Techniques of Painless ***

Please share the techniques of giving Painless *** fun. Do 's and Don'ts

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No Picture Simple123	Posted On Jul 3, 2023 Sometimes it's the personality of that person you like him so much that the hole opens for him automatically which then becomes painless to get ***. 😂😂😂
No Picture Amigo1980	Posted On Jul 3, 2023 Use lube! Lots of lube .... Only few guys use lube ... that's the problem! Use LOTS OF LUBE. That's more fun for both, and less pain ...
No Picture Maturesoft	Posted On Jul 4, 2023 Wat kinda of lube .can u name it.is it available in medical
No Picture versbot40	Posted On Jul 4, 2023 Use Lox Jelly 2% for painless *** fun
No Picture gunarockstar	Posted On Jul 4, 2023 For all of those suggesting Lidocaine/ Lox gels..pls be aware that those are local anaesthetics.. so ull feel numb in that area temporarily. But it might pain you severely once that anaesthetic wares off. To add, many would face the side affects of skin/ body irritations by using these. These are known side effects. Also, what is the point of using it if u don't feel the pleasure because of the numbing gel?? I would say, please go for water/ silicone based lubricants for *** *** even though they are a little expensive than Lox. There are plenty flavors available in the market. Apply it yourself or ask your partner to take their sweet time to lube up your hole and both of you can feel the experience of *** ***.
No Picture Simple123	Posted On Jul 5, 2023 @ananymous23 if you feel gels are expensive then try castor oil it's good for any cuts and brusses as well😜
No Picture Lover84	Posted On Jul 5, 2023 Any kind of moisturizer in proper amount is perfect. I have used it while having a *** first time.. It was very less painful sexperiance.
No Picture whateverdude	Posted On Jul 6, 2023 I have been using aloe vera gel for the last 15 years or so. Che@p, water-soluble, doesn't bre@k c0nd0m. DON'T use any oil! Lidocaine is fine for initial an@l $ex, I guess, but not for regular use. If you use it regularly, check if there is bl00d in your st00l after an@l $ex, as you might not realize if there is any internal in.jury because lidocaine is @nesthetic in nature.
No Picture vishal_kumar *	Posted On Jul 6, 2023 Agree with @whateverdude. In a pinch aloevera gel works really well. I have used it with couple of bottoms and they were happy with it and my condom was intact, so I was happy as well. Just read the ingredients. Avoid ones which have glycerine (it weakens condom). Glycerine is a very unique solvent, which works for both oils and water (there is a whole science behind it to read, in case u enjoy geeking out like me). Also avoid Lidocaine where possible. Pain works as an important protective mechanism. It is like going for a boxing match but u can't feel the punches. U won't know when to stop. Commandment for tops 1. Lube, lube and lube. There is no such thing as too much lube. Be nice and keep condoms n lube handy for your bot. Just because it does not go in your ***, does not mean u can't buy and keep it. Be a sport. 2. Finger your bottom with lube. If you have nails then cut them before and put a condom or glove on your fingers to cover sharp nail edges. 3. One finger, two finger, then three (if he can take it) 4. Let him get used to your finger, before starting your finger Bharatnatyam over his prostate 5. Light spanking can work in relaxing the ***, by focusing the attention to other area (ask first) 6. When doing doggy, make sure he is arching his back down, not up TIPS for bottoms 1. Carry your own lube and condoms. Try different ones and carry the ones u like. Just in case yours top does not have it, can't keep it on him, or is just plain stingy. At the end of the day, it is your ***, which will take a pounding. 2. DON'T BE A GREEDY SIZE QUEEN! Just because his *** is huge, doesn't mean u need to ride it, for bragging rights. Find your comfort zone and stick to that. If what u can do is 4-5 inches, don't jump to 7-8 inches, just because big *** is available 3. It is ok not being able to bottom or take huge ***. Take what u can and enjoy the process. 4. Practice, practice, practice. It is not only up to top to make you comfortable with a big ***. You need to practice as well (dildo, cucumber in a condom, whatever. Just don't lose it in your ***). If u haven't *** in a while, don't just be a lazy bum and try to ride a big ***. Just like any sports activity, WARM-UP is the key to avoid injury. 5. It is not about the length, it is about the girth. 6. If u want to graduate to bigger *** then use a DILDO. Practice for couple of weeks. Once you can take it like a champ, then only hunt for a big ***. Else you would be wasting your time and his, leading to frustration.
No Picture vishal_kumar *	Posted On Jul 6, 2023 Ps - Gels I use. Durex. But there are also better and more expensive ones available. However Durex works for me. Haven't received any complaints yet. Remember cost will play a role, as u would ideally use lube generously. Do what is sustainable.
No Picture RAJESH_BOMB	Posted On Jul 7, 2023 Lox Jelly is simple one, easily available at any medical store and reduces pain being anesthetic also inexpensive
No Picture vishal_kumar *	Posted On Jul 8, 2023 @cm_tu - In my limited experience my condom did not break. However my experience is statistically insignificant. I understand that aloevera gel has other usages, then just lube hence easier to avoid questions (which is important for some people). Hence istead of taking chances try to find a product which is close to 100% aloe gel. For example i found this one (on Healthkart) to be 99% aloe. 1% gel base, which I am assuming is some form of geling agent, disbursed in water.
No Picture kumar_069	Posted On Jul 8, 2023 I am writing this from a TOP's perspective. I have *** my bottom many times but he has never felt pain, rather he has enjoyed it a lot. First, in first, foreplay is the MUST. Lemme explain my ways. Before we meet, I make sure two things that my bot to clear the bowel very well and clean-shave the hole. The action starts with passionate kissing and nipple *** which arouses him a lot. And meanwhile, I start rubbing his hole. The kiss and *** go on for 10-15 mins and during that time I take spit on my fingertips and apply around his hole and start rubbing. After some time, I will put gentle pressure to finger his hole, and he will moan softly but he will surely enjoy as I am eating his nipples along with. Now I start licking his entire body; ears, nipples, back, belly, lower back, neck, etc. Then I jump to his *** and start blowing, this gives him comfort and pleasure, and then start tounge-linking his hole. While licking, I play with his *** as well. This makes his hole open and makes him ready to take. Then it's his turn, he comes down and gives a very good blowjob and licks my entire body as well. Then we go for a 69, in this he sucks me and I rim him as bad as possible. Now his body and hole would welcome me to *** him. Then I put some gel on his hole and start fingering, till this time fingering would have been very smooth. Then comes real play, I put gel on my ***, a good amount of saliva on his hole, and go into missionary. I start putting inside, initially, he might feel a bit of pain, but just in 2-3 mins, his hole would get properly open and I can start thrusting. Now he starts enjoying and we can switch positions to doggy or on the top. This gives both of us pleasure and satisfaction. Suggestions for bottoms would be you have to finger yourself regularly, it will help your help to adapt to the situation faster. And before actions, clean your bowel and prefer to clear all hair around (this is by choice, you may keep it as well). Hope, all the tops can relate and find this helpful to have pleasurable *** for both. Suggestions and comments and most welcome. And yes, do ping me for a real meet. Be happy. ❤
No Picture Wild_bottom_23	Posted On Jul 9, 2023 Very good topic. I have few suggestions 1. Ky jelly and Patanjali turmeric Gel : After douching (cleaning ur hole to remove all *** and making sure water runs clean) use Turmeric Gel to lube ur ring and *** cavity. Finger yourself to loosen your hole. Now take ky jelly and apply to your *** cavity and ring. Repeat the process of massage. Amount of jelly or gel can be depending upon the tightness of your hole. I use excess as it helps to slide *** smoothly inside 2. Fingering by tops: Very important ... either you finger when u *** him or tell him to finger you. Encourage use of KY Jelly while getting or doing fingering. But fingering process is must for tight *** 3. Get *** to ecstasy: Deeply breath in and breath out... relax urself and take cm by cm... tell ur top to initially go damn slow.... and wola, ur *** has relaxed and now u ready to get drilled by screaming out his name 4. Second round: When he is done with first round. Use the jelly and put butt plug in ur ***. This will keep your *** loose. Then enjoy second round and repeat this for further rounds. I use butt plug
No Picture Savy	Posted On Jul 12, 2023 Bottoms, 1. Always use condoms and lube during ***. - If your top is not okay with condoms, then say NO. 2. Train your hole. - Buy a lube, apply it on your hole and some on your index finger. Start rubbing the opening for some time and then push it in. 3. Take time. - *** can be immediate but painless *** is a progressive one. Train your hole with 1 finger for a day Or two, then increase the count until you can take 4 fingers. 4. Try it yourself. - try inserting a didlo, carrot or cucumber into your hole. Start from smaller ones and increase the size gradually. 5. Follow preparation day etiquette. - a day before the meet clean your hole using edema or hot water. Cut your nails. Shave the hair around your hole. 6. Take deep breaths. - don't Overthink. Don't be afraid. Take a deep breath. Live the moment. Enjoy what's happening. You are being *** by a manly top. He's enjoying your body. 7. Get it under control. - stop when you feel pain. Then start after sometime. If you can't take his *** say NO. Use an entire bottle of lube if you need to. 8. Explore positions. - try different positions but don't continue if you feel pain or uncomfortable. Always ready to face your guy in the eyes while he is *** you. This will make it easier. 9. Don't take creampies. - let your guy finish off during the *** or let him spray it on your body, face or nipples. Swallowing is upto you and the risk it involves. 10. Finish off. - if you feel his *** hitting your prostate then jerk off and finish it off else wait for your partner to *** ans then finish it off before him or in the toilet.
No Picture Purely_Top	Posted On Jul 13, 2023 There are *** dilator kits available online. They can help you train and make your man *** wide. They are cheap too, search for "*** dilator" on Flipkart/Amazon. Use with lube!
No Picture Me_Stiv	Posted On Jul 13, 2023 Just curious and not sure so asking - Does the *** of a man gets wide permanently with exeess penetration, in whatever ways like dildo, fucki*g or its like *** which comes to the actual shape and does not gets wider after penetration.
No Picture Bob69	Posted On Jul 13, 2023 @Me_Stiv From my experience, the opening comes back to normal if you pause the *** activities for a while. I used to nearly fist when I did solo *** sessions regularly but currently it's not that wide.
cm_tu_ulatra	Posted On Jul 14, 2023 @Me_Stiv - to some extent yes, it will become wider than someone who has not done anything beside you know passing stool. But you dont need to worry unless you are into extreme fisting and stuff.
No Picture nikitacd	Posted On Jul 22, 2023 Why avoid pain? If it doesn't pain you will not enjoy. I got *** without any gel. Initially, it pains when *** enters but after few seconds, pain goes back sit and enjoyment comes front sit. Remember no pain no gain.
No Picture Sunpat	Posted On Jul 22, 2023 I also got *** without gel quite a few times. Top should be careful and while entering he should take care that *** is entering rightly and gently. Once *** goes inside more than half then it is only enjoyment, initially may be but pain. That pain and enjoyment both are worth with lovely Top and mutual chemistry. However applying some proper lubrication saliva would help.
No Picture Guy27bi	Posted On Aug 24, 2024 It just depends on relaxation and mind . You need to be completely relaxed so your *** relaxes and easy to slide in.It helps if you are comfortable with your partner and be in a comfortable place.( foreplay) Try fingering to relax . Use lots of lubes and take it slow,. Try to get a patient and understanding guy for ur first time. Use lubes. If you are uncomfortable, and feel you are not ready , please tell that to your partner . It is okay if you can't have *** in the first try. Take your time and ALWAYS USE CONDOMS
No Picture Master30	Posted On Jul 29, 2025 Practicing and relaxing are the best for less painful ***. I first my useless slaves, I try to start by small and move to fist. Practicing can help
No Picture naughtymanushya	Posted On Jul 30, 2025 Take a nice hot water bath or wash your butt area with good hot water... It loosens the abdomen and pelvic muscles making it a bit easier for penetration. And of course, finger your butthole nice and well. Yes, use a decent amount of lube. There are pros and cons of anaesthetic and non-anaesthetic ones.. so use your own judgement. Above all, be mentally prepared. It takes a great deal of guts and strength to get f*cked.. especially, in the initial few times. Once you've been f*cked enough, you'll know. As a vers, I've done it plenty of times so listen to me when I say, DO NOT chicken out at the last moment. It's pretty disappointing. :) Cheer!
No Picture Sagars20	Posted On Jul 30, 2025 I want to *** for first time it's too pain while fingering I want lovable top to *** me nicely with all love try to satisfy me without pain
No Picture rajeshsideguy	Posted On Jul 30, 2025 Hey guys.. i tried a normal sized dildo with lube but i bleed for around 3 to 4 days.. i pooped blood lots of.. i was very frightened for all those days.. i took pilex pills to stop the bleeding..and somehow recovered.. I guess i didnt use enough lube which lead to *** fissure
No Picture Harrdcore	Posted On Sep 28, 2026 But how big is big to avoid as 1st time ***. Currently I'm using my middle finger, but want to upgrade to a ***. But scared. So any suggestions for 1st time.
No Picture Goabgbottom	Posted On Sep 28, 2026 First use a nice butt plug. Start wearing it for an hour every day or so. Then use a thin, 6inch silicone dildo. Use lots of lube and learn to ride the dildo. Train your sphincter so it opens up a bit easier. Or use poppers if you can stand the smell. Even after this, there will be some pain. Often bit of blood will be there after first proper *** as *** skin is very sensitive. Girls feel pain after vaginal penetrative *** so don't be so afraid.
No Picture Snorlax	Posted On Sep 28, 2026 Experienced top who's into passionate fun, lots of lube, if possible poppers. These three are enough no matter how tight someone's hole is
No Picture Offline cruiser	Posted On Sep 28, 2026 Hmm its it ok as top to get aroused by the thought of trying bottom. Is it common for tops to try bottom? M guilty i think
No Picture Prits99	Posted On Sep 28, 2026 @Snorlax from where I can get poppers , I have been searching for that for a while .
No Picture Asimas	Posted On Sep 28, 2026 *** penetrations is feeling for bottom the ultimate joy is hot *** inside anus why takeaway the joy from bottom use anything only lube nothing else
No Picture Harrdcore	Posted On Sep 28, 2026 Update: Used lot of lube, 1st only middle finger, now I'm able to do middle and index easily and now 3 fingers in with a bit of discomfort.
No Picture Top_nearby_ruby	Posted On Oct 1, 2026 As a top i only like to use spit as lube as it's natural and don't cost money. And I also like when my bot is on a bit of pain then. Bots are born to feel pain.
No Picture Harrdcore	Posted On Oct 1, 2026 Try lube it helps a lot. me as beginner tried lube and finger my self, I'm now enjoying fingering my self with 2 3 fingers. Thank you to the thread for helping me out.
No Picture Rajan2409	Posted On Oct 1, 2026 Very pain full when inside *** even use too much lub Me *** too much tight Even I try sometime Finger inside 2-3 with lub It's ok & enjoying But when with men it's very tight not going inside or very pain full How can I avoid pain and enjoy
No Picture dhishum_123	Posted On Oct 1, 2026 @Rajan2409 you need to relax the sphincters . Also while taking in breathe out . there are youtube videos explaining these things. if you can take 3 fingers an average *** will easily go in . a bit of patience is required .
No Picture Pixel	Posted On Oct 1, 2026 Getting *** into your *** is always painful for the virgins. It takes quite a lot of practice before you start enjoying *** ***. Here's my secret for both: Tops & bottoms. I have broke into many boys virgin *** in India by using Lidocaine cream 5%. It takes 15 - 20 miniutes time after applying the lidocaine cream but you will have to massage and play with the *** hole with your fingures after applying lidocaine; also make sure you are not using lubricant before the *** gets numb else, it will dilute the Lidocaine cream and may effect the degree of numbness. The 5% lidocaine I had was OTC brand, don't need prescription, hence less potent but I remember buying 12% Lidocaine in India without prescription; the boy's virgin *** was ready within 5 - 6 minutes. All these virgin boys didn't complain about pain and many enjoyed getting *** for the first time with Lidocaine cream. You can also use 5% lidocaine on your *** but very, very small amount, just the size of a peanut amout. You will *** ***/*** for a very long time. it will take a long time for you to ***. When I used a very small amount of 5% lidocaine on my ***, it takes a lot of *** for me to ***, I think more than an hour. Be gay, be happy.
No Picture Pixel	Posted On Oct 1, 2026 Oh one thing I forgot to mention. Before appyting lubricant or ***, make sure you wipe the boy's *** clean from Lidocaine cream else, your *** will get numb and you will be *** forever. LOL
No Picture dhishum_123	Posted On Oct 2, 2026 Applying a local anesthetic during *** *** is not a good idea. pain means something is off. its better to take things slowly and avoid injury.
No Picture Drillmee	Posted On Oct 7, 2026 I used to flush water inside my rectum. I could feel the water getting collected inside my body. Then i used to force the water out. This I keep doing untill all the water and *** also comes out. Once I am cleared, then I oil my ***, insert 1 finger, slowly 2 fingers, then 3 fingers.. Once again I'll flush my *** with the water spray for the last time. Then again oil my *** and ***. Then i take a thick long Brinjal say like size 10 to 12" long and around 5" thick circumference wise, oil it nicely and insert it as much as possible. Then I keep adding oil and keep stroking my self. Then I keep the brinjal in my *** for 15 mins and I do my work. The brinjal tries to slip out, but i go and seat on a cushion and can feel the brinjal penetrating deep inside. Then i hunt for Tops or shemales to *** me. Once 2 shemale *** me 3 times in a row back to back. They enjoyed it. Once 2 black guys grilled me with their thick long ***. Even Arabs have *** me. By preparing in advance your *** before penetration, can help over come the pain while actually getting penetrated.
No Picture dhishum_123	Posted On Oct 7, 2026 @Drillmee everything correct but avoid veggies . If it gets *** in or breaks inside then major injuries can occur.
No Picture Drillmee	Posted On Oct 8, 2026 @dhiahum_123. Your absolute right 👍.
No Picture Versy_Nikky	Posted On Oct 8, 2026 How to flush water in rectum safely
No Picture dhishum_123	Posted On Oct 8, 2026 search douche bulb for men or enema bag.
No Picture Kp69	Posted On Oct 9, 2026 I never try *** bcoz of pain please tell me how to overcome my fear and getting *** by someone
No Picture Bottom_mohit	Posted On Oct 9, 2026 Lots of lube n starting slowly .. again more lube till it feels smooth is the only way for less pain n pleasurable ***..
No Picture Kbot69love	Posted On Oct 9, 2026 Castor oil is best.. i can vouch for that.
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