Hv u ever got raped / molested by anyone, which still traumatize you?
Many of us feel that different sort of molestation or even *** by someone or other has made you gay. And many of us still get traumatized when we recall those bad memories.
But sometimes, when we share those incidences with someone, even with strangers, the pain is reduced and slowly the recalling is stopped or the recalling does not give trauma anymore.
Why not we all share those painful incidences here, which are still painful if recalled.
Note: Pl dont mention the ones which make you feel aroused now.
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raunchy indian * | Posted On Jan 4, 2026
Yes when I was 7. And as regards your last note, I am seeking psychiatric counselling from one of Mumbai's best who mentioned that many victims themselves abuse others when they grow up. Also, that it is natural for the victim to get aroused by that - feelings of trauma, guilt, shame as well as arousal are all perfectly natural and occur in 100% cases. |
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Kmina | Posted On Jan 4, 2026
Number one cause that i turned bi. I was used by 2 guys during my 3rd to 6th standard in school. Everyday they would *** me and *** inside me. One day my mother noticed the stains on my underwear so she stopped sending me to their homes. |
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ikkahda | Posted On Jan 4, 2026
initially i had no idea i was being molested, i remember feeling the hard bone while being made to sit on lap. later the same person caused *** bleeding due to forceful insertion. there were bystanders. couldn't tell anyone... and physical trauma lasted some weeks. mental trauma is faded... later some other elder in locality cajoled for play in orchards and somehow forced oral. the images are faded. incident memory exists. few more such experiences happened prior to voluntarily seeking pleasure with guys. |
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Twink | Posted On Jan 4, 2026
I am just confuse is there really a thing where abused incident excites a victim later in life |
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OneFromJaipur | Posted On Jan 4, 2026
@twink
I am also not sure.
But as one of the writers mentioned from the quotes from some psychiatric that besides trauma and fear, arousal is also common.
But just in parallel, some people enjoy BDSM and Abusive languages also.
So may be some, now after being gay/bi, start getting excited thinking of those traumatizing incidences. |
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Sanjay__11223 | Posted On Jan 4, 2026
Wn i was 5 or 6 year old.( Now I'm 23 ) ...one of my neighbour ( at that time he was 16-18 years old) he used to take me to his house and his sister , parents used to care me an used to love me as most neighbours love kids as I was super cute ....
One day this guy took me to his home wn nobody was there , he offered me kaccha mango choclate he got naked asked me to touch his *** n kiss his *** , i didn't knew wt was going on , he offered me more n more chocolates so that I can touch his *** ( people may say how can 5-6 yrs kid remembers such things , but i remember my childhood very clearly so this was the most worst thing happened with me ) within 1-2 yr they left that place and dk where they went..... As i remembered this thing clearly , later wn i came to 6th 7th standard I got to know what happened with me.... I still want to hit that guy hard if he comes to my place again... probably he would never remember... I didn't shared this thing to anyone in my life....so guys take care of your kids in your home , not every neighbour or relatives are good.....such a creeps exsist and won't even leave kids also 😶 |
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samira * | Posted On Jan 5, 2026
I had feminine kind chubby body since childhood ..so used to be the toy for him...bathing in tube well. Or Ganges or hugging me while ask me to pee with him together ..thn had *** experience twice in life once I was called for hotel service two men thy wan me I stay till morning but I chose to go and take train to return ....it was already i guess 1 am around ..three guards were thre at barricading..checked me ..caught me took their turns it wss really bad left me in washroom floor.. |
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raunchy indian * | Posted On Jan 5, 2026
Twink: Yes, victim does get aroused by recall and its normal |
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