This thread was necessary I guess just wanted others to share their homophobic and negative experiences in cruising hookups have you been bul#lied for being gay anything like catfishing experience or robbery or attacks on trying on a trying on a straight guy
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No Picture Anirudhbottom | Posted On Jul 23, 2025
You guys didn't get my point you can get whatsapp friends from Grindr for chatting but regular solid friend who will travel with you meet you when you are needed that too from Grindr is rarest thing even fellow bottoms are extremely arrogant on Grindr those I tried to befriend they will talk Little bit and completely ghost you later in future most guys on Grindr are always in approach of getting anything quick then leaving and ghosting quickly
@ashu i didn't imposed anything on you I used to do lot of hook-ups back and there is nothing wrong with it i just doubted those who said they get good friends through Grindr and mass targetting story in big cities the probability of knowing anyone is not that high plus neither i will trust anyone's on Grindr that don't meet him he is d*ngerous bla bla the trust factor was completely dead on Grindr like I was always ghosted there on reaching the meeting spot top said you are not my type sorry someone is already at my room sorry' my scooty is not repaired
they have done PhD in lying and playing games with other guys are you sure they will be good friends offcourse not all are jerks but most are still worse for ugly guys the act of playing games and doing timepass is super common trust and care factor was dead like in one case I mean guy has a vehicle but he was still calling me far off when there was no proper transportation in my area in night this boiled my blood in left him I can narrate you hundreds of Stories dude vishwas aur bharosa exist nhi krta even the friends who i tried to make from Grindr blued always gave here & there excuses whenever I ask them to travel or meet or anything like that and were pro at ba*kbitching |
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No Picture Dev_22 | Posted On Jul 24, 2025
After 2 bad experinces my learning is .. never indulge with people who say they are top too but want want romance , they are kindoff risky .... Pure Vers or bottom guys are the best , older people are ❤️❤️ and if you are in hyderabad avoid mu -- slims for sure ...not all ,there are some good guys too, but mostly cheaters ,you can hardly know who's a good guy and who is a cheater better to avoid them saying after few bad experinces ..... Even if they are not blackmailers once they *** you and have fun they start acting like you are the bad one and they are very moral they start remembering their religion once they ***... Better avoid them . |
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No Picture saramaturegay | Posted On Jul 25, 2025
@All4unme: if you are experience is good means not applicable for everyone due to GR lost my 5k in life here we are just share experience be smart in life!!! |
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No Picture ManishAmdabad | Posted On Jul 26, 2025
Grindr is not bad. I have got my best friends with it. But the people. Its just like a meeting point where you get different kinds of people just like your office school college or society. It has plus point that u can be the same what you actually are. No hiding. But yes most of people here are into highly specific demand for hookup paid ***, cheaters, liars. But good people are there still.
Now we need to be specific what we want with all safety and precautions for *** as well as fraud cheating and harassment. |
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No Picture Tanishqpune | Posted On Jul 26, 2025
Absolutely true .... Cheating and harassment and fraud are increasing a lot |
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No Picture Dev_22 | Posted On Jul 28, 2025
5 months ago it was 2 police guys ... I was at a stupid spot .. taking on phone chilling ... Was not seeing my surroundings .. a police car stops , they asked my phone .... I ran away, they caught me .. hit me ,threatened me , blackmailed me took me inside some jungle type of thing ... They said they'll file a petty case and took my adhar and driving liscence they said collect it from court .... I was scared af ..i had to pay 5000 to take them back a ugly look cop pulled my pants down and *** me on that round in the jungle and other one hitting on my back ..... A very scarring experience .. ... Now I think 10 times before meeting anyone , and a big no to public places |
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No Picture saramaturegay | Posted On Jul 28, 2025
we will need to create one helpline to avoid such incidents instead of sharing need to form a unite person to person experience will be different all experiences are won't be same
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No Picture Veerey | Posted On Jul 28, 2025
@Dev_22 ye konse location pe huwa hai? |
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No Picture Dev_22 | Posted On Jul 28, 2025
@veerey secundrabad under the metro bridge bus stop key pass |
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No Picture Dev_22 | Posted On Jul 28, 2025
@saramaturegay.... I agree but people won't get associated i feel there is so much shame in admitting someone found you in such a place .... You can't even explain it to our own people , they'll blame us what were you doing there bolke....
. I got very scared, wanted to come out from that situation immedeatly , maybe if i was little stern/brave i could have stood against them coz I was doing nothing just roaming in that place talking on phone , i did nothing obscene or mischevious ... They hit me, broke my specs , a cop was biting my cheeks and lips I had bleeding from my upper lip , he was turning me around biting my butt and were pulling me with my *** , he drank my *** also and scolded me telling me not to do these things .... I was pretty traumatised for weeks after this incident do they still have any of my information .... Pretty scary life changing experience |
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No Picture Anirudhbottom | Posted On Jul 28, 2025
This is tragical they will easily book under section of obscenity as far i know and most cops don't easily allow gays to go without bribe |
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No Picture saramaturegay | Posted On Jul 29, 2025
@dev_22 understand!! as we have a gay feel even incident also happened due to feeling again we are searching hope for some one my cases!!! |
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No Picture ArthurConan | Posted On Aug 1, 2025
even better to avoid atops if he says mostly romance but they want more ,after meet we feel guity |
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No Picture Anirudhbottom | Posted On Aug 6, 2025
Others also share your negative experiences |
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No Picture Anirudhbottom | Posted On Aug 15, 2025
guys i got attacked again and my phone is stolen in local park cruising is no longer safe |
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No Picture Anirudhbottom | Posted On Aug 27, 2025
This happened with me on 15 august 2025 |
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