no matter how much you guys deny there is lot of racism and colorism in indian gay community along with body shaming for ugly guys like me its worse "I’ve faced so many struggles—horrible Grindr meets, ghosting, lies, college dating rejections, hatred, fake friendships. The worst is when you reach someone’s place, and ladka bahana marne lage (the guy starts making excuses)—‘Ghar pe jagah nahi hai, koi aa gaya hai’—then blocks you on the phone.
One step before things proceed, they reject you for being ‘ugly-looking.’ Even the so-called ‘inclusive’ gays on Instagram treat you terribly. I remember traveling so far to their place, only to be rejected by tops. how was your experience guys being avg looking & groomed like me
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Sahaisab * | Posted On Apr 25, 2025
Once I was rejected after having ***🤣🤣. We met in a hotel after chatting for few weeks. I travelled to his city and booked a hotel after his concent. He agreed to stay at night. Straight away in the shower we had *** as soon as he arrived. We had a wonderful time having dinner and walking after that on the street nearby hotel. Lovely discussion on each other's experiences etc ....
At night we had two more sessions till 3 am and slept for few hours. He got ready around 7.30 and before leaving I asked him casually when would you like to meet again? He smiled hugged me and said you are a lovely person but not exactly what I like. I like fair handsome tall and bulky bottoms. I had no option but to smile back and say goodbye. 😂😂😂 |
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Pinkpanther2025 | Posted On Apr 25, 2025
Oh pls dnt be so sad there r paid guys over ohmojo nd grindr too who can give u wt u didnt get according to u good luck! |
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Ani_ket | Posted On Apr 25, 2025
I'm also face same issue
people wants only perfect looks |
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godfather | Posted On Apr 27, 2025
it is not a problem about being ugly, but the problem is multiple partners. The gay community wants to have *** with everyone on Grindr.
with growing age, all old gays are looking for young boys, and all young boys are looking for sugar dads who can spend money on them. |
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Pixie * | Posted On Apr 27, 2025
@Anirudhbottom, Don't be so hard on yourself. Not just India, it's everywhere gays are fickel, selfish, mean & self-centered sluts. I am not bad looking but still I had my fair share of rejections
and mistreatments but I just shrugged it off and moved on. Life is too short to be loathsome. Anyhow, I find that at least 85 percent of the gays in Indian Grindr are falsely misrepresenting themselves
by posting fake or AI enhanced picture in their profile and most of the bio-data are false and filled with lies. These gays on Grindr are always playing games and never honest or truthful.
As @Pinkoanther2025 suggested above, I hire paid boys for a date on Grindr or rentmen.com. I don't have time or patience to play games with these horrible faggots.
I pick who, when & where I want and I dictate my terms. But I was also lucky many times to meet many young non-paid boys on Grindr but this is not often, happens occassionally. |
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Anirudhbottom * | Posted On Apr 30, 2025
@pixie the problem with a country like india is here the circle and quantity of gays is extremely tiny compared to western countries despite huge population so thiss thing like lookism colourism impact people far worse in many ways so people are too much full of fakery you hit the correct point when you said Anyhow, I find that at least 85 percent of the gays in Indian Grindr are falsely misrepresenting themselves
by posting fake or AI enhanced picture in their profile and most of the bio-data are false and filled with lies. These gays on Grindr are always playing games and never honest or truthful. i am highly active on askgaybros reddit sub too people there too behave that way arrogantly and egoisticness |
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Pixie * | Posted On May 2, 2025
@Pinkpanther2025, This is something new for me, I didn't know that paid boys are available in ohmojo. How do I go about hiring boys here? |
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Mcs_579810 * | Posted On May 17, 2025
Go through my profile
If you are interested message me.
I want a person who don't mind looks.
I will be in Delhi with place for two weeks |
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DivyaDelhiBot | Posted On May 17, 2025
i like ugly tops |
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Kunal_bott_21 | Posted On Jul 6, 2025
Same thing happened with me also ,Ek top se mila hotel mei 3 day ki stay thi himachal mei ,bhut *** kiya . I think unn 3 dino mei hmne 12-15 baar *** kiya hoga ....last day maine bola can we date? Your phone no ? Toh usne directly no bol diya , bola ki he's looking for a bottom who is sexy and good looking enough. I really felt bad
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Marco69 * | Posted On Jul 9, 2025
That's what I feel here in Spain. I'm getting older, and it's hard to get laid. However, I've noticed that Indians are interested in me, so now I have a dilemma. I can't stop thinking about going back to India because here in Spain, it's very difficult for me to have ***. I understand. I've been on dates with Spaniards, and suddenly they don't show up, and they see me, but I never see them. They have no courage or manners. If you don't like the person, just say so directly. It's best to be honest. |
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Anirudhbottom * | Posted On Jul 9, 2025
So let's be honest most whites will never prefer Indians for gay dating ( I have read some Indians posts on reddit subs like ask gay bros & other ones which is true ).
when there are plenty of other better good looking fair skinned big better communities like Arabs British frenchs Americans why would you go with a Indian guy did you gave them opportunity when you were young most probably not because being gay is all about lookism colourism body preference so if you are not bulkier handsome rough like Africans or Arabs or Americans or other Europeans why would you go for others ?
That's the reality
Same goes for we Indians we just love white skinn it's just portrayal of everything and preferences it's in our mainstream media and cinema too
I never never hookup with older guys here but i eventually did with British old foreign gay couples in 40s because I want to feel it
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Sahaisab * | Posted On Jul 13, 2025
@ Anirudhbottom you are right to some extent but I know few guys from Mumbai and One from Delhi who work as an escort for European and American tourist only.
Mostly old age bottom solo turists from these areas come to India travell to different location along with these indian guys.
One man from portugal age around 55 or so went to Manali and goa with one Indian escort. They take care of all travell expenses of the escort and enjoy *** with them.
As shared by some known fellows, some of them really like the india skin tone, body ouder and passion on Indian me. |
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Anirudhbottom * | Posted On Jul 13, 2025
I hope you are correct but honestly Indians are lowest inthe preference of most Western guys for hook-ups and fun many NRIs have talked about this on reddit already ( also Insta and fb will focus too much on few selective success stories) but we are lowest at pedestal of anyone preference i even travelled to many areas with decent foreign tourists my few friends and College mates who are in usa too mentioned same people are extremely selective and arrogance in there preferences in their 20s and even mid 30s ironically same people behave completely different in their older agr after seeing reality |
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