Let's face it, Online Dating Sucks!
Most guys with age <26 are just there to show off their physical features. Muscular bodies are just to attract men but actually they aren't interested to even meet up. It's just pure show off there. Trust me people don't even read your profile before they ping you and for some reason they just keep tapping you with no guts to say a hi. It just sucks!! |
Fantasy with your favorite celebrity
is it true about bengali actor Jeet? somebody said he fucks at Oberoi grand in Kolkata? any updates? |
Let's face it, Online Dating Sucks!
I'v met my tops on PR. I generally meet guys who have been in touch for long -this way I kinda rule out people desperate for a hole. I've met three guys till date - still in touch with two of them. My best f**k was also with the top I met on PR. I've not had good experiences with GR. Did shortlist a guy here - but couldn't meet him due to some issues at my end.
Are there any better suggestions? |
Let's face it, Online Dating Sucks!
as number of users going up on all such apps, its not surprise that there are decent number of fake profiles too got increased...
there are many factor... some are into just chatting, some shows off, some fakes around, some looking for fun, some looking for more... so everyone's need is different..
though online dating sucks sometime, the fact is that most of the meet ups happening because of these online apps.. so, though it helps, it also irritates sometimes depending on the person whom we end up chatting... in any ways, its better to know the other person properly before proceeding on anything to be in safer side.. ignore if some irritating messages from some.. |
Let's face it, Online Dating Sucks!
@naiduhot, totally nailed it bro. Most of the guys who are in PR are just there for time pass and not really someone who you'd meet you. They are desparate straight ones who need to jerk off and they hunt gays. I really found and met a few here than elsewhere. Unfortunately owing to distance and covid restrictions we aren't able to met.🤷🏻♂️ |
Daddy issues. Uncover the secrets.
@C4LEB by referring to heterosexual *** as normal I didn't mean to say that gay *** is abnormal, however when I say that it automatically infers that the rest is abnormal. Which is not right and was not my intention, I apologise. However I believe that since most people are not out of the closet yet, we have trouble while phrasing stuff in accordance with LGBTQ+ linguistics |
Let's face it, Online Dating Sucks!
Is it safe to go to meet semeone who u get from PR or ohmojo |
Fantasy with your favorite celebrity
Did u say shaheer shekh... |
Let's face it, Online Dating Sucks!
I'm a bottom. My experience with Grindr was not great. Most of the people posing as Tops are not actually tops. They are not Gays. They are not even Bi-Sexual. They are just sexually frustrated men who have no Girl friend. So, they fulfill their sexual thirst by asking bottoms to *** their ***. |
Let's face it, Online Dating Sucks!
Well, i agree to most of the things discussed here, but i must say that being on the right platform helps. I have been on Gr, PR, but it was here in ohmojo that i found the first two gay encounters of my life. I am a shy person online and do not prefer to put pictures online, but thankfully, those whom i have been with were pretty chilled out in terms of photos. I appreciated that. So, i think ohmojo is a good place and i am still looking for more such people. |
Daddy issues. Uncover the secrets.
No *** is normal; that's the point of *** - it's fantasy. If you mean heterosexual *** is normal, then you infer that all other *** is abnormal, which is just too righteous and judgemental, and a sad thing to say especially here on this site.
Be careful with how you phrase things. |
Let's face it, Online Dating Sucks!
Yes, online dating sucks..... People just chat , promise to meet in the next week.... That next week never comes..... Sometime they make video calls .... *** and leave......
I always find it good to visit cruising spots.... Of course risk factor is there but still I like to take that risk....
I like when it suddenly happens .... |
Fantasy with your favorite celebrity
Which Arjun yaar? |
Let's face it, Online Dating Sucks!
@horizon & ebubu couldn't agree more.. there's a massive sense of apathy on these sites which is a general mood kill in itself...
There are so many fakes & ghosters.. There's really nothing besides chatting.. That's of they can hold a conversation with syntax and sense.
Then again.. we're like moths to a flame.. Can't do with it.. Can't do without it... |
Daddy issues. Uncover the secrets.
Mine started at the age of 16 while watching normal *** i was curious to watch the gay *** and after watching the same I went online and tried to find men, didn't really know what i wanted. after meeting a couple of 25 or something year old guys i was fed up and wanted something more interesting. I then moved to pune for my graduation and started finding mature daddys online. I was 17 during my first year and they would always ask me online if I am okay with people of that age (45+). The first time I set up a meeting with a man he was 62 and I was 17, but I found him super attractive and sexy with his slight belly and moustache. He picked me up on his scooter and we went to his office, I was pretty scared but excited as well. His office was on the top floor of the building and he worked alone. It was evening, we started by hugging and then touching each other and finally kissing and then ***. It was a memorable experience after which I was only into older men and had plenty of such experiences. Hope the pandemic ends so that I can find my daddy :D |
Let's face it, Online Dating Sucks!
@Ebubu , decriminalizing sec 377 has not changed a lot because homosexuality is still considered to be a stigma. SO the social change is going to take some time. Cruising is still dangerous as there are many vultures of them, most of them being the police. The people who are supposed to uphold the law are abusing it to loot innocent people who are just looking for a partner. Online dating is as dangerous if not more because there are organised crimes happening. Especially in the NCR region, there are syndicates of young men whose main occupation is targetting and looting men of all ages through apps like Grindr using sexual baits. So the scene is quite pathetic.
Single gay men are not able to find partners because there is something seriously wrong with the attitudes of gay men. All of them. I am not able to figure it out myself. So online dating has made things worse and is a huge negative for the gay community. Apart from getting a lot of *** and maybe friends and acquaintances, there is nothing positive about these dating applications. |
Let's face it, Online Dating Sucks!
The problem with internet is that people don't deal with profiles as if they are REAL people.
And people can't read. No matter how I put it in my profile, "PLEASE READ MY PROFILE", people will keep saying "Hi" without anything else, like a fisherman trying to catch a fish just for the game of catching one. This whole game has rotten the whole dating and seduction scene.
In India I know there were some risks involved in open cruising in parks, toilets, etc. But how has that evolved with the decriminalization of homosexuality ? Are these places still as risky as before ? What's going on ? I have not been in India since then, and I'd be interested in knowing how this might have changed the whole gay scene. |
Fantasy with your favorite celebrity
I love Arjun man... old actor he is so manly and cute ...I will *** his *** like HElLL |
Let's face it, Online Dating Sucks!
I agree. Some people are pretty judgemental and fake. I have been the same and it took me years to get over that. Found strange things on different sites. Most of the gr guys think they are super hot and I am not their type. Met few of them and could not recognise them!! Guys on pr are mostly available weekdays not sure how. Guys on ohmojo... Well they will show pic on whatsapp and hangout not here!! See another trend these days of friends with benefits... Which I dont like.
Anyway found some sexy fuckbuddies and few friends. Bottom line is you have to look for what you really want even if you have to sleep alone for many days. |
Let's face it, Online Dating Sucks!
I could be wrong. But I cannot seem to figure out how to trust somebody and moreover people keep asking for numbers. I know Blocking is an option but I do not want to block. It is fine whatever opinion they want to hold about me. I am not a saint but guys just do not seem to get over questions like :T or B or V ?:( |
Let's face it, Online Dating Sucks!
Some profiles look appealing (in terms of profile content, not related to *** data). The moment I send them a message, all I see is broken language, a copy-paste quote from some alien article/ planet and last but not the least "seen" tick mark goes unattended for ages, despite the fact that they will be online. I would not say all this is frustrating but it is sort of a let down automatically. |
Let's face it, Online Dating Sucks!
Majority of the users expect a photo. Photo bhejo toh bhi mushkil, nahi bhejo toh bhi mushkil. I never insist for photographs. First day, 100 messages. Next day 2 messages, third day no messages at all. Even if they do, once in a fortnight or annually. The utmost crucial opening statement is " Dude, Photo?" + added with special terms and conditions from their end. :(. This is the same state everywhere. |
Let's face it, Online Dating Sucks!
I have met many guys thru PR and OM. Im not into other gay apps. But i think even today if ur looking for fun, cruising is the best choice. Online i guess 50% people are just to chat and nothing more. So a chance to hookup in a few chats is rare even though location cud be close.
I have stopped replying to hi, how ru, pics, *** size coz its just a waste of time as half the guys are here just for TP |
Let's face it, Online Dating Sucks!
@sinner I think that's the case with most of us. Who aren't really that brave to go cruising to cruising spots that brings with it some more of its own risks.
So like you most of us are holding on to hope & hanging around on platforms like Grindr, PR & OM!
Can only keep our 🤞& hope for the best outcomes! |
Let's face it, Online Dating Sucks!
Yes it very true online chatting sucks. It's same thing over and over again hi, how are you? You likes? Your *** size. End of story. |
Daddy issues. Uncover the secrets.
@Hardy_G my story is something similar to you, but It was my father’s friend who *** me for 2-3 years.
He caught me watching gay *** once and from that very night he initiated, made me *** him, *** me.
From my experience, I really like daddies.
resting on that manly hairy chest after a rough session and that care, him fondling your body, talking sweetly while you get ready for some more action.
And just not that, if you are lucky to have a good daddy then some dates and romance, I really wish to date an older man for a serious thing.
I want to be and stay like a couple with some matured guy. |
Let's face it, Online Dating Sucks!
So honestly have been on this site for quiet sometime now !! Have spoken to a lot of ppl on this site but haven't got lucky meeting anyone yet !! Don't know if that day will ever come where I meet someone who has similar interests as mine .. so far it's been a waste of time ... But I'm still holding on strong on my hopes haha ! |
Let's face it, Online Dating Sucks!
I wanna ask netizens here.. how truely satisfied they were really with the experiences did they have based of photos shared for a purpose.. be it hook up or long living romantic conversation or just for a time pass???
I guess we know the answer and that is why Cruising spots is so important ☺️ |
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Let's face it, Online Dating Sucks!
Online dating is a good cop out mechanism for people who wanna throw trash & hide behind the safety of the digital screen.
There's nothing very conclusive to get from them. It's mostly filled with fake profiles pics,fake GPS, fake names & all things fake. You don't really know what & who you are meeting until you do!
Also, many there wanna see but not show, get info but not share info. Overall it's pretty useless an effort.
So far it's been an absolute waste of time.. |
Let's face it, Online Dating Sucks!
Yes thats true.....young guys like me who want a long term connection only get bi curious young guys who just want to get their *** *** and nothing serious. Also half of them are nit ready to meet at a decent place.. And also as someone looking for tops above the age of 38-40 its very difficult as they are not into online dating.. |
Let's face it, Online Dating Sucks!
Any from vasai east I am top |
Let's face it, Online Dating Sucks!
Well, to start with, I only hit on the profiles that have pictures and complete details of the TOP.
Complete profiles with pictures means that the person knows why he is here and I obviously would like to feel his *** down my throat to lube it before he shovels it up my boy-***. He has to be dominating and rough, yet not a maniac at the same time. I have found such men over online dating site and am happy to say that I maintain a polygamous relationship with them. Sometimes, they are jealous when they see the love-bites on my body from another ***-buddy of mine; but I must tell this that it is easy for a bottom to tame his tops; because we bottom know what tops want!
Thus, in my case, OM, PR and Gr has bestowed me with many daddies to whom I belong and they have no problem sharing me between them.
I love my slutty independent life among them *** yet intelligent and sensible old beasts! |
Daddy issues. Uncover the secrets.
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Let's face it, Online Dating Sucks!
It's *** true!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I joined some leading dating apps (not Gr) for dating stuff got decent matches but not a single one was able sustain a good conversation, they will talk like for a day and next ignore game begins . I mean jab intrested nhi ho to swipe kyu kiya fun ke liye. True love sometimes feel a myth . In world of lust it's gone somewhere deep inside earth , now days lovestories begin on bed , and remains on bed cause everyone wants Fwb and no emotional drama |
Recovery fromSex Addiction/Sexaholism/Lust Addicts
I become a *** as soon as I see a real man..I'm turning to be a *** addict... anyone here who can teach me how to control my sexual feelings? |
Experience with politicans
Hello Everyone,
Sorry for sharing my remaining part of the story late.
My experience was with the guy who was our tenant staying upstairs working in political party office. without wasting time I'll start sharing my experience.
As we both were nude, did some roleplay & I was top of him & licked his whole body from top to bottom. After that we both woke up from bed & decided to do more stuff getting more passionate erotic wild but with safety. He gave me his white baniyan white underwear & white socks to wear & I asked him to put on his kurta pyjama again. So I was in his used undergarments & he was with his remaining clothes. I looking sexy in his clothes- my fair body in his white baniyan & underwear & his long white socks on my legs ..my chest hairs were neetly in the baniyan & I was looking cute. My partner was looking more sexy in his white kurta pyjama without undergarments .
After getting ready in this look I proceeded towards the switch board & stopped the fan so that the room gets hot & we can be passionate getting sweaty. We waited for 5 mins & we started filling the warmness. Then we both came in front of mirror & again started kissing smooching deeply tight hugging He licking me everywhere biting my nipples & all. He asked me stand straight in front of mirror & gropped me from behind squezing my nipples kissing & licking my neck from back ...his beard was making wonders but getting rubbed on my body I was getting ticked. As the time passed we both got sweaty & the atmosphere was hot . This sexy man was looking just great his whole dress was transparent . the open buttons of his kurta his rolled up sleeves the chest hairs got a neet pattern due to sweat which were visible through the open area of kurta. I turned towards him & started playing wild with him . His manly sweat was making wonders. He asked me sit on my knees & took out his monster *** out from the opening of the pyjama without lowering it. He wore a chocolate flavor condom on his *** ( Guys we both are only into safe fun so use condoms while *** too) & put his *** in my ***. I watched in the mirror & we both were looking *** sexy like this . Both in white clothes sweaty ..he in desi look & I in under garments . He kept both his hands on my ears gently bent down kissed me & started *** *** me.for 5 mins. & then I *** a little his ***. After that I wokeup & kissed his forehead & asked him to *** mine . He sat on knees & took a condom put on my *** & *** me passionately .He made me moan. Till this time we both we very sweaty & tired. We we just lied down on bed for 5 min hugging each other.
After this to end the session we headed towards bathroom , he sat on toilet seat & I sat on his laps & we did some smooching . His *** was poking in my *** crack I was enjoying . I got up sat on my knees & one final time explored his body from toe to his lips including *** & sniffing his armpits. After that we both wokeup & started the shower, this time under showing while kissing we got completely nude & this time we explored each other nude licking biting kissing & *** each others *** . Applied soap on each others body & cleaned ourselves. & came to our room hugged each other & slept nicely . |
Fantasy with your favorite celebrity
Love to get rough *** by Shahid Kapoor !! Dream fantasy come true .... such a hunk ! |
Daddy issues. Uncover the secrets.
So, here the full story.. As we were best friend so it is become obvious that his home is also mine kind of that.. so from kid we were best friends and its been like two families are one..
So, one day his house was empty and we are going to play video games. His mother and sister went to outstationa nd his dad went to office..
So, we decided to play a game but the cassate was in our another frinds home, so he went out.. and i was 15 that time and thought untill he came back I can ***.. So, i started it and while masturbating I use my finger to *** my ***. literally i am doing fingering.. I am enjoying so much that I didnt notice my best friend father cameback as he forget some file for office.. and he saw me doing that.. after this he went off to office silently.
I was so scared I cant tell u guys..
So months goes by.. and oneday.. my friend felt ill , so his mother took him to doctor and I dnt knw where his sister goes.. And I was playing alone the video game..
His father came after having a bath, he was wering a towel. I can see his big *** is erected. I was looking at it and I was soooo ***.
Suddenly, he remove the towel and he is now full nude. he grab my hand and put it in his *** and tell me to jerk it off..
I just gave a smile at him and slowly slowly i started *** and adter some time he pulls me and smash me into the bed.. he started to *** me in doggy style and then he lift me in his arms and ***..
ohh gosh.. My *** is erected and I am telling this to you guys.
I had such a satisfaction.. and after whenever we get time he fucks me.. I was 15 at that time and now I am 24. |
Daddy issues. Uncover the secrets.
@neem98 ... it was not my fathers best friend.. It is my best friends father |
Recovery fromSex Addiction/Sexaholism/Lust Addicts
Guys
Having *** feeling is like avalanche. More u think about *** more u want it and vice versa .. so it's ok.
U can enjoy any *** orientation with consent of partner. U can think wild for ur *** drive, but just don't derail and go to path of *** and other things. Enjoy responsibly. |
Recovery fromSex Addiction/Sexaholism/Lust Addicts
Testicles get loosen when body temp is high.. like in summer and shrinks in winter season. So it's normal.
Don't apply any medicine for increasing *** size.. It's natural it will still get increase as u r 26. Massage ur *** with oil once in two days for 15 mins, you may see some difference. |
The Cousin Factor
Well it's not cousin but incest.....had blunder of my life which am still paying for it...It was an accident... after which am lil cautious.....
Mistake - I searched top in my hometown and that too as a crossdresser
Incident .- it was blind date as we planned to meet at one place near to hotel ofcourse .and i was wearing pink shirt nd tight low waist denim with panties inside nd bra....bt no makeup so was looking as guy only. In public but the person I was supposed to meet came as my uncle....blunder it was as i would hv gone bt we both given each other our cloth color shoes color appearance etc ...nd cudnt ignore ..i though tried to b normal as met him accidentally but my cards were open...he was shocked too....bt thn later on he had with me..thn with his frnds ...on his business trips ...so on |
Recovery fromSex Addiction/Sexaholism/Lust Addicts
I have same problem as @Madhu2602 |
Experience with politicans
Yeah...all these guys are quite sexy... especially Anurag Thakur.... |
Recovery fromSex Addiction/Sexaholism/Lust Addicts
I am *** Addict, i masterbate from last 20 years (i am 29). I am married but till want daily *** but my wife don't support so i search for gay. Who is always ready for *** and ***. Till i masterbate someday for 2-3 times. |
Recovery fromSex Addiction/Sexaholism/Lust Addicts
Masturbation is good for health. It reduces mental sexual pressure but depends on body and diet you take. Masturbation reduces the chances of prostrate cancer.
Premature ejaculation can be controlled by stop n start method.
@Madhu2602.. Wats ur age |
Experience with politicans
Like Tejaswi Surya very much super hot, young, Fresh, single like to enjoy with him what ever he wants
In my imagination he have nice size also
My second crush is Anurag Takur wav.. what a sexy guy whenever I see him in TV feel like to hold his tool immediately such a sexy guy he's
Last not least Mr. Prathap Shima Manly guy saw him once in shorts he's having heavy size tool |
Recovery fromSex Addiction/Sexaholism/Lust Addicts
Hi
I'm mastrubuting past 15 years and my *** size is right now 4.5 inches. And I have premature ejaculation my sperm out within a moment
Maybe my *** also in not very hard, and my testicles size also little big I need check my *** and testicles status it's in good condition or bad condition
Can someone guide me for my problem.
I need to go for my testicles scanning
And how should I checked my my *** report ( scan or how)?
I'm staying at vijay nagar Bangalore
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Recovery fromSex Addiction/Sexaholism/Lust Addicts
When I started masturbation when I was 8 years old and right now I am in 25 years of my life.
What I gained?
Nothing
What did I lose?
Everything
When I look back I found I am not having friends.
Always ***,
once tried to escape the trap and succeded for one year then again I meet someone and again the cycle started.
Now I am trying one more time.
Planning to start whatsapp group. If we are together then motivation will be high.
Please tell me about your suggestions. |
