Now I've been here a long time. I have talked to enough married men here (P.s which came as a surprise to me, that there are married men here), but like I wanna know if y'all ever are interested in talking about your *** life with your wife. Like I talked to one person who was open about his *** life with his wife. And it was a super turn on. As a bottom it feels amazing that a guy be choosing to sleep with me than his wife. So are there any other married men here who love talking about their *** life with their wives and connecting on that topic and taking things forward. I'm not demeaning anyone here nor trying to say anything wrong. But the topic of discussion of a man saying his *** life with his wife is bad, or incomplete, or like he's not satisfied and he's choosing to sleep with a guy is just arousing.
(P.s please no taking this the wrong way. I want to just discuss things)
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No Picture Sylester | Posted On Jan 5, 2026
Love to talk *** life of self and wife. Had a tremendous sexy life after marriage. Saw *** movie at a friend place with his wife and my too. Very very long back. Wife hot so excited that her *** got wet , since we were living near by, we rushed and *** each other like mad. Doggy style my favourite and her too. The tool goes deepwas reluctant to *** my *** initially but later on liked and we did pos. 69 there after. Great fun. Lot more to tell. Where are u from. Me from Chandigarh |
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No Picture Abhimaanbull | Posted On Jan 7, 2026
Love a lot to talk about married couple Wife being *** and hubby *** a lot before the real meat makes a move . Had experience for 2 years in a row where hubby use to watch me humping hard her wife and she looking straight into hubby eyes What a moment to capture and of course 100% satisfaction to all 3 |
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No Picture Thmarbtm94 | Posted On Jan 8, 2026
I got married recently, and since then I’ve been struggling internally. I identify as bisexual, but I feel a stronger physical attraction toward men. This is something that i was enjoying earlier.
After my marriage, I did have an encounter, which left me feeling guilty. However, despite the guilt, my desire and attraction toward men keep returning.it is difficult path i think top hunk man always arouse you being bottom its difficult to control |
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No Picture Micky_bottom | Posted On Jan 10, 2026
I'm a 35 bottom n married from 10 yrs. Almost One year back my wife asked me about my desires and my felling to other men. I was shocked that hw she knew that? But, she was very comfortable talking this. Then I shared all my fantasies to her. I love doing makeup and wear her panty. Now she has allowed me to use her lipsticks and blushes & all other makeup stuffs. I'm am a very thank full to God who give me such a good wife. |
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No Picture Cutemen007 | Posted On Jan 10, 2026
@Micky_bottom. Really you lucky... nowadays no one wife accept these things... My salute to your wife |
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No Picture Taufeeq | Posted On Jan 11, 2026
@Micky, if its true you are very lucky to have such a understanding wife in your life.. many of us can't open up our feelings due to social pressure, children etc... I am marriage for more than a decade now, have grown up children...but still my affectionate goes towards young boys..
Guys I believe the likes of our community are dependent on our first encounter where we have developed this feelings...for example if a teenager has experienced with mature adult his likes for mature adult remain forever no matter he is growing and similarly if teenager had encountered experiences with same age, his preference will remain same even he become old and mature
This has happened to me, do you guys Agree????? Please do comment |
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No Picture USTamil | Posted On Jan 11, 2026
I want to cross dress and go stand in street where men are there. Can someone help me |
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No Picture Int_traveller | Posted On Jan 12, 2026
@ustamil
I had done this. But not in public..i traval a lot. And I need to stay two or hree days in hotel.... Once i had weared a Bra under white tshirt ..it was quite visible. and I ordered a Morning tea in room service.....Room service boy had also noticed during serving tea in room..
Nothing more happended after...but i liked the way he was staring at my bbs. |
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No Picture yourFriendSid1 | Posted On Jan 12, 2026
As per my experience, opening up to your wife about *** life is risky. you don't know how she will react. Also there are many things on stake although it goes either way. In long term, you need to keep somethings to yourself as you don't know what future holds. Everyone has desires but few can act on them. I like to keep things discreet and seperate. |
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No Picture Rohansrohan | Posted On Jan 12, 2026
I agree everything you can't share. It's something you have to keep separate. Would love if someone wants to chat about me. I am married |
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No Picture naughtymanushya * | Posted On Jan 12, 2026
Wives who accept such things about their husbands are an extreme rarity.. Women like that need to be treasured and given everything they deserve and desire. But unlucky men like me.. whose wives are nothing short of a nightmare need to be smart and extra careful to keep our two lives absolutely seperate. And a lot of us are doing that perfectly well. I meet guys once in a while aligning it with a time when I'm expected to be somewhere anyways...like I meet a guy when I'm on my way to work or something. I don't do anything erratic or suspicious that is against my nature. Patience and sanity, both are at my best in this aspect of my life. :)
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No Picture kingofdesire56 | Posted On Jan 12, 2026
I don't think the threat was about talking about your desires with your wives. But it's more about talking about your *** life with people here. Not sure we have wives here in our society, who are willing to openly accept out desires, and are open on understanding things. I mean there are one or two of them. I have talked to some guys, and they are blessed to find wives like that. But that's extremely rare. |
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No Picture sissyhubby | Posted On Jan 12, 2026
I enjoy being completely sissified, humiliated, and teased by a young bull or macho man in a village setting in front of my wife. This is my kink—of course, it's just playful role-playing, not a lifestyle. To satisfy it, I can't hide it from her. I'm too afraid to reveal everything all at once, so I've started slowly by talking about femboys (I am smooth and as a K pop fan she can relate) and my interest in cross-dressing (not sissification/humiliation), but I've stopped there.
I'm stuck at this point; the next step feels like too big a leap of faith, and I'm waiting for the right moment to spill the beans. One of my plans is to arrange a normal swinger-type gathering with another sissy-hubby couple and play strip poker or truth or dare—pre-planned to create a situation where we get a chance to reveal it in a nice way or do some sissy acts without telling it out exclusively.
I will really appreciate any help or suggestions.. |
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No Picture Sissy_maker | Posted On Jan 12, 2026
I really did meet a bottom with whom I used to enjoy a lot... Like during tuitions I used to regularly meet him and cream him like crazy and I used to return to home tired everytime. It was all good until things became serious with his wife... As she used to treat him bad and used to abuse him.... So...i stayed away for a bit... Then he told his wife isn't satisfied sexually & he confessed that he likes *** & getting creampied good..... But out of anxiety and fear I turned down the offer... And now i regret it....i always craved for a cuck and bottom combo.... Just keep my balls empty and your holes full of my loads of *** |
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No Picture grennbranar | Posted On Jan 13, 2026
i have been married for 8 years and found out quite early that we are sexually incompatible. somehow managed 8 years and one kid. been visiting massage parlours and now looking for like minded married men who have similar interests. i find them safe to talk with. but topics on my wife, they are a huge turn-off for me. i want to talk about other women and jerk off or try mutual masturbation. the thought turns me on so much ! |
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No Picture Opensud | Posted On Jan 15, 2026
Yes , you are lucky to have a wife so understanding , it’s rare . It should be a two way affair . You need to keep her also happy so balance your life accordingly and treasure her feelings also . Appreciate your courage to discuss openly to your wife about your interest of choice . Many people have different desire and choices but are jot able to come up openly due to family and society fear , but slowly now the society has started accepting it till it is done in silent manner without too much distraction to others . |
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 Samsung0009 | Posted On Jan 19, 2026
Life is like this. My wife didn't knownthat I am top. But it's my fantasy and one of my friends is bot. One day she found chats between me n him. She called me and asked to meet her in person. When we met she was little upset that why he is not giving her and giving it to me. I explained her and asked her what next ? She took some time to think and ahe didn't want to take any revenge on him. She wanted to see me rimming him in front of her. One day I was rimming him at his house and she came all of sudden and in the heat of the moment she was the third wheel. It was one of the best encounter. Now I *** both of them and they are really having good understanding. |
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No Picture woodlife | Posted On Jan 20, 2026
Would love to talk about my *** life with my wife. Dm me |
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No Picture Rohansrohan | Posted On Jan 22, 2026
I agree everything you can't share. It's something you have to keep separate. Would love if someone wants to chat about me. I am married |
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No Picture masterbi | Posted On Jan 27, 2026
It’s actually not easy and not hard you can start the things you was by showing her p videos In the way you want many times than she will ask why you see that you can tell her see something new than start enjoying and let her also enjoy slowly slowly she will relax and it will be normal than wherever you see p videos watch the type you want and get excited with her like threesome and 4 some and one by one not all together it will take time for her to understand than she will be use to try and tell me this always works,, |
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No Picture Sam1999 | Posted On Jan 31, 2026
Hey guys, so 26 M here, anyone wants to talk about their *** life and kinks! I want to hear experiences of married men, especially the *** men! 😈 |
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No Picture Swapneelbhai | Posted On Feb 1, 2026
Once into bi-curious fun🌹 Always into it, whether married or staying unmarried 💖 Those who are here thinking that they will leave this world after marriage, they are wrong😊 And there is nothing bad in it❤️❤️ Life needs variety otherwise it is full of boredom❤️🌹❤️🌹🌺💋 |
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No Picture RahulJey111 | Posted On Feb 1, 2026
I love to talk about my *** life and lot more abt how exploring me and wife are.. Dm me guys |
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No Picture Phoenix_vers | Posted On Feb 3, 2026
Swapneelbhai...you are damn right , I thought i would left this world after marriage , initial years were duable bit after some years I couldn't control my cravings and I was feeling the constant guilt too..but finally I've made peace with it and I'm happy and getting best of both worlds. |
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No Picture Faholic * | Posted On Feb 3, 2026
Married for 12 years now. by 27 got married. We fell in love in college set up, before marriage i confessed my bisexual desires, in to men and women. she took almost 8 months time to accept me as is, and i did give enough time to realise my desires, she loves me without any expectations, but my pure love and understanding towards her, We are super happily married with twin boys and one daughter. she knows me completely in and out. I update her all my fun details, not in too detail but whereabouts and whomabouts and all, never hide any of my fun things during my travel. Aside i keep my wife happy by all means, i meant all means. the fun with my wife is always extra , sometime unconditional as i never get that satisfaction with any women or men. She holds something special when it comes to lovemaking. We are super happy and totally understanding. Over the time she stopped asking anything, but i rather updated her things, and truely.. down the lane she got me in and out my all means of. Not every wife would do that. But in my case, i confessed in advance rather than she finding put and to avoid shocking suprises. I always feel i took the right decision at right time. |
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No Picture Top_32_KKoil | Posted On Feb 3, 2026
@Faholic, it is good to know that there is a good understanding between you & your wife but I still could not understand that from your side you are updating every fun detail you got into ( in short ) as you mentioned here but your wife who knows that she is sharing her husband openly ( open relationship ) with the men & women without any question, do you think she is not into extra marital affairs ( not sure if you know it or not )? |
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No Picture Faholic * | Posted On Feb 4, 2026
Im curious why are u curious on that. how does that concerning to you? |
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No Picture Top_32_KKoil | Posted On Feb 4, 2026
@Faholic, it sounded like a one-sided story... I have seen that the same happens from the other partner as well when both call themselves in an open relationship.... Take the example here just now of @Gaygani143... both involved in extramarital affairs & that keeps them happy & balanced. I am not blaming or anything; it's just hard to digest for other husbands (though I am not a husband yet)... |
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No Picture RAAO | Posted On Feb 4, 2026
I want to speak to you with honesty and responsibility, not judgment. Sexual desire is natural, but losing control over it is a sign that the mind is seeking escape rather than connection. When *** becomes a compulsion, it slowly takes away your ability to think clearly, respect boundaries, and value emotional depth. Many people confuse constant sexual urges with freedom, but true freedom is having control over your actions. If your mind keeps drifting toward ***, it often means there is unresolved stress, loneliness, insecurity, or a need for validation. For those who are married and cheating, understand this clearly: cheating is rarely about ***, it is about avoidance and lack of accountability. A marriage is built on trust, and every lie weakens that foundation. Momentary pleasure cannot replace long-term respect, peace, and emotional safety. Acting on impulse trains the brain to choose shortcuts instead of responsibility. Over time, guilt, anxiety, and emotional distance grow silently. Discipline does not mean suppressing desire; it means understanding it and choosing wisely. A mature person can feel desire without being controlled by it. Real strength is the ability to pause, reflect, and say no when needed. If you feel out of control, seeking guidance is courage, not weakness. Healing your relationship with your mind will heal your relationship with ***, your partner, and yourself.
Remember before putting your opinion on this platform do not forget that next generation will take inspiration from you , may be your children will visit this platform and read your comment and will do same mistake as you and suffer. Plz hold ursel accountable and TRY to behave. Hapve a nice life ahead❤️ |
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No Picture Oombi40 | Posted On Feb 5, 2026
@raao well written I respect your thoughts but there is no point in analysing a persons desire and psyche . I would suggest just to follow the mind and heart .. whatever makes happy just go with the flow and its gift to have an understanding wife who is ready to share things openly .. so let’s not analyse and judge people .. just let everybody do watever makes them happy |
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No Picture Bicurious_danny | Posted On Feb 6, 2026
I'm not married yet but after reading so much in this thread so just understand married men are not happy bcoz their wives are not supportive. But what if she is supportive and fucks u with strapon ..will this act definitely makes u stay only with her and not third person involved in this after that. Also when we called bottom it doesn't mean just do rough bj and *** .it is slowly feeling like a women where men can hug neck kisses touches from behind...lights off rimm..if women can treat you like this u really stay with her happily. Also I suggest if your happiness is more important then go in thailand or philipines and marry someone ladyboys and stay happy |
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No Picture lucifer_pune | Posted On Feb 9, 2026
Need good advice - I got married few weeks back, and while trying to have ***, I am loosing my *** as soon as I am trying to penetrate probably because of nervousness since I have not *** anyone before (girl/guy), how can I help it? I am probably getting nervous because of first time, small *** size , unable to build a proper position which is easy to drill it in, fear of cumming soon...any advice what can I do? I haven't had intercourse still with my wife |
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No Picture Manuman | Posted On Feb 9, 2026
@lucifer, the key is to relax and enjoy the moment. Don't be under pressure to ***. It is OK if you *** after a few days/weeks. Just enjoy the foreplay by touching and exploring each other's body. Don't even think of the intercourse. It will automatically happen! |
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No Picture Faholic * | Posted On Feb 10, 2026
@lucifer forplay does magic, talk to her how u want and how she wnats, come to an understanding. its not always penetration, more than that lot u can do in ***. talking is the key. since she's ur wife, she gets it. also have a health food that increases ur libido and desire. stop masturbating. |
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No Picture Faholic * | Posted On Feb 11, 2026
@bicurioys danny May i know the meaning of ur first half of ur profile name rather than judging people who are expecting cucks. Lets discuss that. |
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