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Submitted by PrinceofPersia Location: All India (All India, India)

A thing I observe in the gay community is very poor tolerance to older gay men. The younger guys prefer younger men, the older guys prefer younger men which means a lot of older men get discriminated as no one wants to be with them. Everyone grows old but it is tougher if you are an older gay. Is my observation correct? Do older gay men (say 45+) feel isolated, discriminated and ignored within the gay community.

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Posted On Nov 12, 2021 - 11:29 AM

Actually these days there is a lot of demand for older.men on *** and dating apps.

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Posted On Nov 12, 2021 - 11:33 AM

Yes especially for 35-58 age who r so wild rough n hard in bed..

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Posted On Nov 12, 2021 - 12:08 PM

yes...ive been getting more guy now than i was when i was in 20s n 30s

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Posted On Nov 13, 2021 - 05:31 AM

Hi you are right.. it is very difficult to get a partner for old man. i am 60 years old top admirer of cross dresser bottom who has hairless smooth body. i am from pune.

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Posted On Nov 15, 2021 - 12:35 AM

Thanks to this thread, that we're able to connect with mature men.. No offence to young guns but old wines always been my preference..

30 pure bottom CD here from Gujarat (Rajkot / Ahmedabad precisely), looking for 40+ age men for quality time.. I'm a decent individual who's looking for anything to everything that makes me feel feminine, interested men hit me up !!

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Posted On Nov 15, 2021 - 05:58 AM

Im 18 and my first exp was with an older man in the train and ever since I've only been Interested in older men

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Posted On Nov 15, 2021 - 08:56 AM

I am 50 years old and i have find more youngsters want to hook up with older men then their own age kind. So not sure where did the Princeofpesia got the idea from about older gentleman have difficulty in finding ***.

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Posted On Nov 15, 2021 - 09:23 AM

I usually take my friend to serve my naughty uncle and his friends in Bangalore. There's no force involved or money. Just pure fun ! We share the room/resort costs sometimes when place isn't available.

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Posted On Nov 15, 2021 - 07:06 PM

My first experience was with an old guy. N believe me till date am missing him. Old guys are the best. They know how to handle virgin bottoms

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Posted On Nov 15, 2021 - 07:08 PM

the way he treated me with all those kissing n rimming n then finally the *** it was amazing

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Posted On Nov 16, 2021 - 12:24 AM

yes the young can have their cake and cream (unlimited opportunities). they can change partners or be selective. ENJOY! life is short.
the older men can have cake only (i mean limited opportunities). most older men have families and that restricts their movements. many do not take care of their health. most active guys become passive due to change in hormones/health conditions. however those that are active are the ones who are healthy and take pride in themselves.....they are in demand!
i am an old man who feels young and i like old men too!

young guys have taken the gay acceptance and/or sexuality to a whole new level. the internet and mobile phones have been the main reasons why. what i dont like about the young guys is that they are intoxicated by ***. they do not realise that western *** is made by *** actors and not everyday people. india is the biggest *** consumption market in the world! all indian inhibitions and morality have been tossed away and this has resulted in rapes. guys have no shame of exposing themselves to the world via the net and they also cajole get their wives/girlfriends to expose their faces whilst *** or ***. these are our indian *** stars!!! rimming has been copied from *** and 99% do not even know the dangers!!! ( google...dangers in rimming).

most older guys do not have free access to the net or are not familiar with technology ( which is an open minefield ...dangers and pleasures).this limits their opportunities. however, mature men are better lovers, more safe from nasties like hiv/std/etc and make the most of what they can get...that includes giving their partners more respect and enjoyment.

many young guys miss the affection of their fathers...so this leads to daddy love syndrome. many oldies miss the love/*** lives with their wives....so they are seeking others to fill the gaps. WE ARE ALL SEXUAL BEINGS!

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Posted On Nov 16, 2021 - 08:13 AM

That's not true . There are so many young guys into older men . I am also one of them. I absolutely love older daddies .

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Posted On Nov 16, 2021 - 08:53 AM

I agree there are many young boys crazy for older men. I myself love old daddies, uncles and grandpa

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Posted On Nov 16, 2021 - 10:08 AM

I truly agree that we are crazy for older guys as they handle us with much care. Had a relationship with an older guy in late 50's . He took pretty much care of me as I met him on weekends. His hands were magical and use to make me *** a lott until my balls get drained completely.

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Posted On Nov 16, 2021 - 11:57 AM

Yesterday I had a lovely night with 3 mature men who were very dominating. Today I feel completely relaxed and feel more like girl

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Posted On Nov 16, 2021 - 06:32 PM

I became interested from the days of Rediffbol chat rooms. Way back when only Net Cafes were providing most slow Internet speeds. Say 55 yrs I was. I thought that India is hetero and no Gay , may be one or two in my City. But the traffic in rediffbol chat stunned me. true gays and fake Lesbs were many. Soon I was drawn into it. Then came Yahoo Messenger and I met my first young guy through this. I was around 55 or 56. Its a new world I entered. I have drawn my lines. I needed to protect family and my children were past their teens. I decided not to go into *** ***. either top or bottom. My first guy was Telugu guy, born and brought up in Chennai and he came to Hyderabad and we met at my home. I thought he blows but he did n't and I had to blow. That open floodgate. I met a guy who says he wants older and older only and above 45 yrs old. We had fun 3 or 4 times until yahoo messenger was terminated. By that time, I met nearly 20 guys, few sukced me and few didnt but I obliged them though it was my choice. I met a 23 guy who was engg student and he started loving me. We became boyfrieds and missed many occasions all my fault. He is now in Canada. Our first meet was diaster on my this hobby as a neighbourer suspected and spread to another neigh. So I stopped guesting guys at my home but I continued to meet, out side, their homes or resorts or secure places. Recenlty, he dropped me out of vexation.; COVID STOPPED ME FOR entire season before beginigng in Feb. 20 and after first wae in March21 I had fun with two guys. I still active for oral *** and romance at past 70

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Posted On Nov 17, 2021 - 05:59 AM

Let me end this thread right here. It's not about Old Men not getting due attraction. But there's a difference between how you look at that age. Boman Irani (during Munnabhai release) and Arjun Rampal (now) are of the same age. It's about how each one takes care of themselves.

But if you're into this school of thought about 'Body Positivity' and such lazy *** philosophies, you can keep on whining on this thread.

And this is not true for the old men, but also for young men. People do not take care of their bodies. I'm not saying you should be gym going ripped guy. But basic fitness and hygiene goes a long way. Guys don't bother to wash their *** properly for months, and get offended if they're not blown by cute guys who're into old men. I mean, if I wanted to eat a thin crust pizza, I'd ordered Dominos, not your ***.

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Posted On Nov 17, 2021 - 06:39 AM

No. Its a persons choice. Some like ripped n toned old men and some like the chubby aged old men. Its personal choices. Also some people dont get enough time to care of them even if they wanted too coz they are busy working n earning a living for his family

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Posted On Nov 17, 2021 - 08:18 AM

Even I love old man 50+ or 60+. But it's rare to find.

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Posted On Nov 17, 2021 - 12:52 PM

i think old TOP men are in demand. Most young / twink believe old men would treat them as a female. If you are old and bottom, then yes, you have less opportunities BUT i will not call it discrimination. They are not saying to old men because of any discrimination, they are just not attracted to older men. So as you get older, find one or two people who are comfortable with you OR go for escorts. I dont see any other solution. The word discrimination is wrong.

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Posted On Nov 17, 2021 - 01:49 PM

Hi! I am 48 yrs old little shy man. It's wonderful and surprisering to see that many young boys would love to meet older men like me.
But it's obvious because as you grow you tend to admire young body and same is happening with me. I keep on checking young guys legs which are less hairy 😀 and little slimmer than people at our age.
These young guys motivate me to keep myself fit and slim. 😀

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Posted On Nov 17, 2021 - 05:43 PM

I'm 50. vers top. I like only dark and smooth guys above 25. I have found many young guys but many want sugar daddies. some just want to extract money and some think that being a mature guy I'm a bottom. at my age, I can't be openly gay because I have to protect my family. discretion is a problem with many young chaps. and another issue: many young boys become emotionally attached too fast and become possessive.

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Posted On Nov 18, 2021 - 04:54 AM

Old guys are better, they understand us.

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Posted On Nov 19, 2021 - 04:45 PM

I am 50 plus. I recently visited Kerala. Gay and bisexual men there were attracted to me like bees to a flower. I got so many men to make love to me in just 10 days. Ages ranged from 25 to 68. Mallu gay men really know how to treat soft feminine men like me. So it's not about age.

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Posted On Nov 19, 2021 - 10:14 PM

Older guys are the best in bed lol! They know to make love like no one else!

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Posted On Nov 30, 2021 - 01:53 PM

I'm 58 and happy 2 say that I have a lot of younger guys wanting 2 get in touch. Covid has unfortunately altered the role of intimacy. Staying aloof but always yearning 2 have a nice time with younger sincere guys. Hope things get better and I get 2 have a roll in a mountain of hay

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Posted On Dec 3, 2021 - 06:46 PM

Always had this fantasy to make love with a mature man on the terrace at night when the moon shines. Feeling his lips on mine... feeling his hands squeezing my ***...

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Posted On Dec 7, 2021 - 01:51 PM

i think old TOP men are in demand. Most young / twink believe old men would treat them as a female. If you are old and bottom, then yes, you have less opportunities BUT i will not call it discrimination. They are not saying to old men because of any discrimination, they are just not attracted to older men. So as you get older, find one or two people who are comfortable with you OR go for escorts. I dont see any other solution. The word discrimination is wrong.

Really well said

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Posted On Dec 12, 2021 - 09:37 AM

I'm particularly attracted to men over 50 since my early adulthood.

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Posted On Dec 12, 2021 - 01:47 PM

I prefer aged uncles 45+. I have done *** with more than 70 uncles in last 3 years. I found uncles are very passionate in ***. I m top here but I have done *** with top uncles aswell as a softcore fun which includes kissin smoochin bodyplay for long n long time over drinks and spent quality time. I don't prefer young guys at all.

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Posted On Dec 12, 2021 - 05:13 PM

I love mature men as well and had an awesome passion filled love making

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Posted On Dec 14, 2021 - 04:40 AM

A nice and somewhat relevant topic. Interesting discussion too.
I myself being a senior married man and interested only in seniors, could relate to most of the facts expressed by you all.
Yes, it is a difficult world for old men... And literally, Indian culture and society mind set makes it really a "No country for old men". Happy that the younger generation could, at least to a certain extent, get out of the clutches of orthodox narrow minded "pseudo morality" concept of my generation.

Love to hear from some seniors. All over, especially out side India, about their experience and journey.

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Posted On Dec 17, 2021 - 05:54 AM

I am also searching for older men.they are super caring and give respect. They treat like us like women I love that

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Posted On Dec 19, 2021 - 06:11 PM

Yeah the point is mature men have been through the stages that we young bottoms are going through. They know very well how to handle our tight bodies, and make us addicted to their love and affection.

Usually, I just love dressing up in lingerie for old men with them having a nice whiskey glass in their hands. Then I dance seductively for them before giving them a nice lap dance.

Ughhh, I am just too much into mature men. They're hot af.

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Posted On Dec 26, 2021 - 11:47 AM

seriously? i was in a relationship with a 65 year old man throughout my College days,

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Posted On Dec 27, 2021 - 06:02 AM

I have been reading this room and peoples thoughts aa I too am in the same age bracket. And yes the thoughts r real and all the more magnified thanks to the rotten Covid and lockdown situation.
I have one thing to say and what I firmly believe in, since we chose this life, its a challenge. Draw comfort in yourself that at least we are not cheating anyone. Especially our spouse and living dual lives. We are not cheating in deeds nor in thoughts. Every life asks for sacrifices in many ways. Our sacrifices are lil more due to the way our soceity is. So be it.

We are braver than others who have the balls to liv our lives on our own terms and not that of soceity, family or friends.

March on brave soldier, you are stronger than you think.

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Posted On Jan 1, 2022 - 01:26 AM

68 and have as much *** as I can handle, and that's then high school

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kiran bot hyd
Posted On Jan 1, 2022 - 01:37 PM

I don't agree either. I like mature daddies kind of tops. Even I am looking for a long-term relationship with them, however NSA relation only.

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Posted On Jan 8, 2022 - 03:19 PM

Even old dont want to be with above 40

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Posted On Jan 8, 2022 - 04:10 PM

Old man r awsum u can say alag hi nasha hota hai

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Posted On Feb 5, 2022 - 06:49 PM

Ya I have to agree , older partners have experience in their side. It's always fun to meet them and have fun. I like the look on my older tops when I finish riding on their ***, they are completely satisfied and fully drained of energy and gasping for air lol

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Posted On Apr 15, 2022 - 03:06 AM

I think the difference is old bottoms versus old tops. No one wants old bottoms, they want cute, trim, supple bottoms. Everyone wants an older daddy/top! I am 100% bottom, and I had to beat the guys off with a stick when I was younger, but the older I get, the longer it is between partners (years, sometimes)! I still have a nice butt, and people flirt with me, in person, all the time, but people online don't even want to get to know me.

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Posted On Apr 15, 2022 - 06:33 AM

@Yournewtoy - I guess you are not aware that there are many young guys/men who are only interested older bottoms. I myself have friends who love elderly men and are ready to commit to them.

The demand for "mature" men and silver daddies has increased a lot in the past few years and keeps increasing. I am talking about the scene in India.

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Posted On Apr 17, 2022 - 05:11 PM

@Yournewtoy - i m verstop, i like both young and old bottoms.
Old mature bottom guys are really good on bed.

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Posted On Apr 27, 2022 - 07:13 PM

What I saw is, old tops are good at making love.
The way they *** is literally good. On that many are singles, due to demise of their partners. They look for the bots who’s they can’t treat like slave.

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Posted On Apr 28, 2022 - 02:45 AM

I feel that it's true that pure bottom like me are attracted to old tops so that a wife feeling comes into our mind.
It's a feeling of FILF

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Posted On Jun 22, 2022 - 08:00 AM

Nice old man's are more romantic and fun loving!!!

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Posted On Jun 22, 2022 - 09:29 AM

I like old man, as they are more safe and reliable..
And most of them are very experienced, so they don't abuse you.
I have enjoyed with many matured / old guys upto the age of 60 yrs old...( I am 38 Yrs old)

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Posted On Jun 22, 2022 - 10:06 AM

As a pure bot I love matured old men they are like the best

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Posted On Jun 22, 2022 - 01:54 PM

Yess I have recently hooked up one old guy...it's good

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