How Long Do You Last?
Hey everyone! ?? Let’s dive into a topic that can often feel a little taboo—how long do you last when you’re in the heat of the moment? First things first: there’s no shame in any number, whether it's 30 seconds or 30 minutes! The idea here is to embrace what works for you and create a space where we can all share honestly without feeling embarrassed. After all, it’s about the fun, the connection, and the pleasure we all get. Research shows that the average Indian guy lasts around 5-7 minutes, but honestly, who’s counting? Whether you last a minute or more, it’s all part of the experience. If you’re someone who tends to finish quicker, don’t stress—it’s not a bad thing at all. In fact, some of the most intense moments can happen in a short amount of time. Let’s get rid of the embarrassment and celebrate every part of the journey.For those who last a bit longer, feel free to share your tips and tricks—how do you pace yourself? Do you slow down, change positions, or use other techniques to last longer? Every story counts, and we can all learn from each other! Remember, this is a no-judgment zone—whether you're quick or slow, every moment is valuable. Let’s keep it fun, lighthearted, and supportive, and make this a space where we can all be comfortable talking about our experiences. Looking forward to hearing how long you last and what you do to keep the fun going! ???? Reply/Post a comment
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Viharihyd83 | Posted On Jan 8, 2025
with my wife it is between 20min to 1 hour including foreplay and afterplay. there are occations where I just jumped into *** and could not last 10 min if there is long gap. pure *** is between 3 to 15 minutes
with men depends, with one person I did almost 24 hours by giving breaks after every 30 min and not cumming. generally it is around 40 minutes including foreplay and afterplay. pure *** is between 1 min to 15 minutes. it depends on excitement and cooperation of partner. I have *** only a few people.
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no_place | Posted On Jan 8, 2025
@AlexHunter007 That is not a boon. You must be watching too much ***. I was also at that stage in past. And while masturbating,I believe you are imagine *** in your mind. Stop watching ***, I know it's hard. But it's similar to dru# addiction. STOP it gradually, it will also help you to last long in bed. |
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BottomBoyBngl | Posted On Jan 8, 2025
I have met guys who can go on for hours and difficulty in fining also men who can *** whenever they want. Some guys can’t control n *** quickly. |
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Wantmylips | Posted On Jan 8, 2025
Well there are so many thoughts on the topic which are so good and have hit the nail on the head. Well time one would be hard during a sexual act according to me is totally dependent on mental peace and if there is pressure on a lover to last longer I am sure that itself will make him *** sooner than he would as it’s playing on his mind best thing to do is not compare notes about how long someone lasts and concentrate on your own pleasures and pleasuring your partner.
I have had a guy who cane the moment he entered in me but had to coax and cajole him saying it’s alright as he must have been super excited of our meeting and *** him and made him hard when he was at peace and no pressure on performance the same guy lasted about 30 mins be considerate to your partners if they do *** very fast and you will be happier as they will definitely give you what you want. And by the way in round 2 the guy was so good he made me *** hands free with his hard banging.
Personally I feel getting *** for an hour on the go boring and would prefer my partners to *** in 5 or 10 mins and we can always have round 2 or 3 depending on the energy level of both partners. At times in this stressful life style it’s not possible for a person to perform more than a round at times depending on their physical condition on the particular day as it night have been an exhausting day at office or work stress.
Be patient and love each experience for what it dishes out and don’t stereo type performances and as far as *** is concerned it’s not shot with a single hard on for one scene so stop comparing it to real live ***. |
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Naughty_Dom_Top | Posted On Jan 8, 2025
I have gone maximum 94 minutes for a single round. But, when it comes to foreigners, my best is 30 minutes. They are so so experienced and good at this.
I normally last for 40 minutes+ . |
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Sonu_mallick87 | Posted On Jan 8, 2025
If I got the chubby bottom then I last for 30-40 min if it's regular average bottoms then I last for 1 hrs ...... |
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raju1987 | Posted On Jan 8, 2025
I would also prefer someone who cums in 10-15mins as i get too bored for long time fucks |
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FatTool | Posted On Jan 9, 2025
Question is subjective.
I had a guy who called himself expert and *** me off. He was *** for 25 minutes and I did not *** though I had a hardon for the full time. Finally I asked him to stop and said we should try some other time.
And then again, I had another guy *** me off. It was passiknateb |
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FatTool | Posted On Jan 9, 2025
Prev comment got submitter by mistake, so continuing.
I had another guy *** me off. He did not say he was expert but he gave right nibbles and right ***, and in 5 mins, I was holding his head and pumping his face and I came in 6 mins.
Now what was different was passion and technique. Knowledge of how fo stimulate is important. Work the *** and ***, know where to touch and move.
Like I said this is subjective. |
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Samleo8728 | Posted On Jan 9, 2025
Very very subjective and depends totally on the mood, horniness, time between the sessions, person who are involved, etc.... so we cannot even draw an equation to calculate the average... Like mamy told earlier i cudn even hold for more than 5 min with some and max 1 hr with some other... Situation matters... |
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Sur123 * | Posted On Jan 9, 2025
Well I would like to share my first experience with a 48 year old man who used to bang me quite often. This was a few years ago. He would last for over 30 mins in each round. He was a slow but a steady banger, taking his own sweet time to fully enjoy *** me whenever we met and he never rushed at any point. He had a 7 inch tool which was quite thick and he made sure my hole was fully lubed before the act. On our first night, I still remember that he used Vaseline cream with some coconut oil to lube my hole as there was nothing else available. He took his time to enjoy worshipping my sexy big white ***. He massaged my round big fat bum with generous amount of cream and oil and made sure it looked smooth and shiny. Although I was initially uncomfortable taking his robust *** inside my tight hole, he was very gentle and guided his *** slowly and steadily until it was fully inside. He then kept it inside me for a while before proceeding to slowly pound me. He would occasionally pull out his *** and then re enter me again. This made it easier for him to stretch my hole even more until I was able to easily accommodate his big black *** inside my sexy big white ***. He was now able to thrust it in and out smoothly. He gradually began to pound me deeper and harder and he continued banging me for the next 30 or so mins in different positions. The whole room would be filled with loud banging noises coupled with my occasional soft moans and his nasty grunts. That was our first hot and sensual night and it's my most unforgettable night till date..
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Rajat_k123 | Posted On Jan 10, 2025
As a bottom I've met tops till now nobody lasted more than 5 minutes so yeah it's not a problem if u last less or longer, but tops who lasts longer than a bottom cannot enjoy |
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Roykhannaa | Posted On Jan 10, 2025
@sur123 u made my *** *** dear.. n hard at the time.. super lucky u to have that session |
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HellBoy1991 | Posted On Jan 10, 2025
I like my sessions to be long, rough, sweaty, with lots of moans. Me being a Dominating Master Top, Love to use my bottom every possible way.
Let me give a small glimpse of my sessions, If I get a bottom of my choice this is what my sessions look like.
sabse phele main apne slave bottom ko aate hi nanga kar deta hun and main jabtak na bolun wapas nahi pehenne deta. phir use god mein baitha ke doodh pita hun aur dher sare bites and kissing karta hun. Pura upper body kha jata hun. Neck se leke back, boobs sab kuch. 10 15 min aisa karne ke baad, main use jamin pe bithata hun aur pura *** use choosne ko de deta hun, thodi der size se adjust ho jane ke baad muh chodna start karta hun gag karna, gali dena and *** andar tak muh mein dalna, tappadu marna. kamse kam adha ghanta se 45 mins Tak aisa chalta hai. Uske baad main use upar uthata hun aur armpits chatwata hun, Usko ache se khata hun doodh pita hun pura body masal masal ke maza leta hun aur fir dhire dhire use pura upar se niche tak chat chat ke khata hun, aisa kariban adha ghanta chalta hai, uske baad fir chooswata hun aur is baar dhire dhire bottom ko niche karte hue gand chatwata hun. Kya maza aata hai, main bata nahi sakta.
Itne time tak humlog ka adha bottle whisky bhi khatam ho jata hai aur humlog control mein nahi rehte. Main bhi rough dominating Top ban jata hun and mera bottom bhi pura comfortable ho jata hai. humlog mein khali hawas bhara rehta hai, ek dusre ko khana hai aur maza dena hai bas.
Uske baad jab wapas main chooswana chalu karta hun to is baar, gand mein ungli bhi dalta hun aur mere bottom ki ched bhi loose karne lagta hun.
ab bas choosai, gand chatai aur body masalna hi chalta hai, jabtak humlog dono pura bottle down nahi ho jate. just imagine full bottle down and hawas, session yaad karke hi khada ho ja raha hai.
Daroo khatam hone ke baad chudai chaloo aur fir to main 1 ghante tak *** sakta hun. mera highest record hai 1.5 hrs, jismein main adha ghanta to khali gand mein dalke rakha tha bina hilaye ya andar bahar kiye. |
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Sanjaysoft | Posted On Jan 11, 2025
In general honesty how much time can a person *** when the the tool inserts in the hole. I am unable to go more than 2 mins. Is it any problem how to overcome this issue |
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Karthi17 | Posted On Jan 11, 2025
20 minits |
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Sri2053 | Posted On Jan 11, 2025
@sanjaysift.. same here.... May be we get too excited quickly n don't last long |
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DManJerkOffs | Posted On Jan 11, 2025
Hey everyone! For those of you mentioning less than 5 minutes, there’s absolutely no need to feel embarrassed—it’s way more common than people think! In fact, studies suggest that the average time for penetration is just around 5-7 minutes for most guys globally, and in India, it might lean even closer to 3-5 minutes for some. So, if you’re hitting that range or even less, you’re totally normal.
Here's a fun perspective: some of the most passionate and unforgettable sessions don’t depend on lasting hours but on the intensity and connection. Think about it—ever had that spark with someone where just touching each other made things wild? That’s what it’s all about!
If you’re still feeling like 2 minutes isn’t enough, let me hit you with some irony: less is sometimes more. Let’s say your partner lasts forever; there’s a good chance things might get boring for them or even uncomfortable. On the flip side, if you’re quick but bring all your passion into those few minutes, you leave them wanting more. That’s where the fun of Round 2 (or 3) comes in!
For everyone aiming to pace themselves, here’s something fun to try: mix it up! Slow things down, switch positions, or take breaks to cuddle, kiss, or tease. It’s not a sprint or a marathon—it’s your moment to make it memorable in whatever way works for you. And hey, if you’re worried, think of it this way: there’s nothing wrong with being so excited that you can’t hold back—it’s a compliment to your partner’s allure!
It's common for individuals to feel self-conscious about the duration of sexual activity, especially if it seems shorter than expected. However, understanding the typical ranges can provide reassurance.
Average Duration of Intercourse:
Research indicates that vaginal intercourse typically lasts between 3 to 7 minutes, which is considered adequate, while 7 to 13 minutes is deemed desirable.
News Medical
Another study found that the average time to ejaculation after penetration is approximately 5.4 minutes.
Medical News Today
Factors Influencing Duration:
Arousal Levels: High excitement can lead to quicker ejaculation.
Frequency of Sexual Activity: Longer intervals between sexual encounters may result in shorter durations due to heightened arousal.
Psychological Factors: Stress, anxiety, or pressure to perform can impact sexual endurance.
Embracing Individual Experiences:
It's essential to recognize that sexual satisfaction isn't solely determined by duration. Quality, emotional connection, and mutual pleasure play significant roles. If concerns about lasting longer persist, techniques such as focusing on foreplay, practicing relaxation methods, or seeking professional advice can be beneficial.
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Sri2053 | Posted On Jan 13, 2025
@dmanjerkoffs nice post...thxs... |
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Don_Quixote | Posted On Jan 13, 2025
i *** the minute i enter ... but with huge foreplay i have made 3 hour sessions |
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Jeanebad | Posted On Jan 14, 2025
Good topic. Lasting is exactly an issue for me. However last few meets, I requested my partners to play with my *** till I got hard, and then to stop. This has helped me to gain few minutes. I used last badly a minute before blasting out all my *** before. Now it's not that case anymore. I am doing more foreplays nowadays. |
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tobeeefreeinlyf * | Posted On Jan 14, 2025
During my time outside of India, I hooked up with a foreigner, he was white. Had a thick as hell rod, it was thicker than my wrist but wasn’t very long, maybe about 6-6.5 inches. Could barely fit it down my throat and he choked me every time. He lasted like hell, my *** and my hands were aching by the time he was done. And he came in gallons, covered my face with his juices and I was dripping wet. Had to take a shower at his place before I left. Thankfully, he didn’t breed me with it but it was a crazy experience, never had a guy last as much as he did. We met a few times before I left the country. |
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cindrella_c | Posted On Jan 15, 2025
initially i used to cu mm quickly when i got fcukd. slowly the acceptance level improved. now I can hold well. i can receive well. i can go on even after the top cu mming. |
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ChubbyBottomblr | Posted On Jan 16, 2025
Most tops *** in 2 mins in my *** need tops to last longer |
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Smartboy001 | Posted On Jan 16, 2025
Few tops i *** who release *** after 2 hours almost. ( always full of glass ***) few release in seconds the monent i take in *** |
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samuhikraand | Posted On Jan 16, 2025
With strangers I last for a few minutes with my boyfriend and his friends I can last for more than 20 minutes. I am used to them. |
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DiscreteCruiser | Posted On Jan 18, 2025
Simple logic - It’s 5 to 7 minutes only. If you want to last more than this, do lots of body play in between intercourse. That’s it !! |
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FunFreeVers | Posted On Jan 18, 2025
Nice topic, very frank and sincere feedback from you all.
In my experience, I am versatile more bottom and really love to ***, while I *** I am near to come as it's my passion so I am aroused very quickly. While *** my partner I hardly control upto 2-3 minutes but when my top partner is playing with my *** I stay on little longer.
As per my experience as bottom, my partner stay hardly upto 5-6 minutes once he has entered my hole and start ***. If he stops in between then also not more than 15 minutes.
Usually at the starting of hugging eachother I frankly say that I *** very soon. Around 90 percent people say that he also cums fast.
As soon as start *** when my partner stops me frequently I tell him not to take tensions, if you feel to *** just feel free I will take all your load in ***, you can take little rest and we can start our second session. Most of them enjoy cumming in *** first, then they hug, we talk, cares eachother and again we start. This makes him more relaxed and we both enjoy multiple times. |
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SUKMYNIPS | Posted On Jan 19, 2025
I used to last about 30 min on average until a few years ago when I started *** prematurely at around 10 mins or so. Then I began practising Kegel exercises regularly and also Edging. Now I can go for 30 to 40 mins again but with occasional pull out so I can edge.
Best thing about edging is that my *** quantity has increased SO MUCH when I eventally shoot my load :) |
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hangon257 | Posted On Jan 25, 2025
When I jerk myself I can last for a minute max(excluding playing time with my ***).
but when I ***, it depends on some below factors.
when I *** or jerked last time.
How hot the partner is and how he smells.
Meeting him for the first time or had many times with him before.(I likes mostly the first time encounters)
The environment, furniture and the comfortable position.
So, the more im comfortable and thrilled, the sooner I ***. My minimum ***(excluding foreplay) time is 5 mins and max is 40 mins
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Heyitsme | Posted On Jan 25, 2025
How to increase time. |
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