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Submitted by [deleted] Location: Chennai (Tamil Nadu, India)

I rarely hear gay guys talk about leabians. It's as if homosexuality is just gay men in India. Do you guys have lesbian friends? I would love to make some. Any views on this subject?

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Aryan07
Posted On Mar 20, 2018

i am a bisex man and i have a friend who is a lesbian. I go to know abt her when she saw me seeing some videos. She got excited and then revelead herself. Post that she hav had few sessions also in my room with her friend who is a bisex and i too got to taste her later.

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Alvin P
Posted On Mar 20, 2018

My cousin is a lesbian. She shares her fantasies with me. We also watch bi videos together and enjoy. I love to watch bi videos.

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Sasmathu
Posted On Mar 20, 2018

Yes even I would like to make friendship with a lesibian. BTW I know of atleast one lesbian who is trying her level best to convert to a man. She is well educated and is an assistant professor at hyderabad university. https://www.timeout.com/delhi/events/ishq-issues-in-society-history-and-queerness

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273112
Posted On Mar 20, 2018

It's good to know that you guys have lesbian friends. I personally find them very charming but never got to be friends with one. Eager to listen to more stories. Is there a meeting g point in Chennai where I can make some friends?

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Ragu for fun
Posted On Mar 20, 2018

@ugly duckling....sniff sniff...am I getting a smell that gay guys leave when they think abt marriage? Why not marry a lesbian?

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273112
Posted On Mar 20, 2018

@Ragu for fun ..yeah..it is a convenient arrangement but I doubt if either of us would have any seriousness in building up a family. I speak with no experience. But I surely think a lesbian buddy would make a wonderful company.

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Ragu for fun
Posted On Mar 20, 2018

@ugly duckling.....so I read u correctly...not bad hum?

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Valentine84
Posted On Mar 20, 2018

@ugly_duckling.. Your aversion is right ..Will both of you seriously think about a building a family ? If same *** couples marry and if they choose surrogacy as a means for kids then thats different .. What about a gay husband and a lesbian wife ?

Coming to ur open relationship concept .. Already it would be a marriage of convenience for both of you .. If both are philandering in their respective domains what's the point ? May be if both partners embrace their bisexuality and remain serious about building a family then it could work. But all this can practically work out only in discreet not in a biased society ..

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273112
Posted On Mar 20, 2018

@Ragu for fun...you surely did!

@Valentine84 That was exactly my point. I would love a lesbian buddy with whom I can freak out rather than a lesbian wife with no emotional bonding. It would be too complex of a relationship to marry a lesbian. A lesbian bestie on the other hand would enrich my experience in friendship.

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273112
Posted On Mar 20, 2018

@Valentine84 in a country like ours even surrogacy is not allowed for same *** couples if I'm not wrong. There is so much to change!

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Mahesh80
Posted On Mar 20, 2018

@uglyduckling..surrogacy is difficult even for normal hetro couples in India..but single men or women can adopt a child legally in India...actress sushmita sen has adopted two children despite being a single woman and for the first time in India an unmarried guy has managed to adopt a child in India...u will find that news in the link below. Even though the legal process of adoption is very cumbersome , there r many informal adoption options available..

https://www.thebetterindia.com/42353/aditya-tiwari-youngest-single-adoptive-parent-india-special-child-binny/

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Valentine84
Posted On Mar 20, 2018

@ugly_duckling.. Even same marriage is not legalized in India. In fact it's an offense after our Supreme Court infamously reverted the judgement by the Delhi Court. But if your same *** wedding is registered in a foreign country that would be valid here as a civil union. Yes, it sounds crazy 😜. I guess designer Wendell Roderick and his French partner is one such..(correct me if am wrong)

Given the illegal womb trading nowadays surrogacy laws are quite strict...

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273112
Posted On Mar 21, 2018

@valentine84 I hope the review petition for sec 377 works this time.

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Valentine84
Posted On Mar 21, 2018

@ugly_duckling - There is even a bill for uniform civil code for marriage neutral to all religions but don't worry they will never make since our political parties who infamously play the case and religion politics will never let it happen.. None of the political party is gonna protect or revive any religion but they would always these sentiments to divide people and fuel their vote banks..

P.S : I am neutral to any political party so don't barge on me with any comments.

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273112
Posted On Mar 21, 2018

@Valentine84 yes. There is still a long way to go.

Are there any gay meets in Chennai? I mean those organised by Chennai dost ? In Hyderabad there was QCH which had regular meets where people from LGBTQ discussed various things.

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273112
Posted On Mar 21, 2018

@Mahesh80 I've read the article you've posted and I was quite moved. I always wanted to adopt a child and this gives me new hope.

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Sasmathu
Posted On Mar 21, 2018

I always wanted a child out of surrogacy...

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273112
Posted On Mar 22, 2018

@sasmathu yeah I had the thought lingering in my head too!!

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Mahesh80
Posted On Mar 22, 2018

@ sasmathu @ ugly duckling...Recently, film producer Karan johar, who is a gay, fathered twins through surrogacy..so its legally possible but a very costly option..

Regarding the child adoption; though it is an altruistic act to adopt a child, i ve seen some instances where the adoptive parents have regretted their choice of child or their decision to adopt itself, at a later stage in life...it would be better if the kids are observed for many months before a particular kid is choosen by the adoptive parents for adoption..to a good extent, an expert eye can spot which seed will grow up into which tree... some practical issues regarding the adopted children have been very well researched & analysed in one of the chapters of the best seller book "Freakonomics" authored by a renowned American economist, Steven levitte..

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Exotic1234
Posted On Mar 22, 2018

@mahesh80 - I agree with your comments until quite recently I used to think the behaviour of a child is completely a factor of upbringing but I guess the DNA and Genes do have a role to play. What else could define sociopaths,psychopaths Like Daswanth who come from a family with normal upbringing but still end up being murderers. However am still willing to bet that this could probably a minuscule percentage but a large majority of children will probably turn up just fine if the upbringing is good. Considering there are a large number of children out there who are just abandoned India must encourage and have a linient adoption rules in fact it should be a adoption ground for the world. I know some checks like the background and other due diligence are important but I know so many people around the world want to adopt also these children will get a much better life than languishing without food and education at the so called adoption homes. A lot of them end up in traffic signals begging or end up as domestic help or factory workers and abused that they become criminals giving them up for adoption will be so much better than the lives they live.

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Exotic1234
Posted On Mar 22, 2018

With reference to Lesbians while I have personally not had a lesbian friend I have seen some at the night clubs abroad in lesbian couple the BUTCH stands for the husband usually someone who displays masculine characteristics like short fair manly attire and a muscular physique. They pair up with the wife who is usually the feminine counterparts. Also a lot of women are fluid in terms of sexuality that’s because emotional connect means a lot more for a woman than physical pleasure. A lot of women move easily from being with a woman to being with a man and vice versa.
Bise xuality is more common and well accepted among women just google Lindsay Logan, Angelina Jolie, Kristen Stewart Megan Fox they have all been with both men and women.

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Posted On Nov 22, 2019

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Posted On Jul 31, 2024

I am looking for lesbian friends

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crash3257
Posted On Jul 31, 2024

I'm in relationship with a bisexual woman...she has been a lesbian since her teenage and has made love to women from all ages.

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Posted On Aug 3, 2024

I never had an opportunity to discuss with lesbian, but looking forward to have a lesbian friend.

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Posted On Aug 3, 2024

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Posted On Aug 12, 2024

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Posted On Aug 12, 2024

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Posted On Aug 13, 2024

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Posted On Aug 13, 2024

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Posted On Aug 14, 2024

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Posted On Aug 15, 2024

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Posted On Aug 15, 2024

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Posted On May 12, 2025

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Chennai_Bi_Dude
Posted On Jul 8, 2025

Nice one, I am kind of introvert so Never had this type of encounter but maybe I'll try some if they are bi lesbos. I even have fantasies of marrying bi lesbian couple.