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Hi, just wanted to create a platform for partnered individuals to meet each other in order to have certain security of meeting people in similar circumstances surrounding discretion.

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lovepablo25
Posted On Nov 12, 2025

Good. platform dear. Wiah you and us. all the best.

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amitshah69
Posted On Nov 12, 2025

Nice, building trust will be important for closets to meet!

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softmate
Posted On Nov 12, 2025

Looking forward to this

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Harry80
Posted On Nov 12, 2025

Super 👌, any CD

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TophereLooking
Posted On Nov 13, 2025

Good one!

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Figuring
Posted On Nov 13, 2025

Trust and discretion important for us closeted and married folks to connect and meet

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Crazy4love
Posted On Nov 13, 2025

On a same boat. Looking for a decent married mature man to connect for safe and secret fun.. friendship and more if we gel well.

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Darksecret
Posted On Nov 13, 2025

Being married and trying to explore this side of life is a challenge. Im glad so many are on same boat. Hope to connect with someone who is patient and understanding the discretion and have a long term connection for mutual fun.

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maturelonelygay
Posted On Nov 13, 2025

me 40+ single gay from bangalore looking some shoulders who understand mature person feelings!!!

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Aj9219
Posted On Nov 13, 2025

45 versatile here married looking for 30 plus guys married or single for friendship talks meet trips movies lunch dinner and of course fun too like to explore

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sunny_g94
Posted On Nov 15, 2025

I m 34 yrs married man need sm teen guy to share all my feelings. Add me in married guyss telgm gp plzzzz

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raja-flasher
Posted On Nov 16, 2025

i am a 42 yr married gay..married for 17 years in bangalore, my wife has made my life hell as she is very strict, I have become very lonely and depressed....can anyone help me here please?

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mrmanav
Posted On Nov 17, 2025

54 ecity looking for younger guys, preferably versatile, open to try fun things. interest in CD will be a big turn on. ping me

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Dezires005
Posted On Nov 18, 2025

One common perception abt married bottom gays is that they are ready to offer their wife in a tray. That they are not able to satisfy their wife. And they need a bull to do that. All tops think like this. Right guys? Have you felt the same?

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TophereLooking
Posted On Nov 19, 2025

@dezires005, I am not sure all tops think like that, I am top, have dated married bottoms, never thought that, infact i prefer married boys as they are safe and discreet. I agree there quite a lot of bulls lurking around trying to get into wives, as they don't get women 😂 I guess. I do agree lot of them do ask for wife pics. Especially single tops.

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gunarockstar
Posted On Nov 20, 2025

31 yr old married guy. From Domlur area. V top by pref. prefer straight acting men.

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ThirstResponder
Posted On Nov 24, 2025

I'm a trans man, and even with everything I've learned about myself on testosterone, I still believe cheating in a committed relationship is never okay.
When I was living as a woman, love felt all-consuming — mind, body, heart, everything intertwined. I thought that depth was just "how women love." But since starting T, I've noticed a huge shift in my own sexuality: the horniness is constant, intense, and way more casual than it ever was before. Suddenly I understand how some men can separate physical desire from emotional commitment in a way that used to feel alien to me.
That new wiring doesn't make cheating right, though. It just helps me empathize with the impulse. I still have hard boundaries: I won't get involved with married men, period — even if they say it's "discreet." I refuse to be the reason someone else's partner feels betrayed. Open relationships are different, but only if there's clear, verifiable consent from everyone involved.
So yeah, testosterone turned the volume way up on my *** drive, but it didn't change my ethics. Desire and integrity can coexist — you just have to choose integrity every time the urge hits.

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Darksecret
Posted On Nov 24, 2025

@ThirstResponder... I totally hear you, and this might just be my opinion, but I completely agree with what you’re saying — the increase in desire doesn’t justify crossing boundaries. At the same time, I think it’s important not to mix up desire and integrity as if they’re automatically at odds. Desire is just a feeling; integrity is the choice you make in response to it.

Everyone handles that balance differently. For some people, it is possible to have intense sexual urges, fulfill those desires in ways that are agreed upon, and still genuinely love their partner and keep her happy. What matters is the honesty, the communication, and the mutual consent — not the existence of the desire itself.

So yes, your boundaries are solid, and your ethics stand strong. But the way people navigate desire is individual, and as long as everyone involved in a secret relationship is respected and informed, there’s no contradiction.

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raja-flasher
Posted On Nov 25, 2025


i am a 45 yr married gay..married for 17 years in bangalore, my wife has made my life hell as she is very strict, I have become very lonely and depressed....can anyone help me here please?
i am cuck husband too, my wife wont understand anything

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ShashaBLR
Posted On Nov 25, 2025

Raja-flasher, what do you mean by your wife won't understand anything?

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VersyNympho
Posted On Nov 27, 2025

Hey.... Im looking for a secret partner. I don't want to change partners. Im seeking a trusted loyal partner for long term relationship. A kind of committed relationship. I don't swing away once committed.

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shocking
Posted On Nov 28, 2025

I am residing in Malleshpalya area. Anyone hv place for fun in that area

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softmate
Posted On Nov 28, 2025

Woow nice to see lot of like minded guys here on the forum. Let's share memories nd connect

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Sirius
Posted On Oct 29, 2026

Any one for stable descrete man to man friendship..