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Relationship with a married man. Acceptable or not

Submitted by AlwaysLusty09 Location: All India (All India, India)

Have you ever been in a relationship with a married guy? A friend of mine from the community is in relationship with a bloke almost 10 years older than him. He says that married men always attract him for following reasons: they're experienced lovers, you can have a mature conversation with them about finances to politics to dirty talks, etc.

He says that both are aware of no future as his bf is married, but they still enjoy the most of it. Though he often feels like being an extra burden on someone else's life.

When he told me all of that, Ohmojo came to my mind for seeking multiple views. What you guys think about this form of relationship?

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Posted On May 30, 2020 - 07:18 AM

Relationship with a married is good as long as it doesn't become an obstacle to his married life and your personal life as well. Its all about understanding and maturity. Things start going south when either of the person start controlling others personal life..it all comes down to *** isn't it. A married men still searching for young bottoms or bottoms means simply that he is bi or gay and still searching to live his dual life to seek pleasure. Some find young chaps more entertaining, ***, accomodating than their wife. Like @jeanebad mentioned above he wants BDSM *** and his wife doesn't allow it so he started looking to fulfill his desire.

Relationship with a married person is not bad as long as both people are mature enough to respect the difference between two partners, maintain secrecy and trust in the act don't use or take advantage of anyone. That all I have to say

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Posted On May 31, 2020 - 09:40 AM


Though what you say is true, it's unfortunate that people aren't that mature enough. I mean they want all the benefits of the secret relationship but somehow manage to break the trust and secrecy. It's sad that not much people can do it.

Based on personal experience I think that the relationship with a married men is much more fun. Cuz you get to do things that's so pleasurable. But it like very rare.

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Posted On May 31, 2020 - 04:14 PM

Casual *** without much expectations is okay.
But relationship? Think about it.

1. Would he be there for u when u need him ?
2. What if you are not married and this guy never leaves his family? All u get is stolen time, which won't last more than 2-3 hours or max 8 hours a week?
3. What if you see a future or want a future later?
4. Say ur 25, he s 30 n married. All good now. U are exclusive and u dont date anyone else. This guy will never leave his wife, so say they get to know n he leaves u. Now ur lets say ur 35 in 10 years. How many options will u have?
U want to start over now?
5. A person who can cheat his wife or gf or bf, why won't he cheat u ?

You can shake up the morals the way you want. But relationship with anyone who cannot commit fully to you is going to end up badly.
You can blame the society, but people have changed, things for changed. Now u can live with who u want to if you really want to. So don't blame society and ruin a girls life by marrying her and yet *** others.

*** You will never accept your wife if she goes around sleeping with other men ???

Note: When I say relationship, i think of it as couple exclusive to each other and hence the comments. There is no such thing as open relationship :P atleast in my dictionary. Keep it ons, casual or be serious.

I have had *** with all types - married, guys who are partnered with other boys or girls, etc. I think 27-30 yr old guys are best. Most of the 38+ guys are slow and little sloppy on bed.
I am bottom, and like it little rough. So younger boys are the best, they are open to trying things which married men aren't.
Example: Rimming, many men won't do it. Guys these days are okay with flip ***. N more flexible in bed.

I was dating a 24 yr old, he could *** 4-5 times in a go, was an amazing ***. No prob with erections as well.
(dont contact me for others contact, I won't share. And don't contact me if you are looking for quick ***)

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Posted On Jun 10, 2020 - 08:40 AM

@Looking for top :
Very very valid point & correct questions.

A married man dragged & forced me to a relationship,
Though i dont fall into it completely.

Fight started as u said Time, i always shd wait for his comfortable leisure time.
Also he will have numbers of casual fun. But will never love me & completely stopped having fun with me. Beauty is will *** new new guys through dating app ,infront of me.

I still remember the words he said to me, wen fighting at peak.

I have wife & kids. I have lot family committments. Now im scaring u will ruin my family life by creating troubles.
All are Passing clouds. Try to understand value of friendship and just be a casual friend to me.

Will never forget these conversations in my life.

Guys never say the word "Relationship" with married men.
How smooth it goes, it never ends well.
If ur solo loner guy like me, then life will be at hell

Love all. Serve all. Lol

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Posted On Aug 4, 2020 - 02:43 PM

Do not expect ny thing just enjoy the moment while it lasts like i enjoyed with my classes accounts teacher, for 4 years the only thing that excites me is we hooked up more than 100 times that even more *** than he had with his wife, also jerked eated each others *** more than that, if u think abt future n responsibility u would lose the moment of being together.

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Posted On Aug 5, 2020 - 04:51 PM

First of all that friend is no one but you . And all the that ngs you mention is nothing but result of some king and loneliness and at last I say this type of relationship is no longer so better to no go with it

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