I have gone through some threads and found that it has been persistent issue of threat, fraud and blackmail in our community.
I am just creating this thread to request fellow users of Ahmedabad to share their incidents or places which was a bad experience for them.
Let's share and aware each other so that we create safe environment.
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No Picture Krunal_Patel | Posted On Nov 7, 2025
Yes I had such experience for total 4 times in past 2 years so please be safe guys. |
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No Picture handsome_r | Posted On Nov 7, 2025
@krunal_patel can you highlight the places you had bad experience or the scenario so that others can take care.... |
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No Picture SaharanpurVers | Posted On Nov 8, 2025
Location: Vastrapur, nearby Himalaya Mall. Date: 07/11/25 Time: 6.30 PM
Incident: One guy came to meet through grindr for meet up, I decide to meet outside of my hotel. Then realize that guy is not real one. So, I ignored him.(without VC planned to meet) Later, he started following me and realize he is not alone 4 more peoples are with him. I tried to find out a place where family peoples/more peoples are there. So, I brought a cig. and started smoking at that place to overcome the situation. Then noticed they started blocked me. like 7 peoples arrives and local other peoples left the place and also the shopkeeper.
Said pay my charge I'll left. Then I asked what is your charge. Said: 5K told him: I dont have such amount and started forcing me to show A/C balance. They got I have only 4.5K in my A/C. They asked 3K and started checking other bank account. Did not get anything in GPay, then check my Phonepe(CC account) and asked to pay again 2K. I said not possible as CC account, I can pay any personal scanner. Then they started asking to ask for CASH from local shop and Pay 2K. Luckily I got a phone call from one of my from from Ahmedabad itself and I asked him to stay over phone call with me until I reached up to Hotel room. Then reach safely up to hotel.
As I'm new in city, I dont know Gujrati that made easy for them to trap me. Also, I dont want any scene create as per my reputation and my company reputation. They all was looking like goon and professional sacmmers. All was using Grindr on their mobile. Its not a single person account block will not work. Better to avoid the crowd of Vastrapur itself.
Thanks to GOD, I'm able to safe my CC balance and own laptop as well as companies Laptop. |
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No Picture Mysf1315 | Posted On Nov 8, 2025
Damn bro play safe. I was also at a cruising spot behind isckon garden today and felt some goons making a trap. I left immediately. |
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No Picture handsome_r | Posted On Nov 9, 2025
@saharanpurvers .. it is really horrible to even hear this and can understand how it might have affected you.... One should contact police but I understand it stops us to do it because of reputation issue.... |
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No Picture handsome_r | Posted On Nov 9, 2025
@Mysf1315 thanks for highlighting... Can you throw more light about timings and what actually happened or what you saw so that everyone of us can be aware as this is one of the prime cruising spot on SG highway. |
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No Picture Amdguy26 | Posted On Nov 9, 2025
***, same happened with me like @SaharanpurVers
Date: 25/24th Dec 2023 Location: Alpha One Mall (In the parking of building which is next to mall)
Same story: Found a guy with nice *** on GR, different guy came, they forced me to transfer money from Bank (Had 2kish) then saw my CC linked to UPI, I delicned, they put me on bike, thretened to chop off my tool, took to petrol pump, got scanner for 10K on UPI CC, got cash from pump guy, took me to Reliance Centro, did shopping of 14K and then gave me 100 rs to go back to my room.
Scary AF as I had recently shifted to ahmedabad. Lessons learnt hard. Stopped visiting strangers, didn't lodged compliant as I wanted no mess at my PG. |
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No Picture Amdguy26 | Posted On Nov 9, 2025
Tried my best to wipe out those memories, but was checking old transactions today and it pained me. |
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No Picture Amdguy26 | Posted On Nov 9, 2025
disputed and blocked the card but bank asked for Cyber crime FIR number, which I was not having |
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No Picture AMDAVADIVERSA | Posted On Nov 9, 2025
Stop meeting the Chapri Gujaratis -specially Rabari gunde. They just want easy money. I can't stop laughing when they boast of hosting the International Games in 2030 & 2036. |
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No Picture Amdguy26 | Posted On Nov 9, 2025
I feel my short visit to Bengaluru was better, got some nice long *** of mallus and people are more open there |
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No Picture handsome_r | Posted On Nov 10, 2025
Good that people are sharing incidents... It also gives us idea about various modus operandis used by scamsters.... Keep sharing folks |
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No Picture Rajdixt646464 | Posted On Nov 10, 2025
I had a frightening experience at Gota near Centre Point, close to Vandemataram. I had ridden there on my bike and was waiting in a corner while opening the grinder. Suddenly a man approached and said, “Let’s go.” When I asked where, he replied, “To my flat.” I asked which flat; he gave a random name. I offered to follow him on my bike, but he insisted his car was parked in the basement and said we should go together.
While we were talking, we reached the basement stairs and he suddenly demanded a payment. I asked what payment he meant and then noticed two more men behind me. They tried to pull me toward the basement. I resisted, pushed them off, and shouted that I would scream louder if they did anything. Another man tried to grab me and slapped at me; I pushed him away and ran toward a public area, but he chased me.
I found a stone nearby and warned him to go back or I would throw it. He kept coming, so I threw the stone. He fell, and the stone went to the other side — luckily, no one was injured. I ran away quickly; the men then disappeared. I was terrified and spent another half hour walking around the complex to make sure they weren’t going to take my bike.
Suggestion: Immediately start shouting loudly and confidently in situations like this. Run as fast as you can when you feel trapped. Stay alert and cautious in places where such incidents could happen.
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No Picture shahshahaj22022 | Posted On Nov 10, 2025
Must say Grindr is too risky now a days |
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No Picture agan-81 | Posted On Nov 11, 2025
True. Grindr is very dangerous now a days |
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No Picture Mysf1315 | Posted On Nov 11, 2025
I was at garden behind isckon mall looking for some tops. I couldn't find anyone in the washroom. I was online on Grindr, I started getting pings from a profile that was 100 meters away. He asked for a pic first to which I denied, i said if you want to meet then come and meet. So I told him to come to the parking near Washroom and suddenly I saw 2-3 uncles types men rushing towards me and started searching for me. One guy looked at me and I said what in a strong tone. He just left off. And others too.
I know that guy was sitting with someone else as well because I always survey my cruising spots before I go. Always look for decent people to meet. And you're not doing anything wrong so be confident and deal with these bastards |
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No Picture devang1 | Posted On Nov 11, 2025
On Grindr mostly have fake and cheaters profiles.... Aware from young age profiles... Many incidents of cheating from grindr profiles |
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No Picture Rajdixt646464 | Posted On Nov 11, 2025
One thing to note: if a guy sends you a good-looking picture but hasn’t added it to his album, that’s the first and biggest sign of fakeness. Be careful of such guys who send handsome pictures without adding them to their albums. Still, if you decide to take the risk, ask for his Telegram ID and contact him there.
Good luck... |
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No Picture handsome_r | Posted On Nov 12, 2025
Yes Grindr seems to be highly occupied by fake and scamsters profiles.... Everyone needs to take care... |
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No Picture Shaurya_Patel | Posted On Nov 12, 2025
Location - Washroom opp. Maninagar brts, Date- 11-11-2025, 7pm.
Me andr gya ek top khada tha, mene uska *** kia then achanak kisi se aane ko avaj aayi to hum alag ho gaye lekin, or do ladke bahar aake khade ho gaye.
Vo top to pant phen ke sidha bhag hi gaya , muje Shak huva to me bhi sidha bahar nikl gya apni gadi ke pas lekin vo do ladke bolne lage ki kya kr rhe ho dono kon ho or chilla nd lage, me to jldi se gadi leke bhaga vaha se lekin vo puri gang thi bahar 10 kitne ladke honge sath me...bal bal bacha tha.😑 |
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No Picture handsome_r | Posted On Nov 14, 2025
It seems like many of the popular cruising places are becoming target of this scamsters.... be aware guys... |
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No Picture Krunal_Patel | Posted On Nov 14, 2025
Maninagar washroom highest number of scams happening there are different groups they always loot even its a big market with people they chase and threaten people even in evening time pls pls dont go there at any time. |
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No Picture Pratap76 | Posted On Nov 17, 2025
Just a suggestion as to be on the safe side and do VC before meeting anybody in person. |
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No Picture handsome_r | Posted On Nov 20, 2025
Come on folks.... Share your experiences so that everyone can be aware...you can help others by sharing |
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No Picture handsome_r | Posted On Nov 30, 2025
I was reading all india discussion forum on ohmojo and found that every city is facing this issue and I am sure Ahmedabad has many more cases.... Guys if you can highlight those cases or spots than it can be very helpful for genuine persons here.... Keep sharing...!! |
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No Picture handsome_r | Posted On Dec 15, 2025
Famous cruising places experience anyone? |
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