Let's face it, Online Dating Sucks!

First of all, there's this fear of revealing identity which most of us have but are annoyed with the same in others.

Then maybe it's a psychological feel that there's infinite choice and so we never like to settle coz we feel there's always another guy.

If we manage to get past these, enter ghosting -_- It's like internet is designed for it. To be honest, even I can be accused of all these.

keep the discussion going ppl !

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No Picture First_Timer4u	Posted On Feb 3, 2021 I was planning for a Group meet at my place and hence created a group in telegram. Everyone started to fight in the group, started to ask for pics, voice/video calls etc., Few even demanded that I must arrange for Lunch with drinks and smoke. I had to delete the group itself which took almost 2 weeks to create by gathering different gays from Ohmojo. Online dating really sucks. The chances of getting rejected, not showing up or even making insane demands are extremely high.
No Picture Edward75	Posted On Feb 3, 2021 Guys this is very insane. if the worry is to reveal your self plz dont join any online group, because eventually all have to meet. Again i dont understand the idea of good looking etc etc nonsense. are they planning marriage for life or a hook up for a few hours. wht nonsense
Jaytop	Posted On Feb 4, 2021 I like old school meeting. I like blind dates no question just ask about like no looks or sometimes just place where we can meet outside for chit chat. And I like to meet person while cruising or just by chance... Just look into each other eyes and take it from there. It is more real and quick. Half of the world is looking for XL *** and right person. Hahaha😂. Unless you try someone how you would know what is right or wrong.
No Picture rohan_dobriyal	Posted On Mar 25, 2024 Use Bumble, Tinder, for relationship friendship networking n dating. They are paid but works well...has classy guys.
No Picture ***	Posted On Aug 21, 2024 who comes online for "dating"???
No Picture Guy27bi	Posted On May 6, 2025 If you are looking for dating, online platforms can be a good help in finding your choices, and shorten the list of possibilities to likes and interests. But most people here have just talked about *** , quick fun and cruising places. Have *** in public places, washrooms are wrong and too risky. You can always be caught by someone or might be recorded by someone else. There are lot's of videos online of guys getting caught having fun in cruising places and they don't even know it. The camera nowadays has very good quality and zoom , the guy can be on the next road and still record you having fun. And also there are lots of incidents where gay or bi guys have approached or groped straight guys and have been trashed by the public. I have personally seen such cases and have helped those guys get away from the public beatings which happen in washrooms , metro and malls. It's hard to find guys online, everyone agrees with the point but it is better to wait, find some guy who matches your interests, meet first in a public place for food or drinks and if you both like each other, explore in a safe place. Or the risk of getting caught, or thrashed or recorded or have fun in dirty washrooms in cruising places which I never advice.
No Picture CCBomb	Posted On May 6, 2025 You will never find me *** *** in toilets or having *** with guys in public places! Its a big no for me! If i know the person then I will agree to car *** but I have played out that fantasy far too many times, so its not something I am interested in anymore. As far as dating online, I am 100 times more apprehensive with guys than girls. Too many creepy guys out here on this website! Dumbfucks who keep making new profiles just to get attention or just have poor communication skills or dont know how to talk in a decent manner. I know what i want, so, if it doesnt match I simply ignore. Its my terms or the highway! I dont have time to waste over stupid and disgusting people. I have only hooked up with 1 decent mature person from this website since I joined in Jan this year! Could have been more but some of the guys are too far away for me to make that effort for which I apologize!
No Picture Pixie	Posted On May 6, 2025 I have used Grindr in many countries and I rarely have any problem. However in India, of all the gay social media and dating apps, for some reason; Grindr attracts more Criminals, Blackmailers & Sextortionist. Also, hardly 10 - 15 percent of the Grindr users/subscriber are honest and the rest, lie about their biodata, misrepresent themselves and use fake pictures. majority ot the user/subscriber on grindr are not honest and play lots of games. I don't use Grindr in India for dating anymore, I use it to rent boys. And I love it and enjoyed very much renting boys on Grindr; so far, I had no problems renting boys. The main reason, I think, why we have so many criminals, blackmailers & sextortionist on grindr is because of fear and shame. The fear of police and once it becomes a police case, the fear of getting exposed that you are gay. It's so pathetic, even in the 21 century, homosexuality is still a taboo in India and all these criminality exist because of fear & shame associated with homosexuality. Be Gay & Be Happy
No Picture smacarbon	Posted On May 7, 2025 I leave many people on 'read'. This is my defense: I have used gaydia, Planet Romeo, Grinder, scruff, hornet, ohmojo, and blued (now called something else) I have had many successful dates but there is so much chaos out there. Why I leave conversations: 1. People always ask for face pic. Although I have no reservations in sending nudes and face pic with mask. People insist on face pic or VC. I am extremely vary of VC (video call). Also almost all apps have limited video calls. Why would I waste it on random calls. So I Ignore that person. 2. Some are so thick in head that, even I write no calls only what sapp message, before sending my number, people will still call as soon as they get number. So I have to block/ignore 3. People will be 200km, 500km, 1000km away and wants to j3rk off on video or ask me to show my b0dy or wants me to see them j3rking in toilet. Or jus want photos. Or they will make false promise that they will visit in coming days (which BTW never happens). Some insist that I travel to their destination whether I have money to travel or not and leaves to travel. 4. Many people wants to 'meet now'. Dude I live with family, I have to plan and make excuse to go out for the night. 5. Pure tops, wants to f0ck or want Bl0wjob, will not do anything at all for you. 6.and addition to point no5, they want me to arrange place or pay for hotel room. Not even sharing half half.
No Picture sarasar *	Posted On May 7, 2025 smacarbon: 100% correct statement all are belongs to gay app no value for gay feelings!. If say like that these are dating app. 99.9% seen physical appearance and age based only immediately instant *** *** and *** if we say don''t have immediately they will say time passer some people are there without knowing a person they will ask how many people you met or do you *** or do u get ***. one more trend is going if person is mature married or normal bottom they will as cuckold too.. some people name sake of top or straight they need blow job they won't touch us as i am 40+ single gay these are my own experience crossed from people treat me ... when i was child hood there is no app and all if we approach some guy they wiill spread entire friends group like i am transgender(they will call as 9 or in tamil language call pottai). here person to person experience will be different ... not blaming anyone based on my experience
No Picture SalmanDear	Posted On May 7, 2025 @smacarbon well said also as said by @Pixie... we need to be watchful for any fraud As fare my experience goes, some times even at last moment the other person get a cold feet for the same reason of suspected fraud It happened to me many times that chat is going on good, there is view of face by vc and the guy has place also But at last moment, he backs out and do not share address Or reverse if i have place and call him, he will simply stop responding So the success rate is slow Also many times after a long chat when the things are approaching for meet, the other person reveals that he is p**d, now this fact should be disclosed at first only but many ppl are not having common sense But i am sure things will evolve in future
No Picture Sambottom6969	Posted On May 7, 2025 What do you think guys can be done in these app to improve the experience n make these app safer?
No Picture smacarbon	Posted On May 7, 2025 @sarasar, very true, many straight men are only looking for cuckold. They think we are on these apps searching for bulls for our wives.
No Picture newcrosssystem	Posted On May 8, 2025 Most of the people here just looks for *** nothing else, just they want is something to bury their *** in and out, wont even understand what other person is expecting or likes, just *** and more worse people just need chubby and looks, everyone i met till now asked me that they want *** and i have to maintain a room or private space arrange them food and drinks or what they want, if i ask for 50/50% they will never reply or respond, few people think i might be some time passer and wont respond to them, bcz i have my works and time to spend with family, but no one wants it, just they seek is *** and ***, Most importantly all seek for looks if we are not up to their match they will never reply back.
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