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Grindr Dating is so Frustrating in India


Submitted by Pixel Location: All India (All India, India)

According to the posting I read here on ohmojo, it appears to be so easy to get a date on Grindr and some even writes that they get a a date within an hour of searching Grindr.

To me, looking for date on Grindr is so frustrating, it's a big hassle, I spent hours surfing going through their profile and than making a video call to authenticate or validate their Biodata and pictures

posted on Grindr but when they show up at my door, it's not the same person, they look something like the person I spoke to on video call but doesn't appear to be same person.

I hardly find any honest & sincere person, almost everybody lies, cheat & misrepresent themselves on Grindr. I am aware that many use filter to enhance their picture posted on profile and I think

they also use some kind of filter apps even for a video call.

Am I right here? Or Am I wrong? Please Enlighten me.

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exemplify
Posted On Apr 3, 2026

This is very true and frustrating

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touchme
Posted On Apr 3, 2026

Yes it's true

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Dinoindino
Posted On Apr 3, 2026

Too many ads on the platform is a turn off for me

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Kitty22BTM
Posted On Apr 3, 2026

true .... they show ur Matching date but they force you if you wana watch the match you have to pay... Its not a free app ... they collect information like mobile number , Photo , Email id .. Read the Rule n Regulation ... Too Frustrating

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vickysi4uu
Posted On Apr 3, 2026

Do we have a better alternative?

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Experimenting
Posted On Apr 3, 2026

The only plus point of that app is able to see the grid for nearby matches. Rest everything on that app is terrible. Every few minutes, they show an ad while sending or replying to message. And the ads all have that very small X icon which is easy to miss when clicking so you often get sent to the app page and you have to close that first. The general quality of user interface is clunky and often, it doesn't update properly until the forceful ad is shown.

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Kitty22BTM
Posted On Apr 3, 2026

@Experimenting True Point ...

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PeteHanson *
Posted On Apr 3, 2026

do people find Telegram secure and useful, though of course it does have a different niche from Grindr.

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intimate_muses
Posted On Apr 3, 2026

Yahoo chat rooms and Orkut were the best
Have never seen anything better than those two
No VC apps now with privacy

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RahulV
Posted On Apr 3, 2026

In small city, finding people on grindr is a big task... Not everyone is according to your taste and that vibe should match

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starrynight007
Posted On Apr 4, 2026

@intimate_muses very true. They were the best

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Hola047
Posted On Apr 4, 2026

The only reason I'm a virgin rn is that I've just found creeps and uncles there :(. Not for a lack of trying

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shinydark
Posted On Apr 4, 2026

Try walla app

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Akhilll
Posted On Apr 5, 2026

They only know one thing that is s*x , they don't want to know each other but they want someone's d*ck to fulfill their desire

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Prasath_7
Posted On Apr 5, 2026

@Akhilll I’ll agree with your point!!

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Akshay_27
Posted On Apr 5, 2026

Add Private DNS in your mobile settings settings no more adds will come while using

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Don_Quixote
Posted On Apr 5, 2026

usually teens themselves message (lookng at the mature age) talk sweet and then say... I am paid!

yaar tuze koi paise kyu dega.... look at mirror yaar :P

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Sanjuna *
Posted On Apr 5, 2026

Yes I agree Grindr is not an easy and comfortable platform nowadays, too much ads then need to purchase membership plans to check Mail ch and Profile visits
People also jump directly to questions like.. share ur face pics, do u have place etc
I mean a proper introductory conversation is necessary

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zentopdel
Posted On Apr 5, 2026

for me it's good as there are a whole lotta genuine dudes there matching the vibe and who doesn't like getting attention but i always chicken out meeting with the guy so that's frustrating for me