As the question asks. Are there any actual emotions or real love involved or is it just *** and lust within the Indian gay community?
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Man_milf2026 | Posted On Aug 17, 2026
I don't know about others but for me only lust. Friends with benefits is enough. .I want to fulfill all my dirty desire n my partner desire ..nothing less n nothing more. ..... |
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blueboys | Posted On Aug 18, 2026
Love |
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rajatkumarshast | Posted On Aug 19, 2026
right for me gay *** is attractive exciting to fulfill my gay side desires. friends with benefits is enough no deep emotional bonding but good friendship |
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Nitin1995 | Posted On Aug 19, 2026
both persons are there, different people have different prioritites and different role but my opinion is I prefer love over lust then we both fullfill our dreams and make a strong relationship forever...... |
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Mnbvcxxz_r | Posted On Aug 19, 2026
Love ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ |
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angelCDHotty | Posted On Aug 20, 2026
i had serious love relationship with someone who really closed to my heart but sadly he left mumbai last year.. we mate via Grindr and and we decide to meet.. after meeting him i feel he is my real soulmate... and he feels the same about me.. we had 2 yr serious commited relationship but bcz of some family problems he left me alone .now he blocked me from every social media.. delete his old email accounts..( may be he getting married )... but i still love him a lot....ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ |
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MylifemyWish | Posted On Aug 20, 2026
@angelCDHotty's chill it's a break-up pain u need time just takecare of urself and focus on self n progress do t let new bad habits near you or in loneliness u get into another person who's not right.. don't get serious with bisexual or hypocrites who call them pyre top .. if u r totally decided to be gay n want gay partner only if opportunity to get exactly same mentality person can make difference else u will end up getting hurt n left behind like used . So move-on n be happy world is wide n no 2 person is same so don't compare or find exact replacement but thoughtfully find ur life partner..all the best |
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blrprasanth2681 | Posted On Aug 20, 2026
Is it possible gay relationship continue for whole life? I feel very difficult because in marriage life also only few years couples have love and attraction after sometime it will be reduced that time family or kids hold that relationship and pass to the next level. In gay relationship that connection is missing I feel may be i am wrong. |
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Gonn8 | Posted On Aug 20, 2026
Well looking at most of the people's bio here you get an idea.Majority ppl in India cant accept they are gay so they will make up for it saying they are bi. |
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Hot_guy143 | Posted On Aug 21, 2026
I think for very few person love is also involved whenever we are kids or young we like guys n may be we Started loving someone theory says most of the bottom gays fall for love while tops only want lust or few wants friendship with benefits n reason why also most breakup happens in gay world because we are not committed to a single person our lust is more than our love so we keep grinding meeting new people,this trust broke can make the partner who is loyal to become the same and the cycle goes on but i think after certain period of time when u will be old u will get to know what was more important but still its my pov few person still want love |
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SohiniCD4Love | Posted On Aug 21, 2026
Love do exists dear
let me tell u about myself i was living with my top husband as his cd wife full time just 2 years back , i lost him as he got heart attack but i was just like a housewife doing al household work and we used to love each other a lot and took care and we lived just like any other normal husband and wife.. GAY LOVE EXISTS dear |
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GlobeTrotter | Posted On Aug 21, 2026
Yes, it does! But it takes a lot to keep it going!
I rarely post on this platform, i am totally invested in reading poats :) but this one has pushed me into sharing my perspective!
I have been with my partner (now husband) for 16.5 years!! We met when i was 20! The journey which started off as a random hookup at a cruising spot, developed into friendship, then love! In 2023, we along with our family and friends, legally got married in Denmark! The Ministry of External Affairs of Denmark did the apostillation of our marriage certificate which we have been using ever since for joint accounts, names on our passports as Spouse, buying homes together and even travelling together as a couple to close to 50 countries— all Embassies/ Consulates accept our applications as family and we now either give his documentation or mine which was not the case before we got married! Sure India does not legally recognise same *** relationships, but they let you survive and this document makes it much easier! We never faced any harassment by the passport authorities nor the cop who came at home to verify our paperwork at the time of passport renewal!
He and I have grown up together! Been eachother’s support system through all phases in life, supported eachothers career and made investments together for post retirement income!
All this wouldn’t have been possible without love!!
Our family and friends play an instrumental role in making this bond even stronger!!
My mom-in-law and us live together, travel travel together and fights all the stereotypes :)
This wouldn’t have been possible if that 2010 one night stand wouldn’t have developed into L-O-V-E!!
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Cute_femboy69 | Posted On Aug 22, 2026
Hmmm seems like everyone in a kind of this relationship wants only se3. I was looking for a relationship for a long time but no one cares but if I want physically 5 min relation I will get 100 plus messages. From my pov everyone wants to get physical. |
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Mnbvcxxz_r | Posted On Aug 22, 2026
Happy for u dear.
@Global trotter.
Wish I'll find my love soon |
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Mnbvcxxz_r | Posted On Aug 22, 2026
Sorry for ur loss dear@SohiniCD4love.
It might be offensive but dear u didn't look like CD.
U completely look like beautiful woman.
At first I thought u r women by birth.
Sorry pls don't get offend |
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Dharma011 | Posted On Aug 22, 2026
@angelCDhotty : sorry to hear about your breakup. Time heals heartbreaks so I hope you give yourself plenty of time. Focus on yourself. Travel a lot, eat well and workout. Once you heal, slowly start letting people in again. You are really beautiful so you will probably have lots and lots of guys behind you. Choose well and hopefully you get someone really good again who will love you for who you are |
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CbeVisitor | Posted On Aug 22, 2026
So refreshing to see that so many still believe in dating and love, so reassuring. |
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blueboys | Posted On Aug 22, 2026
Gay love exists.. I'm looking live |
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chenguy123 | Posted On Aug 23, 2026
Yes love exists. Love, fight, *** , ego everything will be there but both should stay together after fight. That's happens in my life, having very good bonding, love, affection, attitude will raise later it vanishes, I blessed with this. Please do not ask who is the person etc
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Tiny_Bottom_New | Posted On Aug 24, 2026
Think it is more lust than love.. but some are genuine and looking for love |
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CBEAaron | Posted On Aug 24, 2026
Lust only...Be Friends if Wants enjoy and Forget thats it ..No Lv or Expectations with Partner, Maybe am wrong , Love sets 1 or 2 , but 99% love is fake only ...Waiting for their Chance only |
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new_guy__ | Posted On Aug 24, 2026
Once they start feeling love, they became awkward and dump everything. This happens with most of them. |
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VladTheImpalar | Posted On Aug 26, 2026
Short answer: Lust
Long answer: People involved in gay ***, fun, lust love that. In the least bit it does not mean that they hate the fact they are doing it with man. People should like doing *** without love, having *** is not something immoral. It's like playing games, meeting friends, watching a movie, having your favourite food. You don't love and die for a single movie, dish or a friend right, so why only one person? |
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Mnbvcxxz_r | Posted On Aug 26, 2026
I respect ur point of view but I disagree with u@VlafTheImpalar.
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Wantmylips | Posted On Aug 28, 2026
Well if you look for one on one love it’s difficult in gay *** and in the case of married guys who have to be termed as bi sexual even if they don’t want the tag.
Yes it’s possible to love someone and want to spend time with that person more than anyone else but not practically possible I feel.
Let me tell you about a person I met now it’s been more than 15 years we keep in touch and like each others company but can’t meet often bcos of the busy schedules.
Now if we start to become possessive like lover we would ruin the life of each other and ruin families too.
So we do meet up whenever we can and the moment we meet up we are like inseparable while we have each others company it feels so nice and warm. And wish we could spend more time together.
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bottomjo | Posted On Aug 28, 2026
when i hook up with a man, it is lust that i seek. i am very kinky and like to please a man with a hard *** and let him do the things he wants to do,i dont like it soft i like a *** man who wants to use me for his pleasure and be rough when *** ,make me moan and more. the lust is the best part knowing i give him my body to pleasure him and empty his nuts. that's my job when we hook up ,*** and *** had fill me up. |
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Pixel | Posted On Aug 29, 2026
Wake up guys, we are in the 21st century or kalyug; in this era, Gays are in pursuit of maximum pleasure and not in pursuit of love.
Of course, gays want happiness and what makes gay happy is having *** with as many boys/men as possible in their life time.
This is the very reason gays have *** venues where they have *** with multiple partners such a *** clubs, Bath houses, Saunas, Dark rooms in clubs.
Even while cruising in parks, cinema or urinals, you think one *** or one *** will staisfy a gay; no way, he will try to get as many *** or *** as possible.
Gays are promiscuous in nature hence, incapable of love. Love is a fairy tale for little children or for gays who hasn't yet experience the real gay world. |
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everydaygayguy | Posted On Aug 31, 2026
@Gonn8- Spot on!!!! |
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Mnbvcxxz_r | Posted On Aug 31, 2026
@pixel . Not everyone is same dear. Maybe 99 percent people r like that the way you described. But their is still 1 percent of who believe and follows, loyalty, commitment, true love, respect, trust, understanding, care and support. Physical relationship is last priority or never a priority. They only have *** with their partner only if their partner is loyal and committted to them. Not everyone is *** and desperate for ***. |
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Newlywugarbaby | Posted On Sep 1, 2026
@Mnbvcxxz_r you are completely right there are 99 percent who thinks differently but there are 1% who thinks about emotions care about a person, love, support. In an relationship love is matter more than be physical but today's guys makes a defination that if person ready to be physical then it is a relationship and love and if not he is not a relationship guy. I think this is not love. This is not a defination for me for love. I think there should be a person I care about him I love him I will make memories with him and he feels same about me he cares about me make feel good to each other and we can be whatever we are we don't need to represent ourselves like acting type yeah am cool or am strong if a person is emotional then let be him that he can freely express himself to me and I have to express my self without hesitation what I feel. This is the relationship i want. *** is not important feelings are important. Not everyone is *** and desperate for ***. Sorry guys my English is not so good but I just described what I feel everyone have their opinion i respect. Thank you |
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Mnbvcxxz_r | Posted On Sep 1, 2026
Thank you@Newlywugarbaby |
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gandu87 | Posted On Sep 2, 2026
Love yaar |
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enjoyNjoy | Posted On Sep 15, 2026
As a bottom I feel it is simply lust. Every day I need a hard and strong *** . It could be any one's. I do
not mind if every the person changes. I would like to have same *** if any one has 7 plus inches ***. |
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kumar_069 | Posted On Sep 16, 2026
No sure about others but I can say about mine.
I am bisexual and I prefer to meet guys for NSA fun only. But still, whomever I meet I usually try to make a connection through some chit-chats, some talks around personal / professional life, likes & dislikes etc. This is because I don't believe in just quick hookup things rather to have *** with some feelings, it actually add up more pleasure to ***. I used to meet a bot guy regularly for 2years and during those time I didn't meet anyone. We were not a relationship but we had a very good bonding and we have spent many pleasurable moments in bed.
So yeah, my opinion is bit mixed kind of thing, if you want to meet someone for ***, better to have some connection or feeling. Dry meets are boring. |
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Crazy4love | Posted On Sep 17, 2026
From my experience of meeting with men I feel most men lack that emotional depth to connect with another human being and looking only for a release. Some becomes averse to even simple hugging after cumming. It's so unfortunate to see their lust just vanish like that. However I met with one man who was an exception. *** with him was beyond expression. It was melody like someone was playing flute in my ears. The way he pulled me closer and hugged me so bone crushingly when we were asleep after a sensual session of love making, it felt divine. His snore like heavy breathing on my neck, his heart beating so close to my heart , completely in synch with mine, our legs weirdly tangled in each other, our hands trying to reach for each other's soul. It was as if we were in some painting, still, full of colours, full of passion. Every time we met was a new peak for us. In peak Delhi winter we drenched the bedsheet and mattress completely soaked with our sweat. I loved that man he loved me too. Perhaps we still do. Love is definitely possible in gay *** when you find the right guy! |
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Justgetme | Posted On Sep 17, 2026
Crazy...Lucky you |
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