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Safe ***/HIV positive discussion


Submitted by t3ddy Location: All India (All India, India)

Like to share any safe *** tips ?

wanna discuss about your recent unsafe encounter??

Any thing related to HIV /STDs

Are you positive already wanna share any good or bad experience .. Stigmas people have.?

Can you have *** with a poz person?

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Hello_lan
Posted On Jun 27, 2025

Hi is there anyone who got HIV+ ? Dm me.

I diagnosed HIV and HPV both positive now i am taking ART since 2 months🙂

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kikravi
Posted On Nov 9, 2025

By *** will get affected hiv ?

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pjanpi
Posted On Nov 10, 2025

Condom broke while having ***, because of the oils.this was before I ejaculated and I immediately replaced it. How worried should I be?

This is in one of the spa near Brookfield, are there significant chances of STD

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Oublieux
Posted On Nov 10, 2025

@pjanpi I have been in your shoes, the condom disintegrated because of the oils and boy oh boy was I scared. But it really depends on your partner with whom you’ve had ***. HIV and other STDs can enter your bloodstream even through microscopic tears that may have happened during the intercourse; you replacing the condom was extremely smart and credit to your attentiveness but you started panicking after the Post Nut Clarity hit you like a truck loaded with anxiety. Worry not- if possible ask the partner to get tested and if he’s negative then you have nothing to worry about and meanwhile wait about 4 weeks ideally 3 months but there’s a 95% accuracy of detecting HIV Antibodies while testing through a 4th Generation test. Just get a full STD panel from TATA 1mg (will cost about 2500 or less); remember to wait at least 4 weeks from the event of possible exposure and that’s it. I got tested 2 times, once after 4 weeks and other after 3 months and luckily everything is negative and got a clean bill of health. Stay safe out there

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Nudelove1979
Posted On Nov 11, 2025

@Oublieux how to book a test from tata 1mg

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Ved2004
Posted On Nov 11, 2025

@Nudelove1979 search for STD panel test on tata1mg site it is for 2299/-

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Abhinash
Posted On Jan 22, 2026

All these talks makes me afraid of involving into *** with randoms. I would like to hear more though. Any HIV+ here?

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Faholic
Posted On Feb 7, 2026

I take prep, I usually practice barebacks when it comes to guys, and cucks completely safe (personal preference) In cuck, i *** wife bareback in ***, but not in v_a_g_ina. I use condom, when i cumdump i will do creampie, i confess my
negativity status of recent test to partners and get their consent for barebacking, aside i take prep and get tested in 72 hrs of bareback experience. Im particular about creampie be it male of female. I make my bottoms swallowing my ***, as of now no traces of std;s due to *** swallowing. I ensure that my partner has no bruises, cuts or any open wounds during tryst, bleeding while *** has been history in my cases, my meat being relatively densier, most of my bots bleed, be it *** or *** happens, i advice them not to worry and get it tested for their own happiness. Consent matters and playing safe matters most. Regulary keep testing urself.

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Adi96
Posted On Feb 7, 2026

what are the names of medicine prep and pep?

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Manshish
Posted On Feb 7, 2026

This thread should be the most active one... I got STD thrice, learnt it the hard way, luckily it wasn't HIV.

1. Ghonorra - I dint even know, i was in a relationship.. my bf wasn't loyal. The moment I told him, he got a tab for me and I was fine in no time. Never bothered to understand what exactly had happened to me. He never mentioned anything, just said some mild infection but now I can relate the symptoms.

2. Syphilis - Got it when i got massaged in JP nagar. It was the best *** I ever had from two guys, no anals, unfortunately got infected, went through hell!! During Covid the tabs helped to recover, by the time I had gone to the doc, i had recovered, so penicillin was not needed.

3. Herpes 1 - while i had given up dating guys, was tempted to go for a massage. I would not involve myself in more than hj.. while returning the place, I really had good chat with the receptionist. He was hot... Dammn hot. I said, ddon't u massage ? He said, he does. I said, come next time. I went again after a month only coz of that guy.
He liked me a lot, it was such a.hot session, i couldn't stop him from ***. He *** me for an hour and got infected.

I know the partner very well from whom I got it coz I don't f** around much... Once in 4-5 months I might meet some one and nothing more than mutual hj, never into *** /***.


It's not that I dint try asking partner to use a condom while ***, people straight away say no

Self satisfying is the best option, tried to look for a partner but that too can trust.

Unfortunately herpes last life long and in my case it's Herpes 1, so it's done and dusted. Consulted docs who said, i can live a normal life and i shouldn't have the symptoms again ...been 3 years, don't have any symptoms but report shows postive but good sign is i won't pass on to anyone.

Just got a msg from a doc I know, his friend is tested positive for hiv.. pls take care guys

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mohan14
Posted On Mar 24, 2026

Doxycycline within 72hrs can protect us from few stds. Pep before 72hrs will prevents hiv attack if condom not used. Stds create a cyclone in our lives. They make us stigmatized. People treat us like a Road side hijras if our std status is opened. Our educational system completely failed to make us more experts in handling human infectious diseases. They just have a hiv chapter in 10th class biology & after that no one reminds us of any stds in colleges, universities & workplaces. This makes us to go promiscous using a smartphone. Result is gay men Suffering with Stds majorly hiv.

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mohan14
Posted On Mar 24, 2026

Hiv is a viral std easily & fastly transmitted through *** ***. Currently Hiv is not a death sentence there are ART medicines to suppress it & love a long life. But the stigma & guilt is very very hurting. Every day taking a pill to suppress the virus is not a joke. No one sends their child into our hands due to stigma. Hiv damages our body like a hungry insect inside. It eats away all our mass & drinks all our energy. Respiratory infections will be out of control.

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Gaboy1
Posted On Mar 25, 2026

This comment has been deleted. This thread if meant for discussion on the topic, not for posting entire wikipedia copy pasted content which can be found everywhere on the internet. Please stick to the topic and post information pertaining to it without just copy pasting content from the internet.

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Gaboy1
Posted On Mar 25, 2026

This comment has been deleted. This thread if meant for discussion on the topic, not for posting entire wikipedia copy pasted content which can be found everywhere on the internet. Please stick to the topic and post information pertaining to it without just copy pasting content from the internet.

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fatlonghotdog
Posted On May 28, 2026

@adi96 PrEP (Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis) and PEP (Post-Exposure Prophylaxis) are vital medications for preventing HIV. PrEP is taken continuously before potential exposure to reduce the risk of contracting HIV, while PEP is an emergency, short-term treatment started after a potential exposure. Google for more info.

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Sarthak_2003
Posted On May 30, 2026

Is there anyone affected of Balantis with one open sores that reccur on the same spot ? Do anyone know about this and tell me

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Peter009
Posted On May 31, 2026

If the bottom is taking PrEP who is active in *** and the top is kinda virgin, not taking any preventive measures and also not wearing condom while ***. Are there any chances which TOP to get infected for HIV. But the bottom is having PrEP is that safe for both partners? Please help

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Addie66
Posted On Jul 6, 2026

Heyy so in my case the person with whom I was relationship with had hiv and he didn't knew we had *** and then after two months he got to know he got it i also did testing at same time and yaa I get it but I never blamed it after that things won't work good between us and we broke up several people approach me for relationship even I like them but I stop myself as I dont wanna take risk i want a guy who is positive so to be my partner i always crave for love and want the best person in my life I hope there is someone who thinks like me i wanna be in someone's life so that I can fill someone's life with love and get the same from him

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manlybtm77
Posted On Jul 6, 2026

@Peter009 Don't trust others words. The bot could have missed doses, you will never know. In your case, the chances of the bot getting infected by others and spreading it to you are low but Use protection to be extra safe.

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Jaydes
Posted On Jul 6, 2026

Any idea when the injection therapy (instead of Prep) of taking 2 shots in a year, will be available in india. And its cost?

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krish_692
Posted On Jul 20, 2026

*** to *** rubbing with precum have risk of hiv??

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ilovemature
Posted On Jul 20, 2026

No.

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Pixel
Posted On Jul 21, 2026

@Peter009, A bottom is more vulnerable of contracting HIV than the top; since the bottom is on PrEP, the risk of you contracting HIV is very, very low.
But the question you should rather ask yourself is, is the bottom telling you the truth? The next questions are, Was the *** rough? Was there any bleeding?
If there was no rough *** and no bleeding, than don't worry too much but do get tested for your peace of mind.

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Pixel
Posted On Jul 21, 2026

@Peter009,
I forgot to mention above that HIV is not highly contagious or easily tansmitted Virus. There has to be direct transmission of freash bodily fluid like blood or semen
into your body through a direct fresh tear or cut or fresh wound. According to CDC, the risk of you contracting HIV is 0.11% per act. Below are the CDC findings.

Transmission Risk Per Act:
According to data compiled by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), the estimated risk of contracting HIV varies significantly depending on the specific activity:
Blood Transfusion: 92.5% risk per exposure (now extremely rare due to rigorous blood screening).
Receptive *** ***: 1.38% risk per act (the highest-risk sexual activity due to the thin, easily damaged lining of the rectum).
Sharing Injection Needles: 0.63% risk per use.
Insertive *** ***: 0.11% risk per act.
Receptive Vaginal ***: 0.08% risk per act.
Insertive Vaginal ***: 0.04% risk per act.
Oral ***: Near 0% risk (extremely rare)

Hope this information might be useful not only to Peter009 but everybody on this thread who would like to know about HIV transmission.

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Rahulxv
Posted On Jul 22, 2026

Not sure how risky oral *** is..so i stopped getting *** .. it's been 6 years i haven't got *** ..but *** few girls with condom

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Pixel
Posted On Jul 22, 2026

@Sugan123vestop, I don't understand you. Doctors are suppose to be impartial and not suppose to judge their patient as per their ethical & professional code of conduct.
But sometimes a doctor may ask you some question which might be too personal or which you might feel too uncomfortable that doesn't mean he's judging you or being an ***.
If a doctor asks you, are you gay? That's not a personal question in this situation because the doctor wants to know your sexual habbit or who he is treating. If you ask your doctor about PrEP?
He might ask you, are you gay? Because often gays are on PrEP regimen, not heterosexuals. However, PrEP & PEP are two acronym or abreviation often used within the context of HIV infection
and these abreviation stands for Pre-exposure Prophylaxis (PrEP) and Post exposure prophylaxis (PEP).

PrEP is a powerful preventive tool, it prevents HIV infection. Gays who are not infected with HIV and want to protect themselves from HIV infection because they are promiscuous and
want to have un-protected *** to get more stimulation or enjoyment, opt to be on PrEP for safety & prevention. Usually, doctor will prescribe Truvada or Discovey with a speicific regimen
or twice a year Yeztugo/Lanacapavir injections.

PEP means you are already exposed to HIV. A 28 days course of antiretroviral medication are given to prevent HIV infection after a potential high-risk exposure within 72 hours.
For instance, you had unprotected *** with a person who has full blown AIDS/HIV and the blood test result indicate positive, you will be given anti retroviral drugs Tenofovir/Emtricitabine
or Raltegravir or Dolutegravir so that you don't develop AIDS. Please note: Exposed to HIV doesn't mean you are infected, it means, the HIV is present in your blood but did not invade your cell
and started multiplying; before the HIV virus could invade & multiply, a PEP regimen is prescribed to prevent further infection and develop AIDS in future.

Hope, I made it clear for you.


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GhyBotm
Posted On Jul 23, 2026

I am aware that the sure way to know whether one has HIV or not is to get tested and not just conclude on symptoms alone. But what would some of the symptoms that one can get if infected With HIV. Like this ans this strongly suggest one must be positive.
Last year august(2025) i had a viral fever which lasted more than a week roughly 10 days. I had sore throat but with very little to almost 0 phlegm. No runny nose. So i got checked by a doctor and he gave some medicine. The very next day night i started getting red rashes all over my body and then the doctor told me it could be allerrgic reaction so they gave me an anti allergic injection for the rash. After which it subsided but not completely gone so i took another injection and slowly it went away. And in this process my weight dropped from 79 kg to 72 kg as i food was bitter and i lost my appetite. I am alsona heart patient on blood thinners.
Now again in November (2025) i got piles/hemmroids and lost lots of blood due to me being on blood thinners. My haemoglobin count went from 11-5 overnight like under 18 hrs. So i was getting light headed and feeling extreme exhaustion and kind of fainted. So i was rushed to hospital and i heard doctors saying i was in shock. Under their care i stopped blood thinners for few days and my piles/hemmroids got cured. But due to blood loss i had to be given 2 bottles of component blood. It was at this time that my doctor told me they found traces of retro virus, his exact wordings “We found traces of retro virus”. He asked if i have engaged in sexual activity or use injections. During this i lost another 2.5kg
But because of fear i never got tested to be sure. But i am planning to get tested next month.
I asked chat gpt and it told me there are chances of this being a false positive as sometimes when a person is critically ill or body going into shock state the test might come out false positive. I pray that i am not positive. I have started gaining weight since then and i am almost 72kg now. Since my last fever i have had no illness. Any input guys?

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deepsharma_
Posted On Jul 23, 2026

you should get tested at this point, go to government hospitals, the counselors in hiv clinic of government hospitals are LGBT friendly.

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handsome_r
Posted On Jul 24, 2026

I rarely get chance of meeting anyone as I am just into kissing, romance and *** with condom. Tops prefer without condom, I too sometimes have strong urge to taste a *** but I restrain myself. The reason is there are many other STD/STI which can take place in unprotected orals.
What do you guys think?

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kuttiya_banaoCD
Posted On Jul 30, 2026

@GhyBotm: I know how it feels to be scared and not go for testing but trust me it's way better than being sorry later when your health/body/organs have damaged as a result of prolonged infection. Let's not assume the worse or get ahead of ourselves but to be sure get tested.
I can help you find a safe centre to get tested without judgment in your city if need be

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mohan14
Posted On Aug 3, 2026

@ghybotm are you mad. First go & check for hiv test. Hiv have no symptoms until it destroys immune cells in a person

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MexTraveler
Posted On Aug 3, 2026

@mohan14: that is incorrect. As a disease professional, when one first contracts HIV, it is true that not all have signs and symptoms, however, many persons do. Symptoms of HIV can include night sweats, unexpected weight loss, flu-like symptoms, amongst others. It is important that, depending on your risk, you test for HIV at least once yearly.

If you do have HIV and it isn’t being treated, it can advance to the AIDS stage, where it can now cause opportunistic infections, possibly affecting your nervous system, amongst other body systems.

If you do test negative, please consider taking PrEP. PrEP is a medication that HIV-negative folks take once a day to prevent HIV—only HIV. Being on PrEP, at least here in the U.S., requires lab work every 3 months. While it may be an inconvenience to many, it is still better than having that worry in the back of your mind. PrEP is excellent for anyone to take, but even better for those who enjoy condomless ***.


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Kanmani *
Posted On Aug 3, 2026

But for taking PrEP where should we get in India ? Will it available in pharmacies or in hospitals only. And how to ask in hospitals that I want to take PrEP ? Could anyone guide me on this ?

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MexTraveler
Posted On Aug 3, 2026

@kanmani: go here to locate a PrEP provider near you: https://safeaccess.co.in/prep-pep-india-locator/

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aman21
Posted On Aug 3, 2026

What is difference between PreP and PEP?

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MexTraveler
Posted On Aug 3, 2026

@aman21: the difference between them is this:

- PEP (Post-Exposure Prophylaxis) is usually a combination of 2 medications that you take once daily, usually for 28 days, AFTER you believe you have been exposed to HIV. It is important to remember that HIV PEP should be initiated NO GREATER than 72 hours AFTER the potential exposure. It is ideal if you could start PEP within 24 hours after exposure, but can go only up to 72 hours.

-PrEP (Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis) is a pill that HIV negative folks take once a day to PREVENT HIV, BEFORE having unprotected ***. PrEP is great for those who prefer condomless *** or for those of us with multiple *** partners, or those who inject drugs intravenously. It is also great for those of us who enjoy having one too many glasses enough to inhibit our decision-making enough to have risky behaviors. For patients taking PrEP, at least in the U.S., this requires a commitment to test for HIV and STIs every 3 months.

Remember that the successes of these medications are dependent on strict adherence to taking the medications.

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Sbot4400ss
Posted On Aug 4, 2026

Is there any side effects of prep

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MexTraveler
Posted On Aug 4, 2026

@Sbot4400ss:

Some folks may experience symptoms such as upset stomach and/or headache for the first week or 2 after starting PrEP. For me, I never experienced any side effects, and my advice for people who present side effects, remember that it is temporary and the initial discomfort is worth the benefit.

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handsome_r
Posted On Aug 4, 2026

@MexTraveler .... Thank you for sharing knowledge... Any things need to take care in orals(both as top & bottom), french kissing and romance?

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MexTraveler
Posted On Aug 4, 2026

@handsome_r: my pleasure! Regarding oral, all I can say is this: the risk of contracting HIV via oral *** is very low but not zero. You can still catch syphilis, gonorrhea, chlamydia, and herpes via oral ***. I know that plenty of men here mess around with men discreetly, but it is important that you are honest with doctors so that they know what tests to perform.

If you *** *** or get ***, make sure that you are tested for chlamydia and gonorrhea in the throat and/or the rectum (through swabs): if you have these STIs in either of those 2 sites, the urine chlamydia and gonorrhea tests may still come back negative.

More importantly, you know your own body better than anyone else—seek care if you feel something is abnormal.

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MexTraveler
Posted On Aug 4, 2026

Let’s talk signs and symptoms of HIV and STIs.

- HIV: fever, night sweats, diarrhea, flu-like symptoms, unexplained weight loss, and oral thrush (a white coating of the tongue).

- Chlamydia: clear/white discharge from the *** and/or rectum, painful urination, and sore throat (if you give oral ***).

- Gonorrhea: yellow or green penile or rectal discharge; rectal pain; sore throat; excessive oral mucous; painful urination.

- Syphilis: known as the silent killer (due to lack of symptoms in many) can cause a wide array of issues.
-Primary syphilis: symptoms present as a PAINLESS lesion at any site that you use to have *** (***, anus, ***, ***).
-Secondary syphilis: symptoms may present as a rash or rashes, usually in the palms of the hands and soles of the feet, but can appear anywhere on the body (looks almost like chicken pox); loss of hair (alopecia) may also be present.
-Tertiary syphilis: more severe symptoms may begin to appear: vision loss, constant headaches, changes in behavior (including delirium and senility), and hearing loss. Included in this is neurosyphilis, otosyphilis, and ocular syphilis.

* Congenital syphilis: syphilis can be transmitted from pregnant women to their unborn children, causing babies to be born dead or deformed if mother is not treated at least 30 days before delivery.

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Bengalur_uncle
Posted On Aug 5, 2026

@MexTraveler thanks for sharing about STI

Very informative post

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Photographer51 *
Posted On Aug 5, 2026

@Ravi169, before seeking money from strangers, I suggest you to go to some GOVT hospital and get urself examined.
Most of STIs are curable if detected at early stage. So treatment is needed, not money.

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Samusagy
Posted On Aug 18, 2026

@MexTraveler, All has such kind of risks then how to do? Oral, or *** *** do u mean we need to do oral as well with condoms? If years then there is no point to *** plastic can understand for *** to have condoms. What cares should have to taken?

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ilovemature
Posted On Aug 19, 2026

Take prep and then do whatever u want

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