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Lost opportunities or missed friends or crush


Submitted by CrazyKrish93 Location: Chennai (Tamil Nadu, India)

Hi guys, I'm sure many of us could have missed so many opportunities with our crush or friends we met in dating apps. Please do share those missed ones and see if you can meet them again when they read this.

From me,

#1 I had one side love to a guy aged more than me when I'm in 22. He is in his 30. He was an educated person. I was just new to Chennai. By seeing his fb pics I did love him. Proposed him. But he didn't agree. Tried to be his friend, but he didn't allow me to meet him. Met him in 2 to 3 years, handful number of times only, as casual meets. Dreamed to be in bed but never happened. Got upset. Faced dramatic mental changes. Tried suicide attempts. But after few years passed, understood the reality that he won't meet me. At least wished to be his gr mate for bed. Feeling bad that too didn't happened. Now a days after 6 to 7 years also, admire him a lot. His manlyness. Wanted to be in his bed at least once. No strings nothing. Just f@@k and forgot. Hey master, if you read this, please take me as your whore.

#2 when I was in love failure stage, a guy helped me mentally calm down. He was such soulful friend. He used to date other friends. But when I ask for date he didn't. Now came to know he is committed. He stopped speaking to me.

#3 Gone to meet a guy near Sholinganallur toll. But he didn't like me. His friend a visitor, saw me and we agreed to do fun. It was a wonderful session. I splashed my *** in his eyes too. That much *** with that much fast came. We both enjoyed more than an hour. After that we become close friends. But the sad part is, he said that he is not getting feeling to have *** rather he feels me as close friend. I really like him. He was afraid that I would talk about love relationship, that's why put a restriction not to have s@x with me. He used to share his date fun stories. I get jelous or feel why he's not *** me like that. I know I'm not into relationship with him. Just want us to be bed busted. Dude if you can understand now, come. I miss your super thick banana.

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CrazyKrish93
Posted On Feb 1, 2025

#4 Met a handsome gym dude in gr. Fan of his gym poses pics. He once came to pick up me in my office and dropped my room. My roommates were there. So we stood in our parking and spoke for some time. He was sitting in a compound wall. I was standing. Talked like lovers. Then we came down and nearby bike stand in the dark we kissed. Loved the lip lock. His lips were tasting so good. We both kissed like long time relationship couples. He asked where I like to to suc@ him. I said no. He got tensed or lost his mood. After that met him once or twice casual. But no fun. We both don't have place. After couple of years, I messaged him again. This time my look changed totally. I lost my hair. Mottai poturunthen. He came to maraimalai nagar and picked me from home. We both went to besant nagar beach. Spent some time in beach sand. Walking. Night he dropped me. While driving back to home I wanted to *** him. This time I was matured and ready to ***. But he didn't agree. I think It's because I am not his type now, due to my weight gain and baldness. Or he is still angry on me. Not sure. But I miss you dude. Still have his number. I just look his WhatsApp dp and feel that I missed him. Now a days I like to *** long think bananas. But sometime feel bad that I missed him for not doing that early days. Now he moved to Bangalore. I wish that I go to Bangalore and be his roommate. Taste his banana daily. Miss you niv@@ darling.

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CrazyKrish93
Posted On Feb 1, 2025

#5 a bulk gym master working in Accenture nearby my room used to come to my room when I get place. He is a bulk champion. He used to taste my mangoes like super sooper hard. *** me inbetween my legs. I am adict to his super nipples *** foreplay. Lost his contact now.

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CrazyKrish93
Posted On Feb 1, 2025

#6 met a guy working in siruseri. I got place place one day. He is a north indian. Super cool attitude friendly guy. When we met in my room we enjoyed well. I put honey in his and ***. He too tried same in mine. After that meet we become close friends. He used to take me in his bike for late night bike ride in omr. I used to hug him while driving. Went to many places together shopping, his community parties, temples. First time I explored the temple in ECR .. forgot the name.. it's some North Indian style shiv temple. It was super vibe. We used to *** chat our dating experience in gr. Then he got married and stopped talking to me. After some long gap, one day got a chance to meet him. He took me to his apartment. Told that he is married now and his wife went for delivery. We just spent some time casually in his home like friends who didn't meet long time. No fun. Now I lost contact.

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Subuvic
Posted On Feb 8, 2025

This happened yesterday..I am from Chennai.....I was returning home frm work.....I reached Thiruvanmiyur stn to take train to park town.....near thiruvanmiyur stn leading to steps there s empty bushy dark spot wer men use as urine spot......I was peeing der....der I scene a young cute guy wanking his *** .....I had a eye contact too...but few wer der so went.....he was waiting for someone I think...but due to open crowd I left der.....want to try it oneday der

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Cmen31m
Posted On Feb 8, 2025

Few years back .. I went to bgrade theatre murugan theatre one uncle who is near my house also came there he saw me and also saw him...

Then we both got mood after second half after smoking I went to balcony and gone in the dark.. few were already mating there... Then he came I gave my tounge for lip lock and it's so hot...

Then he removed my pant and licked my dk and also my ***. And he was *** and I cummed and he dranked untill last drop..

I am daily checking but he is not here I think he vacated...

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tobeeefreeinlyf
Posted On Feb 8, 2025

I lived outside India for a bit and whilst there, I met up with a golden oldie with a thick as hell rod. Like, it took me two hands just to fully wrap my fingers around it (slight exaggeration but so damn true). I blew him till he creamed my face but god, I wanted to put it up my hole, deep and hard. I was so scared that I passed on it, now I wish I had tried, regret every day! I blew him like 8 - 10 times in a month and I knew him for like 6 months but damn, never got the courage to take it in:(

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Sanjay41
Posted On Feb 9, 2025

For me. I dont say I lost or I missed. I can say in this way, keeping myself away from them.
1. Sathesh
2. Manoj
3 Vinay Ready
4 Pa Thu
5 Ravi Raj
6. Irfan
7. Tariq
8 Tung Nyu Pho
9 Munisamy

They funny part is, all these guys are pakka Stright.
I corrected them had a living together Relationship for few months to a year. And came out of them due to their ego issues. Most of my stories which i share here are all the real happened with these guys....

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Sanjay41
Posted On Feb 11, 2025

This happened. 3 weeks back. When i went b'lore for some work. I took a hotel room in Marathalli. 1st day i slept and had some road side shop food. 2nd and 3rd day I was busy with my work. Even i never opened any xx apps. On 4th day its was a Saturday so woke up around 12. Ordered for a coffed from below kitchen. Around 1:30 i thought of orderding in z**** and i ordered and went to take bath. While taking bath I got little mood and started to sa****. Within 10 min my room bell rang, i got irrigated i took towel put in my hip and opened the door..

I opened the door, Wow. There i saw a handsome guy standing with my order. I smilied at him. He to smiled. While getting my food, near by room lady was crossing my room and saw me and walked away. I was bit shy so i asked that guy to come inside. He came inside and closed the door. I fixed in my in mind to f**** him somehow. So I simply showed him that i am searching my wallet. After 2-3 mins i got an idea, while searching in my bag i simply removed my towel knot, towel slided and fell down. I suddenly turned towards him with money in my hand (since my c**** is already erected, i knew he will watch my c****.

I said "bro here is your money". I saw his eyes, he is in shock and seeing my erected c**** without blinking his eyes. I called him "bro bro". Then he came to this world. I simply walked to him (while walking i can feel my c**** is hitting both of my thighs"). Gave him the money and asked for change. He simply showed his hands down. Unknowingly i am asking him what what...he pushed my head down and showed me how i was. I was shocked (just acting ) and shouted s*** s*** and searching for my towel, within few seconds i put my towel on me, and said sorry bro sorry bro. I acted that i felt really bad. Asked him 100 sorry. Made him to sit in bed and asked to get relaxed.

After 5 mins he "bro, I was surprised and shocked, I never saw anyone's c*** especially older men like you. Yours is really big. That's why I was surprised and shocked." Me "Shocked I can understand, but why surprised?". He "No I thought old mens c*** will be small and thin, that's why". I loudly laughed. He "if you don't mind can I see it again please". I know this will happen, so lied in the bed and I removed my towel knots and spread the towel both sides and showed him my full body. He. "Wow, first time I am seeing a mens c**** this much close..." my c*** seeing the ceiling. He put his hands in my c****, I felt like ice touching me.... I said "isss ahhh". In one hand he started storking it, In another hand he pressing my chest. I got mood. Made him to remove his dress.

He is nude, he had a 8" thick c***, and it's uncut. I pulled him toward me. Made him to bit my nipples. He did a good job, I started playing with his bo*** he had some flesh there so it was nice to press and play with it. I slowly pushed his head towards my c***, he saw me I made a sign to su*** me. Again I pushed his head, now he kiss my c*** hole slowly opened his *** and took my c*** inside wow I can feel his thoung in my c****. Within few minutes he learned how to s***. He su**** deeply and softly. I showed him my ba****, he understood and took it full and me happy. Then I turned back and widened my bu*** with my hands and him to Lick as****. First he refused, somehow I convinced him. He started Licking my as**** after some time he love it and ate my ho*** fully. I stood up made him to lie face up position... I put safe in my c*** and put some loob in mind as well his as***. Slowly I pushed, first it's hard, after 3-4 try I it slided inside him, he shouted. I bend down put my hand in his *** closed it and started my stroke. Wow, excellent tight as*** enjoyed. I changed 3-4 position and F*** nicely, finally I made him to kneel before my c***. I Sh*** and shot my load on his face (so much of load).

After sometime, we had again. I made him to stay with me that night. In the night we had beers and went for 2 more rounds. In the night, I gave him golden shower. Nice experience enjoyed a lot. But both didn't shared our numbers.

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Sagarstrange000
Posted On May 20, 2025

Hi recently I have expressed feelings to someone and got rejection... It was difficult for me and want to meet anybody (top) who ca heal me i mean we can have fun and i ll be fine

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BiBottom007
Posted On May 20, 2025

I takes lot of courage to express lost or hidden feelings to our crushes or friends. Recently I had the courage to do so. One guy was a school friend who was very close but careers took us away from each other. Though we don’t communicate often but always felt an attraction n heat inbetween us. It’s been almost 20 years since school n I took courage n expressed it over a WhatsApp message n took a chance I knew it was a huge gamble but I did take it n to my surprise he reciprocated it in a better way. He said he was surprised that I boldly expressed n he was still thinking of me all these years. I was so happy over that bonding n now I feel we are much closer n he flew all the way from Singapore just for me and had a great time romantically in a beach resort in chennai.
Another similar experience during my masters in UK , I lived with 5 different guys from same university all Indians. They all usually invite their friends over for potluck lunch n one of their friends became so close with me. We use to spend a lot of time together chilling out, studying together, n watching movies in our laptops together during winter breaks. In one such incident we both dozed off watching some movies n slept together hugging each other in the warmth of the blankets that was really best naps I have ever had , it was nothing sexual but felt really great! We woke up without any guilt and laughed about it unlike the incident in FRIeNDs were Joey n Ross take the best nap of their lifetimes! Ha ha something like that……… after few years we were in different countries n finally met when i flew to Malaysia on some other work. We were both happy to meet n hugged n chatted about old times in UK and He said machan I really miss taking naps together like we did those days! I was so happy he still remembers n he said we can still nap together, we played in the beach n chatted for a while in battuferringhi and then headed back to room n slept like babies! Embraced in each others warmth n hug n cuddled n woke up without any guilt a great sense of achievement n satisfaction, surprisingly he kissed me on my lips n forehead when he woke up! I reciprocated with that kiss n dragged his lips towards me n we ended up making out so romantically like long last lovers.

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Side_29
Posted On Oct 14, 2026

Missed opportunity 14th September 2025

That street corner in Madivala, right next to the liquor shop, it’s a memory I'll still chew on. I was just focused on waiting for my Uber, and then he appeared. Exactly my type, long hair with thick bushy beard and a earring, with his friend right beside him. He gave me a quick look before he went inside the shop, and I just stood there, pretending to check my phone. But when he came out, that was it. We had a long eye-to-eye connection, not a glance, but a proper, deep look that lasted way too long for a public street. I could feel the moment, the complete potential of it, but because he was with his buddy, I froze. I smiled but didn't want to make a scene or be awkward. I just held his gaze until he had to look away. And now, that's my little bit of regret today. I let a connection slip away just because of the situation.
We had that long eye to eye contact, and it wasn't just a friendly glance. I could totally see the helplessness in his eyes, but it was absolutely mixed up with that lust. Not just a simple look, but a proper, deep wanting. His eyes were like, "I'm stuck only, babe! I want to talk, but this buddy of mine is standing right here!"
My tension was completely matching his, you see. We were both just frozen, caught in a silly situation—him with his company, me just waiting for the Uber—both knowing what was going on, and both unable to do anything. Seeing that pure mix of desire and defeat on his face, it really got to me. It wasn't just my chance; it was a connection we both let go.
The Uber arrived at that moment only and I had to leave. I had to pull myself away. But that image of his longing, stuck eyes—full of all that feeling that's the part of the story I still cannot shake. What a proper, big missed opportunity, all because of that one friend. Lol.