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Submitted by Harish006 Location: All India (All India, India)

Hi guys I am 37 yrs male, past one and a half year back was suffering from prostitis, i am non diabetic,& non hypertensive i am not getting proper *** or interest towards *** ...pls guide me ..i am very much depressed

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Rohiram
Posted On Jan 28, 2022

Check vit d, it is related to testosterone and sexual issues. If vit d is low for long time, u will get low or no erections bcoz body drops t hormone in absence or low levels of vitamin d. Check ur vit d level and sit under sun and begin ur erections and morning woods. It is done through simple blood test and range of vit d should be 30-100. If u don't believe, google vitamin d and testosterone (or ed problems), u will get many research links on it. Hope it helps. Happy healing to all

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Gayashish3
Posted On Jan 28, 2022

Vitamin D is related to hundreds of diseases, if u google search like this , u will get connection of many diseases with vitamin D , it isn’t the correct way of correlating !

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DrGoogle
Posted On Jan 28, 2022

Thanks @ Gayashish3 for important clarifiction

Indeed mere ' Googling' can be dangerous.
Lot of information on internet is uncureted , unedited , unchecked. In era of Fake News and Information war mere googling and bekieving something just because there are millions of hits /pages means nothing.

Vitamin d deficiency is less common these days in India. India being a tropical country adequate sun exposure gives some vitamin d . Other sources of vitamin through food are adequate esoecially given so that commonly used food articles like milk are fortified with Vitamin D.

Vitamin d deficieny may be seen in muslim , marwari women who observe strict heejab/naqab and purdah resoectively and stay indoor most of the times ( all of which also have reduced considerably )

Most of the scientific evidence available for correlation between vitamin d and erectile dysfunction is borderline , low quality.
Erectile dysfunction is a very important concern for most men ( therefore lucrative market for pharma companies ) . Preying upon insecurities of men , pharma companies are willing to support poorly conducted research that may support vitamin d supplimentation in such setting. At present evidence is borderline , low quality.

Erectile dysfunction , as you all can see , is a very emotional and important topic for lot of men. It has varied causes. Vitamin D deficiency is less important among them. Severe vitamin D deficieny as you noted is not so common these days due to reasons explained as above.

Singular thrust on Vitamin D checking should not be promoted. It could be part of thorough evaluation in patients with persistent unexplained Erectile Dysfunction.

Self testing for vitamin d and self medication for supposed deficieny to treat erectile dysfunction should be avoided as other important causes may be missed.


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DrGoogle
Posted On Jan 28, 2022

NPT happens atleast 3-5 times during sleep each time sleep goes into REM sleep ( from NREM sleep ) . Only last one is remembered while waking up. So just because you don't sense NPT does not mean that you don't have NPT. You may be having one during early cycles that you do not know.

Masturbation definitely affects nightfall. If you are masturbating regularly then there may not be sufficient semen for spontaneous ejaculation. But whether excessive masturbation causes decrease in NPT is not known.

Since you are otherwise having normal *** and if there are no other sleep problems then no need to worry about absence of observable NPT. As I said you may be having that you are not aware of.
Testing for NPT in your case is not required.

Medications which reduce REM sleep such as antidepressants , SSRI etc can reduce NPT.

Please see if you are not masturbating excessively. Make sure that you are not dependent / addicted to it.

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Kdj
Posted On Jan 29, 2022

Guys.
What is NPT and NREM & REM sleep???
Please enlighten

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Rohiram
Posted On Jan 29, 2022

Ok those who want to try vit d can sit under sun it's free, and non risky. They can see the reults if they are facing ed due to vit d deficiency. Vit d is majorly deficient in india now especially in cities, anyone can check. Ed can happen by many reasons, this can b 1 reason too. Sunlight vitamin d helps heart and brain function so it helps in ed if ed is related to mood, and moreover I did not recommend supplement for vit d, I said to sit under sun for some time which is totally harmless. I shared what I know, i am not giving any medical advice to anyone, any one who need consultation can connect with doc and get treated.

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DrGoogle
Posted On Jan 29, 2022

@Kdj

NPT - Nocturnal Penile Tumescence - is medical term for early morning hardons in men .


REM ( Rapid Eye Movement ) and NREM ( Non Rapid Eye movement ) are two types of sleep that we all go through every time we sleep. For interesting details please google because discussion on this will be off topic.

Rapid Eye Movement ( REM) sleep is the one during which we get intense , vivid dreams including Sexual dreams and is associated with NPT / Hardons ( with or without accompanying sexual dreams ) and occasionally spontaneous ejaculation ( Nightfall ) sometimes referred colloquially as Swapnadosh ( though this is perfrctly normal and adjective 'dosh ' which implies that it is some kind of disorder is totally wrong ) .

Normal NPT during night but unable to have or sustain erections while being awake ( during masturbation or *** ) implies psychological causes for Erectile Dysfunction.

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DrGoogle
Posted On Jan 30, 2022

I have been recieving lot of queries regarding Diabetes and Erectile dysfunction. So sharing this for General Audience.

Diabetes and Erectile Dysfunction

Diabetes is a very common cause of Erectile Dysfunction in India.

Diabetes also affects nerves which are responsible for ***. This could be Acute neuropathy ( possibly , partially reversible ) and or Chronic neuropathy ( partially irreversible )
Strict diabetes control can improve nerve function partially but it takes long time. Important to continue observing tight diabetes control. Crucial to take diabetes medications , insulin regukarly and check glucose, HbA1C regularly to ensure strict DM control.
Aim target of HbA1c of 7 % .
Need to quit smoking and drinking alcohol if one does.
Since you are able to achieve *** during masturbation ( which you do on at your own pace ) you should also be able to achieve *** with partner. Seek partner who is understanding , non pushy , non demanding so that you can have unhurried ***. Have long sensuous foreplay with partner. You may also watch *** with your partneras prelude to ***.

You can take tadafil 1 day prior to planned *** ( provided you have no heart issues and taking GTN , isosorbide ).
Diabetes is often associated with obesity. Excess body fat converts testosterone ( male *** hormone) into oestrogen ( female *** hormone ). This can also contribute to Erectile dysfunction. Please institute gradually progressive exercise regimen ( avoid subjecting yourself to heavy workout ; it should be gradual process ). Weight loss and exercise related improvement in Testosterone may help ED.
If testosterone is very low , testosterone replacement may help ( this should be done only under medical supervision)


Diabetes is often associated with hypertension and many patients are on medications called as beta blockers ( like Atenolol , Metoprolol , Carvedilol etc ) which are good for heart. They cause very strong Erectile dysfunction. Please discuss these with your physician and alternate options if you are on any beta blocker.

If are a diabetic you are at an increase risk of high cholesterol as well as heart diseases. Please undergo interval periodic check up. To prevent all complications manage your diabetes strictly and follow healthy life style that includes regular exercise.
It is usual to have small size ***. Penetration is not everything. Employ dildos , vibrators to satisfy your partners besides other aspects of *** like body ***.

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Doctor
Posted On Jan 30, 2022

DrGoogle. Thanks and well said. Not sure what specialization doctor you are, but i mistakenly wrote in public forum here am a urologist / andrologist. Since then I keep getting several messages, the genuine ones I did recommend and sought reports and gave medication, but the messages like "Are you a true doctor, are you sure you are a doctor" types of messages hurts.

I appreciate your involvement here, but with messages like this coming up (genuine ones are responded until treatment) but i have stopped responding.

For others, there are several commentaries written on this thread, i appreciate your gut feeling, but most of them are incorrect advise. Guys who are following them, may see a difference, but just short term.

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DrGoogle
Posted On Jan 31, 2022

@Doctor
Thanks for your insight.

Indeed I will take this opportunity to emphasize few points of my own.

Erectile Dysfunction is important issue for lot of men. It can have varied causes and assessment calls for detailed evaluation. Internet is filled with ( or rather overflowing with ) lot of remedies with questionable evidence that are being advertised by those with vested interests.
While some of us can give general suggestions this can't replace direct personal professional evaluation.
Please take these as educational points.
Discussions in online forums can't replace professional personalised assessment and treatment.

While one can glean some insight into various aspects of Erectile Dysfunction by discussing it in general , it may not apply to each and every individual with similar sounding risk factors. Given individual may have one or more risk factors.

Please feel free to post your queries for general advise here with regards to Erectile Dysfunction but at the same time don't treat this as a substitute for real life medical consultation should your condition demand same.

Enjoy 😊

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gaylove2013
Posted On Feb 1, 2022

L-Arginine 1000 mg twice a day, an amino acid natural supplement to boost muscle action overall including erectile muscles has helped me in a big way, since it is natural supplement with no side effects can be tried.Dr Google how long one can take this? I read that it can be taken for 18 months. Plz advise.thanks

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DrGoogle
Posted On Feb 1, 2022

If you were to be given mere sugar tablets even then you may find some actual response/benifit. This is attributed to ' Placebo effect ' which is ' power of suggestion' and mediated by release of endorphins which make you truly feel better. This is why sometimes 'homeopathy' medications work - effect is not due to medicine but your brain that feels that something truly going to work.

Hence today all *** trials must be 'placebo ' controlled ( one group of patients recieve placebo i.e. no medication while other group recieves actual medication ).

Just because you felt great response due to L-arginine does not mean that it was due to L-arginine. If you can afford and if you want to then you can continue taking it.
Or you can experiment by stopping it and switching to sugar tablets. You can always resume your L-arginine if sugar tablets don't work for you. You can take them for 18 months or until your wallet allows you to.

Please don't suggest or recommend L-arginine to others eventhough you feel it has worked for you.

You need to keep this secret to yourself 😉

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Guy_desperat
Posted On Feb 2, 2022

Hello @DrGoogle and @Doctor,

I heard few comments on "Hamdard’s Majun Arad Khurma" , "Himalaya Ashwagandha" , "Modicare Shilajit" and "L Arginine"

Need some honest and genuie opinion on these products, Will these works?

Please provide your comments on these products.

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aaksin
Posted On Feb 7, 2022

I have this weird problem..
Whenever I go to cruising, I don't get hard.Guys lose interest in me, and move on
Even the *** that I jerked off to at home, doesn't help me.
What could be the reason? Some sort of performance anxiety?

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Kunalc1211
Posted On Feb 7, 2022

@aaksin: yes thats performance anxiety and also the fear of being nude in public and also thinking hard that u should get a hardon also stops u from getting hard. I have faced this issue earlier. Later i realised this and then tried not to think of getting hard or getting caught and focused on fun. Sometimes i get hard easily and sometimes not. Dont worry its natural for some to get scared and anxiety and not get a hardon

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derp21
Posted On Feb 9, 2022

@aaksin When I went to a gay theatre for the first time, I got so scared with everyone *** everyone that I could not get hard either.. I ran away midway. so I guess if it was a one time thing and you were anxious/afraid, there's nothing to worry about..

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mayank_blr
Posted On Feb 13, 2022

Supporters of allopathy talk about placebo effect without any scientific proof. Homeopathy helped me heavily while allopathy doctors gave up on my sinus problems. When I had major food poisoning, combination of homeopathy and Ayurveda recovered me fully. But all these with proper doctor consultation. My friends recovered from back pain with yoga. Although these are not related to PE or ED, I want to tell any system of medicine helps if dignosis and doctor are good. Alternative methods need time and patience but will be long lasting. Finally dont stay stuck with a doctor or system of medicine if it dont work, move on from there.

Earnest request to all:
Please consult a doctor for your problems. Please dont self medicate or treat yourself based on online opinions as it may have side effects. Dont feel breached with consultation. Now a days, PE and ED have become much common problem due to life style changes. Many medications depend on associated health issues also. Be bold and frank with doctor and choose a proper doctor. Remember, health is wealth.

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Soham_hi *
Posted On Feb 18, 2022

@justcurious... You don't have any ED.. Rather you need counseling. Concentrate on other things , just relax and have confidence in you... If possible keep yourself away from internet and social media , visual media.. lead a normal life and come to terms as if you are in an age where there is no electronic media. Practice this life style for atleast a month but I can assure you that you will start noticing unbelievable magical changes within 7 days..

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pervert
Posted On Feb 18, 2022

Dude, if you really want the issues to go away, see a doctor. If you can't talk face to face, do a video consult. I'm sure it won't be a big issue. Just relax and understand that it's a common problem and can be cured.

Again, just consult a sexologist.

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pervert
Posted On Feb 19, 2022

Well, the best way to find a good doctor is by refernce, usually by any existing doctor who might be treating you for even small things like cold or fever. Usually doctors know each other so just ask for a reference.

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jack unique
Posted On Mar 10, 2022

@guy_desperat

I have tried some of above.

Hamdard - didnt work- if t works for you then conider it placebo .
Shilajit - small response
L - argine - didt try much. as it tastes awful - could have added to lemon juice though .

What finally worked like a charm are

cheap option - Kottakal - Ashwagandha churna - night with warm milk - dont overdose it causes good sleep

Avg / higher cost - Konwei po Pue salmon capsules omega 3,6 & 9 .

Also take enough sleep. brisk walk.

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mimi69
Posted On Mar 22, 2022

hello everyone wanted to ask a question i have erctile problem but i have the fear i am mastrubating for last 4 years due to that i release my sperm in a minute due in my future will it affect my child some abnormalities

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Doctor
Posted On Mar 23, 2022

@mimi69 - Yes, possibilities are.

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90988_Raj
Posted On Mar 23, 2022

No ereection here ☹️

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Dombot26
Posted On Mar 23, 2022

@90988_Raj it's ok dear many people have problems with erections...Just don't worry too much about that .
Most of the time it's psychological , in bottoms it's more psychological than you think.
Some times you need the right partner in bed to give you a hard one .
If it's serious then don't be shy to consult a doctor.

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lovemybootty
Posted On Mar 23, 2022

@mimi69 I don't think this is Erectile dysfunction, its PME.
PME will not harm your child unless you have other bad habbits, infections or diseases.

Your sperm strength can be dominated by your Wife (Wife DNA will dominate your DNA).

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SunSmrt
Posted On Mar 23, 2022

@mimi69 4 years of masterbating don't cause premature ejaculation. If it so then everyone will have.

Child abnormalities based on the sperm quality. You can check your sperm quality in any nearby lab. Masterbating don't reduce the quality.

But there is no quick solution for PME. But medication can increase your confident.

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90988_Raj
Posted On Mar 24, 2022

I'm engaged. I don't understand now what to do? I just like the dominant male. Can someone help me?
I have made up my mind to suicide.

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sweetrolls
Posted On Mar 24, 2022

@90988_Raj don't go to that extream step, erectile diafunction is curable, just get checked with a good doctor, there is no problem without a solution, so have patience and get yourself checked, and also you can talk to your future partner about it, don't feel shy or afraid of loosing, if everything is good you will have a.good life, be positive.

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SahajShahs4
Posted On Mar 24, 2022

@90988_Raj please don't marry 🙏 talk to ur patents. It will be so difficult for u and that girl

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Rock81
Posted On Mar 25, 2022

@doctor and @drgoogle
I had erectile dysfunction, had been to doctor and had done blood test and scan no issues found, had prescribed tedafil and sedanafil, was getting good *** and little bit extended ***, this was 3 years before. Now I am unable to have strong erections even after taking sedanafil and tedafil, also I *** within a minute.
Thanks in advance for your suggestion s

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Doctor
Posted On Mar 25, 2022

drgoogle seem to be provide all lengthy lengthy messages and responses... hence i refrained giving my input, now i see his id is inactive. not sure what happened.

@Rock81 - Viagra or any medicine of this family group are mere a booster. Since these booster are new for a human body, it reacts, and we feel it works!!! Reality is, they are mere booster, not curing the issue. Hence, beyond certain time, when body become used to these booster, body doesnt react and needs medical attention.

any report or scan older than 3 months, are invalid. but i can create a opinion such an outdated reports of 3 years if you can share.

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Bottom1993
Posted On Mar 25, 2022

Anyone tried Roadside naadi(pulse) Kendra tent, Himalaya Ayurvedic
I visited today and they checked my pulse and told everything correct about me
They asked me to purchase medicine which was about 3-7 k.
Please share experiences of anyone tried

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Soham_hi *
Posted On Mar 27, 2022

@rock81. Aging, psychology and lifestyle are also considerable factors in treating ED.. after reading your prob what I feel you actually don't have any ED but you are suffering from performance anxiety, upset mind, extensive online researches and subconsciously scared of real sexual encounters.. don't take *** as a challenge or task rather take *** as pleasure. *** is also one of nature's calls and have *** only when you feel aroused.. before that to make things align once again i would suggest you to profusely soak in sun light on daily basis, read good books, have good meals, visit good places and include high intensity workout for 2 hours on daily basis.. what you should avoid doing is Stop thinking about *** , stop taking stresses, except work avoid using electronic gadgets, try to avoid air conditioners in home, if you rna smoker and drunker then give them up..i think you will be cured

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Soham_hi *
Posted On Mar 27, 2022

Remember *** tablets only work on aroused mind.. but if you are psychologically overstessed then *** medicines won't work or show much of its efficacy

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Soham_hi *
Posted On Mar 27, 2022

Subconscious mind also plays an significant long term role on sexual performance.. if you are subconsciously unhappy for a day or two you won't find any change in ur sexual performance.. but remaining unhappy in ur subconscious mind for a long time will definitely affect ur performance and that will definitely take long time to overcome though in the meanwhile you may not have good *** that might further lead to depression. So controlling mind and psychological is equally important when it comes to treating ED

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Dombot26
Posted On Mar 27, 2022

@Bottom1993 dude don't trust those roadside guys , they just cheat to extract money.Better visit good doctors,exercise, have good diet, try edging with ur partner it helps.
I do agree with Soham_hi subconscious mind also plays a big deal in *** .While having intense session controlling your feeling and mind helps you to last longer in bed.

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Rohiram
Posted On Mar 28, 2022

taking sunlight helps in ***, although other reasons are there, one reason is also this the lack of sun on our skin

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Kiran91
Posted On Apr 2, 2022

Use delay spray. It works

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Soham_hi *
Posted On Apr 3, 2022

For those who really feel that they suffer from ED ONLY for psychological issues or suffer from sexual nervousness i.e have *** when alone ,have morning wood but can't perform or don't get *** at all or sustained *** for playing can use a homeopathy medicine CONIUM MACULATUM 1m - 1 drop in a cup of water in the morning and repeat the same in the evening.. the effectiveness of the medicine will only be observed if you are not so mentally depressed.. for the depressed person the medicine will first work on your mind to bring out from depression.. during that period you might start avoiding or taking those matters non seriously for which you were being depressed. The effectiveness of the medicine on your sexual organs may vary from person to person depending on how deep rooted his depression has ruined his mental health.. one may find results after just taking a dose and the other person may find months for the medicine to work on your sexual debility ..

points to be noted

1. Don't overdose ur medicine intake as that will result in abuse of *** will negative results.

2.have patience on time and keep faith and confidence on yourself that you are absolutely fine and that suffering from ED is only because of your mind blockage .


Students who take exams too much seriously may fail to perform well due to nervousness or phobia.. same way taking *** too much seriously is ultimately leading you to sexual nervousness..


I am not a doctor but follow YouTube channels Google and as a reference i look into materia Medica and suggested you this medicine.. atleast homeopathy medicine is far safer than taking herbal

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Kumar_Aman
Posted On Apr 5, 2022

first thing first - identify that you have a problem, that is ED.
secondly- work on yourself, more than relying on doctors and medicines, that helps big time,
many a times , place , time, partner's interest - for example,...I just cant enter any ***....the moment I am offered an ***...I go down...weather it is my wife or any bottom guy (yes m married)
invest time in exercise and good diet, give yourself and body time, work on your mental strengths, know what works for you and what works against. (identify the triggers).
for example dont drink - if this adversely affects your ***.
hopefully - you will find better results in a month or 2

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chubblust
Posted On Apr 8, 2022

Total rubbish posted here. ED can be cured with Viagra or using a *** pump. I am 70 and use a pens pump to get an election as hard as a 16 year old. Even better. Because the election is maintained by a *** ring. So you stay hard even after.***. Till you remove the *** ring.

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dondavid
Posted On Apr 9, 2022

How much cost *** pump. After removing the pump can we get continue the *** grip.

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mojar
Posted On Apr 17, 2022

Change your lifestyle. Get active that should help a lot. Rather than going with internet theories always consult a doctor.

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Patricknorman
Posted On Apr 17, 2022

In my personal experience ED is due to lack or variety, excitement or boredom. Just do whatever ur mind tells u to. U will automatically get hard and last long inspite of multiple orgasms. It's a a personal experience and I have enjoyed it so many times. Turn ur problems into pleasure. Simple

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Dombot26
Posted On Apr 29, 2022

Guys it's ok if have ed...it's not the end of your life .
Don't go.taking every medicine from those road side guys or those tv ad products.
Sometimes ed can be resolved with some good exercise OR hot oil massage to the ***(have given to 4 guys and it did work ) OR diet . Always take medical advise.
@nd for premature ejaculation try to edge OR ask your partners to edge , it sure helps .

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Abhijit Mehra *
Posted On Apr 30, 2022

Friends ED is also caused due to Vitamin-D deficiency. One may take Vitamin D supplements and see the difference.

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NSA_BDSM
Posted On Apr 30, 2022

Do not take any vitamin supplements, unless have deficiency detected post proper diagnosis and lab tests. Work towards obtaining healthy lifestyle and reducing stress.

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mature 45
Posted On May 26, 2022

Pls suggest any medicine for getting hard *** and delay discharge. Pls no lengthy discussion.my age 67

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Lingerie
Posted On May 26, 2022

Daily do kegels excercise

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