IPL season -encounter/Experience with cricketers?
Can't wait to read new experiences |
Missed Opportunities
Last month checked in late night at iTC welcome Jabalpur a newly opened hotel early morning my grinder app radar showed a guy in same hotel on chatting he turned out to be at reception but since he was on duty and I had to check out we missed opportunity while my luggage was getting loaded in cab got message from a guy who was chef in same hotel so I missed this opportunity also |
National/International Travel
Traveling on April 18 from Ahmedabad to Jaipur by train no 12951(Ashram express) |
Moral dilemma of having sex with married guys
As long as its no strings attached, just done for *** its okay. We don't need to carry the moral weight for such flings, its on the man to make decisions.
But if you're involving emotionally, I'd say you're in for heartbreak one day or the other. Married men are not going to leave their wives and family for you. |
Moral dilemma of having sex with married guys
Dating a married guy is a very safe bet. They don’t bother unnecessarily. I’ve dated quite a few. Two of them were head over heels for me. I had to stop because I didn’t want to become a homewreaker. |
Moral dilemma of having sex with married guys
the only issue will be when his wife knew everything and you would be main reason behind ruckus in their home i remember reading a old case a gay guy was killed because of such affair by wife brother be ready to take such risks in such cases my suggestion is only do random one night stand don't meet one back to back |
Any desi gays in US or abroad?
Vers bottom Dublin, Ireland |
How and when did you find out that you're GAY?
I was sleeping with my younger cousin(3 yrs younger than me). During night I noticed that he was touching my *** . Slowly he lowered my shorts and underwear and because i was just lying down, he thought that I am in deep sleep. Then his confidence grew and he removed my underwear down to my legs and started to rub my ***. He fingered my *** amd oh god I was so enjoying it but I pretended to sleep. Then my *** little cousin rubbed his huge *** on my *** and I was literally craving for him to *** me. Still I was kept sleeping then he was sure that he can do whatever he want. He put some spit and vaseline on my *** and his *** and slowly inserted his BIG HARD *** into my tight girly ***. OHH GOD!! That feeling was pure slutty. He then continued to *** me slowly for 2-3 minutes and then came inside me. His hot *** was dripping from my *** over my *** cheeks as I could feel it. After that he dressed me again and slept.
I am coming to jaipur next month. I am craving to *** some ***. DM me |
Managing dual life
Hi all. Bisexual married with 2 kids. Never had x with guys. I watch just p0rn late night (it has become habit, i hate it too) and release my tension but lately my wife is making big noise and making hill out of mole. I feel i am wrong but dont know how to naviagte this. Idk how to explain her that I seek emotional support from a man too but wifey is being super homophobic and possessive. Its difficult.
Lessor learnt never expose yourself even to you trust the most and your feelings to anyone because i thought she would understand but it backfired. All homophobes are same. Its better to keep your feeling only to you because they will not share and understand what you going through. I cried but she thinks I am being useless and my feelings are sin and null & void. |
Moral dilemma of having sex with married guys
Heres my two cents on this topic.
There is no dilema - moral or otherwise - if the right expectations are set before hand. One must carefully tread along the lines which are already blurred. This helps in the long run. I have been married since the last 3 years, and enjoy frequent *** - both heterosexual and homosexual.
Whenever i meet someone online, expectation settings become important. wether its friendship or love or *** - i believe one can have everything one wants as long as the boundaries are defined.
Problems arise when there are no boundaries defined, or one partner decides to cross the boundary. Then the moral issues arise.
i find it in my experience that many a times, being in such arrangements, helps the marriage last long, and builds fruitful relationships both on the homosexual and heterosexual front.
However, i would like to say - to each his own. You cannot force someone to be okay with it even if they are not. hence - the two magic words "Expectation Setting" |
Moral dilemma of having sex with married guys
I don't feel anything about it. It doesn't matter is my partner is married or single. I'm a bottom and I prefer to have *** with married men as they are more experienced and understanding.
If you feel having *** with married men is wrong, then having gay *** in the first place should feel wrong. Nobody is forcing anybody to have gay *** it is their decision solely.
Moreover, most married men are either bisexual so they love their wives too no doubt about it or they are straight and love their wives but need to experience *** *** or love *** *** or their wives don't allow *** *** with them so look for bottom men. |
Moral dilemma of having sex with married guys
*homewrecker |
Moral dilemma of having sex with married guys
When I was younger, a married stud wanted to be in a relationship with me, I chickened out because of the guilt of being a home wreaker.
But today, I know how *** up our society is, and how unfair is it that some men stay stranded in heterosexual marriages.
Casual *** should most definitely be allowed, relationships are where it gets tricky.
Couple of other questions we also need to ponder over are:
Should a gay/bisexual/pansexual/sapio/trans man, who gets married because of familial or social reasons NEVER EVER have *** or intimate moments of his liking, post marrige? If no, then isn't that mental torture?
What if a man realises he's not heterosexual post-marriage?
And most importantly
DOES THIS INDIAN SOCIETY FEEL THE SAME GUILT WHEN IT FORCES A SIZEABLE CHUNK OF ITS POPULATION IN THE CLOSET? GENERATION AFTER GENERATION.
DO INDIAN POLITICIANS FEEL THAT GUILT FOR NOT GIVING US OUR RIGHTS?
If a man is forced into a marriage because the society is homophobic, isn't the society a home-wreaker too? Isn't it also a torturer?
Let's not be so hard on our community. It's already not easy to be us. Do whatever you like but I would suggest easing on the shaming or guilt-tripping. |
Steam Sauna and Jacuzzi at 5 star hotels
Hi. Travelling to Trivandrum tomorrow. Put up ag Hil+on if anyone is around |
IPL season -encounter/Experience with cricketers?
Reviving this thread for 2025 season.... Come on.... Any experiences or rumors from believable sources about Indian cricketers? |
Moral dilemma of having sex with married guys
The married men I have come across were looking for gay guys because their wives wont ***. So they were looking for a *** to get *** and maybe an *** to f***. But they wont kiss or caress me. Basically straight guys
looking for oral and /or *** ***. I am not just a *** or ***. So I say no to such guys.
Another reason for me is I need to have some emotional connect with the guy to have *** with him. And I dont want to burden a married guy with it. |
Moral dilemma of having sex with married guys
If you want to do it just for the ***, knock yourself out. If you want to do it just for the boyfriend privileges, again have at it. If your just curious, go for it. Now here's the other side to your temporary moment of bliss or what have you.
You must know in a lot of married men in this will not leave their wives. Because she makes life easier, normal and they may have a lot more to lose than you. So do know that you'll be 2nd to his needs. He may legitimately like you and like being with you, but you may not be worth losing a marriage, money, children, and his all round community. This type of guy is selfish. His mental and physical needs are being met with little to none give on his part. All he has to do is not get caught. |
Moral dilemma of having sex with married guys
Forget everyone else... we cannot justify our actions based on others.
If you feel comfortable being a homewrecker, fine. If not, get out of there.
Key difference is if you are getting paid for the service - if yes, it is a service. If not, it is purely for mental connection, kinda wrong depending upon what one thinks of being a third wheel. Remember, every interaction will leave an impression |
Moral dilemma of having sex with married guys
I'm married, and I've had *** with many guys both married and single.. as long as I'm comfortable and doing it with safety and discreetly, there is no problem. But many single guys avoid married guys like me, due to the above mentioned reasons... They can feel guilty to have *** with students or minor guys, but why to avoid married guys? We too have the same feelings as you.. if both of us like each other, what's the problem of having some nice time? |
Writing emotions for gay partner..!
I miss himevery day
mere graduation 1 year k time m mera roomate aur m bahot achhe dost the Mere samne wo bahot cool aur achhe the ! m uss time utna kuch nhi janta tha.m pura normal maasooom sa tha... Bahut care karte the mere aur mujhe bhi achha lagta tha koi mera itna care kar rha h...aise hote hote pta nhi meko kab feelings aya. Unke liye jann nhi paya aur unhe. Bhi aya tha per wo bata nhi paa rhe the....ek dinn wo kahin gye the aur m room m akele soya tha ulta hoke toh wo pura paseena paseena hoke aye aur mere upar so gye ....I wass like kya hua tum thikk ho na ? Toh bolne lage I love you m bola i lv u too phir wo kiss karne ka kosish kiye meko thoda ajib laga m mana kar diya...per wo itna kuch bol diiye jo m pigal gya pura aur m permission de diya unko kiss k liye because mere maannn m bhi feelings tha unke liye. ..dhire dhire hamara pyaar badhne laga sab kuch achha tha jo care kar rhe the wo aur jaada karne lage bahot pyaar karte the aur m apna Virginty unko de diya 🥹 kabhi forcefully kuch nhi kiye thoda sa bhi dard hota tha toh *** dete the kyunn ki thoda najukk jaisa mera sarirr h ye baat unko pata tha to bahot care karte the... Ek din meko pta chala ki wo drink's aur smoking bhi karte hain. Per mujhe wo jhuut bole the ki m nasha nhi karta hun kasam bhi khaye the. Becoz ye sab Mujhe bilkul pasand nhi. Per ek din m khud dekha unhe chaat pe pite hua mujhe bahot bura laga m room aake bahot roya aur unke sath argument kiya Nashe m the aur uss din wo mere sath Jabard**** kiye m kuch kar nhi paya kyun ki unka body strong h kahin bhi pakad lete the toh bahut dard hota tha 🥹 dusra wala dinn m chal nhi paya bukhaar bhi ho gya meko fhir khud medical liye per m baat nhi karta tha unke sath. Aur Abb toh pee k ate the room subah class jaate the aur direct raat ko ate the .main kuch nhi bol rha tha per bahut rota tha class bhi nhi jata tha m 🥹 jo insaan meko itna pyaar karta usko abb kya hogya soch k 🥹 phir ek din unko jealous feel karane k liye m ek dost k sath photo kheech k status de diya luv wala emoji k saat.phir kya dekh k aur gussa aya room ake bahot gali diye. Bahot maare Scale m 🥹 Aur fhirse Jabardos**** kiye 🥹 abb unko merese nhi mera sarir chahiye tha 🥹 roj mere sath jabardasti roj roj mere se bardast hona bhi muskil tha per m kuch nhi bolta tha 🥹sab seh jata tha 🥹u can't believe guy's ek ek raat sone nhi dete the Hath pair bandh k munh m kapda de k pura.......🥹 jo mann m aye wo karte the. Nhi janta tha unke ander ek rakshas chup h bol k noch k rakh diye pura meko 🥹 itna dara diye meko ki m unko dekhta tha toh side ho jaa ta tha 🥹 kisi ladke k sath baat karta tha toh punishment. Social media used kiya toh punishment 🥹 itna torture karte the ki m soch liya tha yahan raha toh kabhi marr denge yeh meko. ....... Phir m ghar chala gya aur bass exam dene aya college 🥹wo bhi unse chup ke aur unko blocked maarr diya 🥹bahott num se call karke sorry bole phir bhi aur m unke paas gya nhi 🥹lekin aaj bhi mere dill m unke liye pyaar h 🥹 uss dinn se aaj takk 2 saal ho gya m mann hi mann unhe pyaar karta hun 🥹kyaa karoon attachment ho gya h 🥹 |
Moral dilemma of having sex with married guys
im single. slept with many married men. they won't stop having *** just because i avoid them. better let me be also enjoy. it is a mutual pleasure anyway. |
Safe sex/HIV positive discussion
Target organ of hiv is lungs so gay men loose their cd4 very very fast due to repeated super infections & launch in respiratory problems. In covid time young people who died in early age are hiv positives. |
Moral dilemma of having sex with married guys
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How and when did you find out that you're GAY?
Interesting thread👍 |
In our Dreams!!
I always dream of getting *** in public toilets by around 5 men |
Managing dual life
@behance 11.. Hi dear..dont try ur fantasies on her..she is putting love trust and faith in u..respect her and her privacy..u enjoy ur dual life as long as u want..but remember *** is just not physical pleasure and release..once u get married u can then try all ur fantasies.. |
Prostate Milking
I had an experience long ago, I meet a guy on grindr about 4 years ago in my hometown, he was a student of medical. He was 20 and I was 26. We met several times, discussed our kinks. I told him I like being a girl in secret and all that, and I have five *** only with 2guys before him. So we decided to go have *** in his room. Then he made love to me so gentlee, talked to me as if I was his girlfriend, kissed me, *** my nipples hard for long time, made me *** his ***, I tried to deep throat his 7 inches thing few times, then he finally *** me. He kissed me and laid me on mn my front on his bed and came and laid on top of me from behind and in that position he rammed me into oblivion. At first, he generally *** me, sensually massaging my prostate. I was so helpless as he hugged me so tightly and continued to *** me while holding my *** shut. Just by this, without even my little *** getting touched, I cummed and it felt so amazing, with a *** constantly *** my ***. But he had not chummed yet, so he started *** me like an animal. I mean, literally he *** me hardcore and I felt pain of hitting his cockhead on my prostate and I wanted it to stop. But I couldn't do anything, and at that time, again I cummed again forcefully. And this orgasm was so hard that my brain melted and my whole body shivered under him. And then he finally chummed in my ***, but offcourse he was wearing a condom. Since they Day, I was like changed. Before I considered myself a man with crossdressing fantasies. But now, after getting *** and cumming 2 times hands free just by getting railed by a man, I don't think I'm a man anymore, all I feel is to live with a man as his secret wife. But I can't. |
Couch surfing (Bed & Breakfast) for solo Traveller
Navi mumbai, can host. |
Moving to a new place for good life
I'm a secret crossdresser and I'm looking for a decent man for live in relationship far from home in any big city. |
Gay Confessions
@***.
Thank you.i really feel what u said
Glamourising sexual trauma in the name pleasure and acceptance.
It's so true.i was in that state for long .now am healing |
Couch surfing (Bed & Breakfast) for solo Traveller
Most people are misunderstanding with the concept of Couch Surfing for Ssx escapade. Specially the ones asking for Top Bottom host/ guests etc. Please understand that couch surfing is meant for Travellers who likes to hosts irrespective of any favors and they get the same in return by other hosts when they travel by same Guests or other ones whos willing to host paid or unpaid. I wish more and more travellers come about the concept and help each other out. There are numerous benefits of Couch surfing including feeling home away from home and meet like minded people to understand the surrounding and get good guidance from the locals. |
Couch surfing (Bed & Breakfast) for solo Traveller
Any host in Mumbai |
Daddy issues. Uncover the secrets.
I'm interested in daddy. Never had any experience with dad. Interested dads 40 plus. I have saved my virginity for dad |
Gay Confessions
@Hotdamndocguy: Thanks for sharing. Hope you seeking help. In country like India, where *** is still very much taboo, child abuse is rampant. Sexual abuse of boys is never discussed.
Also, on many forum like these, one will find people glamourising their own sexual abuse, I always think these people are in denial and cover up their own trauma in guise of pleasure.
If you ever go in a dark space and have suicidal thoughts, please reach out to +91 78930 78930 1Life (https://1life.org.in/). Godspeed! |
Managing dual life
Behance11- are you serious about ur relationship, I mean r u going to marry her? |
Couch surfing (Bed & Breakfast) for solo Traveller
Misterbandb is not very affordable for common folks |
Any desi gays in US or abroad?
Milan, Italy |
Gay Confessions
I had sexual encounter very early in childhood earliest I remember is around 7years of age.the guy was my cousin .he was in his early 20s.
Ryt now I am 30years.i had clinical depression twice . suffered through anxiety.on antidepressants for last 4 years.had 1 suicide attempt.
It was only after I went to therapy that I realised I was sexually abused and rest everything is it's after effects of it.
Sexual experience at that earliest age ruined my rest of the experience of life.am still struggling |
Koovagam
I'm going |
Gay Confessions
@gowravbot .isne confession jesa kya tha?
Apko confession ka mtlb pta h kya??? |
Managing dual life
I’m living a double life right now with my girlfriend. Would love for both of us to get high and have someone come and *** her. She orgasms so easily, I make her come 3 - 4 times a night without even trying. Most I ever got to was 12 times a night. She has a really tight *** and I love *** her but it would be amazing to watch someone with a bigger *** *** her (she keeps saying I’m huge, I want to show her what a real *** can do to her) while I watch. But I also want to be involved. I feel she would never agree to this as she’s pretty traditional, thinking of playing some cuck *** next time we’re *** to see if she’s into it. Any other tips? Dm me. |
Gay Confessions
I Went for a training in Ahmedabad for 1 month. Stayed in a hotel . Met one top while chatting in grindr at midnight. He told he has a flight in the early morning and he has 2-3 hours left to stay. He asked me whether he can come over for a quick fun. It was my early days in the app and never met anyone directly. I was initially reluctant but later gave my address. He was there within 30 min . I let him inside my room and he sat on the bed. I went inside washroom and changed my dress to t shirt and boxer showing my thighs . Then I have him a strip tease and got naked slowly. He then took me in to the bed and did body play for some time pressing my *** biting my *** *** My nipples . Then he removed his underwear. I slowly got down and started licking his *** and took it inside my ***. I gave him a nice blowjob for 15 minn after which he discharged in my *** and i swallowed . I didn't want ***. And he was very understanding. We had fun for some more time and I gave him one more blowjob on my knees before he left. I didn't even ask his name. It was a very nice experience. |
What's your deepest darkest fantasy?
My fantasy is to get dominated by a top . Should ask me get naked outside his room before entering. Would like to get spanked hard . Should make me *** his *** with me on my knees. Should take me outdoor during the night and make me naked in the car . Would like to *** his *** in car. Should make me walk nude near a isolated road. Should make nude and tell to pee on highway where there is a lorry parked showing my naked body to lorry driver. Would like to get *** by dominant top in hotel and he should not let me wear clothes in front of room service boy and ask to *** his *** while he fucks my *** . |
Couch surfing (Bed & Breakfast) for solo Traveller
Any such host in bangalore |
Any desi gays in US or abroad?
London here … 65 Bottom |
Any desi gays in US or abroad?
Only Desi over age 50+ |
Siblings bond - Coming out to your family
Judging someone based on their actions, choices and thinking is a human nature. Let's not make it a taboo.
Someone says he raped someone and ppl defending it saying let's not judge him is stupidity. But yeah, it's good that ppl share their feelings here so that everyone can discuss and learn from other's mistakes. I think that is a good outcome from these forums. |
Siblings bond - Coming out to your family
I read the thread and it looks like most people have just judged each other rather than understanding, accepting and supporting... LoL. A True society! |
Managing dual life
@bisxxdman its better for a bottom if his wife agrees for cuckold hotwife relationship. This way they both can remain sexually satisfied and live their life happily.
Being a bottom I can’t satisfy my wife so we adopted this lifestyle soon after our marriage. And enjoying life fully. |
Any desi gays in US or abroad?
This is desi guy from Dubai |
