Missed Opportunities
Some time it happens that.. you are with your straight freinds or relatives or busy with your work..or something like that... and suddenly some eye contact..you liked him and he liked you.. but you could not do anything because of the situation..except cursing yourself for the missed chance... Guys share any such experices.... You may not find a right guy even after cruising for hours.. but here it happened on its own. within seconds..but you could not utilize it... Reply/Post a comment
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adicooliyo | Posted On Apr 25, 2024
this happened with me few weeks back when i was on an official visit to USA (Boston) , now i am back , i attended a corporate event with some team building activity, there i was doing my activity it was more of setting a plant in a pot and decorate it etc.. while i was doing my thing, a guy holding a big camera came and started clicking pictures, i did not pay attention and kept doing my thing, but he stood there and kept clicking pictures from different angles, i assumed he was the event photographer, i realized this and lookup and smiled, he also smiled, he was good 6ft, slightly beefy built, with loose cloths, long hair and a broad face with full beard, total artsy type guy, angrez :-), he started complimenting for my activity like how well i was setting up the plant and decorating it etc.. then he complimented for my skin color (its brown for them and they like it i guess for them we are POC), he said "you got a nice colcor" and smiled and looked at me, at that point in time i did not get the hint as to what he meant and why he said that, kind of my lack of awareness, i was there for almost an hour, and obviously my other teammates were also there so i couldnt make any move, but whenever we made eye contact he smiled and nodded his head. well nothing happened after that as we had some dinner plans with team members so i had to leave, and also he was taking pictures of others too (his job :-)), wish i had more courage to talk to him a little bit or may be exchange the contact and could have actually had a nice time, but guess i missed the opportunity |
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Side_29 | Posted On Oct 14, 2025
Missed opportunity today
That street corner in Madivala, right next to the liquor shop, it’s a memory I'll still chew on. I was just focused on waiting for my Uber, and then he appeared. Exactly my type, long hair with thick bushy beard and a ln earring, with his friend right beside him. He gave me a quick look before he went inside the shop, and I just stood there, pretending to check my phone.
But when he came out, that was it. We had a long eye-to-eye connection, not a glance, but a proper, deep look that lasted way too long for a public street. I could feel the moment, the complete potential of it, but because he was with his buddy, I froze. I smiled but didn't want to make a scene or be awkward. I just held his gaze until he had to look away. And now, that's my little bit of regret today. I let a connection slip away just because of the situation.
We had that long eye to eye contact, and it wasn't just a friendly glance. I could totally see the helplessness in his eyes, but it was absolutely mixed up with that lust. Not just a simple look, but a proper, deep wanting. His eyes were like, "I'm stuck only, babe! I want to talk, but this buddy of mine is standing right here!"
My tension was completely matching his, you see. We were both just frozen, caught in a silly situation—him with his company, me just waiting for the Uber—both knowing what was going on, and both unable to do anything. Seeing that pure mix of desire and defeat on his face, it really got to me. It wasn't just my chance; it was a connection we both let go.
The Uber arrived at that moment only and I had to leave. I had to pull myself away. But that image of his longing, stuck eyes—full of all that feeling that's the part of the story I still cannot shake. What a proper, big missed opportunity, all because of the circumstances both of us had.
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