Coming Out Stories maybe the good, the Bad, and the ***.........
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Leo1237 | Posted On Dec 3, 2025
Well, from long back I knew I was interested in boys but never got courage to tell others. So till 2015/16 I was in closet n my *** life was not much interesting as I was not aware about all the dating apps n never approached anyone. Although I had *** with school friend n my college friend, but it the life was so secret n was so boring. As got in engineering I got my mobile n got to see how people live out of closet, I used to see coming out stories n used to imagine. One day I thought to come out of closet to my friend who are really close to me. We are like family n was so scared to loos them if they don’t like it. One day after our Goa vacation we were partying in our flat where we all used to live like bachelors. After some drinks we all were enjoying the party having fun n were bit high too. I gathered courage to come out that day, as I started to talk I lost it n started crying 😁, but as friend do they turned the serious situation into fun n boosted me to speak out. I was so *** scared but my friend made it easy for me n I finally told them. We all were laughing so much later n everyone was ok with me. They started to question me about the gay things n how things work n how we have *** n all. The night was so happening. Later my friend boosted me to go on dates n hookups as they being straight were crazy for girls n used to hookup lot, so they wanted me too to have fun n enjoy. One of my friend n his girlfriend got me ready for my first date, his girlfriend did the glow up of my skin n also did my makeup n took me for a date. I met my first date on gr n showed them the guy. I was *** nervous as it was first time but they encouraged me n took to meet that guy. Later so many time my friend used to drop me at location where I used me meet guys for ***, n he used to wait/roam around the area till I’m done n then he used to pick me up n we used to go to our flat n discuss what happened. After coming out my life was so fun, my friends used to show me hot guys when we used to go out or whenever as straight guys shows hot girls to their friends. By gods grace I have got a really good friend circle. There are so many fun stories where they helped me hookup with guys. They all made my life so much happening by accepting me as iam. Hope you all are enjoying your life too. |
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Manlymeat30 | Posted On Dec 3, 2025
@leo1237 ur so lucky to have amazing friends … big hug to all your friends 🥰❤️
Btw ur gorgeous babe 💋 |
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Vayavya | Posted On Dec 3, 2025
July 2018. The marriage topic had been coming up for years, but that one week it felt like someone had turned the heat to maximum. Mom and Dad were both at it: “Beta, ab toh umar ho gayi hai, settle ho ja, rishta dekh liya hai, bahut achhi ladki hai…” Same lines, louder volume, zero escape route left.
I’d always managed to wriggle out before (sudden work trip, health issues, “let me think” that never ended). This time I had nothing. They kept asking “Why? Why not? What’s the problem?” and something inside me just broke.
I shouted it, way louder than I planned:
“BECAUSE I’M GAY!”
Dead silence. My heart was hammering so hard I could hear it. I wanted to cry, scream, run; anything; but I just stood there staring at Mom, waiting for the sky to fall.
Three seconds felt like three hours. Then she said, totally calm, like I’d told her I don’t eat onions:
“Toh theek hai na… usme teri kya galti?”
I was still in fight-or-flight mode, so her words didn’t land properly. I kept going: “Maine bahut akela seh liya, I can’t do this marriage thing, I don’t want you both to ever think I’m bad or broken…”
She cut in softly: “Haan theek hai, doctor dhoondte hain… good psychiatrist…”
That hit me like cold water.
“Mom it’s not cancer! There’s nothing to fix, nothing to cure. If anyone tries to ‘treat’ me, I’ll just leave the house.”
Her face changed completely. “Arre aise kaise ghar chhod ke jaayega? Itna bada kiya kis liye, ghar chhodne ke liye?”
Then she took a breath and said, “Beta, main toh bahut pehle se padh rahi hoon is baare mein… jab se tune bataya tha Vinit aur Pratik ke baare mein. Tension mat le. Papa ko main samjha lungi jab time aayega. Itne saal akela kyun seh raha tha, pagal? Bolna chahiye tha na… ghar pe sab topics pe baat hoti hai.”
I just stood there blinking. The tears I was ready to cry from fear suddenly wanted to come out from relief, but they got stuck somewhere. My own mother just accepted me in the middle of my dramatic outburst like it was no big deal. I felt like an idiot for ever thinking she’d throw me out.
I reminded her (feeling guilty) about that one time she’d said in anger, “Mere karma ki wajah se beta aisa hai.”
She waved it off: “Arre main gusse mein kuch bhi bol deti hoon. Tum bata dete toh kitna acha hota.”
She kept talking: “Ab koi shaadi ke liye force nahi karega. Main bas jaanna chahti thi wajah kya hai. Bahut log shaadi nahi karte, koi baat nahi. Tu jo spirituality mein itna achha kar raha hai, log toh aise time pe galat raaste pe chale jaate hain… tu ne itna sundar raasta chuna, that’s what makes us proud.”
Next morning? Normal. Like I’d told them I changed my job or something. Tea was made, newspaper was read, Dad asked if I wanted poha or upma. Zero drama.
I later I heard Mom telling my Dad everything (I was shamelessly listening from behind the door). She basically said: “Don’t force him, warna ghar chhod dega ya kuch kar baithenga… sab log usko support karte hain, Didi bhi bol rahi hai accept kar lo.”
I waited for Dad’s usual volcano. Nothing came. Not that day, not the next. He made me green tea, served me food first, cracked his terrible dad jokes. I kept thinking “yeh shanti toofan se pehle wali hai,” but one week turned into two, and everything stayed normal.
I told my friends, “Yaar Papa kuch bolte hi nahi, yeh normalcy weird lag rahi hai!”
One of them laughed and said, “Logo ke ghar naatak, rona-dhona, ghar se nikaala ja raha hai… aur tumhe naatak nahi mila isliye tension ho rahi hai!”
He was right.
I showed Mom the old Satyamev Jayate episode on the topic. She watched the whole thing quietly. Only question at the end: “Arre yeh lesbian kya hota hai?”
I almost fell off the couch laughing.
So yeah, that’s how it happened. No big teary scene, no disowning, no running away with a bag at 2 a.m. Just a shout, a calm “theek hai,” and life moving on like I’d announced I don’t like sweets anymore.
What actually saved me:
1. An amazing support system that knew for years and never let me feel wrong even for a day.
2. Being surrounded by good people who love you as-is
3. Patience (mine + theirs).
4. Spirituality, Meditation and Pure divine grace.
If you’re scared to speak up one day, just build that circle first. The rest falls into place, sometimes way more smoothly than you ever imagine.
Bol de yaar… achha lagta hai. ❤️ |
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69_Sapien_homo_ * | Posted On Dec 3, 2025
Finally something nice and heartwarming experience to read ❤️
It's really good to read experiences
thanks :) |
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Pio | Posted On Dec 4, 2025
@Leo1247 I have same kind of friends as you have..... And I'm happy for you that you got such good friends..... 😌✨ |
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Peakyblinder | Posted On Dec 7, 2025
Hey guys, wassup....
Here my story begins.....I was working in a company as a full time employee. We also used to have part time employees too. One fine day a tall , handsome guy joined as a part-time employee. I briefed him everything about our work and slowly we become good friends. Whenever his duty was there I used to wait for him and used to talk to him for so long. This made our friendship so strong. One day as usual he came to duty and we started our conversation, that day I was little upset,so he came to me just ask me about what happened. Then i told him that I have some family issues because of that I'm upset. Then he made me calm down. Frankly speaking i really like him,but i never expressed my feelings to him. But while talking to him he disclosed me one of his secret about his health issues. Then i told him even i want to disclose him about my secret. So i told him that i like holding ***. Then he said it's okay bro, don't worry and all and took me to his room. He asked me if you want to see my *** I can show you. Then i said if you don't mind you can show me. Then I saw his 6 inches sexy ***. Then i took it into my hand and i played with it. I *** his *** well. From that day our bonding became more stronger and he is stright and just curious about guys. Later we stopped doing things as he didn't like it. But still we are good friends. |
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Romance469 | Posted On Dec 8, 2025
@Peakyblinder,
Nyc stories.. dear..
I like it... and would love to have friends like this.. |
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everydaygayguy | Posted On Dec 8, 2025
@Vayavya- amazing story!!! |
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Al138 | Posted On Dec 10, 2025
It all began for me when I attended a boys boarding school in Maharashtra, I was 14. The dormitory was divided into two groups, the seniors and the juniors. Each junior boy had a senior guiding us to ensure we were doing the right thing.
Shortly after being at the school, late one night I had a disturbing nightmare and was unable to sleep, I approached my senior and requested if he could sit with me till I fell asleep, he came and sat on my bed while I tried to sleep.
I was moments from falling asleep when I felt him laying down beside me, I was on my back, and he was on his side facing me, I felt his hand under my pyjama top and he began to gently stroke my chest and tummy, he would stop at my nipples and gently squeeze them with his fingers, I found this exciting and didn't want him to stop, I pretended to be asleep. His hand slid down and he rubbed just above my pyjama pant, I felt his finger slip under my pyjamas and he flicked my *** gently with his fingers, my breathing got heavier and so was his, I could feel his breath on the side of my face.
His whole hand was in my pyjamas and was stroking and fondling my ***, I began to get hard, I turned on my side facing him, still pretending to sleep, I was really enjoying what he was doing and my *** was the hardest it's ever been, we were so close I felt his lips on mine, he kissed me, I felt his tongue on my lips, I willingly opened my ***, and he began to *** my *** with his tongue, I was loving it, we stopped kissing, and he whispered telling me that I was going to be his bitch, it really turned me on.
The next instant I felt him pulling down my pyjamas and he had my *** firmly in his ***, it was not more than a minute when I emptied my full load down his throat, he had his lips sealed like a vacuum around my *** and swallowed every last drop, he licked me clean, kissed me long and hard and told me that he'd be with me anytime I wanted him.
This was my first experience with a guy, it was awesome, and I've never looked back. |
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topmcqueen | Posted On Dec 10, 2025
i too had my first experience in a boys boarding school, back in 9th grade when i had an unexplainable attraction to a batch mate of mine, id ask him to sit on my lap if there was no seating nearby and id get such an intense hard on, I'd just find every excuse I could to be alone with him, one evening while only the two of us were walking around I took us to a secluded open field and told him I'd *** him off, I gave him some great head before we got scared that someone might come there. later after 2 days we went behind the swimming pool filtration room and tried *** each other for the first time, of course we messed up since we didn't know how to do it properly, and I made his *** bleed a bit. so we stopped for a while. but after that we suddenly got infatuated again, we'd use so much of our free time finding a secluded space on campus, and fondle each others ***, make out, and *** each other off, we tried *** 3 4 times after that but we enjoyed the soft fun so much more, we even almost got caught doing 69 in the terrace of the building. I would give him head all the time even though I wasn't a bottom, and it was so much fun...sadly got very insecure about my sexuality towards end of schooling in 10th grade, and he asked multiple times if we could do it a few more times before leaving but I declined. still get so hard thinking about us kissing =, fondling each other and giving head, good memories! |
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Roysideguy | Posted On Dec 10, 2025
In my starting days.. very young days of my life I was around 12 years old, I use get rimmed and fingered by a elder friend around 2 to 3 years elder to me. In those days we use to play lot games outdoors not like today, also we all use to live in small buildings with no gated society n all. There were many buidlings, bushes little jungle too near to our houses. We all children use to play many games including hide n seek.
That friend lets call him yash, yash and I were new friends back then.. he was my friends elder brother who had just moved to our colony. He seemed to like me from beginning, he always use to do tease me by tapping my butt, squeezing the butt cheeks, in fun way hold my *** n balls, or pull my shorts, press my nipples.
In those days there was power issues in our city, and once it there was no power for 2 to 3 hours and all children decided to play hide n seek. This was yash's golden chance, we began our game, there were 15 to 20 children in our colony, it was next to impossible to win who was seeking. And luckily yash n I were hiding, we were hiding near the bushes and it was more than 10 mins no sound nor anyone was there.. it was pitch dark, yash n I started chatting.
He was praising about my smooth n cute body, i was smooth n little chubby with fair skin. I blushed n said why whats so special about me.. he said he liked my body the most and so always teases me. Then he started talking about sexual feelings n *** related stuff which i was new to.. i got curious n asked more questions about how n what. He told me everything n also told me about guy to guy ***, i got more curious, he told me all the things. I was in shock n amazed too. He then told me to promise him to not tell anyone any of this n anything more happens in between him n me, i was so happy to knw everything i promised. He told me get in the bushes completely to hide so no one could see us.
Then asked me do i want to have fun now, i asked wht fun, he said yes or no, it will make me happy. I was again curious n said yes, he told me to remove my shorts n underwear, i was like why, he said let it be you dont like to fun, he will not tell me now, i was like sorry please tell me, he said then dont ask questions and listen to wht i say n i removed my shorts undies, the bushes were poking my butt n genitals. He was stunned to see my smooth little *** n curvy butt. He was very happy, he told me to get my knees n keep watch on the seeker or anyone if comes, although no one could ever find us, we were so inside the bush, we both were sitting down hidding. I got on my knees and he was sqeezing my butt cheeks n touching my small *** balls and playing with my whole body. I was holding my tshirt lifting it till neck, he was behind me playing with my ripples and everything possible, it was tickling me. I giggled, he said shush dont make noise, i stopped, then spread my butt cheeks n smelled my *** hole. I was like whts he doing, then told me i have a sexy *** hole n very beautiful smell, i was speechless, and then i felt something very smooth n soft touching my *** hole, it was his tongue, he was licking it, i said wht u doing, he again signaled me to keep quite. He spread the butt cheeks as possible told me to get into doggy style n licked every inch of my hole, i initially didnt know wht he was doing, but later i started enjoying it, the more he licked the more i moaned, he kept signaling to shush me, n kept eating my hole and i kept moaning. After 15min he told me to lie down on my back in bushes some how. He went on my back with no view as it was dark, he started playing with my *** n balls, i didnt get hard that time since i was young, but liked it.. he then licked and *** my small *** n balls i again went in heaven, later he licked my navel button n nipples. I was very happily enjoying the usage he made of me.
Later he told me to hold his *** he taught me how, i was amazed by the size and to see something so big thick with nerves pounding in my fist. It was so huge that i barely held it in my small hand, then he told me to shagg it and i gave him a handjob. He came in few minutes as he had eaten my hole n *** my body for around half an hour, he had lots of load in him, he kept cumming for few seconds on the bushes. He then cleaned his *** with the bushes, got dressed, told me to get dressed too and again reminded me of the promises and i said yes sure. And asked if i wanna have fun again, i was already in and said yes. He kept rimming me for weeks and later fingered me with multiple fingers for months, never *** me since i was very young.
Also he use to insert a clean piece of cloth in my *** hole to keep me *** and my *** hole wide all the time, he use to insert it such that it use to go in completely with some part hanging out with a knot to hold it and remove it. But i was never allowed to remove it unless i had to poop and also had to hide it from getting seen by anyone anywhere. He was my master n i was his slave. It was type of butt plug which use to keep rubbing inside my hole.. was so deep in the *** i use to feel a thin *** in me always, although never got to feel one real *** in my hole ever not even yet... but the rubbing made me *** all the time. Whenever we met in hiding, he use to strip me completely, kiss my neck to toe lick my body remove the cloth slowly and later fill the hole with his tongue and fingers.. i was his *** toy and slave to get rimmed n fingered for long time..
I missed those beautiful days!! He was strong n skilled!! Wish to have it again!! |
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Chubbybttm01921 * | Posted On Dec 12, 2025
Ok so first person i told my elder brother when i started dating in my 11th std when i had my first relationship my brother is my support piller a protector the person who i trust blindly. After break up he was the one who was there for me always. Then when i got my job after few months I told my mom, dad and younger sis they were shocked my dad slapped me but my brother stood for me and even my dad listen to him as he a police inspector and he is his fav child. My mom and sis accepted me took some time but she was ok but dad took like 2 yrs but ya now everything is good and 3 months ago i found my love of my life. I made him meet my mom, sis and brother last month will soon make him meet my dad.
Suggestions for guys who are planning to open up about their sexuality first be financially independent because if the situation goes against you. You can look after yourself. |
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Avi_1999 | Posted On Dec 13, 2025
@Vayavya thanks for sharing ur story it is make my face smile. |
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Suryaaryabb | Posted On Dec 14, 2025
My story begin when i was in 7th standard (2009). I convinced kid from neighbours to have fun. They were brothers. 1 was in 5th and other was in 3rd standard. We use to mutually have threesome fun. Which included ***, rimming, fingering and kissing (simple kiss not smooch) and tongue touch. We did this for almost a year. Then they vacated.
Before that i had a small encounter with a classmate in 4th class. He was submissive. I use to pinch his thighs, balls, ***. *** his *** and finger him deeply. He used to love fingering a lot.
Then another fun with neighbour boy who was in 1st class. I ws in 8. He used to suk me like lollypop.
Thats how i begined |
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Sissyudaya | Posted On Dec 18, 2025
When i in the 3rd grade it started with my cousin sister 8 years older than me . She molested me for few years then i learnt about it and started enjoying .. means while i encountered fun with other tenant boys who are younger and older than me .. usually i act submissive i make them milk me get naked infront of them get shamed its lovely experience now im 37 so *** lot of *** abroad |
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Bombay_Blues | Posted On Dec 24, 2025
@Roysideguy - what a hot story, you were clearly groomed but it is very hot to have someone treat u like that |
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