Bad encounters while cruising..
Kindly post all untoward or bad encounters while cruising, so that it helps in public awareness..! Reply/Post a comment
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AnirudhLko | Posted On Nov 15, 2025
Mine happened yesterday I can't tell anyone so I am just venting my frustrations here pardon my language 🙏, so I met this guy in grindr usual thing we exchanged pics then he asked me toh come in puraniya in 15-20 min i went there expecting him to host. Instead he took toh garden in near puraniya- RAJAKIYA UDHYAAN saying his brother came home and call let's just meet, hangout here and since it's dark might as *** each other i abided. We strolled for a bit about life and *** how he has been here 2-3 times so it's safe space. Then he directioned me to secluded place and asked me sit and talk for a while then we will continue........
All of sudden these 3 people came in civil dress they were acting like they were security person but I know they were lieing, I tried to run or give them money but they started hitting me slapping me. 😞Truth be told it didn't as much I been worse beaten but they asked me to unlock my phone which I didn't do because then they can blackmail me even for more.After much slapping good-bad cop behaviour one guy said between us too give us 50000 rs or I will take you to aur superior who will hit you with metal bats.
This whole times I noticed they were avoided making scene so other people cannot see us, I was demanding them to take me to their office only then i will contact my family by opening my phone.But slapping became choking and I lost it I told them I will give them money but I don't have 50000rs i showed him my balance it was 20000 I gave him 15000 rs by upi. He also took 3000rs( which I had in my purse) as I was out to shop a gift for my friends childs birthday. 😞😞😞😞
I run out of that place came back home there was no bruising due to slapping or choking.Contemplating my life decision.
Fact-
1.I know they weren't security guards because how they were acting hidden.Usually there should be a big drama
2.(A) I am 90% sure the guy I met on grindr was with them I was getting regular "complaint" he was resisting to much considering he was taken out my site(secluded space) to open space for " interogatting" usually there would be voices of concern or people taking videos as pedestrians were still there
(B) He gave he phone to them very easily even unlocked it docily he wasn't beaten as much as me in front of me. He was only present in front of me when I was not responding otherwise they will take him to "his secluded spot" for interogation.
(C) That guy on tinder never gave his name considering he was how chatty he was and when made a move he would act he wasn't interested usually I would expect it from STRAIGHT guys but this was different. He was implying so much how this place was safe and all everytime I refused I won't do things in open.
(D) Lastly I was feeling like they were making me validated that giving them money easily is better choice and the other guy resisting so they will take more money from him like constantly it was changed on my ears when I getting slapped.
POV I know I did something stupid going to a open place with someone first time, giving money so easily. I could've screamed or shouted for help at that time. I should been more a fighter but I caved easily. I have blocked both of upi ids i paid to deleted my account in grindr as well in upi. The only thing I am glad of they didn't checked my other upi id which had much much more money wrt to my former id to the end i didnt have them mobile access codes.
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Ssissyboyy | Posted On Nov 16, 2025
Bro stay from grindr, its full of scamsters and blackmailers who make use of the stigma of homosexuality and the murky legal terriroty to scare mongers and get money
Never go to a dark and secluded place for mongering with a stranger
101 of mongering - never put yourself in a dangerous or compromising spot
Let this be a lesson and be careful from now on, don't think about the money, cost of doing business |
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Suresh1806 | Posted On Nov 16, 2025
Never meet anyone from Grindr or Romeo
Its full of scamsters
Everyone i met there wants you to share "full body image including face" but will never share their own pics and will share generic body images that can be easily found on internet using reverse image search or AI images
I am sure that guy was in the scam
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VSA | Posted On Apr 8, 2026
Dear all,
I am writing this while my heart is still beating fast.
I came to Lucknow for 3 days and was staying in a hotel alone. I'm in my late twenties and have been having hookups for a long time. As expected, I have had my share of fun but with few exceptions where I have been simply shaken to the core.
For context, I have been scammed before and it was not in India. Naturally, it seemed I was helpless as I was not in my own country and the legal system is not supportive of the LGBTQ community. At that time I thought, I'll never get stuck in a similar situation in india because in india we have rights and I do not mind reaching to the police to protect myself.
Coming back to the story, so I met a guy for a hookup and he catfished me. However, i was fine because he didn't seem to be a scammer when I saw him for the first time. We had a great time together and later I asked him that you look so good and genuine, why do you have to upload someone else's pictures. He said he is a local and do not want to end up in trouble by using his own pictures. I really liked him. While leaving the hotel he suggested that I should be very careful around here in Lucknow as many people are just waiting to scam.
I thought that's everywhere but I'll be mindful.
Next day, I didn't find anyone good on the app so I didn't meet anyone. My gut was telling me that something is not right. Later in the evening, i started chatting with two guys who wanted to do threesome. I liked only one of them. But I thought I'll adjust a bit because both had really good tools. But then my gut was telling me don't do it. So I just told them that it's not possible, I'm not getting a good vibe. They were understanding and wished me well.
Then I was chilling in my room until midnight and I thought of buying some chips. So I went down in my shorts. As the hotel was located near Alambagh bus stand, it was pretty lively even in the night. While walking towards a shop, i saw a guy checking me out. He seemed a bit above average and was scratching his balls. I smiled at him and moved on as I was not looking for a hookup. Later, he came and stood near the stall where I bought the chips from. Still looking at me and scratching his balls.
I approached him. Invited him to my room. But while going towards my room I was again not getting a good feeling about it. I don't know why but something was off but I thought it's too late to say now. (Trust me you can never too late to say no. He seemed to be a very simple guy in his late thirties and was doing exactly what I was asking him to. When it came to penetration, i just made up some excuse that my bum is bruised and if you put anything it's going to hurt more so let's just do bodyplay. I just could not let him insert his tool in my bum because my gut was telling me not to.
It was around 2 AM and I told him, after i gave him a handjob, it's time you can leave otherwise the hotel people would come charge me for another night as a guest has come over. I asked him politely to leave. He was hesitant. That alone made me think that asking him to leave would be an issue.
After a few minutes, i wore my clothes and told him he should better get going. He said that he will just use the washroom for a while. He stayed in the washroom for 25 minutes. I understood I have to push him out now.
I called the reception people and told them what happened. Told them that I don't know him and I just wanted to hookup. I insisted that they come to my room and help me push this guy out who I met on the street.
One guy came and he started knocking the washroom door but he didn't open. I was getting scared now because what if he has done something to himself like cut his veins or something.
He just was not responding. Then he switched on the shower and I was a bit relieved that at least he is alive. Then the reception guy kept knocking now and then and asked him to open up. He was not responding and took a shower for atleast 15 minutes.
Then finally after a lot of knocks, he opened and started abusing the reception person. The change in his attitude was visible as now his tone, demeanour and very language changed. He was being aggressive. I played the good cop and calmed him down. Said I'm on a budget and that the hotel people will charge me if you stay any longer. After a lot of pleasing, he left.
I went to the reception person, thanked him for playing along and understanding my situation. He was the sweetest.
In all of this, i remembered what the first guy who i hookedup with told me. He said he careful because you'll find all sorts of people here. As it had to happen, i ended up being in bed with one of them. Also I feel great that atleast at the time when he was about to penetrate, i refused.
Because I am a soft spoken guy, people are just waiting to walk all over me. I'm happy that I trusted my instincts, albeit partially, and stood up for myself.
So whoever is hooking up wherever, please think of all ways it can go bad before calling anyone over.
The interesting part is that the first guy catfished but turned to be so genuine and nice. The other guy who I met on the street, someone who I saw from my own eyes, i ended up making a wrong choice by going with him. It could have been far much worse, if you think about it. My phone, money and other valuables were there which he could have taken. Even though I had hid them, but trust me when you are under pressure, you cave in. On the other hand, he could have been a complete psycho who could have done self harm in the washroom.
All in all, please stay safe and trust your instincts. It feels great to know that people will read this post and might avert any undesirable situations.
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