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Online vs Offline Cruising (All City & town)


Submitted by Doorellin007 Location: All India (All India, India)

There have been Cruising since birth of civilization all over the world.

Before Internet, Men Cruised in parks and public facilities, mostly in Urinals. Older generations knew it all about Cruising places by word of *** and by exploring around. On the other hand new generation explored various options online.

I've been doing both for years and realised there are extremely fewer benefits Cruising online compared to offline Cruising. Online cruising is deceiving, most part, addictive and time consuming. Although it may be good for peeps who are introvert, shy and patient enough and/or trying to find a suitable match for a definite reason, be it private intimacy, short/ long term relationships etc.

Whereas, in my strong opinion, Offline cruising satisfies your basic instinctual carnal desires as and when needed with less or no chances of being deceived. Only it costs of risk is being caught but still adventurous ๐Ÿ˜‚

I've left being online for said reasons and been cruising mostly in public places including parks but mostly Urinals where you get handjob and more if you advance to a detailed session. I've travelled across many countries and cities in India and to my surprise even younger generations are in abundance.

Share your views, Cruising places in your cities and make aware people of it. Share your experiences too.

PS: Please don't private message me asking for places to Cruise. I'll share my experiences here ๐Ÿ™‚

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ToBeFreeinLyf *
Posted On Apr 13, 2022 - 05:13 AM

I would say offline cruising has been riskier because of the folks you tend to encounter in most cruising places, thief's, cheats and despos. Especially risky if you're an out of townie. A few bad experiences like these motivated me to stop it altogether. There's also the safety aspect, one can never know how healthy the person would be. Not a fan of Grindr either, just filled with despos with a *** for a brain.

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Doorellin007
Posted On Apr 13, 2022 - 08:00 PM

Online:
Pic? Body pic? More pic? Size? Do you suk? Do you Rimmm? Do you fcuk? What else do you like? Not free now? Okay meet later? Next person after disliking 10 people... Same questions all over. Then you get lucky and decide to meet... Was that your pic? I think I can do it next time as I've to leave for something urgent.

Offline:
What's your name? You have nice body or dik(If met in a Urinal) ? Do you've place? I know one place. Let's go. Later, share your no. if you wanna be in touch.

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bidesi
Posted On Apr 13, 2022 - 09:18 PM

you are right ToBeFreeinLyf re the risk in offline but even in offline once can pursue for a bit n be safe. look at what Doorelin007 said, thats also right

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Starfishy
Posted On Apr 14, 2022 - 05:25 AM

If you like seduction and adventurous on what to expect next it's offline. Online meet ll have some preference set, and ll be going with more expectations. However during meet up ll get disappointed as most people always good in chatting during rea meet you ll not get whatever you chatted

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mojar
Posted On Apr 17, 2022 - 06:15 AM

Offline too risky I think, especially for people above 30. Its better to know the other person better understand what is expected and then have a meet. Its better to stay safe than sorry. This is only opinion though, I know some people like the adrenaline rush doing the dare.

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ToBeFreeinLyf *
Posted On Apr 17, 2022 - 07:59 AM

Exactly! It sounds fun to read about it or to wish for it to happen but we are all walking a thin line. Thats the reality. One slip up, we may end up with something we would struggle with all our life. So it's better to get to know the other person well before involving in any form of physical intimacy.

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Carnage0562
Posted On Apr 18, 2022 - 07:38 AM

i have been doing offline cruising since my college days; in my hometown and later in delhi NCR
There is no denying that it has its own thrill and adrenaline rush .. but eventually i would say its very very addictive!
I can still recall how i used to waste so much of my time cruising and trying to find a guy as per my choice.. rarely any luck and most of the time ended up going home as majority of crowd at such places are unemployed; money seekers; frauds or gangs so uts risky
This addiction made me lose my phone twice in thefts. Police does nothing in such cases, theyโ€™ll be like what were u doing at this time?

And i must say over the time police has become more alert at such places as they keep roaming around in civil dress posing as a bait to get hold of people like us and threaten us for money.

Eventually i have stopped cruising at such places to avoid trouble i could get into.



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Doorellin007
Posted On Apr 18, 2022 - 09:51 AM

@carnage... Your profile says you're *** most of the time says it mostly why you wasted a lot of time cruising. Also contradicting that you're not too choosy but into Desi guys. Kinda confusing! Are you wasting time online now looking for your type ๐Ÿ˜œ

Fake pics... Incorrect profile description... Paid guys... is all I see online. Not to mention. Cheaters, goons and bullies are there online in plenty too. People have even got shamed, looted, beaten... meeting others online too. Offline cruising is fun and thrilling of you're not so careless

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Carnage0562
Posted On Apr 18, 2022 - 08:52 PM

@Doorellin007
its my perception that i have described based on the question that has been asked
Ur profile says u like to cruise into toilets.. so be it! its ur choice .. u like it.. u r continuing it.. its ur choice right? u r happy with it.. great! Am i telling u to stop it? No i am not! pls carry on ๐Ÿ˜‚
i used to cruise long back and now i have left it thats what i have described and i have mentioned my own reasons for leaving it

Also, having said that i am into desi guys doesnโ€™t mean i am looking for 3rd class unemployed beggars and money seekers or people from low socioeconomic status.

this thread is about putting up ur thoughts
No one is contradicting no one
so chill!

About u asking if i am cruising online or not? its my choice : yes i do it sometimes or i dont do it at all when i am busy
Looking for hookups is not the only thing in my life at this stage of life

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relishing_love
Posted On Apr 26, 2022 - 07:01 AM

@ Carnage0562

Your thoughts about offline cruising is 200% true in my case. You nailed it buddy.

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Doorellin007
Posted On Apr 29, 2022 - 07:25 AM

It's called law of averages. Every 'fun' experience probably comes in after 6-8 failed or non-happening experiences. Some loos are always happening and safe, some are unsafe sometimes, but still happening. You can get caught sometimes, sometimes you'll manage to unload your jizz in a cute guy's *** who is already wet and sticky from swallowing 5 other guys' *** in the loo before you. It all matters on luck, circumstances and the loo.

Similarly, it's also about tactic. You being gay and out in the loo for a cruising experience doesn't mean you're destined or entitled to get one. There are several factors that will determine how often you might get lucky. Some of them are:
1. Are you hot or ugly. And let's not get into the 'beauty lies within' or 'beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder' nonsense. If your face and overall anatomy has the potential to turn anyone on in the dark, dingy and smelly environs of the loo, you can consider yourself to be lucky.
2. Are you 'offering' or are you 'expecting'. This is the top, bottom, versatile equivalent of the loo game. Depending on what the other people's inclinations are in the loo, your chances of getting blown or getting a *** to blow will vary.
3. Are you tactful or reckless. This one is the biggie! If you're randomly reaching over the urinal to grab someone's *** or unsolicitedly offering your *** to whoever comes and stands next to you, you're gonna get beaten up or arrested. This is irrespective of how safe or unsafe the loo is. Having an active Gaydar is important to figure out who's gay and who's a straight goon trying to fool you. I have seen quite a few desperate *** gay guys falling for such traps just because they were not careful about who they should approach

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420469
Posted On May 4, 2022 - 09:03 AM

Offline Cruising is anyday better then online. Atleast one knows what he is going for. Online usually get fake pictures self proclaimed "down to earth". Guys who say i am fair so good looking (don't know what's with fair skin and good looks- there is no connection).

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KR99
Posted On May 4, 2022 - 09:07 AM

How do you start talking to random person you have seen somewhere offline ? Like I am an introvert person so it's difficult for me to approach someone whom I have seen somewhere and willing to make a move or something and have conversation, but I want to be free with it like I have seen some guys talking frankly and comfortably with random stangers they see

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MatureGuy
Posted On May 6, 2022 - 07:22 AM

Offline cruising in the 80's and 90's was fun. U met someone and if the feeling was mutual you had ***. NSA. No names or numbers exchanged. I have met some interesting guys on gr. However too many questions asked and umpteen messages back and forth. Quite irritating at times. Wouldn't write off online cruising totally though. One can get lucky and find a nice partner.

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Bot_blr_2018
Posted On May 18, 2022 - 02:47 PM

Online - Bloody mostly fake dps, profiles, money seekers or so called bulls looking for *** a gays wife! Very rare genuine good profiles. Very demanding i.e. pic place looks age and still it doesn't work out. And personally for it is very hard to trust people to any quick fun (when I am looking for quickies). So time consuming too. But if you click easy to stay connected without sharing number and plan ur meet.

Offline - Easy access, on the spot screening of like selection or rejection, if there are places you can finish your business in just few mins and forget each other. But on the other hand very risky as u don't know the hygiene of the person, so many goons come just to loot you or to shame you in public

Long story short, there are pros and cons in both the approaches. One must remain careful and chose as convenient.

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daddyrunner
Posted On May 24, 2022 - 07:06 AM

online is better anytime as one can take his time to research the potential date,
phone no - true caller - name - insta profile/FB profile is usual path.
you atleast have an idea with whom you are dealing with

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bidesi
Posted On May 24, 2022 - 11:07 PM

both have pro/con, i was once robbed by a syndicate operating @ churchgate, Bombay and there is no guarantee the online guy would be real and will not be a timewaster.

I have had good experiences while travelling by train/bus or even in libraries back in India. Those were safer and the build up towards it is very sexciting

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Rocky9898
Posted On May 25, 2022 - 07:05 AM

I like offline as there is no waiting and fake photos
If you like guy then proceed or else wait for someone else.its simple.

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Sk4sun3
Posted On May 25, 2022 - 12:06 PM

Hard to decide. Because both are Risky these days for sure. Earlier online was better since not many people ( non gay/bi) did not know much abt gay cruising sites. Now many straight guys started blackmailing and looting by creating fake profiles.

Offline was always risky. Cops + goons. However offline is the one which always pulls me towrds it. Thrill of cruising. I hardly get any guys to be true while cruising. May be because i run away many times but still its the best experience

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SmileGuy
Posted On May 25, 2022 - 11:17 PM

To be honest, offline is far better because of two things, firstly, it gives real identity, many times the person looks different than his pics and generally people keep fancy pics in case of online. Secondly, its less time consuming because you can ask whatever you want and get reply on the spot. If you like then proceed or reject on the spot.

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Rocky9898
Posted On May 26, 2022 - 01:12 AM

True @smileguy

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