A petition for recognising same *** marriage is being heard in the Supreme Court of India. This will be a big step after decriminalisation of gay ***.
Most guys here are for *** date and fun. Nothing wrong with it. But there are quite a few who are seriously looking for long term relationship or gay life partner. Considering the vast database ohmojo has, number of such guys will also be sizeable.
This thread is meant for such guys.
We can share our details like age, location , sexuality, role, expectation and so on.
Some requests 1. discussion about viability of gay relationship, same *** marriage can be done somewhere else.
2. This thread os NOT meant for requests seeking *** dates
3. Do not share all your personal details as the page can be seen by anybody. Those can be exchanged in one to one message.
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|Posted On Nov 28, 2022 - 07:17 AM|
Good Initiative. There is an organisation who is providing this service called as Mr and Mr by Umang.
|Posted On Nov 28, 2022 - 09:06 AM|
Initiative is good but the profile holder to create this thread has deleted it's account
|Posted On Nov 28, 2022 - 02:53 PM|
OnlyNSAfun, I am very much there.
|Posted On Nov 28, 2022 - 02:54 PM|
Need a lesbian girl marriage of convenience
|Posted On Nov 28, 2022 - 04:33 PM|
I am crossdresser. I am looking for a top for marriage. also want to share room (compulsary) in bangalore. banashankari or near location. ping me if only serious. no timepaas chats.
|Posted On Nov 29, 2022 - 03:11 AM|
It’s very difficult This government yesterday has returned back supreme court’s recommendations to elevate advocate Saurabh Kirpal to the post of high court judge because he is a gay. It’s suffocating in India
|Posted On Nov 29, 2022 - 06:30 AM|
At the risk of diverting from the topic of the thread I myself have created, I want to say that this reason sounds strange. Our External Affairs minister is married to a person of Japanese origin. A former president was married to a woman born in Burma, now Myanmar.
|Posted On Nov 29, 2022 - 06:45 AM|
So here are my details . Me- 54, never married single, Maharashtrian , based in northern Mumbai, worked in financial sector -now retired. Ht 152cm wt 53kg, darkish complexion. Come from a family which ate eggs, fish, meat but I dont. Dont drink, smoke or do drugs. Secular and liberal. interests are literature (mostly marathi) music (hindi marathi, semi classical) cooking (indian) and education. I enjoy being a side , but open to being a bottom for a loving partner.
I am out to some of my folks - relatives and friends but not to immediate family yet. But will .
What I am looking for - single guy, preferably marathi speaking as except for the education and work, I think in Marathi. But that is not a must.
You can eat anything and tempt to it. Must be secular -liberal. No compromise there. No issue if our other interests dont match. No smoking, drugs or tattoos. An occasional or social drinker will do. You can be anything but a pure top or pure bottom.
More in one on one conversations.
|Posted On Nov 29, 2022 - 08:23 AM|
@fifty, i can't send message to you.
I see the note
This profile has been disabled by the member
|Posted On Nov 29, 2022 - 08:35 AM|
Sorry. I have changed the settings now.
|Posted On Nov 29, 2022 - 03:44 PM|
Age - 35
Location - NE India.
Orientation - Versatile
The above being my basic, let me state that I'm not seeking marriage here. What I'm seeking is a companionship.
A kind of relationship where we lead our individual lives as what we are now (married/single) but be there for each other in times of need or as the case may be.
I'm seeking a monogamous relationship where we remain connected - by any media. I was into such relationship sometime back in my life. It was a beautiful relationship. He was based in Bengaluru, I was placed in NE. We would take out time to drop a message to each other, never sulking if one of us didn't get message from the other person. We just knew each other too well, the trust in us was real. We had plans for our lives. He went on to be with Gods.
If there's anyone who believes in such arrangements where we are together but not always, do ping me. :-)
|Posted On Nov 29, 2022 - 04:59 PM|
34 years old feminish bottom at chennai..
A simple guy by living, a well qualified professional here..
I prefer a simple living though...
I love classical music and pursuing it too...a bit introvert..
I m not really looking for a matrimonial,but if luck favors...why not...
|Posted On Nov 30, 2022 - 02:21 AM|
Guys from Pune....
I'm 28 m bi ver looking for mutual fun... Companionship... A to be friend and then we can see where it leads us in future... Anyone interested, hit my inbox. Be decent, genuine and you'll be my rock star😉
|Posted On Nov 30, 2022 - 03:49 AM|
Is it possible guys to get married officially as gay ......
As my father is lookng forwards to get married officially as gay ..... Please help me guys if u guys know something
|Posted On Nov 30, 2022 - 09:38 AM|
36 Hairy Top frm Jaipur Rajasthan
|Posted On Nov 30, 2022 - 08:52 PM|
I am really looking forward to a positive verdict from the Supreme Court. It will help in so many different ways once the concept of marriage is introduced.
I for one have always dreamed of taking marriage vows with my guy ( if I manage to find him first lol). Just the thought of saying those words especially- to have and to hold,...love and to cherish till death do us apart. With his and my family and friends around.But I know it sounds like a fairy tale now.
On another note, I believe marriage will give more people the strength to come out atleast to parents. All parents worry about their child's future. They are worried that gay relationships have no foundation and hence break up very easily. Marriage or atleast recognized civil partnerships would help to convince parents that there is some kind of structure in place even if this generation is the one to take the first steps.
|Posted On Dec 1, 2022 - 02:14 AM|
Princey here from jp. Nagar , bangalore.
A business men for society nd a part time CD for self,
Looking for a soul mate with whom I can share my pain, my happiness, my laugh, my tears, everything, I will be loyal to him till he will be loyal to me, if any one interested let me know, looking for long term relationship, I can't give guarntee of life time but yes if that person really want me to be with him I will be forever, guys who stay around jp. Ngr and interested ping me personally, below 38 years guys only please, looks really not matter much, character is important, guy who can be loyal nd with a good character ping me
|Posted On Dec 1, 2022 - 03:18 AM|
I dont understand why do we look upon SC to deliver a verdict here. There are (few) instances of men having entered into a relationship and have married as well. You can still get into a live in relationship or marry a man of your choice and be happy. Whose endorsement are we seeking here? This govt is in a way radicalised owing to political and societal pressures and vote banks, will remain a mute to this.
All you need is find someone who is strong and brave to be your partner and stick with you for all times (good bad or even worse)" till death do us apart "
The million dollar question is -- Who is up for the game?
|Posted On Dec 1, 2022 - 03:35 AM|
@unimate agree with you. Even if government legalise it , how many people are actually ready to get married and settle down with a guy. Many gays want to marry girls because of family pressure or societal pressure or any other reason. Its difficult to find a male who will be ready to stay with you entire life. There used to be such discussions initially but now with apps like grindr, gay community has moreover become *** oriented and nothing else. And moreover everyone doing paid *** now.
|Posted On Dec 1, 2022 - 04:30 AM|
@Aarav, true that with new venues opening up, *** has become free commodity and its become an undying thirst for many, money for few and life for very few. Expectations are almost as much as any other straight relationship as well.. family financial status, physical appearances are some of the factors that decrease the chances of settling down. Media is the most blamed reason coz of tiktok and other social media reels, people have started to fantasise and would want to lead a life like them!!
Not sure where we are heading for but not a good one though and wondering what will the next gen of guys will do about it?
|Posted On Dec 1, 2022 - 07:30 AM|
A supreme court decision favouring same *** marriage will give legal rights to same *** partners. Too many issues here- owning property jointly, naming as next of kin -in medical or other situations and so on.
Thats why I had requested in my opening comments that this discussion about viability of long term same *** relationship can be taken elsewhere. I know a handful of men who are resolute about having a gay long term relationship or marriage. If the supreme court decision is favourable, more gay men will think on these lines. I read somewhere that after 377 was scrapped first by Delhi High court and later by Supreme court, more guys could show the courage to come out. Instead of whining about *** seekers we could focus on what we want for ourselves. For me being gay means loving a man, not just having *** with a man.
|Posted On Dec 1, 2022 - 01:09 PM|
Agreeing with you completely. A favourable verdict could have many positive effects. Like I said, It could make coming out a little easier.
I also wish that it opens up LGBT matrimony portals to make our search a little easier.
At present on apps like Grindr, we're competing with a good majority of guys looking for a good time just for that night.
|Posted On Dec 2, 2022 - 03:55 AM|
Even if it is made legal on same *** marriage by SC how many of them would come forward? We will be continuously bogged down by our societal pressures and it will take enormous amount of mental strength by a person to break these shackles unless their families are supportive. Ask around here how many have found their partners? It's just like in another matrimony!!!
|Posted On Dec 2, 2022 - 04:08 AM|
The moment supreme court decides on this , whether favourable or negative, there is going to be huge amount of discussion in the media about it. This itself will bring awareness among those gays who used to fall to societal /parental pressure and used to tie themselves up in a hatre marriage. There families would also be made aware of these issues. Not everyone is going to change overnight. But we need to keep pushing. After all it is for our own betterment.
This thread of mine and the ongoing discussion is my little contribution towards this.
Even now, there are guys who are staying together, taken vows or have decided to find a gay partner . There are many more who are refusing to get married to a girl , knowing they are not meant for it.
|Posted On Dec 2, 2022 - 04:28 AM|
@fifty, i hope and pray that it comes that. Beyond this , i leave it to individuals who are capable of taking such decisions and my love to those are already into it. ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
|Posted On Dec 4, 2022 - 05:39 PM|
Very nice thread and most needful initiative....a very big thank you @fifty
Speaking of myself....
Occupation: working in IT
Orientation: Prefer to be side..but open to possibilities to being bottom only and only for the right guy
Looking for: Possibly Top
Must haves: All i seek for is an Emotionally available person.
Sacha pyaar naa sahi....par jo hamesha saath nibha sake...aise pyaar ki umeed hai.....
I believe in and looking for a meaningful, lifelong, monogamous relationship....though I'm not rushing for it.... because i know right things takes a lot of time....
I'm not looking for lot of things in my would be partner, but I do need someone to love me for who I am.
I’m looking for someone who can keep up with me in all my ups and downs...and so will I be there for him.
I’m looking for an my other half. Are you out there?
All the other details OR anything anybody wants to know...then plz drop a message....
Note: I'm not always active so plz bare the delay😇
|Posted On Dec 5, 2022 - 05:53 AM|
Hello.... single gay here from Mumbai.. looking for monogamous relationship.
I am 37, workibg with interior all bank... out n proud being gay
I am versatile top but can be side .. depends on the real soul mate
|Posted On Dec 5, 2022 - 06:57 AM|
I would suggest everyone to stick to the post topic. 😅
Sexual preferences are fine but over exaggerating it is kinda odd for this page 😂
|Posted On Dec 6, 2022 - 02:01 PM|
Why marriage? It's just a religious tradition, gays does not need marriage for living with someone
|Posted On Dec 6, 2022 - 02:18 PM|
@Raj_ex 100% agree.....its a matter of understanding, faith and being true to your partner.
|Posted On Dec 6, 2022 - 03:38 PM|
It is a social contract.
I have explained the legal issues gays face without sanctity of marriage.
|Posted On Dec 8, 2022 - 01:59 PM|
@fifty those things also matter.
|Posted On Dec 9, 2022 - 05:20 AM|
This will be my matrimony profile:
I'm 48yrs old pure gay bottom man with girlish feelings. My body is white coloured and smooth & soft without any body hairs.
When fully dressed, I look like a gentleman, so nobody will doubt us if we go together anywhere. Can wear ladies dress in the house if you want it.
Can be your obedient no-complaining, no-demanding, no-quarreling wife. If you want, you can use me as your *** slave too.
|Posted On Dec 10, 2022 - 02:08 PM|
Hi. I am a single gay man from Mumbai. I am tall and have the body type of the typical Indian pehlwan (wrestler). I am fair, and manly and am told I am handsome. I have less hair on my body but a good beefy broad build.
I am very well educated and lived in a metropolitan city all my life. I would get along well with well-educated sophisticated men. I am looking for manly men who are not rigid with roles and actions in the bedroom, who are most interested in intimacy and mutual satisfaction. I have a few fetishes and fantasies I am passionate about. I don't think long-distance dating works but exceptions are always there. I am interested in someone who is open-minded, unorthodox and uninhibited. The person should be ready for serious dating and relationships where emotions and partnership are involved. I prefer guys between the age of 28 to 40. Approach ONLY if you are open to sharing pics when you introduce yourself, else please dont waste my time.
|Posted On Dec 10, 2022 - 03:30 PM|
I am a 30yrs old single man from Chennai. I am fair, handsome and little chubby. Working as a top bureaucrat in a challenging position. A public figure.
Looking for a well educated and sane person. Location doesnt matter. For me personality and character are strong factors of attraction. I meet hundreds of people daily. All kinds. Smart People with strong character and personality attract me more than dumb hot people. And I easily connect with people emotionally. Age doesnt matter.
|Posted On Dec 10, 2022 - 03:33 PM|
I am 49, single never married, gay, never into women, originally Telugu guy, working in Mumbai. Looking for a good companion for life.
Prefer pure bottom gay, no to CD, Chubby, trans. Only bottom man interested in relation chat with me. Thanks
All the best for other guys :-)
|Posted On Dec 12, 2022 - 07:24 PM|
I am 46. Highly educated and well placed. Strict vegetarian, conservative, book work, religious, and a book work. Looking in for guys who are of similar age well educated,well placed, religious and vegetarian. Not too much into ***. Looking in for mature intellectual companionship. If you are one please DM me.
|Posted On Dec 13, 2022 - 03:27 AM|
Gay relationships are viable but monogamy shouldn't be a given. Physical pleasures and fantasies can always be fulfilled elsewhere, like i love cruising and serving men. I can't let go of that kink of mine. And some kinks you don't want to do with your partner. Like spitting, golden shower etc. So it's best to keep your love life for companionship, comfort and keep your sexual life wild and active. That's what I do. And as a young bottom in delhi, there's always scope for me getting both.
|Posted On Dec 13, 2022 - 06:49 AM|
how can i find a Lesbian? I want to do MOC like badhai do movie.
|Posted On Dec 17, 2022 - 01:24 PM|
Hard to find a top who can be committed for a marriage tbh.
|Posted On Dec 18, 2022 - 11:09 AM|
I am an easy-going person with a positive attitude towards life.
I am simple, soft-spoken, respectful, and an educated person with the right mix of modern and traditional cultures.
I come from an orthodox family who believes in following our religious traditions.
I love cooking for my family during the weekends.
I am looking for someone who can be a true friend for life. He should be claim, understanding, caring, loving.
My ideal match is someone who is successful in his career, well-settled, and has a positive outlook on life.
|Posted On Jan 5, 2023 - 05:46 PM|
In my opinion a same *** marriage is unsatisfactory union in every sense. Young age with vitality may lead to a lot of *** but a sense of completeness lacks in same *** marriage. Supreme court of india is an unfortunate mess to interfere in executive role and play activism. The moment judiciary becomes activist it becomes a threat to democracy.
|Posted On Jan 5, 2023 - 05:59 PM|
@justdome who told you completeness lacks in the same *** marriage? It is because of the judiciary the rights of the minorities are protected. Did you forget that it was judiciary which struck off section 377? Before 2018 police used to harass gay people! They still do but at least the law doesn’t make gay *** illegal.Do you think 10th fail illiterate politicians will give the rights to us? Same *** marriage is not for *** but for equal treatment of gay couples who wish to co-own property, open joint accounts as spouses, make their spouses as the beneficiaries to the pension and insurance etc.
|Posted On Jan 6, 2023 - 06:07 AM|
Justdome you are homophobic, queerphobic, misogynist. I am sure you are married and abuse your wife and daughters. And at the same time you feel it is your right to sleep with men outside But you don't allow your wife and daughter to breathe . Your breed should be extinct. It is a tragedy for your breed to exist. Forget democracy, you are a threat to humanity. You are nature's mistake and blunder who doesn't value human beings and dignity.
|Posted On Jan 6, 2023 - 06:27 AM|
As a bottom I can tell that the feeling is really intense I can most happliy live my life as wife & do any thing to make life of my top most pleasurable
|Posted On Jan 6, 2023 - 07:19 AM|
Justdome has statd his sexuality as straight in his profile.
|Posted On Jan 6, 2023 - 09:07 AM|
If you feel safe *** marriage lacks completeness then it's ur personal opinion you can follow it , but you have no right to decide or comment on other gay couples getting married. Atleast they don't prefer to get married and pretend to be straight to the society and also secretly feed on guys. They have more self respect than people like you who prefer being a hypocrite. The moment the rights of any single person are compromised based on his sexual orientation, that is the real threat to democracy. You seem to be grown only by age not by maturity.
|Posted On Jan 8, 2023 - 03:00 PM|
I am Naveed 42 years old side bottom from south Mumbai
Looking for a lover/companion who would be romantic and best half of me
I don't want to be a sugar daddy to anyone in the name of relationship
Interested guys please dm me and we'll take it from there
I am well settled businessman FYI
|Posted On Jan 9, 2023 - 05:05 PM|
I spend my time between Mumbai and Pune, seeking a companion as well. I'm more vers top. From business background, not keen to be a sugga daddy either. Hobies include interior decoration, reading and working out. PS love long walks. Prefer being transparent and true to my self.
Seeking a fit companion to be friends and eventually settle with.
|Posted On Jan 14, 2023 - 05:35 PM|
@justdone: are you straight or bisexual or gay? this is a site for gays or bisexuals. if you are straight, you are in the WRONG PLACE!
as for the supreme court action on striking off an old colonial law sec 377....would you trust some highly educated men or a herd of uneducated/criminal/religious zealots to make decisions on your behalf? i know whom i would choose. guess i know where you feel comfortable.....just like the rest of your folk.....talk one thing and do something else.....HYPOCRITES!
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