What are the views of members on paid services for gay fun? Do you feel it is appropriate or otherwise? Any good or bad experiences?
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|Posted On Aug 4, 2022 - 01:29 PM|
It's may be a "one night stand..."
|Posted On Aug 4, 2022 - 02:12 PM|
It depends on individuals, but I say what ever you feel comfortable go for it. The most important aspect is to have protected ***. Unprotected *** might put both of the persons in danger.
|Posted On Aug 4, 2022 - 03:56 PM|
I had a very good experience with a delivery guy for the first time I did it free..... But from next time I used to give him tips... So that on my one call he come and offer better service
|Posted On Aug 4, 2022 - 05:31 PM|
Risky and lots of people make fool who ask first half payment via paytm.
They always show you 10 fake pics and then they ask you half payment.
Genuine guy dont ask for payment and he shows his pic first.
|Posted On Aug 4, 2022 - 05:32 PM|
Those who are not sexy and good looking so those will not get sexy looking guys for fun so they can fullfill their wishes by paying money to paid guy and will get satisfaction.
I am an average looking guy so i knew that a sexy handsome gym toned will not get me so i chose for paid and fullfilled my wishes...
And nowdays 90% guys who are making reels of their gym workout are gay and they provide extra services in the name of massage and it is a very easy way to earn money for them
|Posted On Aug 4, 2022 - 06:00 PM|
For me, there's no pleasure in paid services. Lack of emotions, lack of in depth involvements. Just a sort of duty-a time pass. Superfluous show.yes based on my personal experience
|Posted On Aug 5, 2022 - 03:23 AM|
There is no pleasure on paid service...
They first collect money..
Then hurried about ***..
When you *** they have gone
|Posted On Aug 5, 2022 - 03:23 AM|
I agree with ammy196, when numbers of guys whom you like deny meeting just due to color or age or size …. Then average people like me dont have any others option than throwing some money out of pocket.
I don’t demand for hardcore ***. So started looking for masseurs. Now i am habitual with massage.
Massage with extras & that’s fine to pay for that because massaging full body is not a easy task.
|Posted On Aug 5, 2022 - 04:43 AM|
Now a days it's grown as business. Whomever I pinged they say they are paid when I talk about my age hence no other option left for me. At the end started looking for massage guys with fun...
|Posted On Aug 5, 2022 - 05:38 AM|
My honest opinion, never go for paid services until and unless you have a proper video call and discussion prior to that.
In other words, almost every "PAID" guy out there is either a despo top who thinks they look like Hritik Roshan and perform like Johnny Sins in bed or a bottom with a superiority complex who is absolutely sure they have an *** like Nora Fatehi or better and can *** a *** like nobody has ever *** before since eternity. Both think that the "Privilege" of sleeping with them SHOULD come with a price tag.
So, if you're genuinely going for a "PAID" service, make sure you get what you pay for. Discuss in advance that you won't "Rush the process" and instead will take your time. Better still, tell them if they rush you, you'll deduct money, if they disagree and call it off, good for you since you weren't gonna get a good service anyways.
For me, I would personally only ever pay for service if I am hiring a shemale or tranny (top or bottom) since they need the money to maintain themselves (makeup, undergarments, and physical enhancements like breast implants or hormones) so I don't mind paying for that as long as I get the service I'm presented. For regular (straight-acting) tops, I don't mind paying, if (and only if) they are genuine gym-toned hunks who can maintain an *** or are open to extended foreplay.
These are just my personal opinions. All I'm saying is, there is no harm in paying as long as you get what you're paying for. Don't pay for dal-chawal if you can get dum biriyani for the same price, and if you have to pay a little more for dum biriyani then make sure it's chicken biriyani and not kauwa-biriyani. 😜😜😜
BONUS TIP: If you find a "PAID TOP" anywhere, just skip past it. Trust me, you can find better tops for free all around.
|Posted On Aug 5, 2022 - 06:28 AM|
@RAJAWADI_RANDI I totally agree with you. They think we are frustrated and vulnerable and take advantage of us. Normally, a good looking hunk might not show as much attitude on a non-paid date jitna ki ye paid guys dikhaate hain. Ek toh paise bhi do aur upar nasty attitude bhi tolerate karo. No wayyyyy. Boycott the paid guys.
|Posted On Aug 5, 2022 - 07:20 AM|
Well in that case, if you going for paid guys make it clear & loud what you are hiring them for. If they deny tey for someone else. Dont go for prepaid .
I had seen more attitudes in free guys who are gym toned and/or with glowing skin mostly (so called tops, or desperate straights who are not getting ***, sometimes extra feminine guys who feel more hot than Deepika 😝)
They feel we are desperate for there hot body.
I always make it very clear before booking someone.
|Posted On Aug 5, 2022 - 07:52 AM|
Before meeting top paid i asked what you do in fun and how long he has *** and how long he can *** and offcourse profile pic, he should smootch me , *** my *** and everything
If he says yes then only I go ahead
And for bottom first i ask that how much time do u got *** .
If he says 1 or 2 then i don't meet.
Atleast 50 times he should get ***.
Additionally he should *** my *** and lick my *** and he should not be girlish etc.
So whenever i put this demands then automatically it gets filter out
|Posted On Aug 5, 2022 - 08:16 AM|
I am not at all for paid services - give pleasure get pleasure in *** - that should be the mantra - besides you cannot be a robot and just indulge in *** - there is no on-off button there - one should feel comfortable and also have an emotional connect with the partner - that's what I feel.
|Posted On Aug 5, 2022 - 09:49 AM|
I had tried paid service just once and to be frank, I felt like the other guy was least interested in the activities being performed. I requested him to please stop and paid him and sent him away. If it's a non-paid guy then we will be sure they're doing it out of passion and their own curiosity. But, if it's a paid service then it's hard to differentiate whether they're doing it because they like it or just for money. However, I understand that a few guys who might not get anyone to have some fun might go with paid services, but still, there are a few people who might not judge you on how you look or how old are you. Just keep trying, don't give up. You can ping me too, I don't mind the age or the look. I just see if the mutual interests match. Nobody's ugly and nobody has to feel inferior about their own body.
|Posted On Aug 5, 2022 - 12:28 PM|
in delhi genrally they dont tell u that they are paid in starting. after pics after every genral chat is over they say we are paid. so genrally paid are fake/cheats
|Posted On Aug 5, 2022 - 12:50 PM|
To avoid this in the very first meeting do not shy to ask whether the other person is paid or has some expectations
|Posted On Aug 5, 2022 - 01:44 PM|
I request everyone to treat paid guys as slaves because they take our money and try to be dominating thats not ryt… try to hold them with our command because 99% of pais guys are either fake or fee like a hero. Thats not at all ryt they have to be their clients ghulam or atleast have be like a whore. Do we treat female prostitutes as queens? Then why these fellows should be given a status of ‘KING’. Juts think once everyone its an appeal to have them under control
|Posted On Aug 5, 2022 - 01:57 PM|
I wish to echo someone already said before me, we can get a feel of something service-like if it involves massage. There needs to be proper validation as there r high chances we end up being marinated with a tiny bottle of parachute oil.
I have seen people so much desperate for others hard earned money.
I don't believe there is out there any men offering ***-as-service with professional reliability and at a price that doesn't cost heaven!!
|Posted On Aug 5, 2022 - 03:03 PM|
If you are looking for paid fun make sure you are in to protected *** and paid once you meet by real dont pay before meet...
|Posted On Aug 5, 2022 - 03:26 PM|
@wingedcupid your comment made me laugh about the marinating with a tiny bottle of parachute oil🤣🤣
You all have put out very valid points, but then all said& done, there are guys who have more money than brains& think with their ***! So i guess, to each their own. If they have surplus cash to throw around for robotic ***, so be it.
|Posted On Aug 6, 2022 - 02:42 AM|
Its as simple, if you buy or rent something from a shop you first precheck and assure the quality, price, reviews, and also negotiate. Do the same for paid service. *** is a thing which is always being misused from ages due to people who have brain in heir ***.
I read one comment above saying he was paid 8000 for massage and blowjob.
I would suggest if you are in paid service then please don’t cheat and think logically what are asking for. All because of such high rates people don’t or prefer less for paid service.
|Posted On Aug 6, 2022 - 06:01 AM|
There are two type of paids..
One the who genuinely needs money mostly are the students who don't get enough pocket money.. but also want ***
Second are professionals who made out an easy way to earn money by being paid.. *** is not their priority.
After long chats differentiate between two and if u find guy of category one go for it.. never go for second type of guy who are there just for money...
Protection is most important in paid service guy irrespective of the type of guy or how handsome and hygienic he may be..
But if *** is available for free, i don't understand why people go for paid services.. someone above said for average looking or aged guys have difficulty in finding good looking guys.. they go for paid.. but u will only get physical satisfaction not the emotional and mental.. u will never be satisfied completely and will find more nd more paid guys coz ur desires are not and will never fullfill.
I advice that u settle for another avg looking guy or guy of ur age who is interested in you and do things mutually..
That's my personal openion..
|Posted On Aug 6, 2022 - 08:09 AM|
1. Matter of choice - To my mind, free or payable is a matter of choice. Mutual pleasure probably will be free but if you avail service, it will be payable. Though the example is not directly connected but still i can say whether i want to have free water or i want to buy paid water bottle is again a matter of choice. Not that the free water will be sub standard.
2. Protection - Also lot of emphasis people are putting on protection for paid ones. I feel that is irrespective of paid or free. You never know the health status of free guy or how many times he was laid. So protection must whether free or paid
3. Passion - You all are right when you state that professionals are doing it for money so sense of emotion is not there. Like if i or my mother cook food, it will be with love and passion and if you hire cook, you can not expect that emotions. But still, you may hire cook for variety of reasons. Many times you will see people complaining that the house help is not keeping the house clean and if we would have done it our self, it would be more cleaner. We can take 1000 such examples like hiring driver etc. The point is paid services has its own place in society for variety of reasons and it will be there forever,
4. Non availability of free service - Mostly it will not happen. Like attracts like. If i am chubby and old and i also seeking the same kind of partner, i will probably get it. However, if i am old and i want young person, it may be difficult (though not impossible) and hence the temptation to go for paid one is definitely there. In real life of marriage proposals also, the wealthy has more choices!!!!!!!!!!!
5. Risk - Risk of cheating is in both kind of situation and one can not generalize it.
To have good connection
1. Always check/disclose whether the person is paid or free in the first interaction itself. It saves time of both the parties
2. Always use protection
3. Never set meeting at your residence or go to someone residence. Meet at neural place
4. Place your expectation clearly on role to be played and what you expect. Also ask the other person on what he is expecting. Many times people on their profile vaguely write "Versatile Top" or "Versatile" and once you meet them, it turns out that they are "Bottoms". This confusion is mainly seen because many still do not understand the meaning of word "versatile". Also many top believe that "bottom" means getting girly man which is again a misunderstanding. So sometimes top may get disappointed once he sees the bottom being manly.
|Posted On Aug 6, 2022 - 09:46 AM|
*** is not a commodity & money is paid when you buy a commodity or a service, neither is *** a chargeable service, its a 2 way mutual fun when will people understand
|Posted On Aug 6, 2022 - 10:17 AM|
According to me PAID service is good because it benefits to both paid guys and paid service seekers. There are some guys who do paid *** to meet monthly expenses like mobile bills, tiffen, hotel/Bar bills etc. Similarly there are some guys who do not get guys for *** easily due to age, color, size, fitness etc. For these peoples Paid guys are good option. As far as *** satisfaction is concern the MAHA MANTRA is "CHOICE" because everyone have there own choice and one should respect others choice too. These is applicable to paid guys too, If you are choice of paid guy then he will surely satisfy you. So If you are going for paid *** better ask him about his linking, try to adjust with him, have a length talk with him to know him and have a little bit bonding with him. Ultimately everyone needs love (Yaha har koi pyar ka bhuka hai...)
My choice is is slim, smooth, and young guys. :)
|Posted On Aug 6, 2022 - 02:28 PM|
@tanuj69, it is said - prostitution is the world's oldest profession.
|Posted On Aug 7, 2022 - 11:21 AM|
I might be wrong and this is my perception... it its paid..its prostitution.. now you san name is whatever to convinence yourself..
|Posted On Aug 7, 2022 - 03:25 PM|
i m from jaipur & never used paid service & never ask for it. *** should be freely available. bottoming without money gives a insane satisfaction. wanna try with multiple tops this time 😜 sometimes i observe people demand for paid bottom don't know why.
|Posted On Aug 8, 2022 - 09:03 AM|
It depends upon situations. I was in Indonesia few years back and tried paid service. I hired three guys...all versatile. One of them had a curved thick ***...really big. I enjoyed with them fully...***.. getting ***..***...rimmed ..mutual *** ...etc. It was a real fun and enjoyment. My experience was OK for paid service
|Posted On Aug 8, 2022 - 04:43 PM|
Paid service doesn't give any satisfaction. No exchange of love involved. I only had once and it's not at all interesting. For them, isex is routine and boring exercise.
|Posted On Aug 8, 2022 - 05:33 PM|
Few are talking about 'LOVE' ... Seriously??
What percent of gay meets another gay for love. It's more of ***. If it was for love, you would have not dated the other guy in your life.
About paid ***, O have met both types, paid and unpaid.
What i realised, unpaid guys are with too much fuss, they do too much of nakhra, Aisa nahi karenge, waisa nahi karenge, mujhe aisa hi pasand he, mujhe aisa nahi pasand he. Whereas paid guy will do all that you say.
This is my personal experience, no intention to offend anyone.
|Posted On Aug 9, 2022 - 04:44 AM|
Yes Paid guys don't do Navtanki....
|Posted On Aug 9, 2022 - 10:09 AM|
Some paid guys are very professional and they are worth for enjoyment. Its always better to have safe play with them
they even provide full satisfactory services
|Posted On Aug 9, 2022 - 12:10 PM|
The most important point is the transparency. In any conversation on gay dating site or App, the first assumption people make is for mutual fun without any payment. Hence, it is very important for the person who are paid to disclose the fact that they are paid at very early stage preferably in the first chat itself. I have seen people who upfront write in their intro itself that they are paid. Its honest thing and its their choice. Period. Even some people write that they are not interested in paid guys which is equally good thing.
The conflict arises when transparency is missing. Two people start chatting and at 4th and 5th conversation one guy says he is paid. That may put off other person.
So the moral of the story is be transparent in the beginning itself. Here also some one has nickname @Teen_Top_Paid which amply makes it clear about his preference and hence the person who contact him should be clear that he is paid. So if you are not into paid, stay away and let other live their own preferences. Do not be judgmental.
In ancient India, water was free. People used to put Pots for the people to drink water. Such things were there just 10-15 years back in Mumbai also. Some one may think charging for water is bad but there is wholesome business of packaged bottle.
|Posted On Aug 13, 2022 - 06:03 PM|
I personally feel that most of the people posing as gay are actually time passers. They always talk and say that they have no place and when you ask them to share the hotel bill, they back off. Actually very few people want love. They want fun for free and don't care for anything before or after. The paid guys surely take money but they deliver although there are cheaters and black mailers also.
|Posted On Aug 14, 2022 - 04:46 PM|
I guess there are a fair amount of cheaters too , there are PPL like me too who are in it for fun too , we just charge a small amount depending on the service you require .
I guess if you just want some fun go for it ..
|Posted On Aug 17, 2022 - 07:49 PM|
I don't judge people who go for paid services and who are paid whores lol.
For me I feel it's not worth the risk especially if you are in a different city or country.
I don't want to end up beaten up, loot and even murdered.
I might go for paid service when I'm 80 & don't give a damn anymore about dying and diseases lol
|Posted On Aug 18, 2022 - 05:01 AM|
Safety always first. The rule of safety equally applies in paid as well as unpaid ....frankly you can not say the one is more riskier than other
|Posted On Aug 18, 2022 - 12:28 PM|
@foeoldertops , where is this completely safe place ?
Do let me know, would like to try if it exists.
Risk are everywhere if you are not in your senses.
Never i was beaten by paid guy, but yes twice i was looted by guys who did not charge me, and said let's go to some desserted place
|Posted On Aug 18, 2022 - 02:14 PM|
I pay only to *** shemales and TS. That too tried and tested contacts only.
|Posted On Aug 21, 2022 - 04:42 PM|
paid or unpaid?? depends on what you want, your expectations and what your communication skills are all about. is it mutual or one way ***?find someone that meets your desires, your expectations and is CLEAR what they can give you (besides std/aids/monkeypox).
surprise surprise.....yes love does exist in gay circles but mostly in older gays. the younger gays seek mostly physical lust and *** or getting shagged.
|Posted On Aug 22, 2022 - 10:08 AM|
I agree that getting *** service through masseur is much better. If not fun, atleast you get massage. You can decide how much to pay for ***. These guys don't show attitude or try to dominate. Since I like people respecting my say, my experience says they are the best. But ofcourse I got cheated by these students who didn't do good massage and not much ***. But then I don't visit them or atleast bargain for 500-600. Then I tip them if action goes well above expectations.
I am wondering how this forum reader got delivery boy. What is the trick to get them?
|Posted On Aug 25, 2022 - 10:36 AM|
When u are over a certain age, over 45. But yet desire younger guys 18-22 year olds.... Paid is the easier way out.
Paid guys don't waste time..... Hardcore ***, usually are in need of money, show them some rich life. Cars , clothes, mobiles.
Personally I have had some problems with paid guys. But 8 out of 10 are serious...... Love these hard bodies...... Many boys keep coming back for more........ For them it's good *** and money......... Add some alcohol....... Majority of boys coming to mumbai don't have money..... Thus we need to support this services..........
|Posted On Aug 25, 2022 - 10:55 AM|
All are good if provide good service and satisfaction as you need
In paid you have more safty and clearty for fun but all depend on person to person thinking and requirements
But as i think paid best if u need good
|Posted On Aug 25, 2022 - 01:47 PM|
Hi 👋 i don't think we can buy everything
|Posted On Aug 25, 2022 - 02:35 PM|
Paid services are good but it depends on personal chemistry and liking.sometimes we are not satisfied with high payment but sometimees small payment solve purposes. Combination of good look humanity and paid works together.
|Posted On Aug 25, 2022 - 05:12 PM|
I feel like paid service is the way to go for me at least. Online cruising is a waste of time and effort, all that happens is everyone asks you for pics like they collect them. I’ve had a lot of bad experience online, few times i went to the location sent but after I reached i was ghosted. In paid they won’t ask for pics or ghost you after chatting for a while. But to find the paid services i have to use the app again.
|Posted On Aug 25, 2022 - 06:30 PM|
Paid services are good if you are in mood. Of course it depends of genuinity.
|Posted On Aug 28, 2022 - 10:21 AM|
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