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Submitted by Harish006 Location: All India (All India, India)

Hi guys I am 37 yrs male, past one and a half year back was suffering from prostitis, i am non diabetic,& non hypertensive i am not getting proper *** or interest towards *** ...pls guide me ..i am very much depressed

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Akshay99 *
Posted On Jan 14, 2022

Keep mind positive and everything will be ok, if you sulk you will go into depression and will face erections issues.

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Thor69
Posted On Jan 14, 2022

@cowboyrocks18, is masturbation a cause for such issues?? I thought a *** a day was healthy

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Gunmasterxx
Posted On Jan 14, 2022

@Harish006 take 1 tablet ashwagandha everyday at night with milk. And see the result in 10 to 15 days.
It is available on medical shop. Ask for Himalaya Ashwagandha.

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sonu963
Posted On Jan 14, 2022

Eat khajoor with milk for 10 days. You will get ur power again..... Best of luck. Bcos I was also suffering from *** problem. But after this I can *** every day and night. My age is 40 plus

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naanuneenu
Posted On Jan 14, 2022

Sildenafil citrate (Viagra) or Tadalafil (Cialis) will help you.... These help you only when you have stimulation.


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Lingerie
Posted On Jan 14, 2022

Simple remedies ...
Saunf ...... 150 GM's
Almonds small..... 100 gms
Rosted chana without cover... 100gm
White pepper....10 gm

Make powder and take it at bed time with warm milk ... Have black gud along with it....


Morning 5 shaft will rise like a tamboo


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DrGoogle
Posted On Jan 14, 2022

@Harish006
You need to visit urologist for evaluation. Chronic prostatitis can affect sexual function. It needs evaluation and treatment may help. Urologist will obtain detailed history and order urine , semen culture , imaging like Ultrasound , MRI prostate etc if indicated.
Please visit urologist for medical evaluation. Your symptoms may be reversible if underlying condition is evaluated and treated properly . Please give urologist full history on unprotected *** and history of secually transmitted infections in the past , if any.

Wish you all the best

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rahulmehra17
Posted On Jan 15, 2022

Even i am suffering from it. Mine is more psychological i believe due to watching a alot of sissy *** ( wanna get rid of this addiction). I am not aroused during normal intercourse with girls . I use 10 mg tadalafil . It helps me like crazy ! Ashwagandha and gokshura doesn't help me. Taking since months now.
Though i am still looking for a natural and permanent solution !

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DrGoogle
Posted On Jan 15, 2022

Two broad categories for Erectile Dysfunction are Psychological ( commonest ) and organic / structural.

Useful Rule of Thumb is if Man experiences NPT ( Nocturnal Penile Tumescence) which is just a term for early morning hard-on then his Erectile dysfunction is most probably psychological.
In organic/ structural Erectile dysfunction individual is less likely / unlikely to experience full early morning NPT.
Stress , depression , anxiety ( including performance anxiety ), dislike for particular partner are the commonest causes for psychological Erectile dysfunction. Sildenafil , Tadalafil may work for these type.

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DrGoogle
Posted On Jan 15, 2022

Erectile dysfunction means difficulty in achieving or maintaining election.

Early discharge is called as Prenature Ejaculation. These two are different things. Premature Ejaculation is common and need not be abnormal.

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skilledmate
Posted On Jan 15, 2022

@RahulMehra17, talk it out with someone (may be your partner/ may be a professional). Don't use tablet, they addict you. I had ED cos I had deep desires to cross-dress and then my bumhole fingered and ***.. but didn't express it to anyone and it ate me within. over a period of time expressed it to my wife, took her time to accept it but once we she did and I had spoken to my hearts content, our *** life soared sky high. now we have wild *** where we *** each other. we bought strap-on for her, dresses for me, dildos for her, etc and can't get enough of each other..

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Raajiv
Posted On Jan 15, 2022

@rahulmehra
I also have same problem.. many a times(not always) not get natural *** with girls.. but whenever I take tadalafil or sidnefil I get good erections.. only 5 mg is sufficient for me to get rocketed..

But only thing is I get disturbd sleep, headach and drowsiness next morning and

I just want to know whether there is any long term issues with taking these tablets.. i consulted many doctors online and almost all of them suggested these only.. Ashwagandha, shilajit and goksura didn't worked for me also.. so are there any other medical solutions.. I am not looking for any home remedy..

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DrGoogle
Posted On Jan 15, 2022

There are no known significant side effects of Tadalafil. It should be safe to use for long term ( if needed ). In fact Sildenafil is also used to treat Pulnonary hypertension for protracted period.

One may consider reducing dose to 2.5 mg if 5 mg is sufficient for the effect.

Guys must know to absolutely avoid poppers if you are taking Tadafil due to serious interaction.

Similarly heart disease patients who are taking Nitroglycerine( GTN) , Isosorbide denitrate etc must avoid Sildenafil , Tadalafil for the serious reaction in the form of profound hypotension and resultant heart attack , stroke etc.



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chubblust
Posted On Jan 15, 2022

A safe and easy solution for erectile dysfunction and premature evacuation is to use a *** pump and a *** Ring. At any age you can get a hard cocktail and it will remain stiff with the cockring even if you ejaculated. There are nany bogus *** Pumps.but only one good one which is imported. Costs about Rs 20, 000 but works. I use it.

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chubblust
Posted On Jan 15, 2022

I saw a post where someone was told maturation was.bad. Actually regular masturbation gets your *** up faster and harder and sometimes solves premature ejaculation

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chubblust
Posted On Jan 15, 2022

Dont believe those putting homemade remedies out. They don't work. Only Viagra or local.substitutes from Cipla like Penagra work. For those who need more than a pill take Viagra and use a *** Pump and your *** will stand harder than a 14 year old

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chubblust
Posted On Jan 15, 2022

Harish006 check your testosterone levels. That will explain your low *** drive. There are medications to increase your testosterone levels. You will be.energised and *** as I am

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vanju1
Posted On Jan 15, 2022

Masturbation being safe is a western misconception. Ancient Chinese medicine believed the semen to contain 30% cerebrospinal fluid, which is why regular masturbation can leave you feeling exhausted and a bit dizzy. It affects the body's balance. Even though western medicine is not known to acknowledge this, it is worth googling the composition of semen to know what you're losing when you *** frequently.

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alustpunex
Posted On Jan 15, 2022

These days, leave any topic unattended and very quickly you will start getting some really unscientific advice!
Some good points in this threat but all rest about masturbation (cerebrospinal fluid!!!), etc etc are nonsense.
Please consult with a sexual health doctor as soon as you can. That is the best and the only way. Sometimes the problem/cause is not that serious but the longer you stay with the more anxiety you will build around it. There are many such doctors in India. Good doctors. A quick search on Practo/Google will help you find someone nearby.

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Doctor
Posted On Jan 15, 2022

DrGoogle : One like from me to you.

As a urologist, I can say, gharelu nuske - A Big "NO COMMENTS" from myside.

To the author of this thread, please ping me in DM.

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DrGoogle
Posted On Jan 15, 2022

Semen containing CSF is an absolute hogwash !

Those babas who want us not to *** and preserve the semen are the ones who can't stop themselves *** women and young girls.


Even in 21st century such opinions exist is actually testament to lack of Scientific literacy.
Those who are trying to equate modern medicine with unscientific balderdash perpetuated by traditional medicine ( may it be ayurveda or traditional Chinese medicine or Unani or any other system ).

But this is an open forum and anyone can post their opinions. I guess when people post stuff they open themselves to scrutiny and criticism. I would rather have post them such opinions publicly and engage in debate rather take such thoughts to their peers and next generation.

Semen is meant to be excreted and masturbation has no untoward effect on body that is medically proven fact. Rather masturbation has several positive effects on human psychology , brain. Please stop perpetuating myths about Masturbation.

Whether Erectile dysfunction or Premature Ejaculation - if in doubt discuss with qualified medical practitioner like Physician , Urologist or Sexual health specialist. If you feel shy then teleconsultation can help you overcome it.
If anyone has general queries you are welcome to message me directly.



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DrGoogle
Posted On Jan 15, 2022

@ Doctor
Thanks for your intervention.

Guys @Doctor is our in-house Urologist.

Please take this opportunity and discuss with him.
He is the best person to advise !

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Doctor
Posted On Jan 15, 2022

@DrGoogle : The last but second comment, one line for me to add - Anything done in excessive is harm to self.

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DrGoogle
Posted On Jan 15, 2022

@ Doctor

Indeed , that goes without saying.

Too much of anything is hazardous that includes too much of Masturbation too.

Couldn't agree about it anymore!

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Doctor
Posted On Jan 15, 2022

I guess i will be bombarded with several messages here and in private inbox if I say dates with milk for ten days, saunf, almonds, rosted chana without cover, white pepper ARE BULL ***. Yes, I repeat, thats BULL ***. Thats your feel of improving, but doesn't...

The sequence of the treatment should go as below
1. blood reports (some of them are real costly)
2. medicines (troubleshooting depending on blood samples whether to start with basic then go to moderate and then advance)
3. dopplers (at this stage, based on result, we recommend whether viagra, tadalafil can help or not as a troubleshooting)
4. pump / *** ring / laser (this is non-medical troubleshooting try)
6. if none of the above works, surgery (99.99% success rate)

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verscrazylad
Posted On Jan 15, 2022

Doctor- L Arginine can be recommended too ! 😃

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rohan_kolkata
Posted On Jan 15, 2022

Whatttttt???? Semen contains CSF???? Then whole biology is a lie🙊

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jaidesai
Posted On Jan 15, 2022

dr google and doctor have given some very good advice. thanks. please pay heed to the advices.

a reply to some other comments:

the clear liquid that flows after watching *** or during foreplay is natural...a lubricant...called pre-***. it prepares you *** for some good wet ***. women have this too if and when they are stimulated and ready for ***. alternatively you will need jelly or oil for smooth ***, otherwise partners will suffer from bruising.

pre-mature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction are 2 different problems!!
erectile dysfunction needs medical advice.
pre-mature ejaculation may need medical advice but it is more a psychological problem. REMEMEBR: *** IS A PROCESS THAT STARTS IN YOUR BRAINS AND THEN THE SIGNALS GET TRANSMITTED TO YOUR ***! pre-mature ejaculation is mostly caused due to repression of your sexual urges during teenage years, because you were told that '*** is bad' (you may contact me for a solution...it may work or it may not). i am NOT A DOCTOR but an old man with wisdom/experiences.
masturbation is GOOD BUT IN MODERATION. like everything in life, too much is BAD! you DO NOT NEED to shoot your load every time you ***. it is called CONTROL. if you shoot your load about twice a week, you are doing good. so ENJOY or you will have a problem like pre-mature ejaculation.

using viagra and other pills must be taken ONLY IF everything else fails (eat healthy, keep fit , stop smoking and reduce your sugar/alcohol intake).
using rubber bands/rings is not good in the long term.

if you watch too much *** or you frequently ***, you will have a problem with real ***. *** does not have love or sexual body aromas or feelings for another person...the main purpose is arousal , penetration and ejaculation. FULL STOP! similarly in masturbation, there is no sharing of love, sexual body aromas or feelings. it is about arousal and ejaculation as soon as possible ( including fear of being caught)! it is SELFISH LOVE. it is good to love oneself but dont go overboard. real good *** requires love, shared feelings, enjoying each others body aromas and CONTROL. women take longer to *** and need more stimulation and so the male partner must try and make her excited while he remains erect but controlled. BOTH PARTNERS MUST ENJOY, TRY TO MAKE THE OTHER ONE HAPPY/FULFILLED AND TRY TO *** AT THE SAME TIME.

try and have an open discussion with your partner on your likes and dislikes without shocking the other nor forcing them. the earlier after marriage, the better. if you like being ***, maybe introduce her to some ***. that way she will know that it is natural and not unnatural or dirty. FOR HEAVENS SAKE, PLEASE WASH YOUR *** OR HAVE A BATH BEFORE YOU ASK ANOTHER PERSON TO ***!!!

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Fun_fun
Posted On Jan 16, 2022

@Dr.google

Is L citrulline malate safe ? And does it help ?

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DrGoogle
Posted On Jan 16, 2022

@ Fun_fun
Thanks for your query .

L citrulline is an amino acid . It is present in food.

The evidence for its efficacy in Erectile dysfunction is scanty and totally unreliable.

It is a marketing gimmick to prey upon such a common male problem.

It will be largely safe for your body but it is not safe for your wallet.

Don't waste your money on citrulline.

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ohmojo_7034
Posted On Jan 16, 2022

@Dr.google ,doctor
I'm 23 aged single guy.my *** won't erect property when I do ***.i have viagra 100 mg with me now .can I take it for a proper ***?? Is yes,which is the ideal time for taking the viagra? Or 50 mg is enough.
I haven't consumed Viagra before..it's my first time.
I don't have any heart issues and all
But bad cholesterol is bit high in my blood

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DrGoogle
Posted On Jan 16, 2022

@ohmojo_7034
Thanks for your query.
Since you are taking it first time better start with 50 mg. Based on the effect you may decrease dose to 50 mg or increase to 100 mg.

Sildenafil starts working after 30 minutes . Action peaks at 1 hour .
While it may work till 4 hours it's effect is reduced considerably after 2 hours from taking tablet.
Plan sexual activity and take tablet accordingly.

Sildenafil oral dissolving strips ( ODS ) are also available. They can be kept in wallet and doesn't need water to drink.
Action of onset is still same i.e. 30 minutes.
ODS however are slightly costlier but convenient because they are easy to carry.

If bad cholesterol is high - please recheck it within 6 months ( and quit smoking if you do smoke ). If cholesterol still high please consult general practitioner.

Please note :
Smoking can be bad for your heart as well as your *** !!!

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Smart_top12
Posted On Jan 16, 2022

@DrGoogle-:
Thanks for good advice...
I have one query... I have PE problem...
Spray like climax work for me ...
But just want to know , is there any tablet for it?
Or can I cure it permanently?

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akki4temp *
Posted On Jan 16, 2022

People here talk about Viagra as if it's available like Dolo 650 in medical stores ...how the hell does one acquire Viagra in the first place ???

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DrGoogle
Posted On Jan 16, 2022

@Smart_top12
Thanks for your query.

If spray works for you then there is nothing like it.
I know carrying a spray may be a hassle for you.
But spray acts only locally and has rapid onset.
Systemic medication like tablet exposes whole body to unnecessary medication.

If reason for premature ejaculation is found then cure is possible. Most cases it is only a subjective complain ( for which there can be no cure ) or no one definite correctible cause. True Premature ejaculation if it occurs within 2 minutes

Try different methods like relaxation , stop - stat technique , pelvic floor muscle exercises , longer foreplay - delayed insertion etc to see if you can avoid use of spray.


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Drillmyhole26
Posted On Jan 16, 2022

I get *** but i cannot withstand it longer. Even after Sildenafil i can't withstand long or control ***, can you please suggest any remedy for my problem

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Smart_top12
Posted On Jan 16, 2022

@DrGoogle
Thanks for advice... if spray is good and as it works for me then i will continue with that... carrying it bit worry :) but it is ok..

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Pinkraider
Posted On Jan 18, 2022

I have always taken Tadalafil 10 mg on prescription for my ED,never sildenafil.Tadalafil effect lasts two days(atleast for me) but brings along with it a severe headache,mild hot flushing on the face and to some extent low back discomfort or pain.i take my tablet along with pantoprazole and soy milk (sofit etc 200 ml) which helps me to avoid the headache on the first day atleast (the headache surfaces on the second day but is much milder).even if I miss out on either of the one i. e. Pantoprazole or soy milk then there is no escaping the headache.

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Raajiv
Posted On Jan 19, 2022

@pinkraider. That's why sildenafil is better than tadalafil..

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DrGoogle
Posted On Jan 19, 2022

Tadalafil is long acting. Effect lasts for 36 hours.
Sildenafil is short acting effect lasts only for 2 hours ( less commonly upto 4 hours ).
Sildenafil therefore is time critical.
Once you have taken sildenafil ...you have to do ' it ' within 1 hour ...

Both can cause headache , giddiness.

Side effects are dose dependent. Sildenafil is in that sense no better than tadalafil.

Advised to use lower doses if you get good effect.
So try taking tadalafil 5 mg ( or even 2.5 mg ) of you get good effect with 10 mg.

Tadalafil is better suited for those who have regular ***.

People may subjectively find one better than other but that doesn't mean it is applicable for everyone.

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John1776
Posted On Jan 19, 2022

Dear take one Capsule of Modicare Shilajit it gives you 100% result

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samjoe
Posted On Jan 19, 2022

Can I get Tadalafil from counter without a prescription.? Or slidenafil or cialysis

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Vikram2301
Posted On Jan 20, 2022

One can try Hamdard’s Majun Arad Khurma. It works wonder for man. Help in erectile dysfunction,premature ejaculation,sustained ***,sperma quality.

There are no known side effects as such.

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DrGoogle
Posted On Jan 20, 2022

@samjoe

Most pharmacies in India don't ask for prescription ( though legally they ought to ). So , you will be able to get it without prescription in India

Let me state it categorically that none of the traditional medicines whether shilajit or Majun arad khumra have been scientifically tested , proven.
If anyone had proof of double blind randomised controlled trials testing shilajit and ashwagandha for proven efficacy against Erectile dysfunction , please share it here!
Many such traditional medications actually are adulterated with allopathic medicines like sildenafil , tadalafil etc etc which is why they may work sometime for some patient. Many times it is the mere ' placebo effect '
When scientifically proven , tested medicines like Sildenafil , Tadalafil etc are available then there is no point in going for all such untested , unproven and therefore potentially hazardous traditional medicines.

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Headspace
Posted On Jan 22, 2022

Hey guys
Just wanted to know if viagra works thr same way in females or do they just work in males.

What is the alternative for females?

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DrGoogle
Posted On Jan 22, 2022

@Headspace

Simple answer is small yes and BIG NO.

1. Yes -
Women have male counterpart of *** ...it is called as Clitoris ( please Google image to see exactly , where and how it looks like. This is one of the G spot in women and plays important role in Female sexual arousal and orgasm. So viagra can ' technically ' work .
However evidence is limited and benefit only seen in females with Primary Sexual Dysfunction.
Physiological substitute to viagra in females is to stimulate criteria sufficiently ( using lips , mouths, hands , vibrators etc etc )
Viagra of course works with Male to Female transgenders with residual ***. It also works with Female to Male transgenders who have received musculinising hormone therapy that causes clitoris enlargement sometimes looking like actual but small ***. As clitoris contains erectile tissue like ***. Larger the criteria more likely that viagra / Coalisland may work.
Use in these settings is off label ( not FDA approved)
Smaller doses I.e. 20 mg of sildenafil suggested instead of usual Male dose of 50 or 100 mg.


2. No- female sexual response is substantially different from men ( obviously )
Viagra doesn't work for most other types of female sexual dysfunction. There are several new drugs for this that gave been approved in recent few years like Oestrogen, Flibanserine, Bremelanotide etc .
All these need thorough medical assessment as well as prescription.

Take home message
Do not try to treat sexual dysfunction of female partner with sildenafil. Better consult medical expert. Gynaecologist is best suited to assess and advise.

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Manishgan
Posted On Jan 22, 2022

To the doctors here, thanks a lot first!!!
My query is about ED. Since last one and a half year I have stopped getting morning wood, get an *** when aroused and also masturabte but it reduced considerably. Morning wood is almost kind of gone. Plus old problem of PE is there, *** within 20 seconds during masturbation.
Please suggest.

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DrGoogle
Posted On Jan 23, 2022

@ITSMEIMRAN
@msnishgan

Human bodies are not *** machines 😉
Even machines don't give consistent 'performance'
Sexual act is a result of comple Psycho-Neuro-muscular process involving diverse Brain , Spinal cord , Sacral nerves , pelvic floor muscles !

A large number of psychological neurological factors can affect individual *** acts.

Failure to have adequate *** on certain occasions should not be cause of worry. In fact too much focus on and worry about 'occasional ' lapse can affect subsequent acts. Only if failure to achieve and *** consistently should be a cause of worry.

Important to relax and let it play out naturally. It is not a race or competetion. It should be treated as 'play'.

Routine use of medications should not be encouraged. I am not qualified to comment about Hamdard majun or shilajeet though my personal opinion is against untested medications for which there is no scientific evidence like hamdard stuff or shilajeet and so on.


I will like to add this general comment ( I don't want to add multiple separate posts ).

Penetrative *** is not everything.
There is a huge scope for all other aspects of sexual experience.

*** is not everything.
Life is more than succession of different sexual experiences.
Constant preoccupation with *** is unhealthy.
To try to fill void within one's life with *** is detrimental in long run. *** is pleasurable and pleasure is conveyed to brain by release of Dopamine - a key chemical in all ' pleasure' pathways. Same dopamine is involved in food pleasure , high from drugs , gambling etc i.e. it is involved in addiction of all kinds because of its role in pleasure circuits of brain.
Many people use '***' as anti depressant , anti stress strategy. This is ok , occasionally. But real danger is getting ' addicted ' and subsequent ' de sensitisation' where for same pleasure you now need more than initial stimulus.

Constant *** watching , masturbation , *** , *** with different people/ partners , *** in different settings , *** orgies , *** with drugs , *** in high risk settings like public *** ....*** in all extreme forms ...*** with violence ...*** with animals ... this is how it progresses.
If in the beginning mere thought or touch was enough for arousal ..desensitisation of brain due to constant barrage of *** / *** leads to need for more stronger , vicious sensual stimulation to achieve same effect


That is how the ante is upped and for same ' pleasure ' effect you need more and more ' dose ' of ***.

Body however can't keep up with demands placed by the brain which needs more and more of it for same ' relief '.
Many will experience erectile dysfunction resulting from such abuse. There is only so much that you can push yourself . There are limits to everything.

What you watch in *** is highly unnatural. Everything is 'edited'. Please exercise caution and take care of yourself.

What happened to courtship , romance ?
Instant gratification has sidelined these and short circuited the '***' .

Websites , digital content , apps , peer pressure all have created toxic environment ripe for *** and *** addiction.


Please take a pause , introspect and act accordingly.


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Dombot26
Posted On Jan 23, 2022

Wow we are so lucky to have doctors on this forum.
Guys just don't put so much pressure on yourself,it's ok to relax. Not Everyone has a 100% success record ,not everyone has a 10inch ***,not everyone has the stamina to *** for hours at a time , not everyone has a hard on whenever they want .And speaking of *** videos , they are edited to look like they have a hard on for hours but actually not all videos are true .
Take some time off,exercise a bit and eat healthy .
Even then if you have problems then just contact a doctor.
Don't ever take some tablets or some tv commercial meds without consulting a doctor.
Reading a lot of guys telling about some meds and potions but don't take those , just consult a doctor and be safe.
I have personally seen many guys go into depression just becoz of ed.They just say that they can't perform or satisfy their bottoms ,so they have never met anyone from years.
Sometimes in bedroom when many of my older tops couldn't perform they just become too sad and withdraw from the mood.I had a situation where one of my older top had tears in his eyes when he couldn't perform.,I was shocked becoz it was my first time seeing this reaction.
I had to console him and get him to face the facts and told him to visit the doctor for treatment.but after I gave him a good hot oil massage and started to tease he was hard and he lasted for about 20min ,we had good fun.
Later met him after 2 months again , the doctor had given him some meds and it was working a bit , he was 58year old and had a heart problem so the doctor didn't give him any viagra.
So guys don't think too much on your problem.Consult a doctor.until then there are lots of ways to satisfy your partner other than ***.
And plz stay away from the fake tablets and potions they market on tv
And plz stay away from Viagra if you are on heart meds


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skilledmate
Posted On Jan 24, 2022

The primary cause of ED is not in the p**is but in the mind.. sort out the cobwebs in your mind, clear ur thoughts, relieve your stress and your pe**s will start performing. yes, some may have physical issues and those could be resolved through tablets but before u try any of that be sure that your mind is not holding you back.

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