Moral dilemma of having *** with married guys
What do you think if a single guy or guy in open relationship, has casual *** with married men is it wrong or right?
Not that I only search for married guys, but i do come across some genuinely good guys, with prospect of excellent sexual chemistry.
In my mind there are various points for for both for and against, yet I am never able to decide.
POINTS FOR HAVING *** WITH MARRIED GUYS
1. Other person is an adult and I am not responsible for their life choices
2. Not every person, especially in India and slightly older generation has or has the opportunity to explore and express their sexual identity, before they got married.
3. It is just casual ***, like a good game of tennis. I have zero interest in a relationship with them, beyond good ***.
POINTS AGAINST HAVING *** WITH MARRIED GUYS
1. In India rarely husband and wife, are in an actual open relationship. Hence it is not fair to that lady.
2. If this gets known to that lady, it would cause hurt and in a way blame lies with me as well for that hurt
3. My providing easy access to casual ***, I am helping prolonging a lie
These are the thoughts in my head. I know it is an emotionally charged topic, and bound to bring up strong memories and conflicting feelings.
Yet I am sure each one of us has been at the either end of the equation, one time or the other.
What do you guys think and how do you decide?
I would love to have genuine and candid insights, from both single and married guys.
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Asimas | Posted On Apr 3, 2025
I live with my college seniors they *** me they have their girl friend they are doing so that they can *** they have some one to clean like girl for top it is not love he can do with boy girl but for bottom he can never be happy in life with a girl once a bottom is bottom for always |
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Tista V. | Posted On Apr 3, 2025
@Asimas I had a similar experience while I stayed in Mumbai for a while with my ex boyfriend (we broken up because he got married), he hosted me for a week till I didn't find a place of mine. In that one week, at his place he and and his two flatmates sodomized me every night. All three of them were married but they never received blowjobs from their wives nor they were allowed to *** their wive's ***.
I don't remember how many times I was ***, how much *** did I carry in my *** or gulped down my throat. It was a crazy sexual week for me, where they had my entire body waxed smooth so they could enjoy me more.
I do not complaint but I do admit that married tops *** aggressively which I love. |
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TamaRai | Posted On Apr 8, 2025
The moral dilemma would remain a debate forever. However I have enjoyed my flings with married men, I for one try to respect boundaries and mutual privacy. So if the man is with his family, I don't pester him. On the other hand, if we enjoy each other's company while we are together we cherish the moment. Be it in bed and just being able to be our trueself with one another. It gets ugly only when either of you try to step out of that line.
Also a married man I've been with actually said our sessions has improved his relationship with his wife. Because he loves getting his tool *** but his wife is traditional in a way she thinks only Randis would do it. I don't mind if I'm Randi or not, I love to *** a man all night long. So he gets this part sorted with me, he doesn't get irritated about his wife not fulfilling his kink. So I'm for it as long as we respect each other's space. |
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Neerav | Posted On Apr 9, 2025
Who sets the morals?
Humans are naturally polygamous. Read about the evolution. Humans have reached the peak as a species is all because mixing and matching of the gene pool, which rarely happens in the monogamy. When issues like inheritance rights came up, then this marriage and family concept arose. Mention of sexual relations between parent-child, sibling-sibling are also common in some literature about evolution. Not just mention, these practices are still present, which shows our instincts as animals. As long as we're not exploiting someone forcefully against their wish, I don't think morality plays any role. It's a personal choice of every individual.
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c_man131 | Posted On Apr 10, 2025
As a married man.. here's my 2 cents.
I cannot afford emotional attachment but that doesn't mean me and my bottom partner can't have fun.
If my wife took care of business why would I be looking elsewhere??
Most of us are happily married but sexually starved...which drives us to explore outside. Trust me it's not easy or it's not like we feel guilty. Somethings are just basic human needs. |
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Salman472 | Posted On Apr 10, 2025
Yes most of the people I know that they are not getting what they want in *** from partners so they are connecting with bots, without disturbing the personal life.. |
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Femishy | Posted On Apr 13, 2025
It is very common to have *** with maaried tops mostly are married but they would share this with us I recently had *** with a married man age above 50 I saw him today at mall having food with his family he spotted me and got realy nervous and approaches me fastly and take me to bathroom and tell me to avoid him when meeting next time he was so nervous I call him down and told him the meeting wasn't intentional at last I hugged him to make sure it's ok wee were in bathroom so he obviously got *** and starte touching me and one thing lead to another and we had *** at toilet for the first time he came after I give him a blowjob and kissed me and said till next time baby it was most hottest experience he also promised me a night drive today that iam excited to go to which I promised him to wear mostly cd dresses |
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Pixie | Posted On Apr 26, 2025
vishal_kumar, The question of immorality doesn't rise at all because the heterosexuals consider gays as IMMORAL people and majority of the gays consider themselves as AMORAL; therefore,
"gays don't care who they ***, where they *** and when they ***; all they care is about is *** & ***." |
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