Recently there was news of 4 Men in UP gang *** & thrashing youth met on Grindr. This news is not fake just copy the above in Google and check yourself....I know you all are aware of these crimes happening in the name of cruising or fun mostly online but yet the cases are rising and not to mention i am sure 90% of cases like this are unreported. I don't know why people in our community are being so irresponsible and ignorant on this issue THIS IS SERIOUS..See i am not here to lecture anyone or giving any moral lessons i am just here to ask why still the majority of the people online are not taking this seriously i mean why the *** you guys are taking the risk..I know we have our needs and that needs to be satisfied but you have to be a little aware a tleast i am multiple online platforms and literally met numerous people daily online and they agree to meet at my place or to spend night just by seeing my pic(Obviously i don't invite them) but i think this is the case for everyone around us you have to realize just because of your impulsive fun you life can get ruined...No matter how tough you are you'll get trapped if you ever encounter people they are pretty smart and doing this for a long time so act wisely...I am listing few points to remember before cruising it's up to you if you'll keep this in mind or not -:
1. Do remember to ask 2-3 pics always of the person on the first online encounter (Ask them to send a live pic of them hours before meeting amd verify if they deny *** them off nothing is more important than you safety)
2. If possible try to know about his background (like education, job, family, friends) most probably if he's a criminal he would try to avoid these questions or give unsatisfactory answers.
3. Never Go for the paid ones only if they are verified or known by your friends.
4. Don't write New in city/Visitor/Discreet guy in your bio
5. If possible try to get engage over long phone calls or texting before meeting for fun and if they behave oddly just cancel them off.
6. Lastly a major one if you are really suspicious on any account do step 1 &2 and then make a fake id few hours later and ask the same details if he's lying or giving different answers chances are he's a criminal.
It breaks my heart every time i hear such disturbing news so please be careful guys you have your family, your life , your dreams don't ruin them for some moments of fun by doing anything stupid God bless you all ..Happy cruising
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Bottom93 | Posted On Jun 12, 2021
Very true online is worst nowdays.
2019 i faced one issue.
Im a bottom got a ping from top and after seeing his pic i got more *** and called him to my room.
When he came to my room i was shocked and its a different person kind of trans.... Immediately she started saying im a trans my charge 20K read my profile..... After our meet confirmed she edited her profile.... Give money or else i will call 2 trans who is in street end..... With much stress i gave 9000 which i had for monthly expenses to run that month.......
Dnt fall for these scapegoats.
Instead if you find any hot persons control ur feelings huv a good friendship and then Start..... Always dangerous |
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Adventure93 | Posted On Jun 12, 2021
Yeah true. It happened to me back in 2016. I was very curious about a cruising place and went there. It's near a railway station. I didnt know that it was cruising place for trans as well. I happened to meet a cute guy and we both were kinda moving to a secluded place around the bushes, it was late evening. A trans followed us and got the hold of both of our hands. She started abusive words and asked why don't we like to have *** with them. She said isn't it different from urs?.. I stood stubborn, but the other guy pleaded to leave him. She left and started harrassing me.. the other ran away and after few mins she started calling names. Thank god, a CRPF cop arrived. She complaint that I had *** and refused to give money. But I stood silent and explained that I came here for natural business, a guy and she followed. Both started harrassing and asked for money. Since I didn't give, she started calling names. Actually I came from office, so I showed my id and he even checked my whatsapp and gallery. Now two more cops arrived and all of them supported me. They advised not to come to these places and use a public bathroom instead. They asked me to leave and got the trans. She was cursing like satan and said she would ever forget me. That's my last visit to that place and last cruising. |
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M44thane | Posted On Jun 12, 2021
Very true about this. However people need be careful and not jump directly into hasty meetings. As they say 'haste makes waste'.
Some guys are impulsive and want to meet right away. Need to indulge in some chat, understand the other side facts as much as possible prior meeting.
Tc guys be safe. |
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Ashi_sahu | Posted On Jun 12, 2021
I will explain what incident had happened last year.
I m new here at Bangalore, Recently completed my degree and came for a job. As I love cross dressing (u can c my profile), So made an account at Planet Romeo and posted pictures. Be honest with myself I'm a 'gold digger'.so I used to take handsome amount of money for exchange of my body.
Near about Christmas 2020 I got a message from a unknown source at my number , He introduced himself as a NRI stay at Dubai And he likes my profile at PR. He wants to meet me. I was at cloud nine. I thought , my new year eve gonna be blast :: when I visited him at hotel , he looks kinda weirdo. I thought what all look matter .. I all need his bank balance how much he gonna transfer. When I was just starting the session, he told undress urself and start crawling. WTF is world.. Then he started biting me like crazy and at a time was punching on face .i was at pain. He grabbed my neck with his belt and cut my skin with knife.Literally I was suffering. It was not BDSM. He was a psycho. He called other guys. That day I faced ***, harassment and pain. The worst part was that while I was banged that guy choked my face with pillow and try to pinch cigarettes ash my private parts ning
I thought to go and place a complain against rapist but what should I say to cop, if they asking why was u there with out knowing .
Literally that day I met a devil. Any how I escaped that hotel near about 2am .
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PGP | Posted On Jun 12, 2021
Its very sad to read you guys' experience. Actually what I do is call the person out for a casual meet first. IF he invites me to his room, I go without my wallet and valuables. If I call someone to my room, then also I keep my valuables locked. If the guy sounds suspicious, I make some drama and ask him to leave. I also tell my another friend to call me in half an hour to keep a check. Still, there are lot many risks. We know. Its better to stick to single or few partners rather than cruising for daily change. All my best wishes. |
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vanakkam | Posted On Jun 12, 2021
Because of above reason only going with masaagers that too centre.
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rishi_20004 | Posted On Jun 12, 2021
I too went through a bad experience...this happened around 2 years back.. I was 42 years that time I met a guy on Grindr he was a cute looking teen guy around 18 years as soon as we had started chat he was just very desperate to meet me which made me just curious as to why such a cute looking guy is so desperate to meet me so just to be sure if he is genuine or not i asked him to share his mobile no and have a video call with me so just to confirm if he is the same guy he shared his mobile no we had a video chat and tht guy looked really cute and spoke in English so i was sure now tht this guy is genuine. So i fixed up the time and place of meeting had a coffee with him and once i got confidence I took him home. As soon as we reached home he asked me whether he can use he washroom to get freshen up he went inside and he took bit long so i knocked and asked him how much more time he asked me why not i also join him and we can take bath together before we hit the bed...I was more then excited with this offer and i too joined him, within 5 mins of I joining him in the bath there was knock on my door I was not expecting any one so i got curious as to who had come So i wrapped up the towel and opened the door there were 2 guys standing and they pushed me in and asked ,e as to where their brother is...i was now quite frightened and they were speaking in loud abusive language so i told them to calm down and told him that no one is there with me and they have come to wrong place looking for their brother now they started threatning me and told that they have followed their bro and they saw him entering with me in my room now i was nervous and then i told them that his bro is in washroom they rushed to washroom pulled out their brother out now we both were standing in just towel wrapped around our body then one guy pulled down my towel and clicked my pic and the other guy started hitting his brother abusing him for doing wrong things i was now very nervous as i was standing nude with my pic clicked then one guy slapped me hard saying hat I hv ruined his brother life and now they started blackmailing me saying hat they will go to my neighbour and show them my pics and tel them what all am doing with small kids who are of my sons age....and now i was trembling and begging in front of them to forgive me thats the time they opened up and started demanding money from me....finally i had to shed a substantial amount of money after which they deleted my pics and they left....but i thank God that they did not come again nor they called me again for more money.......from what i understood is that as soon as that guy entered the washroom he must hv send the live location to his so called brother along with my building and flat no. |
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Coming Ahmedaba | Posted On Jun 12, 2021
Feeling sad for all those who faced bad experiences:( I really thankful to god that I never faced such situations.
Things to remember:
It's better to avoid to meet a completely stranger person at night. Well if he/she is in reputed hotels then chances are less that he/she will be a fraud.
I never keep wallet with me. Just few cash currency I my pocket. I rarely visit far away places from my location. Nearby places are familiar.
Chat first, ask few question. Ask for photos/video call.
I met many age group people, tops, bottoms, trans etc. But I really never faced any horrific situation.
Feel free to ask me anything. :) |
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letsfuck * | Posted On Jun 12, 2021
Seeking *** is not a crime. Especially after sec 377. We need to be aware that consensual *** is no longer a crime. NEVER NEVER EVER FEEL.GUILTY FOR HAVING GAY ***. You are not breaking any laws. The morality and ethicality is not your concern. It is the people who can't deal with it. Their problem. Not yours. Be bold. Fight. If there are goons, fight them.
Golden rule :- Never get scared. These bastards feed on fear. The moment you are scared they get stronger. No matter how bad the situation seems to be, ALWAYS remember , you are not committing a crime. They are. They are the culprits. And be bold and strong and reply with threats and police complaints. Never be scared of neighbors or people around. Start shouting loudly and abusing equally. You can always tell Ur neighbor these people barged in and forcefully took pics or stripped you or whatever. Our neighbors and family will always believe us once they realise you're not scared they panic because they are guilty. And the guilt will always make them nervous.
Threaten them to go to the police station. Tell them your neighbor is a cop. Such stuff will scare them.
You are not doing anything wrong. Be fearless and watch them run away. |
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Monsterck | Posted On Jun 12, 2021
Thx to god i meet with some good frnd they are kind hrt and realy love to enjoy with me
Yes i confirm all and clear all posiblity like and dislike then only vc and then meet with
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Bottom93 | Posted On Jun 12, 2021
After my incidents above. I planned to do *** only with known trusted people and commercial trusted macho.
Dnt want to stuck in issues.
Even when i cross roads i get very *** seeing macho truck drivers, auto drivers, ola drivers but i somehow control..... If not controlling seriously it will be very dangerous for us in future life |
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SPARSH1999VERS | Posted On Jun 12, 2021
Always share your live location while cruising at isolated place like National Park. Carry less money with you , which will be enough for traveling . I'd u find yourself in trouble just make any excuse and try to escape. Don't cruise near slum area. |
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raju1987 | Posted On Jun 12, 2021
Feeling bad to read all such experiences. Guys be careful do not call somebody home. The combination of young and old is becoming risky day by day. |
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gaylove2013 | Posted On Jun 12, 2021
it's better to have ordinary friendship first, understand the temperament and other things before indulging. |
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Rahul98 | Posted On Jun 12, 2021
Tats why I meet with a regular foreign guy in Chennai and pondy apart from them I know some guys but never visited.it gud to hav a regular guy than meeting new people at diff places |
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Oni17 | Posted On Jun 13, 2021
Reading all the comments, i also want to share some story...in 2017 i was just 18 yrs.....met a guy on Facebook..he showed his photos and told he is 25 yr old nd stuff.. I asked him to meet casually first then head towards room but he tricked me into going to his room alone..saying he was busy in some work...i went to his room, he locked...he was in late 30s and not what he showed in photo...I was shocked since that was my first encounter...i didn't wanted to do anything but i was feeling that i am doing something wrong and i was small ...i didn't want to create any scene...I lost my virginity that time...it still hurts me...i feel sorry for myself....This is the first time i am sharing about this....reading all the comments gave courage to share my incident..Now I don't visit far places only look for nearby one . |
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foroldertops | Posted On Jun 13, 2021
*** in North India is dangerous. Period. Plain and simple especially if you are different racially and stick out like a sore thumb. I never do cruising maybe a little bit in malls and airports where it's kinda safe but never in some shady place.
I also very rarely go to other guy place and usually host and only invite guys after video calling and see how he carried himself. Even then I'm always ready.
Always have a chilli spray, small knives and if possible a gun license.
Be aware about your surroundings.
Listen to your guts.
Video call always before meeting not only to see the person but you'll get to see body language and the type of words coming out from his ***.
Last but not the least if possible hook up with non Indians its calmer and peaceful with very little risks. |
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vikranth | Posted On Jun 14, 2021
I chatted with a guy in grinder 3 years ago. He said he stay in halasoor. He agreed to come to my place I shared my pics and location. After sometime before starting he was demanding money per session 6k. I said I am not into paid fun let's not meet and then I deleted the app. He reached my place stared belling each and every house and showed my pic, he even belled my door I didn't open as I was getting ready to the office. When I came out he was standing there only threatening me. He already had the chat screenshot and my pic. Give me 6k else I will call all my hijida gang and show all pics and chat screenshot to each and every house. Then I tried to convince him and went with him and withdrawn 4k and paid he didn't agree he started threatening that he will complaint. He was very smart he didn't share his no. then I paid another 2k. Totally 6k. Then he went. That day I literally begged him. This happened around 2 p.m. it was not crowded. Don't take anyone to your house. God only saved me that day. I bet he would have got covid and went to hell. |
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adicooliyo | Posted On Jun 14, 2021
i wanna share one incident.. this happened with me in USA, i chatted with man and he shared his pic he looked like 40-45 yrs which is fine for me.. and he looked good.. when i reached his place.. i asked him to come out.. he came and i saw a 60 yrs old guy walking towards me.. i thot to run away.. but i had to pee badly.. so when he came to me i asked wats his age .. he lied then also.. said 50.. i said we are not a match he said ok... then i asked him if i can use his bathrum to pee.. he allowed me.. i went to the bathrum and relieved myself.. but when i came out i saw that man standing naked in front of me.. i was shocked and afraid.. but thankfully that guy did not force me.. i told him i should leave and i opened the door and walked out. |
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kunal16 | Posted On Jun 14, 2021
i am 42 now even i met so many guys. guys attacked me in public urinals and few years back i met a guy in my car he told lets have beer i bought beer and than he start touching me when i tried to touch him he said 1 st give me my charge i said what charge than he start hiting me and forced me to withdraw money from atm and paid me around 8k and got rid for him.
the main issuw is i am bi and settled now its my deficeiancy i can not afford to get expose in any manner. This is main issue every one faces due to which we have to suffer.
it is easy money so guys just cheat / hit or blackmail any gay/bi easily |
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Rajdar | Posted On Jun 14, 2021
One incident happened with me last year in Gurgaon. One guy approach me with 3 pics and had good conversation with him, he seems like good person so I called him to hotel as I was visiting there. One person came there after 10 mins but that guy was different and started asking me money and started abusing with very bad language. I gave him some money and my watch after that he left but staying in same hotel will be risk to my life as this ppl out there are very pathetic. So I booked another hotel and checkout from that hotel. That was Very dengerous incident happened to me. Never faced such kind of issue in any other area. I personally feel that north India is not at all safe for gay or bisexual ppl. |
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Asleelladka | Posted On Jun 14, 2021
I had a similar incident, i m ready for pd fun. Found one guy who asked me to meet near a metro station. I went to that metro station, called him. But he did not answer my phone. (It was first red flag) Something in me told me to not step out of the metro. I waited in the metro for 15 mins then I went out. He called me to meet me on the other side of the road, i went their. Then he grabbed me by my collar, and asked me why I am lying. But then I activated my bitch mode, held my calm. Pushed him on, crossed the road and came running inside metro station.
So guys before meeting: 1) always do video call, ask random questions about them multiple time like what they do, where they live, with whom they live and all. If you see anything thats sounds fishy. Dont meet him
2) first meet in public place, probably in an open market or if you have metro stations. Then meet in front if those guards or. If he makes a wrong move scream, make a scene the guard will come to your rescue
3) if you bringing them into your place, bring them from a linger route.
4) dont be scared, hold your ground. Dont show your fear. The moment you show your fear you have lost it and finally
5) Always listen to your gut. It will save you. And happy cruising. |
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patilboy | Posted On Jun 15, 2021
I had one such experience when I was trying to have fun in cruising place. It was a loo which was quite famous for all such activities. One fine day I went inside the loo for having some fun Inside I saw an man in his 40's who was standing beside me and trying to get my attention. As the man was shabby and not good I denied him. Later after 2 mins he went outside and another man came inside. He is kind of good looking and okay for me. So i decided to grab his tool and shake a bit. He was screaming me to do slowly and gently and i was like okay. But Later I changed my mind and went out of loo and soo did the man followed me . While i was walking he was walking with me and then asked me , that i have place and all, but later after walking a small distance 2-3 more men came behind me and followed me. They took me to a corner and started shouting on me , what were you doing in loo , this and that , started to threaten me that we are cops and catching such mens doing all this non sense in loo.... They had surrounded me from all side and where not ready to leave me. I tried and gave various reasons that I dont have money and all, but still not ready to leave me. They acted like they were calling some higher authority and all, I found that I was in big trouble . Now finally they told me to solve this matter and keep it as secret Pay 6k in total and they were 4 of them. I tried to negotiate a lot, still they weren't ready. Finally I had to pay 6K to them and then they left....
I had a doubt considering the nearby area and people but still i did the madness
This incident was happen to me at Mulund Loo , the one which is near Panch Rasta
I have observed few things while having fun in cruising place..
1. Never try to start action by yourself first, let the other man start the actions, and if you are comfortable then only do more.
2. Always check the surrounding before entering , check if any men are standing around and looking towards gate.
3. Avoid places which are near the slums and such areas.
4. If you have not done any actions still they catch you , you don't feel low, have confidence , shout to them and ask for ID card of them.
5. If not sure about person or new to the area , never go to place he is taking
6. Cruising in loo is not really recommended now , specially in corona times .
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Bottom93 | Posted On Jun 15, 2021
In my native there was a railway yard for goods train. Frequently macho guys will come and pee..... I huv nice fun with them. Once i saw a hot macho guy and he said me will u *** meanwhile i said yes and was happy.... While He was removing his front camera was on and i started *** i suspected he is taking a video and said to off(5 sec video he took) he said ok but he didnt and i said again to off.... He gave me a blow and i lost concious for 2 mins and i started crying .... He was saying will call police and said where is ur purse by getting courage i pushed him and ran to my scooter which i kept 15 metres away..... I got into scooter and while starting it he was near me and trying to stop my scooter.... I shouted like anything help help. He got scared on hearing my help help voice and he moved away from the bike and i started in a furious speed and escaped from there...... Its one and only by gods grace i escaped that day.......... 5 sec video is with him i didnt care about it it wont create any issues and this happened 2 yrs back..... |
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vikranth | Posted On Jun 15, 2021
@raju1987 I was scared at that time and that guy was clapping like a hijda and shouting. He said lets go to police station. But now I think he was blackmailing me. Because he didn't share his no. I learnt a big lesson. I would have taken him to police station or called police. If anyone is in this situation don't be panic, they will encash your fear.Be brave. |
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Srikanth777 | Posted On Jun 16, 2021
Yes guy's what all u all said is correct.
We should be very careful while meeting new and strange people.
Thank for all the suggestions to take care.
I always meet guy's in massage Parlours only. Many times I had a good session's in massage parlour
It's one of the safest place. If u find a right guy u can repetedly visit the same Parlour. And in spa's only ladies demand for money not men. If he is interested we can enjoy. Or else I used to take my *** tools and ask him to help me in rimming my ***.
So guys be very careful. |
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boobspcmc | Posted On Jun 16, 2021
I am sharing an incident which happened 3 years ago. I met a guy on locanto we were chatting after getting comfortable we exchanged our numbers and shared some pics. After few days that guy said that he want 2k otherwise he will share my pics. I just replied do whatever you want to do with my pics and if i find any pic online i will file a police complaint against you and i will show them this chat. After that message he never sent a message to me.
Also it is very easy to say that don't care about people around you or your neighbours but only the person who is stuck in that situation can understand the fear and stress of that situation.
If you find yourself in such situation just call your local police station it is better to pay some money to cops for resolving the matter. Also by law you are not doing anything wrong but the person who is entered in your property is doing illegal act so it is always recommend that you should call cops. And if it happens at a crushing spot then you can always call cops and tell them these people are trying to rob me and tell them your location.
Always keep phone number of your local police station with you.
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CrazyCruiser | Posted On Jun 17, 2021
Boobspcm, rightly said. Apart from keeping the phone number of the local police station with you, also ensure that:
1. Best way to get out of a sticky situation if someone triess to harass you or blackmail you saying they'll call cops, is to agree to call cops or go to the cops on your own or with the *** who's harassing you. You can always twist *your* version of story about how you got into any situation and how the other guy started harassing you. If you're calm and in a decent-looking outfit (as in not chappri or mavali looking) and talk in a civilised manner, the cops usually listen to you as opposed to the harasser, who mostly would be a typical mavali, street-side hooligan type of a person.
2. You have a friend in the city who is responsible and understandable enough to come to your rescue (in case of police involvement, and not exactly for fighting with thugs) and is either senior or has contacts with someone who can put their weight behind you in case the police are being tough on you. An external responsible looking person's intervention with such cases and situations usually helps. Remember, any good cop always tries or likes to fall on better side of the people, they don't want to arrest someone just for kicks of it. In case they're in it for the money, then it's a different scenario, then you have to cunningly turn that situation around.
3a. Always tell a friend when you're out cruising and what time you are going and where. This is easier said than done, I know, but it's good to know that someone knows and is expecting you to confirm your well-being after a certain time, and if they don't get that confirmation, they can come to your rescue. Although, most cruising is impromptu, and one really wouldn't like to tell one's friend the number of times they're off to a loo to *** off strangers' ***, at least, try to have a friend who 'knows' you like to cruise so that if they receive a call of distress from you, they'd understand the situation, help you out promptly, without asking unnecessary questions.
3b. A good hack is to save the name of such a friend (probably as a duplicate entry, if your phone allows) as 'home', 'pappa', 'residence' or something that's not your real dad's or home's name saved. This can come in helpful if you're caught by the cops and they try to involve the family, this can help if your friend can pretend to be your dad and talk it out with the cops. If you're doing this, hope you have a good friend who sounds grown-up and responsible.
4. If possible have two bank accounts. One for salary and deposit of major money, and the other for spending. The second account can have a very low balance in that case, and if you need to shell out money, you can just say that's all you have at the moment. Needless to say, do NOT keep the app of the primary account on your phone, in case someone checks your phone for banking apps and balance.
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Bottom93 | Posted On Jun 17, 2021
Correct agree with above comments.
I huv been cheated thrice then only i learnt a lesson.
And the real sad part is one of my friend cheated me.........
I had a friend he is a kind of macho and big *** guy... We had *** thrice in school times...... After school life no meetup and i was working in a IT company. Thus guy was a normal kind of delivery job. I met him after 5 years and spoked in a jolly manner and asked him do u remember our fun he said yes and he took me to his house and had a fun........ After that fun one Month passed he said i huv a place outer and said can we go...... On trusting him i went there and had my costly phone along with me. He took me to a highways and dark place where he removed is pant and gave his ***. Meanwhule he is giving a signal to someone in phone, i was not able to understand..... After 5 mins a boys in two wheeler crossed us and came back again. Then those boys stopped there and enquired us and my friend got a blow from him and he took my phone and ringed to my parents saying is ur son a gay..... My mom got shattrred on hearing that ЁЯШкЁЯШк..... Then this guys took my cell after that and my friend who got a blow dropped me near my house and went saying i will complaint to police u dnt wry.
After reaching home my mom started crying and i was not able to console her. My father gave me a blow and said we can go station give a complaint..... After reaching police station they said y ur son went unknown place.... Its difficult to find it...... So its a lesson to ur son forget it.
After a week i was going to college and while waiting in the signal in college bus i saw a bike with three persons in it. 1) My friend rest 2 those guys who ringed to my mom and took my cell in highway.I was shocked litreally crying inside the bus........
So this a well planned game to cheat me.... If he would huv asked me i would be giving him the cell..... So that my mom's health become bad due to that guy ringed and said abt me... ЁЯШк.......
Never ever trust anyone in ur life...... All r cheaters while it comes to fun with same ***... They will just threathen the gay community.......
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raju1987 | Posted On Jun 17, 2021
Bottom93 really sad to hear this part, we have really lost the trust in people now, totally unexpected though. But i think its good not to have *** with people who are in ur area who can visit ur home friends or disclose such details |
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exposure | Posted On Jun 18, 2021
@Bottom93 and everyone out here
NEVER NEVER go out of town or to far off places for *** ... A simple thing when he and you both were from same town then why go far unless he resides there....Also never one should go in these bushes as murders and harm happens in such places only where one cannot be found.
Human nature is unpredictable and is always based on situation so even if he was ur school mate but now after yrs he may be in need of money or like you said in bad company influence.
I have been offered so many times one day outing and 2 day outing but i always say no as what happened to you,,, the question arises what were you doing at that place at that time and so far atleast in city you can say i went to one place for some work or shopping etc but such places no reasons ...
U should have put your frd in tight position by again going to police station and telling the insp that your frd is involved atleast his name and address would be exposed to cops. He will never try again on others, beside chances are you could get your cell back
You explain to your parents esp mom that you will try to change only to give her time to accept you and your orientation so she doesn't affect her health ,,later they will accept you as you are.
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Bottom93 | Posted On Jun 18, 2021
Thanks.
Sure.... This is a lesson for everyone.
As u say many rowdy does *** with prostitutes, transgender while drinking in those bushes........ After fun when those pros ask money these drunken bastards kill them. This happens especially near south part of TAMILNADU like trichy, tirunelveli, madurai...
Nowadays im controlling my sexual urges and moving towards a positivity life |
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Bottom93 | Posted On Jun 18, 2021
Also being bottom is really a sin.
I had a true love and friendship with my straight friend..... He is such a manly guy.... 6 yrs of true love and friendship. Spent lots of money for him in 6 yrs...... But he never allow to hug me and even touch him. If i touch he will insult me.......... In one conversation he said ur only to fit to *** *** nothing else...... Then i replied saying i love to *** only ur *** not anyone else...... Inturn he replied saying go and *** ur fathers *** i won't give...... This reply was very very hurting to me and i got depressed a lot on this reply......
Eventhough if i said that he should not insult me saying this harsh reply abt family........ In that 6 yrs he has insulted a lot...... But i use to adjust....... But when he said abt my father i lost all interests on him..... If im a bottom im not suppose to get insult by giving harsh reply......... I cut his friendship......
At the end i got depression, money wasted for 6 yrs..... So its a sin being a bottom.......
From there onwards i concentrated more on life, help the poor people, be fit, make family happy.
Loving, caring a straight is mere a waste one..... |
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ikkahda | Posted On Jun 18, 2021
@Bottom93
I would say, you freed yourself from a toxic relationship.
Many of us throw ourself seeking a mirage, into a relationship of unequal respect.
If there is no respect it isn't a relationship.
Hope you find a respectful person in your life soon enough. |
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wingedcupid | Posted On Jun 18, 2021
Bottom93, I have had relationship with a st8 guy where i tried winning his love through excessive showering of love and money. It was hard for me to digest that leopards don't change spots. I used to get depressed if his head turns towards girls when we walk in streets. Time will heal your depression.
I can laugh at myself in hindsight looking at how silly i was & how I made my ex-straight's life harder.
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Knightriderche | Posted On Jun 19, 2021
Ever since I read news articles about gays being blackmailed for money or other valuables, I stopped bringing guys to my place impromptu. If I meet someone online that interest me, I will chat with them for at least 2 weeks before bringing them at my place... This helped me filtered out the unnecessary noises from my dating life.. You need to have the patience as well.
And that's how I met my partner of two years, now living together!! |
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90988_Raj | Posted On Jun 19, 2021
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Daniel_M1900 | Posted On Jun 19, 2021
I'm not surprised to hear so many cases.
Even I experienced blackmailing at cruising places (infact I was caught by a cop as they had laid a trap at Borivali Cruising place) but if you are meeting anyone through online dating app... have the guts to goto Police if such thing happens. They will definitely help you. They do not reveal anything to family if you ask them so... As you are not a minor!
Never Meet anyone at a secluded place unless you know that person pretty well.
If he comes on a bike/car then do note down his Bike/Car Number for safety purpose.
If you experience blackmailing.... Always take that person in a place where there are surveillance camera.. Either Street CCTVs or of any shop around...Do carry debit/credit card preferably expired or blacklisted ones... goto ATM ask that person to come along... Where he will be captured on Camera which will help you to nab him if you place a police complaint... I
Remember... only you can help yourself... If you show you are frightened and at their mercy then they will try to extract as much as possible from you.
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Rohitversguy | Posted On Jun 20, 2021
I faced such cheating incidences 3 times. I met a guy in cruising place and brought him to my room that night. After having fun, he slept with me in bed as it was late night. after few hours, when i woke up, i saw he was checking my laptop. i got suspicious. he said he was seeing xvideos, then slept back. after sometime, i checked his bag, my 2 shoes were in his bag. i understood he is thief and could not sleep. early morning i woke him up and asked him to leave room. But I did not make any further complaints as it was bad for me if neighbours knew about such issues.
Another time, one of my well known gay bottom friend whom i met in cruising place before 4 years, we were like friends as we roam around together to cruising places. after 4-5 years of friendship, he asked 2000 onetime and 6000 another time as he was in trouble, promising to return back. after few months, when i asked, he kept dragging for another few months. when i pressurise him to give money, after few months, he was not reachable and went back to unknown place. so now 2 years over, i could not find him. mostly he changed his place and may try another guy to cheat with fake friendship.
This gay cruising is horrible many times and pleasurable sometimes. |
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I<3BIG | Posted On Jun 20, 2021
yeah that's why i never meet anyone easily. i take a lot of time to know a person. :)
i haven't met any cheater yet. but i always try to know them first, can't trust anyone easily. |
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BoobyBear | Posted On Jun 20, 2021
@I<3BIG,
I totally agree with you.
So far met many guys age vary from 20 to 55 years but never had any bad experience. I think what worked for me was to know a little bit about the opposite person by chat or by call.
Also, if you are hooking up instantly and randomly with somone, make sure you watch out surroundings and make sure you have people to reach out nearby.
I know you never know how the opposite person would be in reality but in such situations we should be aware that we might get mugged or looted or need help so always pay attention and always believe you "instinct" if you don't feel good about the other guy! |
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I<3BIG | Posted On Jun 20, 2021
@BoobyBear
yeah. always try to know a person. if they are in hurry then don't meet. you will find another one. better to wait than get mugged/robbed
i don't go with any random person even when they say "i have place. come".
i just believe if they will make efforts.
sometimes i take a week, a month or a year. just to be with right person. maybe that's the reason i haven't met any cheater yet :)
cheaters can't wait for sure.
by the way i am afraid bcoz i try to act like sensual shy little sissy so people might be rough with me ;D
so i always make things clear before i met anyone :D
i am way too sensitive in bed for any hard dumb fucker. :( |
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Tarunskaran | Posted On Jun 20, 2021
I hd very rndom hookup at my plce 3 months bck. He turned out to be chepo who sked for 200 rs while going. Suddenly lst week he showed up t my plce nd sid he is in full mood for ***. He brged in my house nd luckily my fmily ws out for some time. I ws *** scred s they could return nytime.
I pleded him to go but he ws clerly drunk. fter sometime i cted little bit strict nd stern nd he sid he ws going. He went wy nd before i could heve a sign of relief, i sw my mobile ws missing.
This whole week ws dmn tough s ll my finncil trnsctions got stlled nd my officil work got ffected.
But more thn this now i am frid if he my show up gin nd thsi time wht if he blckmils me... Guys , do you think he will show up gin after this steling?
p.s: letter from my keybord is not working. |
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rahul fbuser | Posted On Jun 21, 2021
@bottom93 i am in similar kind of situation... I was threatened and i somehow convinced and asked the trans to leave after paying some money.
Immediately as she left i blocked her from everywhere. Now she is msgn from other number... Sending chat screenshot and saying that u blocked me now see what i do.
I am not sure what to do.. thinking of going to police but want to keep this a secret. What do you guys suggest here? Is there a seperate department whom we shud contact for this kind of threats? |
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Bottom93 | Posted On Jun 21, 2021
If ur using that number for all like WhatsApp, fb messenger... Uninstall those. Use different number for those apps.. Just use this number for otp thats it |
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Bottom93 | Posted On Jun 21, 2021
Switch off all time and just on when otp is needed...... |
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Rohiram | Posted On Jun 21, 2021
Try contacting humsafar trust or gay bombay, they help lgbt community when someone is doing such kind of harm. They might help, I am not sure, u need to check. |
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Aaron2025 | Posted On Jun 21, 2021
thatтАЩs why you should always carry pepperspray/ knife with you. Once a tranny tried to extort me for money and i pulled out my knife and held it to her neck, she got scared and ran away |
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shapeoflove | Posted On Jun 21, 2021
@rahul fbuser Yeah, as Rohiram mentioned, i too would suggest you to contact some NGOs seeking help and advise, in case you don't wanna go to a police station. Also, remain as confident as you can in these cases, if you haven't involved in anything illegal. |
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boobspcmc | Posted On Jun 21, 2021
@rahul fbuser
Just message that person if he sends you another message for threatening you, then you will file a police complaint for extortion and blackmailing against him and also tell him that you will show his threatening and blackmailing messages to police. If that person message you again then directly go to police. |
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