This thread was necessary I guess just wanted others to share their homophobic and negative experiences in cruising hookups have you been bul#lied for being gay anything like catfishing experience or robbery or attacks on trying on a trying on a straight guy
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Anirudhbottom | Posted On Jul 23, 2025
You guys didn't get my point you can get whatsapp friends from Grindr for chatting but regular solid friend who will travel with you meet you when you are needed that too from Grindr is rarest thing even fellow bottoms are extremely arrogant on Grindr those I tried to befriend they will talk Little bit and completely ghost you later in future most guys on Grindr are always in approach of getting anything quick then leaving and ghosting quickly
@ashu i didn't imposed anything on you I used to do lot of hook-ups back and there is nothing wrong with it i just doubted those who said they get good friends through Grindr and mass targetting story in big cities the probability of knowing anyone is not that high plus neither i will trust anyone's on Grindr that don't meet him he is d*ngerous bla bla the trust factor was completely dead on Grindr like I was always ghosted there on reaching the meeting spot top said you are not my type sorry someone is already at my room sorry' my scooty is not repaired
they have done PhD in lying and playing games with other guys are you sure they will be good friends offcourse not all are jerks but most are still worse for ugly guys the act of playing games and doing timepass is super common trust and care factor was dead like in one case I mean guy has a vehicle but he was still calling me far off when there was no proper transportation in my area in night this boiled my blood in left him I can narrate you hundreds of Stories dude vishwas aur bharosa exist nhi krta even the friends who i tried to make from Grindr blued always gave here & there excuses whenever I ask them to travel or meet or anything like that and were pro at ba*kbitching |
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Dev_22 | Posted On Jul 24, 2025
After 2 bad experinces my learning is .. never indulge with people who say they are top too but want want romance , they are kindoff risky .... Pure Vers or bottom guys are the best , older people are ❤️❤️ and if you are in hyderabad avoid mu -- slims for sure ...not all ,there are some good guys too, but mostly cheaters ,you can hardly know who's a good guy and who is a cheater better to avoid them saying after few bad experinces ..... Even if they are not blackmailers once they *** you and have fun they start acting like you are the bad one and they are very moral they start remembering their religion once they ***... Better avoid them . |
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saramaturegay | Posted On Jul 25, 2025
@All4unme: if you are experience is good means not applicable for everyone due to GR lost my 5k in life here we are just share experience be smart in life!!! |
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ManishAmdabad | Posted On Jul 26, 2025
Grindr is not bad. I have got my best friends with it. But the people. Its just like a meeting point where you get different kinds of people just like your office school college or society. It has plus point that u can be the same what you actually are. No hiding. But yes most of people here are into highly specific demand for hookup paid ***, cheaters, liars. But good people are there still.
Now we need to be specific what we want with all safety and precautions for *** as well as fraud cheating and harassment. |
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Tanishqpune | Posted On Jul 26, 2025
Absolutely true ....
Cheating and harassment and fraud are increasing a lot |
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Dev_22 | Posted On Jul 28, 2025
5 months ago it was 2 police guys ... I was at a stupid spot .. taking on phone chilling ... Was not seeing my surroundings .. a police car stops , they asked my phone .... I ran away, they caught me .. hit me ,threatened me , blackmailed me took me inside some jungle type of thing ... They said they'll file a petty case and took my adhar and driving liscence they said collect it from court .... I was scared af ..i had to pay 5000 to take them back a ugly look cop pulled my pants down and *** me on that round in the jungle and other one hitting on my back ..... A very scarring experience .. ... Now I think 10 times before meeting anyone , and a big no to public places |
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saramaturegay | Posted On Jul 28, 2025
we will need to create one helpline to avoid such incidents instead of sharing need to form a unite person to person experience will be different all experiences are won't be same
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Veerey | Posted On Jul 28, 2025
@Dev_22 ye konse location pe huwa hai? |
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Dev_22 | Posted On Jul 28, 2025
@veerey secundrabad under the metro bridge bus stop key pass |
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Dev_22 | Posted On Jul 28, 2025
@saramaturegay.... I agree but people won't get associated i feel there is so much shame in admitting someone found you in such a place .... You can't even explain it to our own people , they'll blame us what were you doing there bolke....
. I got very scared, wanted to come out from that situation immedeatly , maybe if i was little stern/brave i could have stood against them coz I was doing nothing just roaming in that place talking on phone , i did nothing obscene or mischevious ... They hit me, broke my specs , a cop was biting my cheeks and lips I had bleeding from my upper lip , he was turning me around biting my butt and were pulling me with my *** , he drank my *** also and scolded me telling me not to do these things .... I was pretty traumatised for weeks after this incident do they still have any of my information .... Pretty scary life changing experience |
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Anirudhbottom | Posted On Jul 28, 2025
This is tragical they will easily book under section of obscenity as far i know and most cops don't easily allow gays to go without bribe |
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saramaturegay | Posted On Jul 29, 2025
@dev_22 understand!! as we have a gay feel even incident also happened due to feeling again we are searching hope for some one my cases!!! |
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ArthurConan | Posted On Aug 1, 2025
even better to avoid atops if he says mostly romance but they want more ,after meet we feel guity |
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Anirudhbottom | Posted On Aug 6, 2025
Others also share your negative experiences |
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Anirudhbottom | Posted On Aug 15, 2025
guys i got attacked again and my phone is stolen in local park cruising is no longer safe |
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Anirudhbottom | Posted On Aug 27, 2025
This happened with me on 15 august 2025 |
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Archie11 | Posted On Aug 31, 2025
Today only i faced so much homobic things they take all my money and beaten me ...i don't know what I going to do I can't inform my parents I don't know what to do ... |
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Rishabh9495 * | Posted On Sep 29, 2025
I want to advise this to everyone that do not share your face pics.
No body will identify your body parts but faces can be recognised.
I have seen a lot of cases where people blackmail because they have your pictures.
I have seen episodes where people commit suicide because of this black mailing.
Please be safe and then do what makes you happy.
Everyone deserves to be happy. |
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Rishabh9495 * | Posted On Sep 29, 2025
I had very bad experience near hafeezpet railway station.
There is a bridge at Hafeezpet railway station.
Its always dark over there and everyone comes there for cruising.
I went there just for walking. I didn't wanted to do anything. Then there was a man tall and wearing mask.
Hello asked if I want to have some fun. I just wanted mutual hand jobs and nothing else.
We started and he didn't touch my ***.
He started inserting his *** in my ***. I never had any analysis *** before this.
I resisted but he was not ready to listen.
Then I asked him to give me a handjob and then we can do anything else.
While we completed the handjob he pushed me in the bushes and started *** me from backside.
Suddenly, two people came from backside and started beating me.
Never go to hafeezpet railway station for gay fun as now police officer are standing there.
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Rishabh9495 * | Posted On Sep 29, 2025
After reading all the stories of this thread, I have decided to just
watch *** and eat my favourite cuisines
***
Simple way to feel happy.
No risk
And satisfaction |
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kaasmi | Posted On Sep 29, 2025
I thought hydrabad would be fun, but it's the most scariest and dangerous place to have fun. Couple of weeks ago I boarded a metro from Secunderabad east to Hitech City, met a guy through GR in that metro he got down at Durgam Cheruvu and said that will meet in the evening he Even gave his telegram Id to connect, we decided to meet and I went there but he was there with 2 of his friends luckily I escaped that place or else I'm sure something bad would have happened to me. |
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deepshrma | Posted On Sep 30, 2025
Guys whenever you get a bad feeling, listen to your instincts(talking through my experience) |
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Anirudhbottom | Posted On Oct 3, 2025
Rishabh you are right
I just visited again the park where I was robbed of my phone and money in night it still looked very unsafe and terrible with nasedis druggists having blades
such things people should openly share to make others aware fantasy mein bahut kuch ho saktaa hainn
Same happened with another guy too his friend was robbed and attacked by his hookup |
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Anirudhbottom | Posted On Oct 3, 2025
Kasmi his plan was actually to rob you with his friends most probably especially rob and sell your phone in second hand market
Or either record you then blackmail you
Many predators are there on grindr to trouble you threaten you |
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bigmoobs_1 | Posted On Oct 21, 2025
I also had an incident in my childhood(i was 12-13 i think), though it's not homophobic.
I was chubby even then and played tennis, so i had a fat ***(im not complimenting/sexualising myself, just a fact, related to the story).
I was cycling through a busy road, on a dark night. There was heavy traffic. As i was cycling, i stood up and bent forward to cycle a bit fast.
Two college boys( they looked youngish) on a motorcycle started to blow their horn. I ignored them as there was barely any space between me and the car infront pf me.
That's when a space opened beside the car and then i felt a hard slap on my ***. I looked at my side and saw the boys ride past me while giving me an ominous look. I haven't rode a bicycle since then.
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