Usual turnoffs for tops

Hey guys, i saw nobody has ever discussed about the turnoffs we tops get after meeting a bottom. I have faced a few where the bottom would be unhygienic down there and would expect me to still continue. That's a complete turnoff for me. Hygiene is the most important factor for me, and i don't like to have some s**t on my *** while having an A**al. What are the other turnoffs you guys have as a top, let's share and make it as an awareness thread for the bottoms, and even bottoms can share their hygienic measures which they take before getting intimate.

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prasanthkumar	Posted On Oct 2, 2025 Correct Hygiene and looks of appearance is mandatory for intimation. We can change our color and face what god given we can change our hygience and appearance based on our interest
No Picture Andy69luv	Posted On Oct 2, 2025 I am vers... in the earlier days had *** a few... but what turned me off wasn't times the bottoms try to sit on my *** without condoms saying they are safe... I stop ig at that ... for *** without condom is a turnoff
No Picture Romance469	Posted On Oct 2, 2025 @Andy69luv, appreciate for the changes... I like it...🫰
No Picture MylifemyWish	Posted On Oct 3, 2025 Common guys bottoms or females or for that matter any creatures on earth who eats n excretes the Anus will have the passage to pass s**t if it's a planned encounter while both top n bottom are of same parameters would ensure that they flush out any remains of s**t before intercourse. But I have seen mostly if surprised encounters while bot not prepared could be reason for things getting nasty . Tops best to use condoms n lubes or atleast coconut oil to avoid particles stuck to ***. While it's both must co operatively act not to expect bottoms r like *** slaves or wife kind that they r bond to please tops. All must *** from *** holes only .. lucky enough I get all who r self clean but if any found doubtful I would passionately take them to shower n there are cases few boys love to *** n *** along with in bathroom while am with them n politely I ask them to clean n they agree with love n get along if it's too hairy i even trim them they love it as we r giving them groom too that way casual encounters too stand memorable.. we get clean n more passionate time of intercourse. Than just being top we expecting other to be clean, *** us , get ***, n once leak leave them like they r hooker is not fair.. no offense but cleanliness or affection or no matter even anything we must GIVE RESPECT TO GET RESPECT
No Picture Cadbury_211	Posted On Oct 4, 2025 As I'm a pure top usually I met some guys Turn off points for me: 1. Bad sweat smell in body and under arms. 2. 5 to 6 months uncleaned fubic hairs in private parts 3. Bad *** odour 4. Without taking bath they come to fun without near dress up These points usually turn off for me... I will not do fun with them.. I will reject on spot
No Picture sexer1234	Posted On Oct 8, 2025 A lot of above points are applicable for tops as well. Not washing *** before having ***. The *** would be covered with smegma (*** cheese) and it would be smelling. They expect bottoms to deep throat *** dirty ***. How is it possible? Bad breath, body odour is a turn off for bottoms too. Expecting bottoms to rim you even if they dont like it. Someday like to rim, but if someone does not like to do it dont bring your *** near my face
No Picture sexer1234	Posted On Oct 8, 2025 Another big turn off is not respecting privacy of bottom. Many of them ask for face pics and if they dont like what they see they simply block and move on. Most of these sites are full of such people without basic courtesy.
No Picture sexer1234	Posted On Oct 8, 2025 Another turn off Calling your top / bottom partner for *** to some location and then not showing up. Such people are A grade ***. Someone would have traveled a long distance just to meet and have fun. Respect that atleast. Worst is they would have seen you from somewhere and then leave without even telling you. Cowards..
No Picture Side_29	Posted On Oct 8, 2025 @sexer1234. I totally agree with you. I came across few Tops who do not maintain basic hygiene or courtesy.... Nowadays people are after good looks only... What's the point if they have no basic courtesy. One fellow on a dating site approached me and appreciated my butt and then asked me to share my pic. Once he saw my pic he said that I m not his match and blocked me,l (as if we are going to get married, lol)
No Picture Pavanb1 *	Posted On Oct 8, 2025 for me, while I lick bottom's or cd ***, if they do not fart, then its a big turnoff. "do not"
No Picture Mcs_579810	Posted On Oct 8, 2025 To avoid getting turn off one should have proper communication before fixing a meet or hookups and people should genuinely discuss everything. Ofcourse some timepassers will be there. They will pretend nice in discussions but when come to real meet they will showoff that they don't like this or they don't like that and all. Ids of those people should be labelled as cheaters so that emotions and time of many can be saved
No Picture sexer1234	Posted On Oct 9, 2025 Another turn off for both top and bottom. *** without foreplay...it's useless. Most people dont know foreplay or dont like it. They just want bottom to get on their knees and *** ***, or bend over and get *** and leave. Its such a turn off . Most tops who dont kiss , or touch sensually or dont want foreplay are either bad on bed, or dont get blowjobs from their wives. They are just desperate
No Picture Dezires005	Posted On May 30, 2026 Most of the tops are so selfish and idi0t type. They will show much older, a best pic of there, whereas the actual, current looks will be very disappointing. No place, they need a place from you. They wont pay for oyo. Want a free fun. If they have a place, it could be filthy or very ordinary. Their own personal hygiene and maintenance are of very lowest kind. Pubic hairs not shaved, no attractive cloth or body odour, no fragrance, ready to host you n same pyjama or bemuda they may be wearing from couple of days, simpley ready with a ***, like only they have that prized possession and that alone is enough. 😁. Come to perfomance. Either quickly discharging or not getting a consistently good *** throughout. As a bottom it's your responsibility to maintain their high level of excitement. Quick discharge is worst. That means game is over in 2 mins. And you took so much hardship to visit their place or host them. Not a pure top, more interested in a bj. Pure top is the one who is equally interested in drilling and feel incomplete if he don't do that. But yes they will commit before meeting that they do everything and a very good top they are. After bj excuses will start. 1 more thing. That is poor communication, poor IQ,.... I feel like quiting all these platforms now. This is wastage of time. I got 2 good tops earlier, long back, it's not that all are same but yeah mostly it's a raw deal.
No Picture Bengalur_uncle *	Posted On May 30, 2026 As hairy bald top daddy... Things which I do so that my bottom boys are happy... Clean myself remove all body odour apply sandal oil I *** and ***... So that I *** my bottom boy for looooong time I do lots of foreplay like kissing hugging nake play before we start anals I also put lubes on my fingers and give prostate massage so that bottom enjoys and butt hole loosens for my 🍌 I use condoms like durex which is ideal for *** ***, use water based lube for smooth penetration My turn off is if *** starts coming when I ***... The bottom should clear and clean his butt and empty all *** 💩💩💩 before ***
No Picture Dezires005	Posted On May 30, 2026 This sounds good abt you @bengalur_uncle. Keep it up.
No Picture Thirstybottom5	Posted On May 30, 2026 @dezires005 Yes I agree...most tops in India are fknggg unhygienic and unclean. I don't even entertain them.