Curse of being ugly gay
no matter how much you guys deny there is lot of racism and colorism in indian gay community along with body shaming for ugly guys like me its worse "I’ve faced so many struggles—horrible Grindr meets, ghosting, lies, college dating rejections, hatred, fake friendships. The worst is when you reach someone’s place, and ladka bahana marne lage (the guy starts making excuses)—‘Ghar pe jagah nahi hai, koi aa gaya hai’—then blocks you on the phone.
One step before things proceed, they reject you for being ‘ugly-looking.’ Even the so-called ‘inclusive’ gays on Instagram treat you terribly. I remember traveling so far to their place, only to be rejected by tops. how was your experience guys being avg looking & groomed like me
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Sahaisab | Posted On Apr 25, 2025
Once I was rejected after having ***🤣🤣. We met in a hotel after chatting for few weeks. I travelled to his city and booked a hotel after his concent. He agreed to stay at night. Straight away in the shower we had *** as soon as he arrived. We had a wonderful time having dinner and walking after that on the street nearby hotel. Lovely discussion on each other's experiences etc ....
At night we had two more sessions till 3 am and slept for few hours. He got ready around 7.30 and before leaving I asked him casually when would you like to meet again? He smiled hugged me and said you are a lovely person but not exactly what I like. I like fair handsome tall and bulky bottoms. I had no option but to smile back and say goodbye. 😂😂😂 |
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Pinkpanther2025 | Posted On Apr 25, 2025
Oh pls dnt be so sad there r paid guys over ohmojo nd grindr too who can give u wt u didnt get according to u good luck! |
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Ani_ket | Posted On Apr 25, 2025
I'm also face same issue
people wants only perfect looks |
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godfather | Posted On Apr 27, 2025
it is not a problem about being ugly, but the problem is multiple partners. The gay community wants to have *** with everyone on Grindr.
with growing age, all old gays are looking for young boys, and all young boys are looking for sugar dads who can spend money on them. |
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Pixie | Posted On Apr 27, 2025
@Anirudhbottom, Don't be so hard on yourself. Not just India, it's everywhere gays are fickel, selfish, mean & self-centered sluts. I am not bad looking but still I had my fair share of rejections
and mistreatments but I just shrugged it off and moved on. Life is too short to be loathsome. Anyhow, I find that at least 85 percent of the gays in Indian Grindr are falsely misrepresenting themselves
by posting fake or AI enhanced picture in their profile and most of the bio-data are false and filled with lies. These gays on Grindr are always playing games and never honest or truthful.
As @Pinkoanther2025 suggested above, I hire paid boys for a date on Grindr or rentmen.com. I don't have time or patience to play games with these horrible faggots.
I pick who, when & where I want and I dictate my terms. But I was also lucky many times to meet many young non-paid boys on Grindr but this is not often, happens occassionally. |
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