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Hi. I want to try ***. I never tried. Im 26. Done a lot of blow jobs but always stayed away from *** .. Because of pain and a hole might be tearing.., so many... Guys. Pls help me to do *** with less pain or no pain... Appreciate it guys.

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No Picture cindrella_c	Posted On Apr 24, 2018 Taking in * is the best sexual pleasure. apply lot of oil first. ask ur man to use one finger first. then two. then three. manage the pain first time. after that full pleasure only. I had first * at the age of 12. you can manage well.

No Picture tonguetwist	Posted On Apr 24, 2018 First try with vegetables using cream or oil and when ever possible use fingers, above all when u first try *, ckose a slim * for initial one or two times, then u can try varieties of ***

No Picture Guide4all	Posted On Apr 24, 2018 Hi can any bottom come home and train me to become bottom? I want to get *** but I feel pain.. I read ur post about inserting vegetables but I don't know how to do it myself. Can someone help

No Picture Guru005	Posted On Apr 24, 2018 I'm sure vegetables is a bad idea. Please think through what if it breaks in to half and gets stuck there. Please don't embarrass yourself to the emergency room at the hospital.

No Picture raja bot	Posted On Apr 24, 2018 the best way to experience * * is buying a good lubricant. use a tooth brush first to loosen up your muscles. then try with an experienced top

No Picture 285405	Posted On Apr 24, 2018 Yes, Guru005 is right. Please do not use vegetables, bottles, etc. Also, please do not give wrong/risky suggestions.

No Picture 263363	Posted On Apr 24, 2018 As Guru said don't even think of using vegetables and stuff like that. It's really a bad idea. I have seen it happen to my friends in UK , lesbian couple used a long carrot during the fun into her * n it broke with almost half of carrot retained in her . It was a huge embarrassment at the emergency for both of them. Can't imagine any of you guys entering an emergency room with a vegetable up their **.

No Picture Rajcoolerbi	Posted On Apr 24, 2018 Sorry to say guys plz don't ever think of putting vegetables into ur anus.. if it goes in then sorry only u end up in surgery with a lot of embarrassment in the Operation theatre , hospital emergency room etc etc.. I have seen people landing with a big cut in the abdomen to take out a brinjal from the intestines.. for want of pleasure u will end up in state where u can't eat or defecate

No Picture Valentine84	Posted On Apr 24, 2018 I have been mostly a top but bottomed for my bestie.. A lot of foreplay can actually make you 'feel at ease' .. Also if you really love your partner you will open up naturally (atleast that's what I felt when I bottomed for my bestie) . I used a local anaesthetic (Lignocaine hydrochloride gel) when I first bottomed since I was very much worried and so took the advice of my doc friend. A good quality water based gel can ease the insertion. Also it depends on your top. When I top mostly I start slowly and then increase the momentum gradually making my bottom feeling relaxed and asking for more. Also do it passionately with occassionally kisses and love bites naturally your bottom will open up in a more relaxed way. Fingering is another way to make ur partner relax. Don't risk any insertion of foreign objects as you may end up in an emergency room in an emabarassing situation too as mentioned by others.

No Picture Outdoormeet	Posted On Apr 25, 2018 Experienced top here helped more than 20+ virgin bottoms to break open their virginity. Safety is important on top of that patience and guts to bear the initial pain too... Reach me if u really need to be opened up...cheers..

No Picture Outdoormeet	Posted On Apr 25, 2018 Experienced top here helped more than 20+ virgin bottoms to break open their virginity. Safety is important on top of that patience and guts to bear the initial pain too... Reach me if u really need to be opened up...cheers..

No Picture Robinson cruzoe	Posted On Apr 26, 2018 Guys just buy KY GEL online and apply plenty and lubricate before inserting. It will be easy. I have done with few tight ones and Virgin ones it was easy and cool

No Picture Hot-Life	Posted On Apr 28, 2018 If you want to use babana as it is soft in nature wear a condom on it to avoid breaking inside yr ***.

No Picture Nisthul	Posted On May 9, 2018 I tried * but failed... When ever I tried.. I got a feeling that I am going to * ...why is it so .? I am ready to bear the pain .......can you people help me out

No Picture tonedbloke	Posted On May 9, 2018 It is very important to go to the toilet before the act and clean yourself well. I do have * * occasionally with my boyfriend. I am quite tight and he is quite large. So the way we manage is that we do a lot of foreplay- kissing, oral, 69 etc and once we are ready, I make him sleep on his back, put a lot of KY jelly on his * and then I sit on top of him and gradually guide him in. I take control and let it enter me little by little. He helps by playing with my * so that my mind is diverted from the pain. There is a point when the sphincter which is contracted relaxes and opens up on gradual pressure. That is when I let him enter me fully. We enjoy this position for some time and once we are into it, we change position to either the missionary position or me on my stomach and he entering from behind. Once both of us are ready, he will increase his speed while playing with mine and then we climax almost together. We are both tested and safe and so we do not use a condom and I can feel him *** inside and it does'nt take me too long after that. Because the prostate is massaged during the act, my orgasm is generally mindblowing. For guys trying it with new partners, please..please ...use a condom. Better to be safe than sorry.

No Picture twink4U	Posted On May 11, 2018 I enjoyed my encounters with guys and the heavenly feel of a warm body holding me while a hard *** pumps in and out. Start by fingering yourself and when you can fit 3 you are ready. A preparation for an encounter should always involve cleaning your channel and making sure you're stretched. Long foreplay helps.

No Picture newguybangalore	Posted On Apr 23, 2019 I was not enjoyed * * much. Felt it was always painful. Also more of top all these years. But recently started using enima kit and started getting ***. Slowly started enjoying. Now I feel that is so much pleasure than anything else. Such an enjoyment. But please note. Don't take full enima. That will take long time. Take small quantity of water. Repeat if required

No Picture Rajver59	Posted On May 15, 2019 I had my first experience with my friend at the age of 35. I applied some oil in my * hole with my fingers. But it was heavy pain when my friend * me. So I didn't allowed to * anybody. At the age of 40, I got a friend from PR who came from Mumbai. He stayed in a hotel at Chennai. So he picked me there and we both started foreplay like hug,kiss, lick whole body with our tongues and lips ,* each other * in 69 position. Finally he wanted to * me. But I refused to do it. Anyhow he convinced me. He lick my * hole.i was very . He applied Vaseline in my hole and asked me to clean my * hole with my fingures I tried with pain. .However I cleaned my hole. After that he applied again vaseline in my * hole and his condom also. He * me slowly and steady. I was so * and felt less pain. That was very nice experience. After that I met 2 foreigners from PR ( one Russian and one Australian) and they * me smoothly. They knew how to ***. Now I proud to be bottom.

No Picture Rajver59	Posted On May 15, 2019 Hi @ guide4all Use Vaseline, r gel to clean your * hole with one fingure. First u feel heavy pain but if you practice this you can insert 3 fingures also. Main thing is before , you should clean your hole and you loose your * hole. If you have doubt I will Come

No Picture Myharddic	Posted On May 15, 2019 guide4all and others who wanna try bottoming. Very first thing that matters is PASSION to become bottom. Guy who sucks deep throat with no teeth intervention and enjoys each sec when he was handed with deserved * said to be a man with passion to * well and yes, he must not be limited only with * but extends his move with balls too (refer some perfect bottom vids who is very great at )! It's just same as that. Just like bottom should have passion to properly use the perfect ; A perfect top always have great passion to make use of the * (for me nice tight and bulge one turns my hard and thick * on and on to encounter even twice at the same session but it depends on how partner make use of one's ) whether a brand new tight one or the well used one. Very important thing: You will get pain for sure at the beginning but the same pain will be turned to pleasure by the right top; again you should know the diff between the pain and the pleasure! My Exp:I have encountered many new bees (not all who approaches me but the right deserved one if all clicks). They do have fear of pain like you guys have. But when exposed and handled well, at the end of the same session they used to comment me with compliment saying that they wish to get fk frequently from me. Simple as that who handles you matters! Some guys do coin themselves as bottom and limited to a . Note, a perfect bottom is someone who knows how to and pleasured by getting nice fk. Feel the real pleasure of fk but be SAFE. Bareback is good and that gives very diff pleasure but move only with the trusted one not to the strange and open to all for the time being pleasure. Trial: If you wanna know pleasure of tool stroking in your * before the real *. Try this... When taking bath, once you applied soap or bathing lotion all over body, sit like you sit on the indian toilet. Apply your one finger inside your . And yes, It will be obviously tight but as your finger and body fully covered with foam, you may feel the difference and for sure your finger will move in. once entered, dont go for deep, just stroke with one finger. Soon the skin will slightly open and it is now ready for two fingers. what's stopping? Move on with two fingers and stroke well and feel the IMMEDIATE PLEASURE. Later, 3 fingers. But 2 fingers is more sufficient for the first attempt to check the nice feel. All should be done on the same position applied with soap all over body especially the finger part. Dont use oil or especially the vegetables and fruits (come on, the purpose is to eat those stuff, don't make it gross as many haven't get a change to eat). Foremost thing, clean your well when care to get . It's very basic! Final note once again that It all depends on who handles you at the first encounter. Enjoy and cheers. Tune your well for the world of top with nice * :)

No Picture Myharddic	Posted On May 16, 2019 Hola Amigos, Within a very short period post my post, inbox loaded with interesting text messages. Excuse me if I could not reply all due to lack of time. But, feel free to share if you have any concerns out here so other may get an idea about it. Forgot to say some important note. There are 2 sort of partners (either fresh bee or experienced) one Top may experience (I don't consider the people presenting themselves as Bottom but limited to * like "I only / I will be idle and you can do anything as you wish/ Only smooch/ etc,. no offence!) \|3rd is exception: Here no Top or Bottom but Master and Slave. 1. Soft and Romantic: Bottom (B) needs love, caring, gentle and romantic moves and Top (T) obv knows how to handle those stuffs. Strictly no girly stuff involved after all this is M2M. A perfect B is someone who never limit himself if he's blessed with manly top (here, manly top doesn't mean only physically fit but the one who has manly look and have great stamina to make use of the bottom partners). Before the nudity, top (in my case) love to check out with perfect attire (man with formals/ denims/ shots that portrays the nice bulge makes me craze to check out and yes, care to rub with my manhood or at least my hands strikes those two buns gentle by crossing and making it as accidential move). Back to topic: When on perfect attire, Nice hug with close enough face making eye contact and gentle kiss on those alluring eyes, cute little nose, cheeks, and yes, those pinky lips (All gentle), makes it more romantic. In addition, one hand on hair and the other, for sure the spot must be on one of those two nice and bulge giving gentle crush. After, making the B partner turned such a way we hug him from back so our manhood rubs the crack(with dress), now the T hands got the front part to hold: the two nice chest to crush and press. All these stuffs are T's initial romantic moves. B may take charge from there.... T&B carry forward the complete session involving all romantic stuffs with huge pleasure of Sk(B), fk(T) and all other like licking, caressing, cuddling, etc,. PLEASURE AND ROMANTIC is a term! 2. Hard and Wild: All the above stuffs involved but in hard and wild way. I used to coin as nice encounter session ;) which I have exp a lot! 3. Master and Slave: Here, The Bottom otherwise Slave Bottom B!tch, all they need is pain where they can feel the real pleasure! They feel that they born to serve the Top world and some may title them as Slave and love to serve and greet their Master for entire life with their Genuine, obedient, loyal qualities. Here, everything rocks and bang bang! Some may limit but many may have no limits. In addition to , **, they lick all over the body, wish to get golden shower, wish to get abused by words say in Tamil (Im not into that as I didnt grow up in such a way), lick shoes, do household nude service to the master and some may wish to treat as dog even at the public place, some may pay for the master to serve them, lot of other some gross stuffs too involved.

No Picture Serenade *	Posted On Apr 17, 2020 Having been a experienced Top I would like to shared experience Lots of quality lube and a Condom is the predominant thing to start with. * needs to be lubed up plus ensure hole is soft and lubed to get in if your a hardcore hygienic hardcore * rimmer like me finish your rimming before lubing... once I insert my 8 inch *, I usually ensure boys are ok with the * being in, then slowly continue my momentum and speed mind you I love to ram the * and maximise my beautiful time with the potential men provided they are enjoying it to every bits, there is no point if someone isn’t comfy and being forcefully * .... Once I know my Boi is adjusting to the rhythm I start pounding him in various positions finally while I’m about to climax I ensure I faces me and I * him off while I’m Cumming, hence both of us had * at the same time. I’m very picky with *, but once I start pounding a butt, * ya babe it’s non stop 🛑 till I reach the orgasm...

No Picture Biguy007	Posted On Apr 17, 2020 @serenade, true knowing your partner's rythm n pace keeps you motivated during fun n improvises your moves, positions and speed. I luv to play with my guys to check their patience coz most of them wanna get over with quickly to release their stuff soon. I prefer longer duration fun n luv being a bottom for a selected few lucky guys. I keep myself clean n well hydrated. Always a good lube n cost of local anesthetic jelly keeps me going for hours. Luv to sweat over getting drilled by real men. Change positions admiring his style, rhythm and helps me enjoy the moments. Love to hear their comments while getting drilled luv the bad dirty talk during that times. Slapping of my soft butt against their thighs n spanks get me crazy.

No Picture Rakesh000	Posted On May 12, 2026 I too wanna try *** tied few times but failed my hole is small I don't know anyone wanna try me got place in ecr today and tomorrow

No Picture verscut	Posted On May 14, 2026 As my description says, i have opened moren than 40plus virgin * of teen to 40's. I hadle the * well, especially for virgins assees, i rim well before drilling it well. I'm a crazy wild * rimmer and hard * eater. i can make you quiver and Shiver with my rimming skills. Rimming makes the inner wall eased and lubed, hence entry is little lesser pain, ofcourse first time pain will be therem but it can be redufed by good rim and fingering, Based on my expreiences, very few virgins got bleeded when i opened them up, most of them took it with less effort as my rimming did the magic. SMooth *** and hairless hole in the queue pls.

No Picture vk_96_h	Posted On May 19, 2026 Don't force yourself try by yourself or get someone who understands you also don't try to achieve it in first attempt itself take time to open yourself i would suggest take 3 to 4 days with continuous efforts and tons of lube to open it painfree and more pleasurable

No Picture Mayday112233	Posted On May 19, 2026 I love ***.......i love the feeling of a tight hole on my coxk

No Picture Samhotdude	Posted On May 22, 2026 I was always an oral only guy. Once a late 60s cuck hubby friend near besant nagar and I were mutually jacking off/ oral fun, when his wife was not there at home. This was around 8 to 9 yrs back. Suddenly he went to another room for a couple of minutes. He came back and said can I sit on u. I thought yeah why not and he sat down and guided my dark n thick one into him. I was having mixed feelings. We used to * each other only with condoms. So he didn't enter raw. He had gone and applied some KY jelly and came back apparently. I cummed soon due to the excitement of my first * (with a male). But something in me triggered and I became hooked. That was his first *** after his college hostel days. Nowadays his wife sort of knows we do that. She asks him and he sort of denies it. But she knows yes. If we meet at my place he tells her that I am giving him a massage. She knows he likes things inserted into his butt. So she's put 2 and 2 together. I have had a soft encounter with her around that time. That's all. He's in his 70s now. He's the only one I have entered anally and love it. We still meet whenever we get time. Sam

No Picture Only_Slim_Back	Posted On May 23, 2026 I am Exploring this * stuffs and so new to it anyhow I took 2-3 inch * easily but I want to take 6-8 inch in my hole but my hole is really so tight even with Oil. Hope some good opener with 6-8 inch could open my * and I am only in giving * so no Bj, no romance. Slim soothu mattum pothuna message pannunga no any other expectations.

No Picture 50YrBtmPvakkam	Posted On May 23, 2026 Any tops for real action today, bottom with place at Palavakkam looking for for tops who can drill deep inside me

No Picture Santyred	Posted On Jun 3, 2026 Same here.. can some body train me slowly.. i want mu hone to become big so that people can ** me easily..please so top or bottom.. whoever.. train me pleaseee

No Picture scotch	Posted On Jun 4, 2026 nothing more pleasurable for a bottom than to get the hole drilled and get the warm *** in it- peak of ecstasy

No Picture racecourse	Posted On Jun 4, 2026 Hi.. want to try ***, looking for someone to break my cherry.. I’m with place at T Nagar, near Suswaad Sweets.

No Picture Santhosh_22	Posted On Jun 8, 2026 I'm 22 slim looking for *** first time i need to be done smoothly without any pain can anyone guide me in this or teach me practically

No Picture MilkyBoobsBubbl	Posted On Jun 8, 2026 Hii, Anyone in and around Ambattur DM, experienced bottom here, been * in different positions and done 3sums too, looking for 3s7m or group fun, but it's been 8 months since my last * due to fissure, so looking for expert tops to open the seal again safely and looking for regular fuckbuddies nearby. I love getting * by 2-3 guys and want to * while getting *** with condoms

No Picture Chennai_boy21	Posted On Jun 8, 2026 Hii im top 21 i never tried * because btm always say that i hae thick and long * it will get pain for them i never tried one ***

No Picture Leena_sissy	Posted On Jun 8, 2026 I'm virgin sissy btm my * hole not opened I'm looking for one who can * me smoothly

No Picture Amit_teenx *	Posted On Jun 25, 2026 Is lignocaine gel effective while bottoming i m vergin and i want to do ***.someone pls tell.I m from tambaram.Is there anybody beteen 20-40 hot men who can help me in removing my verginity. I am 25.

No Picture Vikramn	Posted On Jun 25, 2026 @amit_teenx use prilox cream. I tried it personally it's good. Apply before 20 mins

No Picture Kaaaavvsss	Posted On Jun 25, 2026 Guys don't apply whatever gels on your *** as these ppl say. First consult with a doctor and do.

No Picture Him2Femme	Posted On Jun 25, 2026 Hey 👋🏻 I’m not a pro but I’ve tried * a couple of times and wanted to share what worked for me. The most important thing is don’t rush at all. If you only have an hour or two, just skip it — good * needs time and patience so you can fully relax and enjoy every delicious sensation. Start with a warm shower. Let the heat soak into your body and loosen up those tight muscles around your hole. Your anus is a ring of sensitive muscles that loves to be coaxed open slowly. Make sure you’ve already pooped earlier in the day because it makes cleaning so much easier. The best way is with an enema bulb if you can get one online. If not, grab a cheap ₹10 water bottle, rinse it clean, and fill it with plain room-temperature or lukewarm water — never hot or soapy. Hold the bottle neck up, sit on the tip like you’re facesitting without pushing it inside, just creating a gentle seal. Squeeze lightly so the water flows into your rectum, then stand and massage your stomach in slow clockwise circles. Hold it for about 30 seconds, then release on the toilet. Do this 2–3 times but don’t overdo it — you don’t want to irritate that soft, slick mucous membrane inside that keeps everything smooth and pleasurable. After cleaning, your hole is fresh but still deliciously tight. Begin loosening it with your fingers. Use plenty of lube, start with one finger sliding in nice and slow, feeling your body open up and relax around it. When it feels good, add a second finger, moving gently without any rush. Let the heat build as you explore and stretch yourself. Once your fingers feel amazing, it’s time for the real training. Get two cucumbers — one smaller and one girthy like your partner’s *. They should feel firm but not too hard. Always roll a condom over them. Pour generous amounts of good lube all over the cucumber and around your eager hole — lube is the key to pure bliss here. Spooning position works best for beginners because it feels intimate and lets you control the pace. Tease the tip of the smaller one against your opening, then slowly push inside, savoring that incredible stretch. If there’s any sharp pain, stop immediately, pull out, add more lube, and go back to your fingers until you’re dripping with arousal and ready again. It’ll make you sweat and throb with horniness, but trust me, the wait is so worth it. * yourself gently with the cucumber for 10–15 minutes, switching positions when you want, letting that fullness turn into deep pleasure. Don’t push it too deep though — the rectum can create a vacuum and * things in, so stay safe and in control. When you’re craving more, switch to the larger one and repeat the slow, sensual process. By the end you’ll be 100% ready to take a real throbbing * deep and hard. With proper cleaning you shouldn’t have to worry about any mess for a good few hours. The whole preparation can take 45–90 minutes, but once you’re opened up and slick you can enjoy getting drilled for 1–2 hours of pure ecstasy. Relaxation and horniness are your best friends — being turned on makes everything feel so much better. If something feels off or painful beyond that sweet burn of stretching, stop right away. Feel free to DM or comment with questions. If I don’t reply fast, just ask Gemini or Grok in a SFW way for more tips.

No Picture Him2Femme	Posted On Jun 25, 2026 Also one important thing — I saw someone say vegetables are a bad idea because they can get stuck inside, and yeah it’s 100% true if you’re not careful. But you have to choose the best firm cucumbers, not the soft or fragile ones. Until they’re cut, good cucumbers are tough enough not to break easily, so please pick the firmest ones from a good departmental store. Also, I’ve seen some people recommend numbing creams. I looked them up — they’re basically local anesthetics that numb the area. But your body’s pain signal is there for a reason: pain means you’re doing something wrong or going too fast. Don’t numb it and risk hurting yourself. Please don’t trust those suggestions and get into trouble. Just relax, stay ***, and enjoy the sensations instead of rushing and worrying.

No Picture Chennaibi	Posted On Jun 26, 2026 My Journey: From Being a Top to Bottom Hello everyone!!! Ironically, I started out as a top. Every time I see bottoms enjoying themselves so much during ***, I couldn't help but wonder what it actually felt like. Curiosity slowly turned into desire, and one day I decided I had to experience it for myself. To begin, I bought KY Jelly and Lox 2% gel. Before every session, I make sure my bowels are completely clean. I use the toilet first, then use a health faucet with low water pressure to gently flush water into my anus until I feel full. I then walk around my room until I feel the urge to empty my bowels. I repeat this process three or four times until the water comes out completely clear. Once I'm clean, I mix a small amount of Lox gel with a generous amount of KY Jelly (roughly a 1:3 ratio) and apply it well. I start slowly with one finger, then gradually move to two. One important thing, always make sure your nails are trimmed. After consistently practicing this way, I progressed to using cucumbers. I bought two or three firm cucumbers of different sizes and always started with the smallest, gradually working my way up. Every single session began only after thoroughly cleaning my bowels. Eventually, I stopped using the Lox gel altogether and relied only on plenty of KY Jelly with the cucumbers. Every session followed the same routine. I practiced in five different positions: missionary, squatting, doggy style, standing, and finally standing with one leg raised on a chair or stool. For some reason, that last position opened me up the most comfortably. Using different positions helped me become familiar with different angles and sensations. The biggest milestone, though, was finally bottoming for another person. The key is finding someone patient, calm, and understanding. Everything should begin slowly with plenty of lube. Yes, there will probably be discomfort at first. If it becomes too much, don't panic. Pause, stay relaxed, keep still for a while, let your muscles settle, and only continue when you're comfortable again. Patience makes all the difference. To continue building comfort, I also bought a butt plug and wore it for about 30 minutes to an hour each day for a month. After that, I moved on to dildos and vibrators (the ones you can see in my DP). Looking back, it's been a gradual journey of curiosity, patience, consistency, and learning what worked for my body. What once seemed impossible has become something I now enjoy. Today, I can comfortably take any size and truly enjoy the experience.

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