Hi friends...one important information...Any one knows about the disease called herpes..one of my friend is the sexologist..he told normally people think only *** and *** give sexual disease..but even salaiva...body to body contact...kisses..sweat..even nude hugging..will spread herpes...after hearing this I got really scared...I even won't ***..and I hate ***.....but still I have fear...any one knows abt it really well ? Please explain...life is so precious...
|
| Displaying 1 to 31 of 31 comments. |
|
No Picture
Minn | Posted On Dec 1, 2018
It is not a life threatening disease it is a spreading disease but if this come under the gentials then it is danger don't do *** or BJ unless the person is clean. |
|
No Picture
vanakkam | Posted On Sep 23, 2019
Friends I have one doubt while others *** our nipples, armpits, our while we doing to them cause any problem it's usually it's done in massage parlour without doing *** and blowing, especially if others *** our nipples and armpits. Pls explain and abt safety. |
|
No Picture
Valentine84 | Posted On Sep 23, 2019
No product will help you prevent from diseases 100%. Even condoms aren't completely safe. Only way is to keep minimum and safe partners.
Wash your *** with a mild *** wash. And don't *** unclean *** or while u have any *** infections. |
|
No Picture
exploreme | Posted On Dec 17, 2019
Finally i tested For HIV VDRL and hepatitis A B C
all are non reactive. relaxed |
|
No Picture
Maggy | Posted On Mar 13, 2020
Most of the bottom grindr guys they show their *** hole and i can see most of them have got genital warts. Genital warts are a viral STD and they spread by skin to skin touch. Many people in our city donot know about this infection as it doesnot produce any noticeable symptoms. Its mostly asymptomatic but spreads to others easily through skin touch.
Once this happened in KV. A young guy and i was attracted we went to the toilet and i had to release my tension. I sat for *** his tool, when he retracted his skin i could see a big wart in his glans, seeing that implied he was having genital warts, i said i felt like vomitting and ran away from that place.
I learnt my lesson that day not to *** any strangers in such spots. Better to indulge in self restraint than to suffer in pain and shame with STI.
Most guys only know HIV as STD. No body knows other forms of STD. So always use your sense and play safe.
I know and i have been through this going to metropolis to give my blood for checking hiv.. my god heart races the whole day until you get the report to see it non-reactive..Every single time this happens. The best way is to avoid *** with strangers and not indulging in risky sexual activities |
|
No Picture
SundarDeshmukh | Posted On Apr 1, 2020
Recently i had syphilis, i was massage addictive. As you said I didn’t know any std other than hiv. So was freely *** ***, balls, ***, licking around body of the masseur. All this was going on for almost 6 months when my wife was pregnant and was at her parents place. And i am not sure from where i got this but even i was ignoring body rashes. When my wife came she asked me check with dermatologist and then i got to know i had syphilis. I am under treatment. Hope it will be over soon its being 3 week i am taking injections. |
|
No Picture
m32vlcy | Posted On Apr 2, 2020
it will be cured if you take injections. Dont worry. How long u had body rashes. if you had given some other symptoms in detail, that would be useful for the community to be aware of initial symptoms. My opinion. |
|
No Picture
Balsn | Posted On Jun 11, 2020
Hi friends,don't *** unknown person.because syphilis is common sexually transmitted disease. |
|
No Picture
Stranger_467 | Posted On Dec 18, 2021
Hi friends,
Recently I tested syphilis positive..i don't know from whom I received this infection... literally I felt.. being gay is curse...we are easily getting chance to have ***..but because of urge we don't care about opposite partner... randomly hook-up with strangers...i realised got syphilis at my stage 2 in syphilis..i went through below symptoms. Mostly am not interested in *** will do only oral..
1.lump in anus...I am cyclist usually will get anus pain if I ride long..so thought because of that so i ignored that.. this is first stage of syphilis!!
2. I felt something happened to my body but i don't know what happened..later one day morning have seen brown dots in my hand palm...i thought some skin disease so u didn't care much..in my home advised to check with skin doctor and the same night randomly searched in Google like brown dots in hand palm..i have seen one image and it was mentioned STD. I shocked and lost my sleep.. uninstalled grinder app and immediately i booked appointment with private *** clinic which is far from my location.
Next day I went to the clinic... doctor advised me to take set of test first .based on test we will proceed with treatment. So i gave my blood sample but unfortunately after 2 days only we will get results... literally I died with fear can't able to focus on my job.. can't able to eat.. nothing..Two days I lost my sleep.. and got call from clinic.. results are arrived..
I know I got syphilis based on symptoms..so i prepared myself to fight against it...and my test results also same syphilis positive.. doctor advised me to take 3 shots injection. Per week one injection..and gave some antibiotics tablets..and he told.. once u got injection it will be alright... every week I lied to my home and went to clinic for injection...i have spent 15k for my treatment..
I stopped gay fun with guys..it has been more than 8 months...and told to myself.."unaku mood vantha mooditu kai adichitu thoongu"....here after i will not have *** with guys.. so be safe guys.. because of 10 mins urge don't spoil your life....be safe always.. always use protection even though partener is known person!!!! |
|
No Picture
vanakkam | Posted On Dec 19, 2021
@stranger467 ya ur correct, for 10 min happiness, we are in danger. But pls provide safety measures. |
|
No Picture
Naveen4236 | Posted On Jun 29, 2023
Hi friends
Recently a month ago I had met a guy from grinder. He seems to be clean decent guy. And we hugged each other then frotted. Then he jerked for me. And we didn't even had contacted each others sperm. But untill this day I can't get over the guilty and fear of getting hiv. I did a p24 ag/ab test. The results were non reactive. But still I can't get over it. That was my first time and I am never gonna do it again. I can't even talk about this to anyone.
Please tell me if anyone had this test and how accurate it is. |
|
No Picture
Naveen4236 | Posted On Jul 22, 2023
Finally I have consulted a doctor and took std test for syphilis, Chlamydia, hepatitis b, hiv. All results were negative. Finally I can sleep peacefully tonight. I have learnt my lesson. Never gonna have *** with stranger. Going to find a partner and I will loyal for him. |
|
No Picture
gayboii | Posted On Feb 6, 2024
Homosexuals have a higher chance of getting STDs than others only because of promiscuous behaviour, where an individual has sexual contact with multiple partners and who in turn would have had contact with many others, so greater are the chances and rates of spreading STDs. If you go through the internet, you'll know what are all the commonly spread STDs.
Having *** isn't wrong, but it just requires some precautions and ground rules to follow, so as to make our lives easier.
If you're regularly having *** with non-exclusive partners, test for the following every 3 months: HIV, Hepatitis - B & C, Syphilis. There are many others but these are basic tests.Also check for any ulcers, spots, colour changes, patches or any other abnormal appearances in your body, particularly oral, genital and *** region. If you happen to find so, please contact a doctor ASAP, because earlier the detection, faster and simpler the cure.
Any regular lab in the city would perform the tests for the above given STDs. YRG labs in Kilpauk, Chennai, is run by an NGO and does it for free/minimal costing.
Please be safe guys. If each one of us follow the above, we can bring down the spread in the community as well. |
|
No Picture
m32vlcy | Posted On Feb 7, 2024
Yrg lab is there somewhere in taramani also I guess, couple of years back I got std check. Tmits not free though, but charges are very nominal, less than 500 If I remember properly |
|
No Picture
BigBoobsbottom | Posted On Feb 9, 2024
If i give only my boobs for *** and do hand job for my partner is there any chance of spreading STD ? Pls clarify someone |
|
No Picture
Jollybee69 | Posted On Feb 19, 2025
Circumcision will reduce the chances of getting STD on a certain level. Because it's easily washable. |
|
No Picture
Ragunanda92 | Posted On Feb 24, 2025
I need advice from someone am having more fear and wish to get STI and STD tested, please suggest me some good labs offering low cost for these tests with home sample collection |
|
No Picture
Samhotdude | Posted On Feb 24, 2025
Walk into any lister metropolis or drsafehands and ask for std panel.
|
|
No Picture
Ragunanda92 | Posted On Feb 27, 2025
Thank you I have done the STD panel test in drsafehands and results are negative.. |
|
No Picture
Jokojo | Posted On Feb 28, 2025
What is the cost at metropolis? |
|
No Picture
Sree_nith | Posted On Mar 3, 2025
Guys can any one of suggest some ideas I got *** warts and Im getting pain during pop and I have never got *** but still I got this and I do not *** often but don't know how I got this and Im not in a state to afford for operation or anything. Can any one of suggest me any tablets or oilments to cure and I'm afraid whether this could be some std or sti please guide me guys |
|
No Picture
Sree_nith | Posted On Mar 3, 2025
From previous chat ..... I have only *** guys and kissed and romance but never licked *** or got *** fu*k but still I got *** warts please suggest some ways to cure |
|
No Picture
chennaikundi | Posted On Mar 3, 2025
*** warts are very common and have nothing to do with STDs. |
|
No Picture
vinisissy | Posted On Mar 26, 2025
🚨 URGENT: PROTECT YOURSELF – NO EXCUSES 🚨
Guys, this is a wake-up call. A friend in our group has been diagnosed with multiple STDs leading to HIV. His doctor confirmed that repeated infections compromised his immunity, making him more susceptible. If you're engaging in unprotected ***, especially through apps like Grindr or in public cruising spots, you're gambling with your health.
💀 Hard Truths:
1 in 5 men who have *** with men are currently infected with an STD.
Men who have *** with men are 24 times more likely to contract HIV than the general population.
Many claim they're tested when they're not. The high cost of STD testing, ranging from ₹849 to ₹3,500, leads some to falsely assert they've been tested because they can't afford regular screenings.
⚠️ Non-Negotiable Rules: ✔ ALWAYS use condoms & consider PrEP if you're eligible. ✔ DEMAND recent STI test results—No proof, no play. ✔ Get tested every 3 months—Prioritize your health over cost; some labs offer tests starting at ₹849. ✔ Avoid partners who seem risky (e.g., those under the influence, engaging in public ***, or with multiple partners). ✔ STEER CLEAR of public cruising areas—The anonymity increases your risk exponentially.
No more excuses. The cost of testing is minimal compared to the price of your health. Protect yourself and your partners. This is life or death.
💊 Enjoy responsibly. Get tested, use protection, and make informed choices. |
|
No Picture
Khakha | Posted On Apr 6, 2025
Chennai makkale any idea where one can get PreP without any prescription or easy ways to acquire one in Chennai?
|
|
No Picture
Guy27bi | Posted On Apr 11, 2025
I think everyone should follow @vinisissy advice on No proof , no Play.
Meet as few members as possible, always use protection and even during ***.
Many people have been questioning me about being a SIDE while being a Bdsm master but not it was a decision taken with lots of thinking and choice. I believe it has reduced the risk by at least 10% , which is worth it. That's the reason i meet very few people in a year.
Just being a SIDE and avoiding *** doesn't guarantee safety. There are other STD's which spread with just kissing with someone who has been affected.
I make all my slaves tested, make them send their reports even before meeting.
Please avoid raw fun, meeting multiple people and get tested. If you are married, you will be putting your wife's health at risk along with your partners. |
|
No Picture
vinisissy | Posted On Apr 12, 2025
@Guys27bi adding to point don't go for fun in grindr or ohmojo anyother platform who asking for instant fun without having a convo about your likes, unlikes and your limit. They are just *** like you they used lot of guys and never be online till they become ***. They are complete red flag you need to stay away. If any top or bulls who really like you and take for long run. They spend some time with you, go for casual meets and then jump into fun. Avoid pushing guys |
|
No Picture
Jollybee69 | Posted On Apr 16, 2025
25,000 people affected by HIV inn Chennai in last 6 months . There is a news in puthiya thalaimurai news channel. Guys please stay safe. Get tested. Don't spread. |
|
No Picture
biman4u_2020 | Posted On Aug 28, 2025
yes.. seemms shd use condom whole getting blowjob or givng also.. with woman/men... wish this world was STD free!! |
|
No Picture
Akashcharan | Posted On Sep 9, 2025
Wanna get tested please help me find a safe and free clinic |
|
No Picture
sweet_hi | Posted On Sep 23, 2026
Bringing this thread up for folks to read and be aware and take precautions. |
|
