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Online vs Offline Cruising (All City & town)


Submitted by Doorellin007 Location: All India (All India, India)

There have been Cruising since birth of civilization all over the world.

Before Internet, Men Cruised in parks and public facilities, mostly in Urinals. Older generations knew it all about Cruising places by word of *** and by exploring around. On the other hand new generation explored various options online.

I've been doing both for years and realised there are extremely fewer benefits Cruising online compared to offline Cruising. Online cruising is deceiving, most part, addictive and time consuming. Although it may be good for peeps who are introvert, shy and patient enough and/or trying to find a suitable match for a definite reason, be it private intimacy, short/ long term relationships etc.

Whereas, in my strong opinion, Offline cruising satisfies your basic instinctual carnal desires as and when needed with less or no chances of being deceived. Only it costs of risk is being caught but still adventurous 😂

I've left being online for said reasons and been cruising mostly in public places including parks but mostly Urinals where you get handjob and more if you advance to a detailed session. I've travelled across many countries and cities in India and to my surprise even younger generations are in abundance.

Share your views, Cruising places in your cities and make aware people of it. Share your experiences too.

PS: Please don't private message me asking for places to Cruise. I'll share my experiences here 🙂

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ToBeFreeinLyf
Posted On Apr 13, 2022 - 05:13 AM

I would say offline cruising has been riskier because of the folks you tend to encounter in most cruising places, thief's, cheats and despos. Especially risky if you're an out of townie. A few bad experiences like these motivated me to stop it altogether. There's also the safety aspect, one can never know how healthy the person would be. Not a fan of Grindr either, just filled with despos with a *** for a brain.

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Doorellin007
Posted On Apr 13, 2022 - 08:00 PM

Online:
Pic? Body pic? More pic? Size? Do you suk? Do you Rimmm? Do you fcuk? What else do you like? Not free now? Okay meet later? Next person after disliking 10 people... Same questions all over. Then you get lucky and decide to meet... Was that your pic? I think I can do it next time as I've to leave for something urgent.

Offline:
What's your name? You have nice body or dik(If met in a Urinal) ? Do you've place? I know one place. Let's go. Later, share your no. if you wanna be in touch.

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bidesi
Posted On Apr 13, 2022 - 09:18 PM

you are right ToBeFreeinLyf re the risk in offline but even in offline once can pursue for a bit n be safe. look at what Doorelin007 said, thats also right

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Starfishy
Posted On Apr 14, 2022 - 05:25 AM

If you like seduction and adventurous on what to expect next it's offline. Online meet ll have some preference set, and ll be going with more expectations. However during meet up ll get disappointed as most people always good in chatting during rea meet you ll not get whatever you chatted

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mojar
Posted On Apr 17, 2022 - 06:15 AM

Offline too risky I think, especially for people above 30. Its better to know the other person better understand what is expected and then have a meet. Its better to stay safe than sorry. This is only opinion though, I know some people like the adrenaline rush doing the dare.

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ToBeFreeinLyf
Posted On Apr 17, 2022 - 07:59 AM

Exactly! It sounds fun to read about it or to wish for it to happen but we are all walking a thin line. Thats the reality. One slip up, we may end up with something we would struggle with all our life. So it's better to get to know the other person well before involving in any form of physical intimacy.

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Carnage0562
Posted On Apr 18, 2022 - 07:38 AM

i have been doing offline cruising since my college days; in my hometown and later in delhi NCR
There is no denying that it has its own thrill and adrenaline rush .. but eventually i would say its very very addictive!
I can still recall how i used to waste so much of my time cruising and trying to find a guy as per my choice.. rarely any luck and most of the time ended up going home as majority of crowd at such places are unemployed; money seekers; frauds or gangs so uts risky
This addiction made me lose my phone twice in thefts. Police does nothing in such cases, they’ll be like what were u doing at this time?

And i must say over the time police has become more alert at such places as they keep roaming around in civil dress posing as a bait to get hold of people like us and threaten us for money.

Eventually i have stopped cruising at such places to avoid trouble i could get into.



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Doorellin007
Posted On Apr 18, 2022 - 09:51 AM

@carnage... Your profile says you're *** most of the time says it mostly why you wasted a lot of time cruising. Also contradicting that you're not too choosy but into Desi guys. Kinda confusing! Are you wasting time online now looking for your type 😜

Fake pics... Incorrect profile description... Paid guys... is all I see online. Not to mention. Cheaters, goons and bullies are there online in plenty too. People have even got shamed, looted, beaten... meeting others online too. Offline cruising is fun and thrilling of you're not so careless

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Carnage0562
Posted On Apr 18, 2022 - 08:52 PM

@Doorellin007
its my perception that i have described based on the question that has been asked
Ur profile says u like to cruise into toilets.. so be it! its ur choice .. u like it.. u r continuing it.. its ur choice right? u r happy with it.. great! Am i telling u to stop it? No i am not! pls carry on 😂
i used to cruise long back and now i have left it thats what i have described and i have mentioned my own reasons for leaving it

Also, having said that i am into desi guys doesn’t mean i am looking for 3rd class unemployed beggars and money seekers or people from low socioeconomic status.

this thread is about putting up ur thoughts
No one is contradicting no one
so chill!

About u asking if i am cruising online or not? its my choice : yes i do it sometimes or i dont do it at all when i am busy
Looking for hookups is not the only thing in my life at this stage of life

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relishing_love
Posted On Apr 26, 2022 - 07:01 AM

@ Carnage0562

Your thoughts about offline cruising is 200% true in my case. You nailed it buddy.

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Doorellin007
Posted On Apr 29, 2022 - 07:25 AM

It's called law of averages. Every 'fun' experience probably comes in after 6-8 failed or non-happening experiences. Some loos are always happening and safe, some are unsafe sometimes, but still happening. You can get caught sometimes, sometimes you'll manage to unload your jizz in a cute guy's *** who is already wet and sticky from swallowing 5 other guys' *** in the loo before you. It all matters on luck, circumstances and the loo.

Similarly, it's also about tactic. You being gay and out in the loo for a cruising experience doesn't mean you're destined or entitled to get one. There are several factors that will determine how often you might get lucky. Some of them are:
1. Are you hot or ugly. And let's not get into the 'beauty lies within' or 'beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder' nonsense. If your face and overall anatomy has the potential to turn anyone on in the dark, dingy and smelly environs of the loo, you can consider yourself to be lucky.
2. Are you 'offering' or are you 'expecting'. This is the top, bottom, versatile equivalent of the loo game. Depending on what the other people's inclinations are in the loo, your chances of getting blown or getting a *** to blow will vary.
3. Are you tactful or reckless. This one is the biggie! If you're randomly reaching over the urinal to grab someone's *** or unsolicitedly offering your *** to whoever comes and stands next to you, you're gonna get beaten up or arrested. This is irrespective of how safe or unsafe the loo is. Having an active Gaydar is important to figure out who's gay and who's a straight goon trying to fool you. I have seen quite a few desperate *** gay guys falling for such traps just because they were not careful about who they should approach

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420469
Posted On May 4, 2022 - 09:03 AM

Offline Cruising is anyday better then online. Atleast one knows what he is going for. Online usually get fake pictures self proclaimed "down to earth". Guys who say i am fair so good looking (don't know what's with fair skin and good looks- there is no connection).

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KR99
Posted On May 4, 2022 - 09:07 AM

How do you start talking to random person you have seen somewhere offline ? Like I am an introvert person so it's difficult for me to approach someone whom I have seen somewhere and willing to make a move or something and have conversation, but I want to be free with it like I have seen some guys talking frankly and comfortably with random stangers they see

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MatureGuy
Posted On May 6, 2022 - 07:22 AM

Offline cruising in the 80's and 90's was fun. U met someone and if the feeling was mutual you had ***. NSA. No names or numbers exchanged. I have met some interesting guys on gr. However too many questions asked and umpteen messages back and forth. Quite irritating at times. Wouldn't write off online cruising totally though. One can get lucky and find a nice partner.

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Bot_blr_2018
Posted On May 18, 2022 - 02:47 PM

Online - Bloody mostly fake dps, profiles, money seekers or so called bulls looking for *** a gays wife! Very rare genuine good profiles. Very demanding i.e. pic place looks age and still it doesn't work out. And personally for it is very hard to trust people to any quick fun (when I am looking for quickies). So time consuming too. But if you click easy to stay connected without sharing number and plan ur meet.

Offline - Easy access, on the spot screening of like selection or rejection, if there are places you can finish your business in just few mins and forget each other. But on the other hand very risky as u don't know the hygiene of the person, so many goons come just to loot you or to shame you in public

Long story short, there are pros and cons in both the approaches. One must remain careful and chose as convenient.

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daddyrunner
Posted On May 24, 2022 - 07:06 AM

online is better anytime as one can take his time to research the potential date,
phone no - true caller - name - insta profile/FB profile is usual path.
you atleast have an idea with whom you are dealing with

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bidesi
Posted On May 24, 2022 - 11:07 PM

both have pro/con, i was once robbed by a syndicate operating @ churchgate, Bombay and there is no guarantee the online guy would be real and will not be a timewaster.

I have had good experiences while travelling by train/bus or even in libraries back in India. Those were safer and the build up towards it is very sexciting

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Rocky9898
Posted On May 25, 2022 - 07:05 AM

I like offline as there is no waiting and fake photos
If you like guy then proceed or else wait for someone else.its simple.

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Sk4sun3
Posted On May 25, 2022 - 12:06 PM

Hard to decide. Because both are Risky these days for sure. Earlier online was better since not many people ( non gay/bi) did not know much abt gay cruising sites. Now many straight guys started blackmailing and looting by creating fake profiles.

Offline was always risky. Cops + goons. However offline is the one which always pulls me towrds it. Thrill of cruising. I hardly get any guys to be true while cruising. May be because i run away many times but still its the best experience

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SmileGuy
Posted On May 25, 2022 - 11:17 PM

To be honest, offline is far better because of two things, firstly, it gives real identity, many times the person looks different than his pics and generally people keep fancy pics in case of online. Secondly, its less time consuming because you can ask whatever you want and get reply on the spot. If you like then proceed or reject on the spot.

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bb_raw
Posted On Jun 4, 2022 - 09:24 AM

I Love Cruising! Good Random ***!

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cm_tu
Posted On Jun 29, 2022 - 07:33 AM

@Desidesirex

U said u feel guy could be geniune guy if they share their number and u could hear their voice once. Which make sense.


But, from the other point of view hear this out. I don't share my number unless we have for a little while, have exchange pics and nudes and if it looked like we compatible in bed.
Yes it sound like too much filters but....
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... I can't start giving my numbers to everyone I start conversation online. Nowdays through Truecaller or other social media u can often type in number and find their profile.

Two-time,my online hookup found me on my Facebook. One time this guy who didt even had my number somehow found me on Facebook.

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Desidesirex
Posted On Jun 29, 2022 - 03:01 PM

@cm_tu
Not necessarily giving phone number but there are other app that provides voice call such as telegram. You can hide your number from others in privacy settings.

Every tool/app have settings you can use to hide your number. For Truecaller you can remove your number from Truecaller database. They provide this feature to everyone one. You can google about it.

I do what you do. First chat for while then share telegram or other voice//video call app IDs. If I see people are trustworthy then I try to meet only then.

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adicooliyo
Posted On Jun 29, 2022 - 04:03 PM

i think it depends on the location and area offline is ricky but at the same time fun too.. coz you get the action right away although its not 100% satisfying as compared to have it at a safe closed comfortable space... obviosuly do see the surroundings and get the vibe of the person... whereas online is too much waste of time plus sharing fake pictures random nu** pics and to much to and fro ... also you never know if other person is cheat or genuine and again place is a problem

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Monsterck
Posted On Jun 30, 2022 - 03:22 AM

I like online bcz in that first we all clear then after meeting

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Sissybitch
Posted On Jul 4, 2022 - 04:50 AM

I feel offline is much better and safer than online crusing. Because anyone can bait you by making a fake account on any online gay dating app and lure you into a trap. No matter how tough and strong you are you can always be outnumbered and overpowered by armed men. What if they video tape you while *** you. At least in offline cruising you know who you are dealing with.

Although getting *** like a bitch by a bunch of tough muscular goons against my will is my fantasy but still in real life it might not feel that arousing.

I had once come really close to having my fantasy of getting gang raped by a group of gundas fulfilled but I sensed danger to my life and chickened out at the last moment. Who knows what might have happened had I gone with the flow and allowed things to keep happening.

I met a guy online. He called me to a deserted remote area at night and had asked me to come alone. He was waiting there with two scary looking thugs for me. All three of them were sizing me up and hungrily ogling at me. Specially my big ***. From there they wanted to take me to another place where all three of them can *** me to their hearts content. But I felt, maybe more are waiting for me at that second place. I just ran away like a little bitch without looking back to see anything at all.

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Lips4hugepoles
Posted On Jul 4, 2022 - 03:09 PM

@sissybtch - i get what you mean. But all the risks you highlighted are not really associated with online cruising only. All of these are equally possible via offline meets as well. You are just as likely to be recorded by a guy you meet at a cruising spot as a guy you meet online. Same goes for being outnumbered. That's equally likely to happen in offline

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foroldertops *
Posted On Jul 7, 2022 - 06:37 PM

From my experienced, I find offline cruising a lot of work, exhausting yet exhilarating. Mumbai and Kolkata I find them quite tough to cruise but at the same time quite safe. Delhi on the other hand is very easy to cruise but at the same time I can sense the real danger. I mostly listen to my guts. I do cruised a lot when I was in college as I was much of a loner and lived faraway from my hometown, however I only do mostly in malls and in some beaches or local trains/metros, have done a bit in public loos but can't stand the dirtiness and smell. However, since I'm north-eastern I do tend to stick out like a sore thumb, my one bad experienced in Mumbai I felt nearly cost my life and by the grace of God I don't know how I outwit those thugs, I really was so dumb and hardly understand the language yet went on a bike ride, fortunately they were not gays more so like robbers or possibly women traffickers. Anyway, now in Shillong I don't have time to cruise but had quite a few outdoors experienced and yeah I just loved having *** in some forest and cemeteries around Shillong especially in winters, they are just perfect even better than the ones I had in Goa.

Guys when you cruise, my suggestions especially for girly bottoms like me, be attentive to the environment, alert, choosy and listen to your guts. Avoid shady places like railway loos and places filled with *** addicts and yes carried some weapons like knife, blade, pepper spray, and beat the *** out of anyone who dare to do anything you don't want. Also tell some of your friends where you are going just in case and also avoid carrying any much cash, cards and especially cellphone if possible and don't try to cruise a city you're not too familiar.

Your 10 minutes of pleasure is not worth it if your 10 years later you will always regret those 10 minutes of your time.

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prayag_bottom
Posted On Jul 30, 2022 - 08:51 PM

Have you met these types? - “I’ll meet you only if you bring a woman with you for group”
“Mein gay-way nhi hu. Bas gays ko *** krta hu. Tum gay ho kya?”

These jerks are the worst thing about online dating!

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Indian_Summer
Posted On Jul 31, 2022 - 01:19 AM

@PRAYAG_BOTTOM And the aad part is that these days you'll find such jerks in a huge number. Either them or people looking for Shemales. Suddenly I am feeling so claustrophobic on the gay networking sites. It feels like I am loosing my space which is now hijacked by desperate straight swingers, fraudsters, goons and gay men in hopeless denial about their sexualities.

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Darkstarchild
Posted On Jul 31, 2022 - 03:07 AM

I have better offline though than online... at least with the kinda men i like.. i don't cruise on the road. but have picked up some hot men from bars.. mostly bouncers or a *** corporate dude... good fun when it's random... so hot. Although i never approach.. but im very "friendly" to beefy men

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Publicbottom
Posted On Jul 31, 2022 - 03:53 AM

Darkstarchild, that's an interesting modus operandi. I find it very hot to be able to pick someone up with just your personality that having to engage in a substandard chat with some straight *** on Grindr.
As @prayag_bottom said, a few days back i was talking to this guy who said he has *** many guys but asked me to bring a girl for him 🤣.. i realised he was just a sorry *** virgin who wanted me to set him up with a girl. *** useless shits. Hardly any real tops out there.

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prayag_bottom
Posted On Jul 31, 2022 - 04:19 AM

@Indian_summer yup! Online dating sites are filled with these creeps posing as tops or “pure top” “couple fucker” “bhabhi/aunty fucker” 😂😂😂

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Unimate *
Posted On Jul 31, 2022 - 04:58 AM

It's just common in all dating esp in PR. They ask if i know any girls to get laid. I recently chatted with a married guy and he still wants to find girls for him. I couldn't help LMAO 😂😂. Guys like him are so desperate and end up asking it in gay platforms!!

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***
Posted On Aug 20, 2022 - 09:21 PM

hahahahah... we can have separate vent thread on the "straight" sods who are on gay sites looking for women. Partly, it is a fault of small section of gay community who idolize having *** with straight men. I met someone who claimed he can seduce and turn any straight man to *** him. The guy was delusional to think he is turning a straight man. He failed to realize that he was not turning any straight. It they are straight then by definition they dont do anything with other men. If a guy otherwise straight behaving presented an opportunity with a free bj or tight ***, will never decline such opportunity. Why waste Rs 1000s on a whore when a F*G is doing it for free.
These type of people spread the stereotype that gays will worship straight guys and will "bend" for them.

Anyway, back to the topic on hand. People back in chatting days- whether Indiatimes, yahoochat, rediffchat or MIRC (was it MCRQ....whatever the acronym was) used online as quick meeting platform. Today on app,s people come with nonsensicle (not a word, but you get the gist) questionnaire. I had to tell people, I'm *** and looking for hook up , not here for Matrimony or job interview.

People feel online is safer because it is less exposure, at offline cruising you are exposed because it is pretty much a meat market. Men are visual creature so at cruising spots man with "desired" features will get more attention, but online (thanks to filters) people can pose. Offline it is pretty much visual game, online it is how your present/ chat that will keep the others engaged. Online you can block someone or terminate the communication with them, offline that option is not available.

Both online and offline came with inherent risks and it our duty to manage our exposure and risks. I know some of buddies here will be at risk of becoming a target than others. As a community and as a society at large Indian are hypocrites and very discriminating, they are also very judgmental. A short, slim, effiminate, less than idea facial or physical features person is likely to become target of harassment, ridicule or robbery at cruising spots because of the way they look or behave. Who do you think will be target of harassment or cheating at offline place- A. 6ft tall, 100kg, muscular, hairy, bearded guy or B. 5'4", 50 kg, lean, has sway in his walk, type of guy? The moral of this long rant is - Don't assume that Online is safe and devoid of risks.

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oh_desi_guy
Posted On Aug 22, 2022 - 02:34 AM

My story the last time I was on a business trip and was looking to hook up in Mumbai

Talked to at least two dozen guys. Usual location, interest, pics etc. Out of those, X% guys were interested after the pics were sent. More pics. More talk on interest, kinks, can you do this and that. Exchange phone. Ask when they would like to meet. They would all text me later when they wanted to meet. Told them I was a visitor and to let me know soon.

And then nothing except for one guy who texted me to see if i could share my wifes nudes and another guy who messaged me two week later when i was flying back. SMH.

Well, out of desperation, I went on to cruising in real life just like the old days. Of course, there were all the usual suspects but I am a pretty experienced cruiser and am decently manly and built and dont take a lot of BS. I was actually successful in finding a ***. Now, I am not very picky and he was pretty far away from a bollywood stud. So maybe if I were, it would have been tougher.

Offline is way more risky but it also has guys who are actually looking for something (for *** or to scam, steal etc). Online, a huge majority is just jerking off or wasting time. So pick your poison.

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bidesi
Posted On Aug 22, 2022 - 04:14 AM

Desi guy... depicted the cons of both very well. In first few convo's most online mein they go on and on and on and on and if you show inclination/interest then they tend to set rules/requirements until you tell them to go back and stand behind the line. If we identify and *** them out, better chances to interact with guys who are willing to play along n move fwd. it happened with me in last visit to India

and offlate offline is getting riskier lekin been a while since I cruised back in India.

PLUS m now a salt/pepper guy, and all the fav cruising places are gone. Ab lagta hai ola/uber hee try karna padega

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Daniel100
Posted On Aug 22, 2022 - 12:23 PM

Guys who are cruising offline are also available online.... only previous generation guys goes for offline cruising...

Post Covid offline cruising has reduced drastically and only young kids available online :(

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TopGen
Posted On Aug 23, 2022 - 04:07 AM

Online vs offline... Have seen best of both the world's when at it's peak. Online is like fast food. Offline gives you a chance to explore and enjoy that eye contacts that online chatting miss. That feeling of is he or is he not... Is more exciting than seeing someone send you their *** pics online and asks you to you *** them. Those touches and misses were the best part or if I can say, is still the best part of offline cruising. Been doing it for years and wld love doing it in future too.

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Horamavupra
Posted On Aug 25, 2022 - 03:21 AM

Missing all old daddies here..since most of them do not know how to use high end mobiles ....they are not online....should look offline only... definately offline is thrill but more risky since you would be spotted..every now and then..spending dedicated time..for it...

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RajeshLove94
Posted On Oct 4, 2022 - 06:52 AM

Online vs offline. Nice thread though.

I would say offline cruising is somewhat better than online. No Blah Blah chats, asking for pics and sometimes people speak like something but never comes to the meet and no ignoring after the meet because of looks etc.,

We can directly look at the person. That eye contact, cruising in a public place and pick them up that's an another kinda thrill and fun. But on the other side, you may end up in danger too like they may stole money from you, other threats of getting caught etc.,

I have enjoyed some fun in city buses, sleeper buses during long journeys (always book last or last but seat to have fun), Trains (One time had fun in 1st Class AC Coupe), theatre is on another level and last but not least in public urinals.

Pro tip: Always avoid taking your costly phones and high amount of money while going for offline cruising. For eg., I used to carry a old mobile of mine which was bought by me for around 7k before a 5 or 6 years ago. And I don't carry more than 50rs (excluding travel charges).

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