I am a married bottom married for 4 years.
I have been doing bottom acts since college. And I thought I will leave being a bottom after marriage, but time and again every few months(3-4) I get a huge urge meet some top and give BJ. And I always do it.
But the after guilt is too strong, with things like I am cheating on my wife. And everytime I think, that this was the last time, and pray to god to pardon me just this last time. I delete my all accounts(ohmojo, planetromeo etc) and live happily until the urges start agian later.
How do other married bottoms come to cope with this? Have tou made peace with this that youwill be doing it forever or some other way ?
P.S: Got the guilt today as I met a top and had fun for 2 hours being a total ***. And when I left, bam! guilt starts.
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milfrider19 | Posted On Jul 1, 2025
People needs to understand if a person is bottom does not mean he is willing to server his wife. I'm top and have met lot of bottoms, we talk about everything when I meet someone, very few have interest in talking about wife or someone known, but mostly its just 2 men who wants to fullfill there needs/desires. |
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newfunma6 | Posted On Jul 9, 2025
Until Other side of your enjoyment just like eating in hotel, you not taking very seriously its not a problem. You can play a role good husband to your wife as well fun with same ***. |
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love4u515 | Posted On Aug 5, 2025
I'm married. I'm bottom now. I was top before. But due to sexual problem now I'm become a bottom.I've get *** only by seven people till this time. Many people ask me while chating about my wife. Is she knows about this. Will you share her on bed. I rejected there chat. I like only meet alone with good top friends. |
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Molles | Posted On Aug 5, 2025
I have met few bots who are married, and who don't hesitate to talk about his *** life.
I listen and just communication as friend, like I appreciate there decisions and accept them as good friends, will never or ever did ask to share their wife's or any ladies.
Coz I respect people, and believe in humanity |
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JeevaJack | Posted On Aug 7, 2025
I m married bottom... Love *** *** and getting ***.. I like men asking about wife and talking dirty... Makes me more *** when I return home to my wife and make out with her super hard |
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biman4u_2020 | Posted On Aug 7, 2025
@JeevaJack wow. super man/ happy ur enjoying. do it without any silly guilt.. as ur not forcing anyone |
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MeetupFN | Posted On Aug 20, 2025
Just talk to your wife .
Or better look who understands you .
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MeetupFN | Posted On Aug 20, 2025
Neerav have you been to us Or lived their for few years mingled with them then . |
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bot2use | Posted On Aug 25, 2025
The Truth is.. 99% of Bottoms and Tops are Bisexual.. Most of BOT come to get *** because of their frustration..very few become top because of some sexual problems..Others are victims of child abuse...Because i have been researching on this.. I found. I am Bottom.. I am not attracted to Guys.. I dont like to ***...I dont feel anything until I get tense or frustrated.. To overcome Frustration My Mind divert to this Bottom side..I think of getting ***.. Being humiliated.. Being Used.. Just to make myself Punished.. I love girls...I Never felt anything for Boys in my life still i am bottom.. Of Course i got *** many many times..But everytime i was just fighting with my tensions and frustrations.. I am also victim of CHILD abuse which happened when i was 8 years old and the guy regularly used me for 2 years.. SO Yeah.. Most of Bottoms are not Actually " BOTTOMS " so they wont like to talk about their wives...Pure Gay will never have intrest in Girls and if married to a girl because of family pressure or something they might like talking about wife or someone so dirty |
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Dost4ever012 | Posted On Aug 25, 2025
@bot2use please do not spread your ignorance. Your post is utterly disrespectful. Just because something is true for you doesn't mean that it's true for 99%. And what exactly are your thoughts behind "very few become top because of some sexual problems"? |
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rockcok | Posted On Aug 26, 2025
Right.. |
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Chubbynave | Posted On Aug 26, 2025
@bot2use what u said is very much true for me too.. I'm not particularly interested in guys. I only like girls. But sometimes I have bottom urges that I want to be satisfied no matter how the guy looks like. I don't like *** too.. but I m not abused in my childhood or anything. But this urge comes upon me at times. |
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bot2use | Posted On Aug 26, 2025
@Dost4ever012 Sorry for typing mistake.. I meant to say Very few become BOTTOM because of sexual problem they want *** which they cant have.. And comming to top.. This is also Truth.. Which noone will accept.. But 99% TOP here are BISEXUAL.. and 80% of them search for bottom to get *** for a *** blowjob thats it! They dont have intrest in *** yeah its right after getting *** everyone ***.. But their main motive is to get *** which their wives dont do.Rest 15% who like *** and their wives dont allow them come to bottom for it. They are totally bisexual..not GAY.. come to Bottom to fulfill their sexual need thats it.. So the Bitter Truth is.. In GAY COMMUNITY.. Rarely 5% are Real Gays.. Rest are just Gay with Situation.. Either frustration.. Or sexual need.. Or Urge of getting ***...And THanx to People who DM me and understood what i meant!! |
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Straight | Posted On Aug 26, 2025
Completely Agree to you@ bot2use....am one of top from percentage u mentioned, am bisexual top, and I like ***,as like everybody wants it, irrespective of gender, or sexuality....i might be using wrong platform, because there's is nothing specific i found for bisexuals....but my perspective is, why do we need to label it.... Whosoever it is, one has choice of doing and getting *** as they wants, likes ...it's all about getting matched for give and take .. |
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bot2use | Posted On Aug 26, 2025
@Chubbynave that come from frustration, Are you having GF ? or you got Guts to ask any girl or propose her ? have u ever been in Relationship with Girl ? That Urge come out of frustration of Not getting Laid with Girl.. and that frustration lead u to guys |
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Dost4ever012 | Posted On Aug 26, 2025
Please stop living in delusion. I am a bisexual and I am interested in men as well, because I am like that.
You are having hypothesis that this is because of oral. So, why not every male is gay then, don't majority want it? Then, why there are preferences, like I like older. Some like younger, chubby, bear or something else. An oral is an oral. Right? Why not to go to a *** worker or a professional male instead of searching on apps and cruising.
If it's only frustration and other traumas as others are agreeing too, then why not to take a therapy? Just go yourself and get cured. Why the people all over the world not doing this.
For God 's sake, stop spreading your ignorance and chime out of delusion. |
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bot2use | Posted On Aug 26, 2025
@Dost4ever012 Dude its human nature.. Even if you are doing something which you are not fond of you will not accept everything comes at u.. of course you will have your choice.. I am not spreading anything.. i am speaking truth.. and if you are not accepting it its your problem.. In India this is the truth.. Taking Sexual therapy is not so usual in INDIA and talking about homosexuality is not so general practice in india of course people wont consider therapy....An Oral is an Oral.. Doing willingly.. Is another thing.. Paying for it another thing.. Why pay when u get something for free LOL.. thats indian mentality...Even *** workers say no to oral... I am not living in any delusion. OF COURSE THIS IS BECAUSE 80% of TOPS here mainly for ORAL.. Then go with FLOW>> thats fact.. just be bottom.. keep saying no to oral.. you will understand what i mean. |
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Shawarma | Posted On Aug 27, 2025
Guys....i feel ultimately you are the owner of your own mind and body. Nothing happens without own consent. There is nothing like runining anyone' life by marrying, or cheating etc....its your own wish to balance multiple sides and keep life moving....there is no such thing as runing a lady's life by marrying or cheating etc....fyi..lady's life gets ruined because lady thinks about the societal pressure...what will world say...how can i face my family etc......be it bottom with multiple preferences or top with selective preferences.....i feel we all should be sporty enough to have open mind. |
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Straight | Posted On Aug 27, 2025
" All men are same" why do they call like this ? |
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