikku
You r correct... Yesterday i got a person like u said... *** is not necessary just talk on general topics and just hand in hand with walk at night... We are fall into a relationship at that moment..🥰

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Jack06282
Posted On Nov 15, 2023

@Pratikku. This is as if I am talking to myself. Even though I am a married man and have a family, my wife though she is extremely supportive and loving, i miss the touch of a man. The evil of being a bisexual. I too crave for a nude sleep

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NegAnonPriv95
Posted On Nov 15, 2023

Every night I watch ***, *** and chill on OTT's to get through the night,
My every night schedule!!!

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SHANTANUnu
Posted On Nov 16, 2023

Sometimes i feel bore, but not lonely
Justblue, its good that u share this topics, to relief urself.
My suggestion
Watch good movies
Read books
U can cook also u can clean ur house
Go to gym or do swimming
But sometimes i need lonelyness, to think about myself how to rectify my bad habits, my own creative world.
This is the way i am living bcoz i lost my parents and wife, no kids, happily single, no loneliness

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SHANTANUnu
Posted On Nov 16, 2023

Another thing u can do one thing
If u feel alone, call ur friends or relatives whom u lost in touch from so many days

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Amanrockx
Posted On Nov 16, 2023

Ummm sleep naked...watch reel...long chat/audio call with people when I feel..honey...(it happen very less..🫣😜)

Orelse..watch..youtube.. Debates, mushayra or trevel blog...sometime I meditate or plan for the future....


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Roykhannaa *
Posted On Nov 16, 2023

If drunk.. chat on PR, Gndr, ohmojo.. try to find someone i want and trustful.. share and see some nudes on chat. Watch *** *** and sleep

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kichu_jeans
Posted On Nov 16, 2023

I also feel so lonely when I get home after work. Sometimes i watch movies, going out with friends but i night, i like to watch x live cams or to have vcall to *** together with other guys.
It's great to hear from you guys and to feel I'm not alone with such a feeling of loneliness.

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MatureMumbai
Posted On Nov 17, 2023

Hi Guys,
This is a great thread, hope we have a lot of sharing n caring going on here.
@ Pratikku, so true what you say and feel, it is not just *** it is the pleasure of having someone with you to talk, share and just touch hold cuddle too which is what I term as Intellectual intercourse is so satisfying.
@Kichu_jeans, yes, You are not all alone, WE are all in it together over here.
With Diwali and the festive season just over and hmmm the December chill setting in we would need need need someone close with us n for us.. That's a Tall order but HOPE & Pray we all get our Saathi companion. Akhir Ummeed pe to Duniya tiki hai!!!


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Rajj4lovefun143
Posted On Nov 17, 2023

Lonely time always a good time. I generally remove all the clothes and be like completely nude which gives a freedom and try to have different kind of way for getting pleasure.

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Frndnfunmallu
Posted On Nov 17, 2023

It’s a great relief talking to someone who is intimate.. hardcore is sometimes needed but sharing the feelings with someone is much more soothing

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adicooliyo
Posted On Nov 17, 2023

to me its not about gay or straight, if you do not have a partner , your nights will be lonely for sure. but again, that doesnt mean that we stay in a relationship just for the sake of it without any respect and love and trust. in west (US etc..) there are many gay and straight couples who are in an open relationship and always look for someone outside of their relationship to have fun with, but at the end of the day they come back to the same house and spend their most of the nights together be it sexual or non sexual.
on the other hand there are perks of being lonely at nights to have things done your way like watch movies TV play games read books etc.. or just roam outside without worrying to go back on time etc.. and of course invite anyone to your place for fun :)

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nishaj
Posted On Nov 18, 2023

same here I too feel to lonely sometimes, no friends usually I chat watch OTT's

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VINAIVINAY
Posted On Nov 19, 2023

I become romantic in nights when lonely. Strip off the dress, wear a thong / panty. oil my *** and ***. Play with them and give nice massage to them. becm erotically empowered, take the precum and fondle with nipples. Go to GR. chat with random hunks, hv audio / video calls wd few interesting ones. By now it is 11.30 / 12.00 night. Remove the thongs and becm fully nude. Spmetimes (especially weekends - watch gay ***). Just slide into sleep fantasizing these hunks, dream few of them and wake up next morning wd hard boners and again feel sexy. On weekends, play wd the boner and *** off (somtimes in audio / video calls) finally explode the *** and eat it. If I get a hunk thru the GR/PR/blued, i blow him and swallow the load. I luv to eat ***. When I was in Mumbai, once I has a group session where in the night I took 3 hinks *** and next day morning I took 2 hunks ***. After that for two days I didnt eat food properly. *** is so nutritious.
Thanks for reading. PS - M not into - anals / smokes /drinks / drugs. And not commercial. Nipple-play and BJ (*** eating) r my favorites.

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kk27
Posted On Nov 20, 2023

This feeling of loneliness happens with everyone. Many times I take it as an opportunity to improve myself personally and professionally. I assess myself, my drawback, my relationship with others and think of the solutions to improve it.
Rather than feeling this loneliness mentally, there are so many things to concentrate upon like our family, friends, hobbies, music, reading, art, etc. There is a saying 'Busy life is easy life '. So, there should be no place of loneliness

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Rohan126
Posted On Nov 21, 2023

Can't we have a group whose solely purpose would be to make feel comfortable when any member feels lonely.
So if I am feeling lonely that I could say,
Hey is there any one to talk or whatever ( they are looking for ) then then can have a conversation in group chat or slide in dm if it's private ( and do other stuffs if both are comfortable).
The main intention of group would be to reach to group by dropping messages that you are feeling lonely or is there someone available to talk. Whoever would be available will reply.

Two lonely man can converse with each other and feel better.
Just a thought I had 🙂

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Daddy_love
Posted On Nov 23, 2023

I usually get massage . I got one massager from UC but now I used to call him personally. I like old men(45+) and he is only massager I found who is bit old close to 40. He might know my inclination as many a time I got hard even few time got wet. I just told him that it’s quite normal for me being sensitive and that’s why I get massage at home. I singal him by keeping my thongs/jockstrap over chairs which he saw it but no response so now I won’t make him uncomfortable by these.
He never gave any signal just some time during massage I can feel his thighs earlier I was consfused that this could be his signal but later I found it’s just touch during massage. I I take minimum of twice per month but never had anything beyond that.
No fun nothing but I enjoy . Main thing his massage techniques are awesome … I am found of massage so he is one of best massager. I

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Raajiv
Posted On Nov 24, 2023

@daddy_love
It's part of UC massage training that nt to initiate any sexual activities even if client is giving hint or directly asking for.. obvious reason for company.. But as a matter of fact, most of the male masseur are ready for extras for some extra bucks..
Here is a tip.. after complete massage ask the masseur to close the service on his app he will havebto complete the formalities like uploading images of used accessories etc.. after that he will checkout from his app marking his trip over. He will ask u to rate.. u rate him rt there only. This will mark the service over satisfactory from your side.. than ask him for water and tea or ask him to relax.. if he is not in hurry for next booking.. he will accept ur offer talk to him normally about massage and feeling relaxed.. and than probably make the move.. and see his reaction.. it is compulsory that u should initiate and that too after completing all the formalities..

This is told to me by one the masseur who worked for UC earlier but now doing on his own ....
He also told that most of the masseur earns well so the top u offer should be good..

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Ankit_a
Posted On Nov 26, 2023

Just a romantic night...but still lonely

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Kumarbfs
Posted On Nov 28, 2023

I watch hot videos and *** twice and thrice then go to bed.

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Roykhannaa *
Posted On Nov 28, 2023

When i have house to myself
I get drunk.. smokeup and get high (no cigarettes)
Get nude
Turn on the TV with hot and trans music songs on YouTube
Turn off the lights
Apply lube to the private parts including the *** hole..
Lay down on the bed in front of the TV
Touch myself with earbuds connected to full volume trans video playing on TV
All the alcohol *** music hot videos make me super ***
This leads to wild chatting on PR Grndr Ohmojo Locanto wid *** lonely dudes like me..
Sharing hot nudes to each other..
Then to make myself completely blown ***.. i insert a super lubed hair roller rare ended (the round smooth thick handle) in my tight *** hole.. wait until complete handle (4 inch) is in..
Then *** my *** hole with this dildo shaped roller for a while.. making my *** and balls completely wet!!
When i am too much honry from a while.. i add one more thing to the fun.. i keep the roller inserted in completely and touch the body massager to the roller with super vibrations gradually increasing the vibrations to the maximum level.. which simultaneously takes me to my highest level of fun.. and Makes me cumm.. i hold my *** and give a slight shagg.. making me burst into ***.. my *** flows like river of come all over the bed and belly and chest..

This is one self satisfaction fun i have whenever i have house to myself!!

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Madipakkambro
Posted On Nov 29, 2023

if iam alone i wear my wifes saree blouse panty jacket , and i go cam chat with stariaght men and get *** in cam ...see them naked in cam and *** ...seeing straight men naked in cam with face is awesome

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jaidesai69
Posted On Nov 29, 2023

@roykhanna: you sure are rolling around with the hair rollers! if only your wife knew where her hair rollers have been!!! by the way, you MUST BE VERY CAREFUL with things that do not have a stopper at the end...that is why a dildo for men has that flanged piece at the end so that it does not get *** in. YES, THE ARSEHOLE CAN *** THINGS UP! next you will be in hospital with medics trying to that piece out!!!🤣

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Roykhannaa *
Posted On Nov 30, 2023

@jaidesai69 LoL, dude first thing the hair roller isnt anyone else's, its mine.. secondly im unmarried.. and third the roller I take in is rare ended, i.e. the handle part.. so the other brush part stays out which cannot get *** it.. like physics bro.. the real problem is i dont have a real dildo.. so have to use this!

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Roykhannaa *
Posted On Nov 30, 2023

I had a beautiful and orgasmic dream yesterday night!!
I dreamed that some guy forcefully inserted his middle finger in my *** completely while i was standing in some house naked. I could feel the finger in my *** literally.. as if it was actually in my ***..
Also he kept it in while he made me walk in the empty house. Later he held my hard *** and moved the middle finger my *** and shaked it till i came.. when i woke up from my dream.. i was super hard and completely wet!!
Best dream till now!!

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Bangalore874
Posted On Dec 3, 2023

I do this a lot,
Usually when alone or wfh..

Keep searching for gay *** and view gifs ramdomly or 9gag gay section
When aroused i put on my red panty light tight undies and search for online men for cam on whereby
I do as they say show off ky *** hole or just jiggle in different poses until they ***

I *** mostly when they are abusing me or telling me how they want to use me

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bigvirginholes
Posted On Dec 10, 2023

Sadly so far every night has been a lonely night. I watch all kinds of ***. But sometimes I just can't get off to straight *** at all. My boner dies. But I get hard as soon as I watch sissy, shemale or gay *** and especially fantasize about being the receiver, i suddenly get hard all over again and *** soon after a few strokes. I fantasize about a bunch of men breaking into my home in order to steal stuff but finding me naked and using me to fullfill their perverted lust instead. Then I become their regular *** as they take pics of my *** and face with one of their *** in my *** and threaten to send those pics to everyone. I know it's a stupid and risky fantasy but I deeply wish to be used like a roadside cheap *** by multiple men.

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abbasulli
Posted On Dec 11, 2023

@bigvirginholes i think you are not alone to have such fantasies !! if am not wrong, its a dream fantasy of a true gay bottom !! :) and its epitome of lust ! :)

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Rohan126
Posted On Dec 11, 2023

Hey Guys,
I think most of you might have gone through it.
I am closet, introvert and a very private kind of person, No social media ( for reference, I don't have account Insta until recently I created an account because a person wanted to connect with me on another platform then gr)
Earlier I used to think that I will first get a job and then will indulge in dating and all.i got WFH job.
I live with my family. After getting job, I thought I am now readuly for dating and all. But when I downloaded Gr and blu d app, some just wanted to time pass, some just wanted to have hookups. After some months of using these apps, I thought let's start with something and take first step. I had hookup with a person.we slept together.
The thing is that I am not feeling good as I thought I would be ( I am top so I always thought fuc*ing someone would be really amazing, All have such dreams i guess).
I think there is something lacking.
Having se* does not feel good to me, it seems it's just a task that has to be completed.
After thinking a little bit, I found out I always has been an emotional persons and embrace deep connections rather than making wider network, that's why I guess i have very few friends.
I think what I a lacking is that emotion, feeling or aconnection.
When I kissed that person he said from where you learnt kissing and I said it's my first time, he was shocked.
He has hookuped with a lot of guys and he said that no one has kissed him like that all finish everything ASAP and leave.
In today time,I guess everyone is doing hookup, is it possible to find that deep connection.
Let me know if anyone has felt like I am feeling it now or has anyone gone through it or your opinions about it

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toni_kumar321
Posted On Dec 12, 2023

Cucumbers and Brinjals are best partners for lonely nights

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VDD
Posted On Dec 12, 2023

Well, when thoughts of loneliness come to me @ night. I recollect good memories from my past ( skydiving in newzealand). If am ***, I watch ***, chat on grindr or recollect some amazing encounters with men in the past). Its better to be single than being stuck with a wrong person for rest of your life. One can be single and closeted, but choose not be alone. Am lucky to have a ecosystem in terms of my parents, sisters, nephew, niece, coudins, few close friends and colleagues).

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cindrella_c
Posted On Dec 14, 2023

chatting with guys, romantic/dirty whatsapp audio call, watching movies staring manly rough guys.

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CluelessHubby
Posted On Dec 14, 2023

I have a fleshlight, a keyboard, a violin.
There are- a stray dog, and two stray cats right outside my building who look forward to my arrival with their food- the cats literally sing.
Then there are Google Pics memories of the family I left behind... I visit them once a month, but I'm happy being here by myself.

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Salman_man
Posted On Dec 15, 2023

O yes, for may be more than a decade, I was mentally alone badly wanting a loving partner but was very shy to come out and express myself. Just yesterday I got my long lasting love who was lost in the jungle of people. I got the first night partly spent with him had dinner with him. Drank water he had left in his glass. It was soo sweet. Like you were roaming thirsty and all of a sudden you get sweet cool juice. The same thing happened with me. After our suhagrat, I've become mad of him. We live far away from each other. He is in jntu I'm in Balapur. I just love him. Can't stay away from him anymore. Don't want anyone but him only and only. Life has become soo soo beautiful after I met him.

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ajay.top
Posted On Dec 19, 2023

*** or reading gay experience here is Just a turn on.

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Sweetchocoguy
Posted On Dec 19, 2023

Hey I feel very much lonely I want to speak to people whenever I am lonely

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