Male sexual health and Safe ***

Let's talk about safe *** - using condoms, dental dams, Pre exposure Prophylaxis (PreP), Post exposure prophylaxis (PEP), Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STD), blood testing etc.

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No Picture Top12345	Posted On Mar 15, 2026 Check for sores and blisters. They show the other person is infected with herpes. Just walk away
No Picture arjunverma1	Posted On Mar 15, 2026 I've seen people doing all nasty stuff and then swallowing an azithromycin. Does that help at all??
No Picture Rahul xv	Posted On Mar 15, 2026 Safety comes first.. control your excitement and use protection and precautions
No Picture Top12345	Posted On Mar 15, 2026 @arjun It can still cause infections
No Picture swachhsamlangik *	Posted On Mar 15, 2026 If you take 200 mg doxycyckine within 72 hours of unsafe ***, the sooner the better (pref. within 24 hours) it reduces the chances of bacterial STDs like chlamydoa, gonorrhea and syphilis. It won't work for HIV exposure because that's a virus. You can get it at a medical store easily. Take 2 100 mg capsules after unsafe *** to minimize the risk of bacterial STDs. Stay safe everyone.
No Picture Kaavyabottom	Posted On Mar 15, 2026 But in Tamilnadu without prescription we cant get them easily in medical stores. Can we ????
No Picture swachhsamlangik *	Posted On Mar 15, 2026 you can order on netmeds or any other medicine app...they'll do a teleconsultation...you can just say it's for a bacterial infection. It's available without prescriptoon.
No Picture Achukuttan	Posted On Mar 15, 2026 I'm in a relationship with mature top. He is m and has cut ***. He doesn't like condom and told me, as he is cut no chance of infection. We mostly do bj and sometimes ***. Makes me swallow everytime. Is it ok
No Picture Rahul xv	Posted On Mar 16, 2026 Get a good guy to whom you can enjoy frequently and then get all tests done related to std, sti and other infections. If you both are good then you can enjoy without any doubts. But if anyone of you will have *** with a 3rd person without telling your partner then that's a risky because we always look for new taste so it's hard maintain safety. Get your health tested in every 3 months to have *** without doubts
No Picture Botakurdi	Posted On Mar 16, 2026 If i drink someone top pee and *** swallow, then any infection or any issue
No Picture Newlywugarbaby	Posted On Mar 16, 2026 I have a question i see in a series of two gay guys hang out with each other then they take a pill like something what is it. And it is necessary to take after hanging out(***).
No Picture J6.5inch *	Posted On Mar 16, 2026 There are some Diseases like syphilis, Hepatitis B where incubation period is up to 3 months. That is if someone is infected with some diseases today then he will see the symptoms between 1 to 3 months it differs from person to person. So one should always have safe *** or your partner should be a trusted guy.
No Picture Sarthak_2003	Posted On Mar 16, 2026 Is there somone tells us more about stds like syphilis .?
No Picture Harshi_5	Posted On Mar 16, 2026 @Sarthak_2003 . I am from pharmaceutical background. Hence I can share my knowledge with you on syphilis. It is most common std in gays/queers. Firstly it is curable if known at correct stage ... At primary stage It will look like a ulcer in infected part either on ***,***,anus,***. The ulcer will be filled with fluid of Treponima palladium bacteria responsible for causing syphilis. This is most contagious period. Then after few weeks in secondary stage there will be rashes on your palm and feet. Like red rashes spots on entire palm, also patchy hair loss, muscle weakness ( severe) etc symptoms are seen. Then if intreated it goes to latent phase where no symptoms are seen. It can exist for many years, you won't even know you have any disease and then finally tertiary stage where it affects nervous system, heart , kidney, eyes etc along with gummas on face inshort painful death. Till latent stage it can be prevented in primary only single shot of Intramuscular injection of Benzathine penicillin( penidura) on buttocks - ( it pains hell while injecting as it is a type of suspension that too given IM not IV.) IN Secondary or latent 3 shots are given at interval of 1 week. In most hospitals.... Irrespective of stage they give 3 injection for 3 week... Means 1 injection each week. Test to confirm syphilis are RPR .... And if RPR is positive then it is considered you have syphilis... Inorder to confirm and know how much concentration of bacteria is present there is test named TPHA. . Generally it costs 500-600 rupees for test. And syphilis is known as the great immitator... As it mimics different disease hence difficult to diagnose..if you or you partner are sexually active take a test ....
No Picture kundi11	Posted On Mar 17, 2026 Will casual *** like kissing, hugging, getting nipples ***, mutual shagging, getting *** ***, common public place activities lead to any diseases? In proper penetrating, with condom will it get affected? I was planning casual *** in public and if a healthy top is found, then deep ***. Please advice.
Gaboy1	Posted On Mar 17, 2026 Sexual transmitted diseases (STDs) Many diseases cam be sexually transmitted such as : 1. Bacterial : gonorrhoea and syphilis 2.viral : warts and HIV - AIDS
Gaboy1	Posted On Mar 17, 2026 Gonorrhoea Transmitted by sexual fluids (semen or rectal fluids) during unprotected sexual activity with an infected person by *** or oral *** Symptoms: in 2-14 days or sometimes never appear at all.A burning sensation when urinating and thick pus like discharge from *** and a sore throat or swollen lymph node in the neck and swollen testicle Treatment: with antibiotics a single injection of ceftriaxone
Gaboy1	Posted On Mar 17, 2026 Syphilis Transmitted through direct contact with the syphilis sore during vaginal, *** or oral *** (direct skin to skin contact with infected person) Symptoms: small painless sores (chancres) appear on the *** enough or inside the ***. Treatment: curable by antibiotics usually penicillin.
Gaboy1	Posted On Mar 17, 2026 Warts Transmitted by the human papillomavirus (HPV) they spread through intimate skin to skin contact during *** even without ejaculation ,a person can transmit HPV even if there warts are two small to be seen, or if they have no visible symptoms Symptoms: dome shaped, appear anywhere on the body painless but cause discomfort,itching or bleeding. Treatment: there is no curative treatment, focus on removing the warts and managing symptoms by using creams or freezing or burning off the wards ,surgical removal or vaccines are also available
Gaboy1	Posted On Mar 17, 2026 HIV Caused by when virus rich fluid (hiv infected person semen ) enters the partner's rectum or Anas or enters through the urethra, opening at the tip of the *** symptoms: fever ,headache, Swollen lymph nodes, rashes night sweat. Treatment: incurable but highly treatable, antiretroviral therapy (ART) and medicines for control the infection.
No Picture slitty_vers	Posted On Mar 17, 2026 Can anyone help me out please?? Is there any Doctors in Kolkata with whom I can clearly consult about my health problems that I face in my day to day life?? I am NOT talking about any infectious disease or any STDs.. I am talking about physical problems in my body.. So if anyone can, then please let me know about any Doctors in Kolkata whom I can consult.. You can understand that with these type of problems, we cant go to ANY doctor.. he will feel hesitation and I will also feel embarrassed and hesitant to clarify the problems..
Gaboy1	Posted On Mar 17, 2026 Mostly people forget to use condoms in Hurry or don't considered that the condom is very important during ***. if you are having sexual activity with a stranger you don't know about him that he is infected or not ! it's better to use at least a condom while having sexual activity as there are many bacterial and viral diseases caused by sexual activities and if it not treated at right time it may be worst .make sure that is your partner is healthy and not infected. do not trust anyone instantly, give time to yourself to know ur partner better.use always condoms, if you see any symptoms related to above example in your partner immediately leave . BE SAFE,BE HEALTHY
No Picture Sevenday	Posted On Mar 17, 2026 Just consult to humsafar trust for any medical advice or guidance..they do free checkups at their health camps too..it is a non governmental organization dedicated for lgbt community.. Consult them freely.. I have seen above abt doxucycline suggestion..avoid self prescription..*** has its own side effects.. Its a tetracycline group medication..with unprotected and unknown partner *** is everytime comes with risk.. So avoid using random partners.. Keep uptodate with ur health check up periodically with such trust.. Take care.. Enjoy the *** with precaution..
No Picture Harryz	Posted On Mar 17, 2026 While traveling one stranger *** my *** and drank that semen...will it cause any problems??.....? Nude foreplay will cause any problems?.. Two *** touching eachother will cause any problems? Just an Uninfected person enters into my *** with 4-5 strokes only no semen ..is there any problems... Please tell me I'm so worried..I don't know what to do now .
No Picture handsome_r	Posted On Mar 17, 2026 Good to know some knowledgeable persons are here helping others.. Want to clarify on some myths and possibilities... 1) Orals have less chances of STD compared to Penetrative ***? 2) Kissing can very very rarely transfer STI STD? 3) I have *** 4-5 *** so far with condom only. Not into penetrative *** and neither do I lick anything around *** which is not covered by condom. So no licking of balls and groin. Is it comparatively safe?
No Picture blrcruising	Posted On Mar 17, 2026 What activities are absolutely safe in general? what about *** *** specially if it is leaking pre ***? licking balls etc? kissing?
No Picture blrcruising	Posted On Mar 17, 2026 is there any safe medication that can be taken as pre caution particularly for someone who is also married? what is safe in case of occasional fun?
Gaboy1	Posted On Mar 17, 2026 Harryz if either u or him is infected with something so it can be bad for both of u.if u know about him for years, know about his condition or health that he is not an infected person so that's fine but as u are telling that u met him while travelling so basically he is a stranger. u have no idea about his health condition,it is so important to use condoms,why u guys are not understanding that it is so - so important,if u consider that ur health is more important than ur dark desires so please use condoms for any type of sexual activity
Gaboy1	Posted On Mar 17, 2026 handsome_r if u use protection ( condoms) so the risk is very less ,I am glad that u used protection for oral too , as much u use protection thr risk will get lower and try to know u partner better,take time , explore with him , travel with him ,talk with him , don't do instantly
Gaboy1	Posted On Mar 17, 2026 blrcruising if u don't know about ur partner well ,stop it right now ,as u don't know anything about him so don't do any sexual activity instantly, know him ask questions about it and if u have strong desire of having oral so please carry flavoured condom,u will feels the same joy with ur favourite flavour, use condom always if u are doing with a stranger
Gaboy1	Posted On Mar 17, 2026 blrcruising i didn't get u totally, I emphasize of using protection like condoms for any sexual activity, know ur partner well,if u don't know ur partner then use condom for *** as well as for oral but no kissing or licking anything as u don't know about him that what he consume or eat and how well he is hygienic so don't do kiss or lick and use condom is very essential
No Picture Pixel	Posted On Mar 17, 2026 This must be surprising to many that HIV infection is very low in India. However, STDs like Gonorhhea & Syphillis is very rampant but this should not scare you all because all Bacterial STDs are Preventable with or without condoms and Treatable. As the title suggest, PEP after *** for safety and indeed it is a very good remedy of avoiding bacterial STDs; even infected with bacterial STDs, they're very easily treatable. The virus STD which is very rampant in India is human papillomavirus(HPV) or genital warts but not HIV. Not just India, HPV is very prevelant in all the western countries, too. HPV vaccine are available in India and through out the world. There are certain types of high risk HPV virus that causes oral and *** cancer among men, particularly gays. HPV virus is highly infectious, it can also be transmitted via oral *** or kissing. So get vaccinated for HPV. With PEP, PrEP and HPV vaccination you are almost, completely safe, enjoy your life as a worry free happy gayman and be happy that you are blessed as a gay man. Don't you ever think that being gay is a curse.
No Picture Pixel	Posted On Mar 18, 2026 Just to clarify in my above comment, when I said PEP in the second sentence, I was actually referring to Doxy-PEP & PEP.
No Picture SK_2026 *	Posted On Mar 18, 2026 @Pixel - I noticed is that in many of the spas, masseurs offer such extra services by sleeping with multiple customers in a single day. How do we know if they are safe or not? Isn’t it scary? Many STIs can spread silently, even if those masseurs are on PrEP. I see many guys mentioning that they had penetrative *** with masseurs which sounds highly risky. I heard that Chlamydia is very tricky and difficult to identify even with DOXY PREP.
No Picture WTFboy	Posted On Mar 18, 2026 Syphilis, Chalmydia and Gonorrhoea are some of such STIs which get transmitted to healthy people. Not just by Semen or Blood, also by Saliva if you have Sores or Rashes in your ***. Practice safe ***, even for Oral ***. It begins with few or no symptoms and eventually grows to Secondary or Tertitary Stage.
No Picture WTFboy	Posted On Mar 18, 2026 For STIs, The specialists are known as Venerologists, usually who also are Dermatolosgists. It's better to get tested rather than being unsure if you are Sexually Active. Atleast for HIV (Rapid Antigen Test) and Syphilis (VDRL test)
No Picture Pixel	Posted On Mar 18, 2026 @SK_2026 Please do not judge or form an opinion against spa messeurs, whatever they are doing, they are doing to make ends meet. They have my utmost sympathy. Of course, spas messeurs are not safe but then again all gaymen are promiscuous are they safe? Don't worry about others safety worry about yours. Therefore, you should protect yourself and make your own choices whether to have *** with a particular individual are not. This is how I protect myself, I am already vaccinated for Hepatitis A, B & E HPV and I do enjoy *** without condom when I feel safe with a person but before having ***, I go through PrEP regiment to prevent HIV infection and also after *** I take Doxycycline 200mg within 24 hours, this will prevent infection from Gonorrhea, syphilis, chlamadia and other bacterial Infections. Don't have *** in the dark, always check around the genitals for lesion and warts or anything abnormal. I have been visiting India for a very long time and I have had *** with many young boys without condoms if I feel safe and the ones I don't feel safe, I use condoms. When I come back home, I get a thorough blood & urine test for veneral diseases, no serious infection so far but once, I had Trichomoniasis, it's a urinary track infection caused by parasite which was easily cured by 7days of Tinidazole. *** without condom feels great but I am not suggesting or advocating everybody to have *** without condoms. All I am saying is there are so many ways to protect yourself from STDs and ultimately, the your choice is yours. No matter what you do, there's no 100% safety; the only 100% safety is complete abstinence from ***.
No Picture SK_2026 *	Posted On Mar 19, 2026 @Pixel - Thanks for taking time buddy. It makes 100 percent sense. No *** is in the only way to be 100 percent safe. Else we need to limit it to mutual handjob or self masturbation. Lol
Gaboy1	Posted On Mar 19, 2026 Who likes to make hospital as home ?, how likes to take medicine for life time ,who like to take test every month And spend money on these just for having *** without condom? Be sensible,learn about safe *** ,in this generation, even youth also coming out and doing this kind of stuff without any precautions,teach urself about STDs it's not safe at all ,using condoms is a best option to resist from having STDs
No Picture Rahul xv	Posted On Mar 19, 2026 Safe enjoyment - Mutual handjob ..with atleast 3 guys in group. Use toys for *** and blowjob.. Use condoms for *** M2m *** became so easy to achieve due to smart phones..more people more *** .so it became unsafe also. Earlier days were good. Yesterday i had massage ..fully naked...got good handjob and *** massage. I was craving to get ***.and get *** also but some how controlled and came out. Not even released ***. We have made our *** life unsafe and now we have no other option but to avoid it.
No Picture AngadangadPune	Posted On Mar 19, 2026 Read the many comments here. Thanks for the many good advice. Always be safe. As for myself - I only indulge in light kissing, body play (after checking partner) and giving HJ. No matter how much anybody forces me or even if I am tempted, I don't give BJ or take ***. Many times I want to kiss but the top partner does not want to :) I mostly try to seduce straights. I think this is a little safe comparitively !!
Gaboy1	Posted On Mar 19, 2026 Kissing is also risky,I don't know about the stranger that what he eat or consume so u should not do kissing with anyone instantly
No Picture Rajcute	Posted On Mar 19, 2026 Syphillis and Hep B spreads very commonly and easily. Hep can be easily prevented by a simple vaccination even at local doctor. I urge everyone to take it. If you get hep B it’s lifelong no cure. You have to take a medicine. Syhphillis is problematic and no vaccine. But in early stages it can be cured by 3 injection treatments. Orals also pls don’t do without condom.
No Picture Pixel	Posted On Mar 19, 2026 Too much paranoia on this thread about STDs. If you are so scared of STDs, than you will never enjoy ***; but most importantly, youth & life is too short to miss out on all the gay pleasures the world has to offer. As some on this thread has excessively expressed concerns/fear over Syphilis, Gonorrhea & Chlamydia but these diseases are easily treatable and preventable in this age of advance science & medicine. One pill of Doxycycline 200mg after ***, before 24 hours, will prevent infection from all Bacterial STDs. Doxycycline is very cheap in India, I think I paid less than Rs. 200 for 12 tabs/caps. Herpes are not fatal but they are nuisance, the herpes lesion they come and go. HPV is not only prevalent among gay community and it's not only transmitted by sexual contact, it's a very common virus through out the world and can be transmitted by just touching at the wart and/or lesion and this wart can appear anywhere on the body. As stated by CDC, I am quoting directly from their websites, " HPV infections are very common. Nearly everyone will get HPV at some point in their lives." HPV is not fatal, at least not right away; even though, some high-risk HPV "MAY" cause cancer but this is not right away it's much later in your life but not necessarily. Then again, Many thing can cause cancer later in your life such as pollution, water & food contamination by chemicals and so on. Just don't have *** in the dark and look for genital warts around genital area and rectum they appear as small lumps or protrusions that look like the head of a cauliflower. These warts can also be found on hands & legs and through out the body. As regards to HIV, HIV carries no risk or very minimum risk via kissing or oral ***. So far, no case has been reported that HIV was transmitted orally. Wearing condom will prevent HIV transmission or by PrEP if you want *** without condom. Don't worry too much, be gay and be happy.
Gaboy1	Posted On Mar 20, 2026 Doxycycline 200mg Treats : Bacterial Infections - Treats infections such as pneumonia, chronic bronchitis, sinusitis, and urinary tract infections (UTIs). Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs): Used to treat chlamydia, syphilis, gonorrhea, and pelvic inflammatory disease (PID). Precautions Purchasing without a prescription, particularly through unlicensed online sources, risks obtaining fake, contaminated, or improperly dosed medication.please always consult to ur doctor Doxycycline 200mg is a commonly prescribed, effective antibiotic, but it is not "completely safe" for everyone. Side effects Taking the Medication: To avoid esophageal irritation or ulcers, take with plenty of water and remain upright for at least 30 minutes after ingestion.reactions include allergic reactions (anaphylaxis), severe skin reactions, esophageal ulcers, and intracranial hypertension. Common Side Effects Nausea, vomiting, diarrhea, or loss of appetite. Headaches and dizziness. Yeast infections. Doxycycline is safe when used as prescribed for a specific bacterial infection under a doctor's guidance. Do not use it without a prescription, as misuse can cause serious, long-term effects.
Gaboy1	Posted On Mar 20, 2026 As adults knows better than us ,they already know about STDs , their causes,thier cure, their precautions but not everyone knows about it especially the young people who are doing these stuff without precautions even many adults don't know about this and have any sexual activity with anyone without hesitation,I just want that if whenever u are doing any sexual activity so keep two things in ur mind - "joy" and "safety"
blossam	Posted On Mar 20, 2026 As an MBBS doctor, I would like to highlight some important health concerns. It is not advisable to take Doxycycline 200 mg routinely or without proper medical indication. Indiscriminate or frequent use can lead to antibiotic resistance, making the *** less effective in the future. Human papillomavirus (HPV) is primarily transmitted through skin-to-skin contact involving mucosal surfaces rather than regular skin. These areas include the oral cavity, anus, and glans ***. HPV infection is associated with serious conditions such as head and neck cancers in men and cervical cancer in women. Individuals below 25 years of age should strongly consider receiving the HPV vaccination for effective prevention. From a preventive perspective, it is advisable to practice safe oral *** using condoms, avoid high-risk activities such as rimming, and minimize direct mucosal (skin-to-skin) contact where there is an exchange of body fluids. Kissing is generally considered low risk; however, it is important to be mindful of the other person’s hygiene and health status. Certain infections, such as Tuberculosis (TB), can potentially spread through close and prolonged contact, especially if the individual has an active infection. Therefore, exercising caution is advisable.
No Picture Man_milf2026	Posted On Mar 21, 2026 Can this virus spread by only *** n swallowing..without condoms.many mans ... because I *** n swallowing some man but only give my *** to one man ..without protection only once .please enlighten me on this ....
Gaboy1	Posted On Mar 21, 2026 If u having any sexual activity with a stranger so definitely the possibilities of getting infected is high as because u don't know about the person that he is infected or not ,if u did without protection so its possible to get infection,u can prevent all these by just using condom for *** or having *** *** , using condom can lower the risk up to 90%
No Picture Saje143	Posted On Mar 21, 2026 For giving my *** I must use condom but *** time I not using condom if I don't sallow *** also risk?
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