Online vs Offline Cruising (All City & town)
There have been Cruising since birth of civilization all over the world.
Before Internet, Men Cruised in parks and public facilities, mostly in Urinals. Older generations knew it all about Cruising places by word of *** and by exploring around. On the other hand new generation explored various options online.
I've been doing both for years and realised there are extremely fewer benefits Cruising online compared to offline Cruising. Online cruising is deceiving, most part, addictive and time consuming. Although it may be good for peeps who are introvert, shy and patient enough and/or trying to find a suitable match for a definite reason, be it private intimacy, short/ long term relationships etc.
Whereas, in my strong opinion, Offline cruising satisfies your basic instinctual carnal desires as and when needed with less or no chances of being deceived. Only it costs of risk is being caught but still adventurous 😂
I've left being online for said reasons and been cruising mostly in public places including parks but mostly Urinals where you get handjob and more if you advance to a detailed session. I've travelled across many countries and cities in India and to my surprise even younger generations are in abundance.
Share your views, Cruising places in your cities and make aware people of it. Share your experiences too.
PS: Please don't private message me asking for places to Cruise. I'll share my experiences here 🙂
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|Posted On Mar 16, 2022 - 07:42 AM|
This happened a few days back. I was travelling from sealdah to sodepur and I boarded a local train and got into the first compartment. The train left and as I was standing, I saw a guy touching the same hand-rest which I was holding. I thought it was a mistake but suddenly I saw he was touching my crotch. This was my first time so I didn't know how to react. He started touching me and took my other hand and fondled his ***. I was liking it and was shocked. Then he went down at dumdum. Then I saw someone dry humping me from behind and pinching my nipples. I liked it and this was my first experience - both gay encounter and cruising. Then I got down in sodepur and saw it was an oldie.
Now I want to cruise more. What do I do, where do I go and what do I wear?
|Posted On Mar 16, 2022 - 08:33 AM|
I agree offline cruising is better, online most conversations don’t go ahead becoz most people are hesitant to show face pics, plus u have one chat and next chat never happens. But in offline cruising it all happens in the flow. Yes it’s risky but u just have to be little matured and sensible to avoid any trouble
|Posted On Mar 16, 2022 - 09:11 AM|
Some years back, both online and offline Cruising were good.. good old days when technology was not emerged, offline Cruising was the only option... After Internet, online was helpful. It helped in getting to know the person in chat.. talk as much as possible.. and then plan for meet up. But now a days, there are many popped up to misuse this. Many behind money, many are trying to cheat. So, both offline and online Cruising has become dangerous if fallen on wrong hands.
|Posted On Mar 16, 2022 - 11:23 AM|
I started my gay life in orkut (2010) when i was 17 years old.
But I got introduced to offline cruising in 2021 only.
Damn, offline cruising is fantastic.. in online crusing most of the time was wasted in endless chatting. And at last minute the pair might chickend out and ghost us, (sometimes I do that too).
But in offline crusing it's opposite.. if u like their *** u can *** it, or else u can walk away..
Being a *** to big ***, offline cruising turned into a best way for me.
Recently I've *** a 8 inch and 9 inch *** at a same time
|Posted On Mar 16, 2022 - 11:25 AM|
Singsong has very nicely summarised .personally ,I'm for off line mode.
|Posted On Mar 16, 2022 - 11:27 AM|
mistyped, I meant Dingdong, NOT singsong
|Posted On Mar 16, 2022 - 12:21 PM|
i also believe offline cruising is best was best actually....u don't hav other option just meet the person as per his age and preferences though few time u face consequences but still it's best . now first pic thy want no matter how long u written the rationale in hur profile thy just msg u for pic and bot or top that's it ...there were two three incidents i ll start with bad ones first...
It was Yahoo chat room and in gay chat room one guy met ..i only into matures but was so *** i replied to him and he was nearby so went to him..
he said he was top..on bed he thought himself as he is Hrithik and was acting like that on bed nd i was *** him nicely ..bt thn he started slapping me ..on cheeks ..thn was rude ..no body plày no respect ..thn i got turned off somehow managed to come out ....thn one time i went for offline date met in a park thn he took me to his place ...he was good bt he was so high ..he was into bdsm and without my knowledge he burned my skin with ciggrate butt ..and tied my one hand while *** me... and somehow same i got bad feel so i ran away from his place ....
once there were two men from Qatar came in Jamia area . Delhi ...we were chatting..thy knew m bottom cd etc ..wheen I entered their area ..thy guided me ..when i went upstairs..thy said thy thought I ll come properly as girl like any shemale something like that ..i said i can do that ..thy said abhi to turn off ho gaya pehle se mood Banta ...bt since i entered the place ..that's best part..i said yaha tak aayi hu to u can see my body ...i said " in boobs pe mard pagal hote hai and slowly i stripped all ..infront of them ..40 around their age i was may b 22...i thn sat and said ok i go now it's ok..thy said yaha tak aaye hi ho to thoda kar lete hai ...one guy brought amul butter in bowl ..and made me doggy applied on my hole and *** me....both of them *** me one by one first ..i toook rest and thn again both of them *** me together..i went for only 2 hours ans spent whole night with them..later went out and bought lingreie and wore burqa for them and enjoyed while night ...so it was good offline meet
|Posted On Mar 16, 2022 - 01:00 PM|
I was travelling to Dehradun and was searching web including this site to find a Cruising place. Unfortunately, I did not find any info. Once I reached Dehradun and did what I went there for... I started exploring the busy places like Bus stands shopping places etc. Eventually, I found a Urinal in Indira Market which had low dividers and I witnessed some hot guys with big *** and even got fortunate with one of them. Dehradun locals are hot.
Unfortunately, don't have such places in Bangalore
|Posted On Mar 16, 2022 - 01:16 PM|
Now we have good option to meet a frnd online its not safe but its time saving or if u got good one then first u clear all then plan for meeting
But in offline how to identify a gay who like that or not and about him so its not good way to meet but in online if u got good gay then first u discuss all and plan for enjoyment
|Posted On Mar 16, 2022 - 05:57 PM|
I started online cruising with Yahoo chat rooms. But met very very few. Mostly due to (1) unavailability not place (2) Show ur face but I will not show mine attitude (3) Rudeness and sometimes talking about my incest also. Once I met a guy on Grindr. We exchanged our and i thought he was a decent guy. So once, a day before one of our festival, we met in his workshop. He told me to get naked. We both were naked and as soon as we started, 3 or 4 guys barged in. They started making my video and soon i was all dressed. Some more people came in. They threatened me that the whole locality is outside and will beat me naked if i was handed over to them. So they told me to hand over my credit cards from which they will draw some money. I said I don't have that much balance. So I took one of these guys to a person of my relation. He lent me that money and then I was free to come home. I was all raged. After few days met an acquaintance of mine who is high ranking police person. And with him i got those guys rounded up and got my money back. But I lost the respect that police person had for me.
|Posted On Mar 16, 2022 - 06:01 PM|
soo hot experiences
|Posted On Mar 16, 2022 - 06:42 PM|
Online cruising is at its worst right now. Although there are manier apps for gays you still don't find even one when you want. So what is that you do... You end up meeting someone you didn't like much or end up all frustrated and ruin your day or worst, you call over a Paid guy who fills up these apps. and are totally not worth it.
|Posted On Mar 17, 2022 - 06:07 AM|
I have been interested in offline cruising only, as compared to online option.
Instant chance of getting into it when you are going fir offline cruising. . You have many options at a same time,when you visit some happening loos around mumbsi or New mumbai
Most of the times, I have never been returned disappointed.. but I am absolutely ok when that day is not mine .
Online cruising tends you not to trust your counterpart so easily before you actually meet.its waste of time.
|Posted On Mar 17, 2022 - 08:02 AM|
@vijay338 well expressed.
Anybody has leads in places of Offline cruising. Specially urinals with low partition? Any city is fine as I keep travelling 😉
|Posted On Mar 17, 2022 - 11:29 AM|
I feel both online and offline needed at this time.
I chat and meet many as of now - few wast of time and few good guys still in touch ....
|Posted On Mar 17, 2022 - 12:08 PM|
As a foreigner who visits India online cruising works well for me. I am able to take my time to get to know somebody before I visit but at the same time have them ready to meet me from the moment I arrive. Even so it has taken some rough lessons before I'm good at identifying sneaky money seekers and setting up my hotel room so nobody will steak my wallet ever again.
When I travel in USA there is a website that helps me cruise offline in cities I visit. I use that extensively but have not been brave enough or knowledgeable enough cruise offline in India yet.
|Posted On Mar 17, 2022 - 08:41 PM|
I love offline cruising. Peaking guys from market and feed them my junk and juice always make me feel confident and superior. And save lot of time
Once picked a Russian guy from cannaught place. Took him to park and made me take care of me.
|Posted On Mar 18, 2022 - 06:23 AM|
But offline also I am getting anyone in chennai, I prefer pure bottom finding is very difficult. All asking money, no value of passion.. No transsexual like passion.
|Posted On Mar 18, 2022 - 03:36 PM|
If you are looking to explore a particular fetish or roleplay offline doesn't offer you many choice .
In online setting you can chat with your partner and know each other likes and boundaries and meet up later .
Many argue that it removes the surprise or the curiosity in the bedroom but talking before meeting avoids many awkward moment and aggressive behavior and you can remain in your boundaries .
There are lot of fake profiles out there and many are afraid to meet but it removes the issue of getting caught by police in public cruising for some guys.
|Posted On Mar 18, 2022 - 06:58 PM|
Both have risk involved . In online we take time to see snd decide eventhough i met only one so far
.off line i met a bike taxi fun only once that too today
|Posted On Mar 19, 2022 - 02:28 AM|
I prefered offline hookups rather than online cause it's keep me excited
|Posted On Mar 19, 2022 - 04:20 AM|
Offline cruising add so much excitement in our fantasties,but online u get more n more fake or time passer people,I always support offline cruising b'coz I really want real meeting,
|Posted On Mar 19, 2022 - 06:18 AM|
So many hot girly bottoms on online but i didn't find such bottoms on offline.
|Posted On Mar 19, 2022 - 07:27 AM|
i believe in both. but online cruising more trustful because i can talk about each other's liking first then go ahead. even though i take so much time to find out. because putting trust in stranger person might lead you to something bad!. i always take time to know person's likings if they are matching with mine and then go ahead.
in offline cruising guys can be so *** once they find out how slim and sexy i am. once, uncle groped me in auto/rickshaw and then we had fun in his house, it was good experience.
few weeks ago i went to gay theater but i find out many random people which i don't really like it. even if i discuss a little bit. i don't trust them. so better if you know about a person's likings or little bit details when you meet, even if they say "it's a time wasting!"
|Posted On Mar 19, 2022 - 08:41 AM|
In my view online is seems to be ok offline I had very bad experience. Once I had encounter with guy whom I met in bus stop he was drunk already but still I took him to home very he was very abusive and kinky which I didn’t liked.
But his *** was nice he didn’t do anything he just slept and morning he demanded for money and abused and took money left.
So I prefer online where we can know each other and proceed further.
|Posted On Mar 19, 2022 - 09:45 AM|
For me online and offline works..
When I was in chennai,I hadn't tried any public fun and I have no guts for it. As I was active in Grindr , I select only particular guys who is matching with my intrest and mutual benefit then only we met at his place and had wonderful memories.
You can know the person about everything of him on online and if you both are ready then you proceed to offline fun.
|Posted On Mar 20, 2022 - 04:46 AM|
Hi... I'm a 40yo, bisexual man... this is a very interesting topic, I think not many on here may have experienced this,but let me tell you about another cruising dimension... read on..
I started my journey as a bisexual at the age of 18 when I was a university student in the US, I had landed there just a few months prior and was extremely curios about exploring *** in all its forms.... back then they had something called "chat-lines" or telephone numbers where you dialed in and were given option over a teleprompter.... like if you are a man, press 1... then if you are looking for women press 1, if you are looking for men press 2, for trans press 3, for couples press 4... hope you get the idea....
well, as they say, curiosity killed the cat.... after pressing 1 for women a few times (and getting NO RESPONSE), I gathered the courage to press 2 for men.... I got a connection instantly... boy the rush was amazing... if you matched with the person, you could first send each other a voice note, if both agreed there was a way to get connected via a connect-call after paying... but most people just left each other their numbers in the voice note itself...
now please bear in mind, I was a 18yo, freshly landed in the US, with NO understanding of different accents and styles of speaking, so I couldn't understand the race of the man on the other side.... he introduced himself as a 32yo AA with a BBC (later i learnt AA stands for African American and BBC was Big Black ***) looking for an Asian or Indian male bot friend for regular NSA sessions....
I sent in my response saying I'm Indian, new to the US and curious about other men and want to meet and see how things progress...
He replied saying he was available immediately and wanted to welcome me to the US and the world of real pleasure he asked me for my number....... it got me all worked up and hard AF... in response, I said I'm in, gave him my number and 30mins later he was there to pick me up.....
As he drove into the apartment complex drive way, I saw he was black and that scared me to no end... yet, I got into his car, we drove to his place which was a 20min drive, he tried to hold my hand and calm me down... while I was still nervous and felt old holding his large, dark black hand, my light skin tone (im a fair skinned guy)looked good and his strength and warmth felt nice after a few mins... I started to relax, as he sensed my calming down, he pushed my hand on his crotch... I tried to pull away, but he was strong AF and held my palm on this humongous bulge.... he said this is the new world of pleasure he wants me to experience... my calmness suddenly disappagain and I was feeling a mixture of extreme fear, excitement and a hard-on in my pants....
when we reached his home to my surprise his mother was at home and he introduced me to her before taking me into his room, we exchanged pleasentaries and she looked down at my pants (little bulge showing in my khakis) and gave a wink before saying, ya'll play nice and safe now... major embarrassing situation under normal circumstances, but all I could remember in that dazed, *** and giddy state was that I felt extremely dry in my throat with a hardness between my legs I hadn't felt before...
Well, what happened in the room changed me forever... I realised how big those guys really are... it was an amazing experience *** his 9" thick meat while he *** me... in 69, I was made to lay on top as he was around 6ft and big against my 5ft6 slender body with a rather thin (in comparisonto him) 6" pencil-***.. he had a noticeable big belly, large round man tits and the skin contrast was soo erotic, I stayed the whole afternoon with him.... I did not know any of the lingo back then... he told me he was a top, so I just innocently asked what is that... he laughed.... then while playing with each other he explained it all to me... at that point being my first experience, male ego and other fears, I also told him in a top too... he snickered and said "not for long"...
anyways that afternoon he tried penetrating me.... just the tip hurt a lot and I asked him to stop... he was a gentleman and let go... we both played with each other... he *** me dry 2 times(Swallowed it all) before i managed to make him *** once.... and even then, being new, when he asked me if I want to swallow, I said no... so he came on my limp pecker and my belly... boy was it a LOT... he was kind enough to help me clean up... we spent a long time talking that day... I liked his company...
He told me he would be the first one to make me a true bottom, to which I refuted saying, naa, I'm a top too (he still laughed it off)... we me a few more times and while he never *** me... we remained friends for a while.... my journey into becoming a bisexual bottom sissy happened with another such contact I made on that line, but thats a story for another time I guess...
Point Im trying to make is that between the Offline and Online cruising, there once existed another channel... I guess we could call it Tele-cruising 😎
|Posted On Mar 20, 2022 - 11:45 AM|
@bimale310781, I think u r right, in online dating app u never knew what type of person u are talking to. I am doing online crusing (grinder and others app) about 4 years. I did not trust people even they send me their pic. Reason is that any body can copy/screenshot other person pic from social media.
But when I asked their phone number many got chicken out.
If person share their number and I call and listen their voice it made me trust them.not 100% but like 50%.
Many times I call and found out that there voice is like children.
Now a days every one have access to those app some people use for scam and time pass.
But when I hear another person its on another level as compared to chat.
I know offline cursing it more trust full then online. I will definitely wanna try it.
One time I was in metro journey I need to pee very badly .in saket station station i go to bathroom. There is 1 mature person and an teenager standing next to each other. All bathroom was empty. As I entered the bathroom they just like move fast and after seeing this I use toilet with door to do my business.
When i finish my peeing and go to wash my hand the mature person standing their and washing hand he smile and I too.
I was getting late to I wash my face and fix my shirt got out side. But I got the idea and I was too scared to do in public. So nothing happened. But was a good experience.
|Posted On Mar 21, 2022 - 05:26 AM|
Haven't cruised offline. But speaking of cruising online, about 9 out of 10 times the person turns out to be a desperate hole seeker (talking of my experience as a bottom). The chat doesn't progress beyond "Hi", "Do you have place?", "Will you do an*l?". Most of them don't bother checking the preferences of the bottom, or even want to meet at a neutral place.
I make it a point to keep chatting for a while and then inviting to meet at a neutral place. The desperados back off during this time. I personally find online cruising safer compared to doing it offline.
|Posted On Mar 21, 2022 - 01:32 PM|
i am a married Bi-Sexual guy (wont go much into my *** interests)
But I have seen times starting from 1994...getting touched in busses, shared autos etc.
to...random strangers straight forwardly asking me, if they can *** me..
to..all the loos,,,,madras hotel, palika park, dahula kuan, aims bus stand loo, minto road loo,...
then online yahoo chats etc...where I have met uncles at that time calling me to thier offices...behind closed doors...*** me in thier office rooms, pantries, printing rooms, parking lots..
Not just delhi,,,i have seen gay life in middle east also....getting *** my kerala guys, srilankan guys, britishers, philipinos,
and now grindr.....
concluding this show off....the point being,,,,,random meets have always been the best, and then offline cruising,...clicking online and then meeting just depletes the thrill
Hope i have added to dialogue and topic
|Posted On Mar 21, 2022 - 02:41 PM|
i am 50 plus andwas intro to gay *** when i was 15yo.. neighbour seduced me
i grrew up without internet
my best flings and memories are in offline cruising
i will always prefer offline cruising
u can see person and decide.. most online pics are beautified.reality is far from the pic u see
|Posted On Mar 22, 2022 - 08:02 PM|
There are many cruising places in Bengaluru. CP was most popular. I had seen many guys group according to their comfortable. Like such many group of friends were there. Some guys like to be single. They used to walk in group/single and used meet guys. That was wonderful compared to online cruising/chatting where we are interviewed like anything. Compared to online, offline cruising helps in knowing a person whom we meet and it strengthen the relation. But now a days online cruising is becoming more commercial.
|Posted On Mar 23, 2022 - 01:37 PM|
Best Offline cruising scene in India that I've experienced is in Delhi. People are plentiful in most roadside Urinals as well as parks, malls and inside/ outside Bus stands and Railway junctions. Mumbai has major offline cruising too but they are extremely risky. Mumbai mentality is Ugly towards gaya doing things in public. But Delhi, mostly people don't mind and even enjoy watching. I think it's because Delhi is full of Rajasthanis, Haryanwis, Punjabis, UP etc. who are generally very *** people.
|Posted On Mar 23, 2022 - 02:51 PM|
I think offline is better then online, at least for me.
When I was in Delhi, District Park was the best. After 7, go and you will have at least one of your type.
I had full fun in rain there as well!
Never came back without fun.
Today how it is I don't know, I am in Bengaluru for 8 years.
Online, it didn't work for me!
|Posted On Mar 25, 2022 - 01:12 AM|
@bins and @kumar_aman presented two contrasting but very common aspects about online and offline.
Yes have had best fun and the excitement of eye-contact, chemistry... in offline in similar places as Kuman said. Online.... it has remained just online or fizzled out 7/10 times. Offline is best any day. there is no DO YOU HAVE PIC question either
|Posted On Mar 29, 2022 - 05:56 PM|
Offline meetup 90% chance to get intimate orgasm..
Online chats are boring ang helped just time pass only..
|Posted On Apr 1, 2022 - 07:58 AM|
I like offline Cruising. It is fast and efficient. Both parties can get *** or *** quickly. I cruise with loose track pants without underwear. And stand at a place where people can see me getting ***. Then they come and stand in a line for their turn. I have come back home with 5-6 loads in my leaking hole. Full Satisfaction.
|Posted On Apr 1, 2022 - 09:04 AM|
Both online n offline r best but I mostly prefer fr offline
|Posted On Apr 3, 2022 - 12:45 PM|
Both are preferably.... As per person to person
|Posted On Apr 4, 2022 - 11:29 AM|
True... Offline cruising is an old age trend internationally and it's so rare to find it here in Bangalore. I haven't cruised much of South Indian cities and I really think it's not as is in North India.
|Posted On Apr 7, 2022 - 06:38 AM|
Offline gives unexpected chills .
Romantic moves in open places.
Thrill of random hookups.
Quick and short joyful sessions.
Traveling time experiences
And many more
Where online lacks in above things.
|Posted On Apr 10, 2022 - 08:21 PM|
Very well explanation, offline is much easier and success rate is much higher than compare to online. There is lot of discussion over online but in offline it quite fast direct to the point.
If you like go ahead , else better luck next time☺️
|Posted On Apr 11, 2022 - 06:54 AM|
But in offline cruising, except one or two big cities, in remaining small and medium cities u get cheap guys mostly auto rickshaw driver, security guards, conductors, masons etc chewing tobacco smoking bidi etc.. most of them have unwashed and smelly ***.. and to quench ur lust thirst u end up in quick stuff with these guys and later regret.. am I correct??
|Posted On Apr 11, 2022 - 10:06 AM|
I have met security gaurd,Mason and auto driver saw teir tool in mutual fun(handjob).They were having good and clean assets.I select them based on behaviour and outfit and way they talk to me.
Hope everyone finds clean and hygiene guys.
|Posted On Apr 11, 2022 - 09:59 PM|
One of the things I most admire about India is how easily people move in the sexuality spectrum from straight to bi to gay. I have had many experiences with offline cruising where even a simple conversation can take turn into the sexual zone. For people you like to ***, men are more than willing to get their *** out for a quick ***....all it takes is to keep your gaydar on and openness to engage in a conversation.
Few days ago, I was traveling through Indore airport. My flight was delayed and so kill time I was shopping. I went into a shop where there was just one salesman and he started showing me items in the shop. I started with the normal conversation and he asked aap kaha ja rahe ho. I said I am going to Mumbai aur waha se Bangkok. I then asked him if he has been to or heard of bangkok. He said he has never been but has heard. So I said, you know if you ever go...waha ladyboys hote hai. And I turned the conversation 😀. Showed him some of my pics on my phone and in no time i was down *** him in a small room inside his shop 😀. The thrill of offline cruising comes from finding fun at an unexpected time, place and person!
|Posted On Apr 12, 2022 - 06:21 AM|
I think online is more safe.
|Posted On Apr 12, 2022 - 01:52 PM|
I tried offline once in a public loo near my house and atleast 4 guys followed but they were all creeps. So I left the place immediately. Kinda scary tbh. No decent crowd.
|Posted On Apr 12, 2022 - 04:48 PM|
As per my personal experience..
Offline is much better than Online.
In online most of the people's stuck on face pics, *** pics, body pics, mobile, WhatsApp, Hangout, Skype, Telegram etc. At the decided time of physical meeting after long useless discussion some fellows move out of town, some got sick, some stuck in some urgent work and some *** give u time called to a distant end places and then don't even reply..
Offline is best whoever and whatever is there available in front of u and u can take on the spot decision and success rate is also very high.
|Posted On Apr 12, 2022 - 05:49 PM|
Online for basic introduction and information sharing.
Offline get real pleasure and fun.
But before go to offline atleast basic information done online.
Seen and experience online or portals so n so spot that road, but till date I can not meet real one who is actively participated and updated message for spots.
But many articals on portal are informative.
So personal opinion belive your self.
|Posted On Apr 13, 2022 - 02:31 AM|
Having grown up in the pre-internet era, offline cruising was the only option available. Though fraught with risks, we didn't have a choice back then. Online chats on the other hand, just seem to go on and on without much of conclusion. At least, that's my experience - and I know I'm partly responsible as well. Maybe with age, I've become choosy and perhaps not quite so desperate!
However, with CCTVs practically everywhere (at least in Chennai), hasn't offline cruising become even more risky? I haven't done any offline cruising for a long time now, hence others who have, could comment.
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