Safe ***/HIV positive discussion

Like to share any safe *** tips ?

wanna discuss about your recent unsafe encounter??

Any thing related to HIV /STDs

Are you positive already wanna share any good or bad experience .. Stigmas people have.?

Can you have *** with a poz person?

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No Picture tanuj69	Posted On Sep 20, 2022 I always carry a small bottle of water when i go outdoor cruising, and am particular that if it i find someone good enough to *** i wash His *** there would be smegma, so people don't blindly *** anyone in public for ur safety
No Picture mohan14	Posted On Jan 10, 2023 Washing smegma won't wash out any viruses & bacteria dude. HPV is the most dangerous std currently after HIV , which Is spreading due to skin to skin contact. HPV is causing tsunami in female partners of gay men, & the children whom are kissed by these gay men are also getting this virus & suffering in hospitals with throat infections & fever.
No Picture Topsalil	Posted On Sep 1, 2023 Please share HIV transmission risk in oral *** for top partner (the one who gets his *** ***)
No Picture Nishantkumar	Posted On Sep 1, 2023 Want to know about syphilis. Experts please go ahed
No Picture ram2001	Posted On Sep 2, 2023 Syphlis is easily tranamitted in skin to skin contact. Vdrl test needed to detect it. If untreated it has impact on brain.syphlis infection asymptomatic in most case's either dermentologist will detect or regular std panel test or vdrl help
No Picture Nani_Reddy	Posted On Sep 2, 2023 @Nishanth one/2 doses of penciln injection with 10rs cost each will cure
No Picture SundarDeshmukha	Posted On Sep 2, 2023 You can book online tests for STI. Don’t delay, if anytime you feel you should get tested , get it done then. Later stages of STI are difficult to treat and possibly you spreaded these to your family & others.
No Picture Rajcute	Posted On Sep 2, 2023 Syphilis is spreading very very rampant and is very common. Also happpens due to orals.. hence always use condoms even for orals. Further pls take all vaccines of HPV, Hepatitis B. These are commonly available with most doctors. There is a very good doctor clinic in south mumbai who specialises in these with all confidentiality maintained. You can visit there.
No Picture ram2001	Posted On Sep 2, 2023 @rajcute as per my knowledge till date no vaccine for syphilis only doxycycline course or benzamine injection help but that too risky
No Picture HungDevil69	Posted On Sep 2, 2023 What to watch out for on serious note: HIV, HPV, HSV While PReP and PeP are available for HIV, and maybe in few years we will have first vaccine, but HPV and HSV still go untreated, The virus stays for life with you STIs are not something afraid of or make a stigma around it, They're treatable, although if untreated, they turn fatal Syphillis is very common these days, I have hearing so many cases of it, ohmojo don't like me prescribing drugs thus here I will only say, get a VDRL test done, if titers above 1:8, get a TPHA test done and see your physician, they will jab you with penicilin (in case you're not allergic) or they will go the other way, will put you on doxy orally for 30 days Watch out for HPV and HSV!!! and do not discriminate against positive people, atleast queers shouldn't show such kind of stigma, when HIV was actually a **gay disease** Gays just have too much random hookups, you have accepted it, so accept the risk which comes along with it, don't stigmatize it
No Picture ram2001	Posted On Sep 2, 2023 @hung even prep is not 100% safe as discussed with doctors they inform 30days full doze needed without miss with lever failure chances. For HPV and herpies now vaccine available. But for gonorrgea cladimia and syphlis no vaccine successful research going on.
No Picture Pandyanirav	Posted On Sep 3, 2023 You can use flavour condom which can stop to spread HPV and always make sure use condom for safty and for HPV if you hve warts you can easily become normal after your immune system become strong but please use condom for oral also
No Picture Rajcute	Posted On Sep 3, 2023 Yea no vaccine for a syphilis.. vaccine is for Heptatis B and HPV. everyone pls take these vaccines. For syphilis the treatment is simple if detected. 3 shots of penicillin. If the treatment is taken all gets well. However if not treatment then syphilis turns bad. Orals with condom only please.
No Picture Rajcute	Posted On Sep 4, 2023 I have *** with condom always. Flavoured ones Infact make it fun. Dotted and ribbed also adds the fun .. u can *** safely without any tension so can *** nicely deeep hence the top also enjoys fully.
No Picture Jigar_love90	Posted On Sep 4, 2023 What are the risk in just kissing? What If I only do long deep liplock with tongues in action to a complete stranger? Please guide.
No Picture BiCurious27 *	Posted On Sep 4, 2023 Is *** *** without condom not safe? I have *** few *** like this before. I don't take the *** in my ***. Which STI is caused due to this? Please explain. I am worried
No Picture Rajcute	Posted On Sep 4, 2023 *** without condom is not safe. Syphillis Herpes etc STI spread due to this very easily. These are very problamatic Sti. Pls always use condom for *** also.
No Picture Param0405	Posted On Sep 4, 2023 I've *** without condom and swallowed *** also... Taken it inside my *** hole as well... It's just make sure your partner is tested for HIV and is negative.. that's what I do.. first get tested myself and partner also then do it without tension..!!
No Picture Nishantkumar	Posted On Sep 4, 2023 I know it's hard to control ourselves when we are damn ***. If you're lucky enough you won't get any infection. But you must GO for STI package test. If you found yourself syphilis or herpes positive your perception will change for ever.
nnawabiia	Posted On Sep 4, 2023 Does anyone has a comprehensive details list of all the test to be done for STI/ STD or HIV??
No Picture Rajcute	Posted On Sep 5, 2023 Param most of us go with strangers as well. How will we know whether the person is free from any infections. They may just say anything. Hence always better to be with condoms for orals also. Nawabiia : the general stis to be tested are syphillis hepB gonorrhea herpes Clydamia hiv and hpv .. when u select a package most of these would be covered in that
No Picture Larry_34	Posted On Sep 5, 2023 @Rajcute - do these STIS tests need a Dr prescription ? Or can we walk in into a pathology lab as self advised?
No Picture ram2001	Posted On Sep 5, 2023 For sta panel test no dr prescription needed . I done in dr lal metropolis and dr safe hands all std tests including hiv without prescription. In hamsafar trust office all std test and prep medicines available free for gays bi.
No Picture Jigar_love90	Posted On Sep 5, 2023 @rajcute... Guidance on kissing with strangers is required. Are they safe from transmission?
No Picture ram2001	Posted On Sep 5, 2023 Kissing or deep kissing is risky if any one have *** ulcer or infection in *** it passes hiv. Even without ulcer any infection chances rare .
No Picture Seshugaduu1	Posted On Nov 26, 2023 Plz dont skip.. So which combination of medicine is more effective in PEP (post-exposure prophylaxis) ? In NACO website it is mentioned as [ Tenofovir (300 mg) + Lamivudine (300 mg) + Dolutegravir (50 mg) (FDC: One tablet OD) ] However, Consulted Doctor prescribed as 2 meds and asked me to use anyone of them? 1) Viraday Tablet [ Emtricitabine (200mg) + Tenofovir disoproxil fumarate (300mg) + Efavirenz (600mg) ] manufactured by Cipla 2) Spegra Tablet [ Dolutegravir (50mg) + Emtricitabine (200mg) + Tenofovir Alafenamide (25mg) ] manufactured by Emcure Pharmaceuticals Ltd If there is any health professional who knows this subject can plz guide on this? I'm confused and don't want to go blindly.. Also is there any PEP combination of medicine in low cost also? as these are costing around 4K nearly.. Its been two hours since I have met one of the partner but during the action safety was torn and I dont want to take any risk and wanted to be in PEP medication for 28 days as doctor prescribed. Thank You in Advance!!
No Picture jaidesai69	Posted On Nov 26, 2023 emitricitabine and tenofovir are the 2 main ingredients of prep medication. these are the same for TRUVADA (manufactured overseas).
No Picture jaidesai69	Posted On Nov 26, 2023 please note : emtricitabine and tenofovir are common, dolutegravir has less reactions than efavirenz, better for people with immuno compromised conditions.
No Picture jaidesai69	Posted On Nov 26, 2023 PLEASE NOTE: THOUGH DOLUTEGRAVIR IS BETTER THAN EFAVIRENZ, I DO NOT ENDORSE EMCURE PHARMACEUTICALS. emcure belongs to one family and has been severly warned by FDA on its REPEATED lack of safe/hygienic manufacturing processes during inspections. THE GOVT OF INDIA MUST BE VERY STRICT WITH PHARMACEUTICALS WHO DO NOT ADHERE TO SAFE/HYGIENIC PRACTISES, AS MANY HAVE DIED.
No Picture Lover098	Posted On Nov 27, 2023 @Ajju12131 Dont have *** with full stomach. Eat light foods like soup snacks or drinks. Always remember to eat food 1hour before *** so you dont feel hungry or full while having ***. Roleplay is the key bro. Lots of roleplay with partner and be relax. Never penetrate in sami hard. Always *** when you are fully erected. If you feel you are above to come just stop and take deep breaths. After couple of mins continue punding, jo slow and dont be ashame of premature ejaculation. If you *** then rest for half and hour and get back to love making. Maintain hygiene of your Pènìs especially with uncut c⁰ck. Wash with warm water throughly and clean your foreskin by pulling back and forth. Hardness and timing is important for the love making. Never take allopathic medicines for ED PE etc. As its damage kidneys in long run.
No Picture Ajju12131	Posted On Nov 27, 2023 I clean everyday 2times bcz I take bath morning & night I don't have pre mature ejaculation problem if I'm doing alone while watching *** & jerking but if any other jerk me I *** out in 5min.
No Picture Lover098	Posted On Nov 27, 2023 @Ajju12131 try to have control over mind and body. If you feel you going to *** then stop yourself and give a moment to your mind and body to stop ejaculation.
No Picture mohan14	Posted On Feb 19, 2025 All gay men please take vaccinations for hpv & hepatitis. Doxy prep & hiv prep can protect you a lot & if condom also used you are almost safe from all stds. Hiv is a gay disease it's for sure. Hiv positive will look like normal person & they carry the virus without any symptoms. If you have a female spouse & if you already had *** with her after having casual gay encounters outside then please tell her to take the AF kit medicine so that vaginal infections get cured & you too should take it to make sure bacterial, fungal & parasitic stds are cured first. Later you go & check for viral stds like hiv, hepatitis, hsv
No Picture mohan14	Posted On Feb 19, 2025 If you are married to a girl & having casual gay *** through apps & cruising spots, you are risking an innocent girl & her kids into stds. females suffer a lot with stds than what we think. They already have pcod problems & fertility issues to deal with & this stds becomes over burden to live. Females will have no symptoms at all while developing these stds, they silently undergo into a serious condition called PID which involves surgery to remove their reproductive systems & there after life becomes he'll to them. They have to work hard to take care of children, husband & parents. so gay men plz make sure yur wifes are stds free & you use a codom ever time.
No Picture mohan14	Posted On Feb 19, 2025 If any gay men discovered that they are hiv positive then stop having *** with your wife & both of you rush to the ictc centre near your residence. The counsellor there will help you & your wife phsycologically & prepares yu to accept that hiv entered into your lives & you need to take the ART medicine life long. Most of the times female spouses will be hiv negative though they live with a positive husband for years bcoz hiv is a gay disease & it attacks selectively on promiscous people. In that case the couple will stay discordant & wife must help the husband to protect his life using ART. We know that indian women won't leave the husband if they came to know that husband is a patient & he need her help to survive. But they cant digest the thing that her husband is a gay. So never let her know the gay thing & tell her he had an encounter with other women. Also few NGO's like safe zindagi is providing an oral test kit to test hiv. If you & yur wife hesitate to go ictc centre, book an oral test kit by call that NGO & do at home. If you already have kids dont panic to test them for hiv.
No Picture Jigs_love	Posted On Mar 24, 2025 Just *** with condom and not touching any body part can cause any STDs? If yes what are the chances? For example if some bottom sucks a *** with latex condom in open place where just *** is possible and that too with clothes on then are there any chances of any STD or STI?
No Picture ObsidianSpear	Posted On Mar 30, 2025 @Jigs_love STDs and UTIs majorly happen when you engage in physical act with an infected person. Make sure that the person you are meeting is hygienic and clean. If they aren't, even if they are not infected with std virus they still might infect you. While *** the *** of a guy with condom or if having *** ***, if you don't come in contact with semen, spit, saliva, precum, blood or excreta of the person, you are safe. If person is safe ie not infected, even coming in contact would not infect you. However some viruses such as HPV and Herpes can spread via skin to skin contact so sometimes, you gotta be safe in that case also
No Picture mohan14	Posted On Mar 30, 2025 *** with a condom is safe & no stds contract until a bottom touches his genital & oral areas. Deep French kissing will transmit few stds like hsv, hpv, gonnoreah if they have active infection in ***
No Picture Asimas	Posted On Apr 1, 2025 *** with condom means on enjoy for bottom he only feel like rubber in *** for me the smell & taste make me want *** more & final satisfaction is hot *** in *** & ***. Top can get enjoy when he *** but for bottom it feels like doing with rubber toy
No Picture Devbottom	Posted On Apr 2, 2025 @Asimas I agree with you.
No Picture Guy27bi	Posted On Apr 11, 2025 I think someone's health is more important than having fun or caring about someone *** a rubber toy feeling , because the top insists condoms even during oral fun. If you meet someone who has been affected by STD, you will understand the problem. They have to take pills everyday until they die for few STD. There are lot's of STD's which spread just by kissing. I think everyone should follow @vinisissy advice on No proof , no Play. Meet as few members as possible, always use protection and even during ***. Many people have been questioning me about being a SIDE while being a Bdsm master but not it was a decision taken with lots of thinking and choice. I believe it has reduced the risk by at least 10% , which is worth it. That's the reason i meet very few people in a year. Just being a SIDE and avoiding *** doesn't guarantee safety. There are other STD's which spread with just kissing with someone who has been affected. I make all my slaves tested, make them send their reports even before meeting. Please avoid raw fun, meeting multiple people and get tested. If you are married, you will be putting your wife's health at risk along with your partners.
No Picture Smallpacket	Posted On Apr 17, 2025 Recieving blowjob without condom is risky ? Many people do cruising in loo or dark areas where they can't see other persons genital area has patches or any other lession which is related to std. I know bottoms are at riskier side when they get *** in their ***. But I really want to know how it is risky for tops ?
No Picture Asimas	Posted On Apr 19, 2025 Why do you want young bottoms to get fearful. A bottom will never feel happy with anyone except top he needs stong man for him he needs love like female get
No Picture mohan14	Posted On Apr 19, 2025 Yeah bottom need a strong muscular top to rim his hole. But tops are not like that, they want to *** lot of bottoms and girls with full power strokes and they enjoy by checking out their horsepower always
No Picture Pixie	Posted On May 10, 2025 If you are so paranoid of contracting STDs than living a life of celibacy would be the best way to be safe but life of celibacy is for religious people than you might as well become a sanyasi or a priest or a monk. However, how long can you live a life of complete sexual abstinence? I don't understand the fear of STDs in this advance age of medical science because there's cure for almost all kinds of STDs; even there's almost a cure for HIV, HIV is not fatal anymore as it was before. BTW, it's very difficult to contract or transmit HIV from Kissing or from Oral *** such as fellatio (*** ***), cunninlingus (eating ***) or analingus (eating anus). Because HIV virus is very weak and fragile it cannot survive outside human body. FYI, even saliva can kill HIV. HIV can be transmitted only by direct contact of bodily fluid such as blood & semen in to a bodily opening such as fresh wounds or cuts. For instance, if you have fresh cuts in your gums because you have some dental work done or you have gum disease than you should avoid oral ***. Similarly, avoid rough *** *** because there should not be any *** tissue tear. All bacterial STDs can be transmitted or contracted through kissing, oral *** or *** *** but can easily be treated with so many antibiotics and antibiotic drugs are so cheap in India. FYI, India is number 1 in the world for manufacturing and exporting cheap generic drugs. The other thing I find it very convinient in India is, you don't need doctors prescription to buy any prescription drugs. I have personally bought prescription drugs such as doxycycline, Azithromycin and pencilin G from Pharmacy in India without prescription. Even the doctor's fees is not that expensive in India. So, don't waste your pleasurable life because of fear mongering viewers on this thread. Here's the irony, the chances of you dying of pollution is more in India than by STDs. Be Gay & Be Happy.
No Picture hotlund	Posted On May 11, 2025 @Pixie I don't think it's a good idea to contract any disease knowingly thinking that doctor's fee is less or medicine is available to treat it in low cost. When it comes to health, cost is not the thing most people would be concerned about. The main thing is whether the disease is curable or not. For example, herpes. There are antibiotics to control symptoms, but there is no medicine to cure it. Same for Hepatitis, HPV, etc.
No Picture Pixie	Posted On May 11, 2025 @hotlund, I don't know if you understood my post or you are twisting my words. I never said to contract STDs intentionally, my point is not to be paranoid of STDs for you will not enjoy ***. One cannot be too cautious especially gays because gays are very promiscuous in nature; so even if you contract STDs, most of them are curable or controlable. Knowledge is power and this case knowledge can also lead to pleasurable ***. For instance, you write and I quote, "For example, herpes. There are antibiotics to control symptoms, but there is no medicine to cure it. Same for Hepatitis, HPV, etc." Do you know how wrong you are? Do you know many false claims you made in your sentence? 1. Herpis and Hepatitis are not bacteria they are virus. 2. If they are virus, antibiotics have no effect on herpis whatsoever. it cannot be treated or controlled by antibiotics because anibiotics are for bacterial infection. 3. Even though Herpis cannot be cured but it's not fatal. Herpis lesion appear on your genitals or herpis sores on your lips but these lesion & soars come and go but these symptoms can be controlled by antiviral medication. Most commonly herpis stays dormat in your body for a long time or even forever. 4. Don't know what Hepatitis you are talking about because there are 5 types of Hepatitis namely: A, B, C, D & E but only Hepatitis B is realted to STDs because it's transmited through blood, semen and vaginal/*** fluids but we have vaccine to prevent Hepatitis B. Eventhough there's no cure for hepatitis B, but there are medicine to inactivate the virus. 5. If medical cost is not an issue than you have NO worries about your health because *** will not kill you. If *** is so dangerous than all these promiscuous gay on this thread would have been dead by now. You should be more worried about the pollutions in India: air pollution, water pollution, food pollution, noise pollution and evironmental pollution. FYI, more people get sick & die of pollution in India than by STDs. More people in India die from Diabetes, heart disease and cancer than by STDs. More people in India die by accidents on the road, on train, on bus or other mode of transporation than by STDs. Be Gay & Be Happy ---- and don't be afraid of ***.
No Picture vasanth009	Posted On May 12, 2025 @Pixie , I assume you are looking everything from your country prospective ! You could easily approach your doctors in your country without any hesitations, however, in India it is not that easy! Even for small, basics and known health issues, there are some doctors or hospitals give wrong treatment or wrong approaches, then think about issues like STD and HIV !!! You will be like an untouchable or source for minting money or blackmails. We will be not sure if the consulted doctors provide right or justified treatment and moral supports because *** and Related issues are still a TABOO in India! Related drugs, Pills etc. manufactured here, but usage of such things here in India is still unknown to all, they sell it to different countries and common people are still unaware of it! Even if you would have met doctors in India they might have approached or treated you differently since you are a foreigner, however, it is not for the same for us! Even if we have medicines or treatments etc but suffering with STD or diseases are not that easy, it is better to avoid unsafe *** and enjoy everything in safe *** or be a MONOGAMY! India is still a conservative in many things not like your country dear!
No Picture Harsh932	Posted On May 14, 2025 HIV+ & Undetectable (TND)? Let’s Create a Safe Space to Connect Hey everyone, I’m HIV positive but TND (target not detected) which means undetectable = untransmittable (U=U). I know how hard it can be to be upfront about our status, especially when all we want is to be honest and still be treated like everyone else. Many of us try to be open, but the fear of rejection or judgment makes it difficult. I thought — what if we created a thread or even a group where people living with HIV (especially those who are undetectable) could come together? A space where we can: Meet others for dating, friendship, or even physical intimacy without stigma. Support each other emotionally. Connect with people who understand or are comfortable dating HIV+ undetectable individuals. Whether you’re positive and TND, or someone who’s educated about U=U and open to dating someone who is..this thread is for you.
No Picture Pixie	Posted On May 15, 2025 @mohan14, Human papilloma virus is Rampant in India; many of my dates in Inida had small genital warts and they were not even aware of it. I politely refused to have sexual contact with them and I told them that they should get treated. This is the very reason I don't have *** in the dark. I want to see my date nude completely in the light and I also check their genital area. There are many strains of HPV; some strain cause genital warts and some cause cervical cancer. There are so many creams & solution to remove genital warts, the faster treatment option are freezing with liquid nitrogen or surgical removal but the most serious types causes cervical cancer. Cervical cancer is curable if caught early. Generally HPV is not fatal and can be prevented; vaccination for HPV are available and also available in India.
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