We've all had those dates that go from bad to hilarious. The guy who showed up with his mom, the one who lied about everything, or the ghost who vanished after perfect chats. Spill the tea!
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ThirstResponder * | Posted On Nov 22, 2025
Matched with a 29-year-old, said he lives alone in Koramangala. Chatted three days, begged me to come over late night.
Reached his flat. Door opens—five guys inside, drunk, grinning. He announces loudly, “Arre yeh hai woh trans jo bolta hai ladka hai.”
They locked the door, forced me to the center of the room, made me take my shirt off “to show the fake chest.” Laughed at my top-surgery scars, poked them, called me hijra, chhakka, “half-baked mard.”
One pulled my pants halfway down while the others held my arms so they could all see and scream “dekho *** wala ladka!” Whole thing lasted maybe eight minutes but felt like hours.
Finally they opened the door and shoved me out, still half-naked. I ran shirtless to the main road at midnight, people staring, autos refusing to stop.
Reached home shaking. Haven’t opened Grindr since. |
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deepshrma | Posted On Nov 22, 2025
@thirstresponder omg that was so rude, have you moved on with that experience ( not saying to install gr again). it's just a very bad thing happened |
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Bombay_Blues * | Posted On Nov 22, 2025
@thirstresponder - it’s sorry you have to go through all of that, *** will always be the same, hope u recover from this soon. |
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just_looking_69 * | Posted On Nov 23, 2025
@thirstresponder - that was a terrible thing that happened to you. Truly sorry. You deserve better. |
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just_looking_69 * | Posted On Nov 23, 2025
One of my worst would be when the guy was nothing like this picture, which was probably taken 20 years ago and he even had teeth missing. Sat through a meal out of politeness. (In hindsight, shouldn't have.) |
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Impossible_love | Posted On Nov 23, 2025
@thiestresponder how abt going again there and hitting them in their face u will feel better and they will never do that again ever w anyone. Don't be scared that much |
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Aniruddhbottomm * | Posted On Nov 23, 2025
got catfished by someone who lied about everything including his pictures,names . He even used his friend's number to contact me. He pressured me into doing sexual activities that I wasn’t comfortable with, and then he took me to a faraway place and forced me to buy groceries for him. When I refused, he just dropped me off in the middle of the night. |
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Aniruddhbottomm * | Posted On Nov 23, 2025
In other hookup experience of summers one guy who was his (grindr guy ) roommate caught us when i was doing with a guy at his apartment he simply threatened me & attacked me then I tried to leave eventually they ripped my polo shirt |
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Aniruddhbottomm * | Posted On Nov 23, 2025
got called by muslim guys for sax I thought their apartment is empty for fun instead they took me to a park when i was doing with one of them one of another one was extremely drunk and just attacked me with leather belt then one another one too attacked on my face they were actually 4 of them i pushed him away and eventually left it & blocked all of them |
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Aniruddhbottomm * | Posted On Nov 23, 2025
guy called me for a hookup, and we verified each other beforehand. However, when I arrived at the hotel, he simply said goodbye because he didn't like guys with beards. I left feeling very disappointed; this was probably the worst time-wasting experience I've had. I had to drive 1 hour to his hotel i have given him my every detail |
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Honeyyisthebest * | Posted On Nov 23, 2025
@ThirstResponder Damn that's *** up. So sorry you went through that, nobody deserves that kinda humiliation.
My friend had something similar happen in HSR met this guy who seemed chill, but then he pulled out his phone and threatened to expose him unless he paid up. Scared him so bad at 2 AM. We filed a complaint but the dude ghosted us.
This *** happens way too often in Bangalore. To everyone reading this, ALWAYS tell your squad where you're going, meet in public spots first, and if they seem sus just bounce. No second chances.
And to the losers who do this you ain't tough, just cowards who prey on people. Hope karma hits you hard!!! |
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everydaygayguy * | Posted On Nov 23, 2025
@ThirstResponder- I am sorry that you went through such misery and humiliation. I hope you recover from the trauma soon. It is best to avoid such apps. |
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