Marrying a girl as a Top
I am a Top. I have never been sexually attracted to a girl. What would everyone suggest. Is it manageable to get married to a girl while being gay guy (Top) and still keep her sexually content and happy? Do leave your suggestions here guys. I am in a dilemma.
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Mani909 | Posted On Apr 28, 2025
Purely mu opinion
If you are a bi - marry to enjoy best of both worlds
If you can’t stand a woman - don’t marry |
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Amigo | Posted On Apr 30, 2025
Hi, why you.wanna play with someone's emotions if you cannot keep her happy.
Lu*t and s*x is different from marital life.
If you feel you can satisfy her physically and mentally, and most important if you want kids of your own then go for marriage
If you cannot keep her happy then please avoid ruining someone's life.
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Topguy34 | Posted On Apr 30, 2025
If you know you are Gay, I would suggest you not to marry a girl and spoil her life. Top/ bottom / vers doesn't matters , what matters is are you ready to be her husband/ partner and take care of her physically, mentally, emotionally and financially. I am bi Top and I know many bi bot and vers guys who got married and leading a good life , and they are happy but devoted to their wife and taking care of them in all aspects. I did had many relationships with both guys and girls but I always draw a clear line for everyone as I will stick to my partner when in relationship whoever it may be.
If you know that you are Gay not bi and for kids and wishes of parents you wanna marry a girl pls don't do that and spoil her life. There are other ways to have a child but don't do it even after you know that you can't take care of her. |
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Dirtyboy123 | Posted On Apr 30, 2025
Don't marry if you can't make happy ur wife
Happy is not only keep her happily and giving her what she want x is also a part of life which is most important
If your family forces you to marry make dare and say them frankly it will be shame and some guilty but it's better to say them what ur if they accept countunie or else leave Seperetly but please don't spoil any girls life
karma of a girl is very bad if it returns back
But small note if family will not accept you let them but you should not come out of ur rights towards your parents if in future if they are in any bad situation help them
I don't know English much but I hope who are reading will understand what I want to say
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Silverkok | Posted On Apr 30, 2025
I'll share my life's experience and you can decide what to do.
I was a GAY from the age of may be 7 or 10 years with zero attraction to girls and opposite to that having soo much love for handsome boys. In 22 years my parents knew about my gayness. Without knowing anything much about it, they just assumed my marriage will be solving this issue and made me marry to a pretty young lady of 20 years. I was then 23 years.
Luckily my wife didn't hear much about post marital stuff so it was me to teach her about anything in the bed. It was the year 1992. It took one full month for me to get accustomed with her in the bed and get attracted to each other. And after one month I could in spite of being Gay, successfully got good ***, penetration and ejaculation
So what I want to advise you is, if you get accustomed with the lady in bed by sleeping together for few weeks, you'll get attraction for her. And since that's the mentally developmental and natural phenomenon for a male human being, the way you became gay, you'll become a bi in the same way. Only thing is your wife must know you well in advance about you should love you and agree to live with you. Because you should not keep her in darkness before marriage pretending as you are a straight, and getting attracted to her, when you will not.
So it'll take a huge amount of mental training for you plus your wife must be patiently cooperating with you during all those most frustrating situations in bed. Then I'm sure you can become another bisexual from gay. Like I did. Regardless of a top or bottom. By the way I was a gay and bottom. Believe or not, I am the father of many sons and daughters (the no. I won't disclose, you'll get shocked). And grandfather of three kids. And still I'm gay |
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